FabSwingers.com forum: Unblocking the blocked.

By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Have any of you done this? I usually block those that I don't think I would get on with if I met them but this sometimes includes newbies who may change their attitude later on.

I guess you might say "they are blocked for a reason" or "a leopard never changes it's spots" but how much harm can there be in revisiting the block list?

Maybe I just have too much time on my hands!

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Once they're blocked they stay blocked and get re-added if they leave and rejoin.

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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Once they're blocked they stay blocked and get re-added if they leave and rejoin."

That's true but you can also unblock people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you done this? I usually block those that I don't think I would get on with if I met them but this sometimes includes newbies who may change their attitude later on.

I guess you might say "they are blocked for a reason" or "a leopard never changes it's spots" but how much harm can there be in revisiting the block list?

Maybe I just have too much time on my hands!

You mean you're revisiting your blocked list out of desperation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generally if I blocked them there must have been a very good reason, so no I wouldn't go back on that...ever

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I sometimes look at my block list and think whether its worth giving them another chance, then I remember why I blocked them and think 'naah'.

Up to you though OP. You might have blocked them for other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once they're blocked they stay blocked and get re-added if they leave and rejoin."

This

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

We only block those that are rude or abusive or if there's no attraction as that won't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for good reason.

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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Have any of you done this? I usually block those that I don't think I would get on with if I met them but this sometimes includes newbies who may change their attitude later on.

I guess you might say "they are blocked for a reason" or "a leopard never changes it's spots" but how much harm can there be in revisiting the block list?

Maybe I just have too much time on my hands!

You mean you're revisiting your blocked list out of desperation?

Nah. I was about to block a noob and felt a pang of compassion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once blocked always blocked. And I'll remember that name and face forever!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Once we've blocked we forget all about them so unlikely to consider unblocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you done this? I usually block those that I don't think I would get on with if I met them but this sometimes includes newbies who may change their attitude later on.

I guess you might say "they are blocked for a reason" or "a leopard never changes it's spots" but how much harm can there be in revisiting the block list?

Maybe I just have too much time on my hands!

You mean you're revisiting your blocked list out of desperation?

Nah. I was about to block a noob and felt a pang of compassion.

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unblocked someone once. I shouldn't of bothered.

Once blocked , forever blocked now

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

What's the point in unblocking them? surely they're blocked for a reason. Don't let your desperation lead u regret pal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked cos they were annoying so they are staying blocked

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like to counter block people who block me.

Some block because they don't like the fact you met someone they had previously which I find highly amusing.

If I block someone, which is rare, it'll be for a good reason and they will stay on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once they're blocked they stay blocked and get re-added if they leave and rejoin."

Bingo

This includes if they create multiple profiles or try to find other ways around the block. Tell tell signs mean they eventually get found out.

However...

When I first joined I never blocked anyone for a whole year because I did not want to hurt people's feelings. Even when my profile was copied a few times. Literally copy and paste job

As time went on I realised some people get too emotionally draining and they suck the fun out of Fab.

In the past I did go through a phase where I felt bad and unblocked people.

Now when I block I forget about them as another person already mentioned in this thread.

I don't have many blocked because only use that for extreme cases.

Got more people in my friends and hotlist so I think that is what they call a...

Healthy life balance

Or is that incorrect!?

Block button is there to be used and is first point of protection for everyone.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I like to counter block people who block me.

Some block because they don't like the fact you met someone they had previously which I find highly amusing.

If I block someone, which is rare, it'll be for a good reason and they will stay on there "

Yeah. If they are a daft so and so they can remain blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to block people with 'no married guys' on their profile.

Then came on to the forums and found out that words on a profile don't necessarily equal actions in private.

Rarely block anyone nowadays

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I unblocked someone once to discover the cheeky fucker had pics of me on his single man profile

but generally once blocked they stay blocked

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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Seems like I'm too compassionate. Time to get that "heart of stone" upgrade I think...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have unblocked someone in the past but only to block again when they stopped remembering to 'behave'

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i met a guy for a 3sum who was on my blocklist. wouldn't have met him if i hadn't left getting another guy to the first guy i was talking to.

it was great and a met him again a few times. so sometimes people you've blocked turn out to be good meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're blocked for a reason, they can stay there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could take me all day to unblock...no must of had my reasons to block so staying blocked

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've unblocked people but some stay blocked no matter what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I sometimes block when i'm in a bad mood. When i feel more rational i realise i may have been a bit quick to block, so unblock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I sometimes block when i'm in a bad mood. When i feel more rational i realise i may have been a bit quick to block, so unblock.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block loads at the moment

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I accidently blocked a lovely female friend the other day, while trying to reply to a post lol. It was followed by rapid pressing of buttons to unblock, while wiggles laughed at me.

Atm think we only have about two people blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no cure for being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to unblock people, mainly because the only people I block are those who are either abusive or continually message.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,once in room 101 there s no coming back

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Those who i block get blocked fir a reason. I tried unblocking once but it didnt last long

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We use the private note facility when blocking somebody that way if ever we get the urge to unblock we can easily see why they were on there in the first place.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

i never block i just don't care enough what a stranger thinks of me or thinks in general to bother .

but I'm no narcissist unlike so many on here clearly are in my opinion

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"We use the private note facility when blocking somebody that way if ever we get the urge to unblock we can easily see why they were on there in the first place. "

Now that's just sensible.

Wish I had thought of it. I was looking through my blocked list just the other day (yes I was bored with way too much time on my hands) and I couldn't remember why.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

"We use the private note facility when blocking somebody that way if ever we get the urge to unblock we can easily see why they were on there in the first place. "

^^ This. My 'blocking' finger is a bit sore after the last 24 hours

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We use the private note facility when blocking somebody that way if ever we get the urge to unblock we can easily see why they were on there in the first place. "

Exactly what we do

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I unblocked someone, can't remember why I,d done it in the first place, within a minute he,d messaged, arranged a meet for the following evening,,, turned out he,s given me the best sex I,ve ever had and continues to do so... Lucky me.... Sliding doors etc

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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"i met a guy for a 3sum who was on my blocklist. wouldn't have met him if i hadn't left getting another guy to the first guy i was talking to.

it was great and a met him again a few times. so sometimes people you've blocked turn out to be good meets."

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By *ilk_Tre OP Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"We use the private note facility when blocking somebody that way if ever we get the urge to unblock we can easily see why they were on there in the first place. "

Now THAT is a feature I should be using more often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever 'counter-block' when I see that someone has blocked me. I just can't be arsed to go around blocking others first or proactively. Since rejoining my block list is a big fat zero but I'm sure it won't be long until I notice I've been blocked somewhere.

But once they're blocked they're blocked. No incentive or need to unblock them once done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once they're blocked they're blocked. Just the same as your ex is your ex for a reason so no point in going back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember blocking most of mine but I figure there mustve been a reason so no second chances im afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never block anyone honestly too many people take fab too serious and are up there own arse, it's a fantasy world. Fair enough block someone if they are abusive or persistently messaging just think to many people are block button happy just my opinion

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