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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Isn't it a kick in the dick when you know in your head how the site works and why people are on here but you can't but get attached. I think I need a few months away from the swinging scene to stop myself getting hurt.

Surely I can't be the only one who's got attached on here? Need to give myself a head wobble and realise what the scene is all about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but u soon learn. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it a kick in the dick when you know in your head how the site works and why people are on here but you can't but get attached. I think I need a few months away from the swinging scene to stop myself getting hurt.

Surely I can't be the only one who's got attached on here? Need to give myself a head wobble and realise what the scene is all about! "

Totally agree it hurts but we're only human you'll get there

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

Well, I guess that depends if they've also become attached to you, it could be a good thing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's a natural human thing so don't beat yourself up about it.

Luckily I don't suffer from this. I get fond of guys but not attached

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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

No matter how many times you tell yourself the constant compliments etc are to get in your pants it doesn't work that way and you feel yourself getting attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are only human and humans have feelings ..

it happens and more often than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even worse when you get accused of getting attached when you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just sex. Nothing more

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"No matter how many times you tell yourself the constant compliments etc are to get in your pants it doesn't work that way and you feel yourself getting attached "

Sometimes it is better to have a break from Fab. Work out what YOU want from here. In the beginning I was very naive, (not saying you are) I now look back and think WTF! Took me a while to sift through the bullshit and work out what I wanted and what I could offer others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell madly in love with my FWB so I'm no help to anyone. Just very glad that he fell madly in love with me too!!

Ruby

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Isn't it a kick in the dick when you know in your head how the site works and why people are on here but you can't but get attached. I think I need a few months away from the swinging scene to stop myself getting hurt.

Surely I can't be the only one who's got attached on here? Need to give myself a head wobble and realise what the scene is all about! "

Swingers are human with feelings, your going to get attached to some folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless. It's not easy to harden your heart.

I've been there too xx. Hugs.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Yeah it's hard when people fall for you or vice versa but it's only human your not a robot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it's hard when people fall for you or vice versa but it's only human your not a robot"

Exactly!

When you feel like this - it's time to take a break x

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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Thank you guys

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees


"Thank you guys "
I know it's awfully hard not to fall for someone you're intimate with more than once. However it can work, we met on a similar site go this and ended up married ( caused some trouble along the way, but worth the heartache) to each other.

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