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Couples playing on their own

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By *ollar OP   Couple
over a year ago

granthamo

Why is it ok with people when it's the female half playing on her own but omg a male half playing on his own xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's probably because women (due to being in the minority) don't need to pretend to be half of a couples profile with permission from the other person to avoid filters.

It makes people wary.

Also women playing alone tend to just get on with it. The ones that don't usually come in for the same treatment the guys get.

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By *ollar OP   Couple
over a year ago

granthamo

Yeah I get that oh by the way this is the female half I found it a big turn to know my fella has been on a meet on his own x

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

What aggravates me in this situation is when I get a male half from a couple messaging me for solo fun.

I have single men blocked from messaging for a reason and using a couples profile gets around that filter.

I will also balance things up by mentioning that there are also a lot of single women profiles who state there is a boyfriend/husband in tow, often with the proviso that they have to be at all meets and "join in, if it's ok".

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By *ollar OP   Couple
over a year ago

granthamo

Can understand that but what I mean is couples can ask to met males but when a male of a couples replays to play they get all on their high horse xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it clear on your profile that you're both able to play separately and it can be verified by the other half if necessary. Most people go to profiles before answering messages so that might mitigate some of the aggrevated responses.

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By *ollar OP   Couple
over a year ago

granthamo

Thanks I always say I will chat to who it is so they know it's ok xx it's only now n then as still love playing as a couple xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can understand that but what I mean is couples can ask to met males but when a male of a couples replays to play they get all on their high horse xx"

It's not getting on your high horse to feel that you've been misled. If a couples profile contacts us we expect to be asked to meet a couple.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"It's not getting on your high horse to feel that you've been misled. If a couples profile contacts us we expect to be asked to meet a couple."

This.

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