FabSwingers.com forum: People overcharging for parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Yesterday i was asked to stump up a "contribution" of £80 for a party in a hotel room in wigan as the guy organising "didnt want to be out of pocket on the night".

I thought that a bit steep as the guy organising 3 girls to attend was inviting over 10 other guys along, so told him not happy and said wont be attending.

Whats your thoughts on how much a "contribution" should be so people are not out of pocket when organising a party!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

£880, wow where you staying at the Ritz, even if only 5 had turned up you are talking £400, hell of a room for that

Totally agree with you was definately OTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why £80

never that much, just want to what you get out of that;

rooms cost only around £40 being in wigan i no stayed there once

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Simple response from me would be sod off

But you will find that there are people that will pay loads to attend a party if they think they're gonna get a shag and all the time that is happening the same people will keep charging huge amounts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really depends how desparate you are for a shag, and if you can afford it.

I personally wouldn't pay for a shag under the circumstances you describe.

The most I have "contributed" to a party invite is £10 each for Kate and myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy sounds more like a pimp.did the three ladies know he was prostituting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it really depends how desparate you are for a shag, and if you can afford it.

I personally wouldn't pay for a shag under the circumstances you describe.

The most I have "contributed" to a party invite is £10 each for Kate and myself. "
even if you are desperate

you pay an escort an may get something extra for that price

do yes its a defo ott, tell him 2 sod off

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We are happy to pay £10 per couple to attend house parties. if it was anymore we would just go to a club.. you get better facilaties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Made one aware who had invited me, he hadn't made her aware, don't know about the others?? She wasn't happy went and made him give some guys money back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

parties should be free but, i would prehaps pay £10, £80 seams a rip off exspeacily if you was not told up front before attending

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"parties should be free but, i would prehaps pay £10, £80 seams a rip off exspeacily if you was not told up front before attending"
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Was told on the day after turning down others to goto this fabulous party!! so didnt attend turned it down and stayed at home watching wimbledon lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"£880, wow where you staying at the Ritz, even if only 5 had turned up you are talking £400, hell of a room for that

Totally agree with you was definately OTT"

contacted the hotel direct after he told me and a room was £59!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guy sounds more like a pimp.did the three ladies know he was prostituting them?"

Exactly my thoughts! Pity the poor girls he 'arranged' for the party. Wonder if they knew how much he was trying to charge?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Sounds way OTT to me. I would report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have just told him to go bollocks, straight off the bat. Unless he was buying a bathload of Champagne to play around in (which I doubt) then he's just a chancer out for filling his pockets rather than his boots. Avoid.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

rip off,avoid its just prostitution

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds way OTT to me. I would report it."

who too lol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guy sounds more like a pimp.did the three ladies know he was prostituting them?

Exactly my thoughts! Pity the poor girls he 'arranged' for the party. Wonder if they knew how much he was trying to charge?

one did prior as told her she still went and enjoyed it lol, she did tell him was overcharging and made him give some money back to at least one guy who turned up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I'd have just told him to go bollocks, straight off the bat. Unless he was buying a bathload of Champagne to play around in (which I doubt) then he's just a chancer out for filling his pockets rather than his boots. Avoid."

he did put on some beers, no champange i reckon lol, he did it in two shifts and ushered guys out after 2 hrs!! makes me piss who would pay for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

More fool the men that attend these parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's funny is the people who then have a pop usually at the guys saying "They pay their money and think it entitles them to sex."

Nigh on £900 being forked over for a hotel room in Wigan of all places???? Hmmmm.

Report and give it the big miss.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have been to loads of parties, and HAVE NEVER BEEN ASKED TO PAY ANYTHING!!!

We ask if they need help with the food etc, but usually all we are asked to bring is our own booze and condoms!

If we were asked to contribute say a fiver each, we would think that was reasonable, but 80 quid for 2 hours? Jeez.... someone is making a lot of money!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Sounds way OTT to me. I would report it.

who too lol? "

From the mail you recieved or the persons profile.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

"More fool the men that attend these parties"

Not really. Providing you know what you are getting into, it is each man's choice.

There is no coercion going on. You are not supporting some people trafficking gang...... but then again, how do you know?

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By *almh5Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

There is a certain gentleman who organises these parties with a lovely lady who really enjoys them, but she didnt know that he was charging these men and only found out when she saw the blokes giving him money on the way out, totallin quite a bit more than the room cost! She most certainly wasnt happy at being prostituted out!

Same gentleman also offers to organise such parties, with the proviso that she has to have sex with him before and after

as well as charging the blokes for a hotel room he isnt paying for. More vile than a vile things vile bits!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"More fool the men that attend these parties

Not really. Providing you know what you are getting into, it is each man's choice.

There is no coercion going on. You are not supporting some people trafficking gang...... but then again, how do you know? "

Yes the men knew but it seems the OP is saying the women didn't.

So this guy is getting 3 women together for a gang bang in a hotel. Charging men £80 to attend and not telling the women he is doing that. If that is true then he is pimping the women out without them knowing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"Guy sounds more like a pimp.did the three ladies know he was prostituting them?"

Our thoughts exactly...all chip in for the room...10 quid each.

The bloke was out to gain...and does sound like a pimp

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Hi all,

Yesterday i was asked to stump up a "contribution" of £80 for a party in a hotel room in wigan as the guy organising "didnt want to be out of pocket on the night".

I thought that a bit steep as the guy organising 3 girls to attend was inviting over 10 other guys along, so told him not happy and said wont be attending

Whats your thoughts on how much a "contribution" should be so people are not out of pocket when organising a party!!"

This thread has been covered like so many others previously and from what I remember

Generally the concensous was that swinging for gain becomes a business and as such should not be advertised through here.

If you want to organise a party at a venue then any cost or sharing of said cost should be mentioned up front in the meet advert and what there share should be, once you move into making money it's no longer a 'party' and not that short of being prostitution.

Eg a couple decide they want to use a hotel because it's the only way they will play. So either they cover the whole cost as they will more than likely be spending the night and breakfast. Or the could ask for a contribution if already stated in the meet.

However, again there is a problem because they could easily meet more than one guy over the evening and very soon turn a profit? ( no charge to the couple for the room).

I'll never go where there's a chance people are going to make money off me as I wouldn't off them. The only exception as far as I'm concerned is in a club( where you know the score) or going out for a meal or meeting in a pub.

That's my view and one I'll stick by.

We all know it's awkward for some couples who may have to pay babysitters as well as fuel etc and then get let down but it's the choice they make to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guy sounds more like a pimp.did the three ladies know he was prostituting them?"
yes i think like you ... Sex should be free and maybe all help with hotel but woman too as thay get the fun too , its out of order people doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it isn't even a guaranteed shag is it, I don't suppose the women attending were prostitutes but swingers and they may not play with anyone or they may choose just one guy. Just cos there's 3 women going, doesn't mean you'll get to have sex with any one of them.

I think a even contribition to the hotel cost is sufficient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't charge at all, as we prefer to host without any thought of obligation or guarantee! Everyone seems to have a good time, either way!

We usually get a good mix of people though - that's the tricky bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thay think your hard up for sex and will just pay and do what ever to get sex . But like some here have said No telling if you do ..... its pot luck.

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london

About 20 pounds. Not more thank that and maybe bring your own drinks and certainly condoms. It is better to try to get into a gangbang group that becomes known

as being reliable. Then you can have a team of 4-5 guys who are spliting the costs of a hotel room. Think about it-if 10 guys are paying 80 pounds then that must be an expensive room! Seems like prostitution for that amount.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Cheeky buggers, coulda made it £79.99

and with a discount for senior citizens.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok to the OP, I did advise you to report.

Mentioning the peoples names inbetween your sentances is name and shame in a sneaky way and isn't allowed either.

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