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Couple meeting a couple... why is it so difficult?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're a genuine couple and looking to meet other genuine couples ... why does it feel like such hard work?

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

We find it hard to meet other couples as it's harder than you think to find a couple where everyone wants the same and everyone likes each other to have some fun as sometimes we find it's just the guy that will full swap in a couple and not a female so finding a couple where everyone clicks is very hard well for us anyway lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We see couples upon couples playing at clubs all the time .... but it's not our thing

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

When is a couple not a couple....would imagine more than a few ongenuine couples profiles on here...

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

And i would like to meet a couple who wants to meet a single guys....now thats proving difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've very rarely played as a couple...one always ends up 'taking one for the team'

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"I've very rarely played as a couple...one always ends up 'taking one for the team'"

Thats the spirit..

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We dont have the same taste in men .... so we don't usually play together as a couple, even in the same venue, although mostly close by. This is why we can't do couples only nights ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy is hard work too!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I've very rarely played as a couple...one always ends up 'taking one for the team'"

We agreed never to do this ,so we dont play that often.It is hard to find couples we both like and get on with,many seem to be looking for Bi females too and im totally straight.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to find it hard. But decided to stop planning meets and just go to clubs, we've never had a bad night yet.

But we also find it more important that we get on with the other couple/couples were playing with than looking for our dream date. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet couples for this reason. What are the chances that there is going to be a 4 way attraction? No no no! Not going there. What we like is to get a few like minded people together and everybody choose their own playmates or playmates for the night. Everybody's happy that way.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really really hard to find couples as a couple.

My hubby is straight so only I have to be attracted to the guy in a couple but hubby is not a cuck so won't entertain anyone trying to play the big bad bull with me, I also tend to be attracted to bi guys (no idea why, they must have a certain aura) so they are out unless they understand there will be no guy on guy action occurring.

Female wise I'm bi but have a very distinct type and won't play with ladies just for the sake of playing so it's hard to find someone who floats both my boat and hubby's.

Add that to the fact that hubby is a long haired beardy rocker type and I'm a bit quirky narrows the amount of couples who would be into us, so yeah, it's a bit like trying to find a needle in a haystack......but when the planets align and everything drops into place, it's EPIC!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"We used to find it hard. But decided to stop planning meets and just go to clubs, we've never had a bad night yet.

But we also find it more important that we get on with the other couple/couples were playing with than looking for our dream date. . "

Interesting ... we aren't looking for a dream date, but we both have to be attracted to the person we are playing with, no laying back and thinking of England here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play as a couple and meet couples, neither of us takes one for the team. From start to finish we do it together, including group chat. It's an exciting adventure we're on together and takes some exploration to arrive at a perfect combination. We've been lucky enough to meet some lovely people we had a ball with as a result and are likely to stick with the same couples that we really click with. Finding something great with a four way attraction take patience, but it pays off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really really hard to find couples as a couple.

My hubby is straight so only I have to be attracted to the guy in a couple but hubby is not a cuck so won't entertain anyone trying to play the big bad bull with me, I also tend to be attracted to bi guys (no idea why, they must have a certain aura) so they are out unless they understand there will be no guy on guy action occurring.

Female wise I'm bi but have a very distinct type and won't play with ladies just for the sake of playing so it's hard to find someone who floats both my boat and hubby's.

Add that to the fact that hubby is a long haired beardy rocker type and I'm a bit quirky narrows the amount of couples who would be into us, so yeah, it's a bit like trying to find a needle in a haystack......but when the planets align and everything drops into place, it's EPIC!"

Being brazen here.. I've always admired your profile (Em here) you float our boat.. mine especially. Not leaving hubby out - we've only seen your single profile

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"It's really really hard to find couples as a couple.

My hubby is straight so only I have to be attracted to the guy in a couple but hubby is not a cuck so won't entertain anyone trying to play the big bad bull with me, I also tend to be attracted to bi guys (no idea why, they must have a certain aura) so they are out unless they understand there will be no guy on guy action occurring.

Female wise I'm bi but have a very distinct type and won't play with ladies just for the sake of playing so it's hard to find someone who floats both my boat and hubby's.

Add that to the fact that hubby is a long haired beardy rocker type and I'm a bit quirky narrows the amount of couples who would be into us, so yeah, it's a bit like trying to find a needle in a haystack......but when the planets align and everything drops into place, it's EPIC!

Being brazen here.. I've always admired your profile (Em here) you float our boat.. mine especially. Not leaving hubby out - we've only seen your single profile "

Ever thought about a PM?

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down


"We play as a couple and meet couples, neither of us takes one for the team. From start to finish we do it together, including group chat. It's an exciting adventure we're on together and takes some exploration to arrive at a perfect combination. We've been lucky enough to meet some lovely people we had a ball with as a result and are likely to stick with the same couples that we really click with. Finding something great with a four way attraction take patience, but it pays off. "

We're the same..... Patience is the key

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And i would like to meet a couple who wants to meet a single guys....now thats proving difficult."

We are looking for single guys most let us down lol

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

So advise for single men looking to meet couples anyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're a genuine couple and looking to meet other genuine couples ... why does it feel like such hard work?"

Because the site lacks any facility to say "looking to meet this week" or "looking to meet soon" rather than the current limited use "looking to meet today" (hint hint see our thread in the site suggestions section) This, or something like it, would help you differentiate between swingers who are currently active and those who aren't. Without something like this you just have to wade through everyone and hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a trip up to Staffordshire?... lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"We're a genuine couple and looking to meet other genuine couples ... why does it feel like such hard work?

Because the site lacks any facility to say "looking to meet this week" or "looking to meet soon" rather than the current limited use "looking to meet today" (hint hint see our thread in the site suggestions section) This, or something like it, would help you differentiate between swingers who are currently active and those who aren't. Without something like this you just have to wade through everyone and hope. "

This would put is off. If we want to meet, we go to a club or other venue or things move quickly .... people don't want to meet in these hard and fast categories I think

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We used to find it hard. But decided to stop planning meets and just go to clubs, we've never had a bad night yet.

But we also find it more important that we get on with the other couple/couples were playing with than looking for our dream date. . "

Agree we tend to use clubs for meets more now too

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