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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How annoying is it when you've been chatting to someone for ages, and you get around to organising a meet, and the next day you wake up to find, user no longer on site! I know that it probably means the 'woman' you were talking to was probably a Glaswegian welder called Clive, and you've had a lucky escape, I just wish that people were more honest! From now on, I'm setting my filters to only verified people to be able to contact me. Rant over! Lol! I'm honestly a happy chap normally, this has just pissed me off a bit, happened 3 times in as many weeks.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Stop talking to men pretending to be women.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Hope things improve

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes it's a disappointment isn't it,there's nothing you can do really just upwards and onwards and all that . Good luck for any future meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it's a disappointment isn't it,there's nothing you can do really just upwards and onwards and all that . Good luck for any future meets "

Thanks, I'll keep trying, it's not in my nature to just give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of context but OP you look a bit like Brent Sexton

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Happens to many people on here OP, keep trying and you'll be fine

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Always a good idea to chat before a meet...even glaswegian welders arent that good at disguising their voice..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of context but OP you look a bit like Brent Sexton "

Thanks, I'll take that over ray winstone for a change!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens to many people on here OP, keep trying and you'll be fine "

Thanks guys! I keep hearing that ladies/couples are looking for educated, polite and sexually adventurous men, so I'll keep on plugging away.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

yep, tbh we make less effort with newbies & actually tell them why too. They'll either be the sort of person than understands or they won't.

Either way we win

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of context but OP you look a bit like Brent Sexton

Thanks, I'll take that over ray winstone for a change! "

Haha yes you do as well

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Happens to many people on here OP, keep trying and you'll be fine

Thanks guys! I keep hearing that ladies/couples are looking for educated, polite and sexually adventurous men, so I'll keep on plugging away. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of context but OP you look a bit like Brent Sexton

Thanks, I'll take that over ray winstone for a change!

Haha yes you do as well "

See, look this famous, and still can't sort out a meet with a lady!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry. "

It usually starts general and then gets sexier as the confidence builds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get too disheartened op there are some brilliant people on fab iv met and made some awesome new friends from here

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"yep, tbh we make less effort with newbies & actually tell them why too. They'll either be the sort of person than understands or they won't.

Either way we win

S"

Less effort doesn't sound right, let's say we don't push for a meet, don't suggest it, don't make them instant friends nor go to other means of communication. If they are still around in a few weeks most of the time we are surprised.

S

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

happens a lot ..i just dont bother chatting online too much as it can be a waste of time and im here to meet .

tho some people are here for that and wont go any further..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get too disheartened op there are some brilliant people on fab iv met and made some awesome new friends from here "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yep, tbh we make less effort with newbies & actually tell them why too. They'll either be the sort of person than understands or they won't.

Either way we win

S

Less effort doesn't sound right, let's say we don't push for a meet, don't suggest it, don't make them instant friends nor go to other means of communication. If they are still around in a few weeks most of the time we are surprised.

S"

That understandable I guess, but for a genuine guy like myself, it does get pretty disheartening at times.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry.

It usually starts general and then gets sexier as the confidence builds. "

Try just general chat until after you've met. It's not a foolproof method but worth a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they were actually hot women or couples and you scared them off fab.

Naughty man. Smacked botty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry.

It usually starts general and then gets sexier as the confidence builds.

Try just general chat until after you've met. It's not a foolproof method but worth a go."

Thanks guys, will give it a try!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they were actually hot women or couples and you scared them off fab.

Naughty man. Smacked botty "

If I scared them off, maybe fab wasn't the right site for them! Lol!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry.

It usually starts general and then gets sexier as the confidence builds.

Try just general chat until after you've met. It's not a foolproof method but worth a go."

yes. Sexy chat is tempting and fun, but the fakes love it and that's one of the main reasons they are here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry.

It usually starts general and then gets sexier as the confidence builds.

Try just general chat until after you've met. It's not a foolproof method but worth a go.

yes. Sexy chat is tempting and fun, but the fakes love it and that's one of the main reasons they are here."

Yeah, I think you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they were actually hot women or couples and you scared them off fab.

Naughty man. Smacked botty

If I scared them off, maybe fab wasn't the right site for them! Lol! "

Oooo. Yes. Didn't think of that. Perhaps you're like a filter sorting out the flakey ones.

Offer of a smacked botty withdrawn

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Always a good idea to chat before a meet...even glaswegian welders arent that good at disguising their voice.. "

Haha! The offer of a phone call always sees them off.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Out of context but OP you look a bit like Brent Sexton "

Who's Brent Sexton?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Always a good idea to chat before a meet...even glaswegian welders arent that good at disguising their voice..

Haha! The offer of a phone call always sees them off..... "

Or on cam

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Flaming annoying.

Out of interest is the chat just general or sexy chat? The latter can quite often indicate that 25 year old sexy Suzie is really 55 year old hairy Harry. "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always a good idea to chat before a meet...even glaswegian welders arent that good at disguising their voice..

Haha! The offer of a phone call always sees them off.....

Or on cam "

I think if someone is genuinely who they claim to be, then the issues I've had won't rear their heads, it's just frustrating at times. I do understand that as a single male, my profile is a drop in the ocean, I'll just have to persevere as best I can.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We block newbies ,let them stay for a few days and then we will chat.

Miss

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It happens to us or they just block us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens to us or they just block us.

"

If it happens to you, then I don't feel so bad! I mean, your boobs are much nicer than mine!

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