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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Been looking myself & I agree it's been hard

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Yup struggling here too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking a quick look at your profile - are you only looking for soft swap? So, the best the woman can hope for is some oral?

I know that would put me off with a couple. With FF I have no problem with there being no cock involved, but I have had experience with a couple in the past where the woman was only really up for snogging and I wasn't allowed to touch the guy's cock. Far too restrictive for me. Ended up feeling like a frustrated spare part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou for the reply we have changed it full swop on our profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking a quick look at your profile - are you only looking for soft swap? So, the best the woman can hope for is some oral?

I know that would put me off with a couple. With FF I have no problem with there being no cock involved, but I have had experience with a couple in the past where the woman was only really up for snogging and I wasn't allowed to touch the guy's cock. Far too restrictive for me. Ended up feeling like a frustrated spare part."

Great response , and precisely why so many couples find it difficult to find a bi female to enjoy fun times with .

As a couple you need to entice the extra female with what she is likely to get from the experience . It's not just about what the couple get from it !

The minute she thinks she's just going to be an extra bit of spice to the couple she won't want to know . What will she gain from it ?

Once you see it from her point of view too , and get this across it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a quick peek and your status would put me off tbh...

If you are looking for a fem to play with both of you then why just talk to the female and not both of you?

Have you thought about looking for other bi fem couples to start with?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Stop chasing labels.

We have never played with a "single bi fem"... however, we have played with loads of friends who, it just so happens, are bi, fem, and single!

Attend socials, make friends, let ladies know you are interested, but don't chase them, and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna quote the last message but the only bit I wanted to say was the "dont chase them" part.

As a single bi gem I find I dont often get approached by couples (a bit disappointing to be honest!) but I find those who do are sometimes too pushy for my liking, its like theyre so happy Ive replied they want to set a date to meet there and then just to make sure they have me!

Take time to build friendship, remember you two already know each other so its a bit intimidating to be the "newbie" in a play situation.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Taking a quick look at your profile - are you only looking for soft swap? So, the best the woman can hope for is some oral?

I know that would put me off with a couple. With FF I have no problem with there being no cock involved, but I have had experience with a couple in the past where the woman was only really up for snogging and I wasn't allowed to touch the guy's cock. Far too restrictive for me. Ended up feeling like a frustrated spare part."

Exactly.

Besides the knob pics, one of my pet hates here is entitled couples who think I'm going to drop everything because they fancy an extra pair of tits around.

It's your fantasy to have another girl, why should she bother? I for one have no interest in putting on a show. I fuck them both or not at all.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol"

Perhaps put some more public pics other than the male.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"we have changed it full swop on our profile x "

It is "swap" not "swop".

Sally

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol"

No offence meant but the only picture on your profile is of your mans cock

Maybe try a pic of both of you

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your not really selling yourselves.

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol

No offence meant but the only picture on your profile is of your mans cock

Maybe try a pic of both of you "

*avoid*

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol

No offence meant but the only picture on your profile is of your mans cock

Maybe try a pic of both of you "

This totally

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By *iSubSlutWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

You might want to make your profile more about what you would like to do rather than would you won't do...it all sounds a little clinical.

Too much uncertainty about whether you are happy to do full swap, would put me off...

...and same about pics, need some of both halves of your couple...

just my perspective, hope that helps...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have met bi female couples and enjoyed it bigtime thankyou for the reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are going to change our profile and put photos of us both etc etc

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Taking a quick look at your profile - are you only looking for soft swap? So, the best the woman can hope for is some oral?

I know that would put me off with a couple. With FF I have no problem with there being no cock involved, but I have had experience with a couple in the past where the woman was only really up for snogging and I wasn't allowed to touch the guy's cock. Far too restrictive for me. Ended up feeling like a frustrated spare part.

Great response , and precisely why so many couples find it difficult to find a bi female to enjoy fun times with .

As a couple you need to entice the extra female with what she is likely to get from the experience . It's not just about what the couple get from it !

The minute she thinks she's just going to be an extra bit of spice to the couple she won't want to know . What will she gain from it ?

Once you see it from her point of view too , and get this across it will happen "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who meets couples I don't think your profile is very bi fem friendly. Pictures of both needed and fem to fem phone call is always a big no no for me.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I meet women on my single profile and nothing about yours says anything about the female ....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol"
just looked, yeah your profile sounds fake..get her to write it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I was gonna quote the last message but the only bit I wanted to say was the "dont chase them" part.

As a single bi gem I find I dont often get approached by couples (a bit disappointing to be honest!) but I find those who do are sometimes too pushy for my liking, its like theyre so happy Ive replied they want to set a date to meet there and then just to make sure they have me!

Take time to build friendship, remember you two already know each other so its a bit intimidating to be the "newbie" in a play situation. "

We are a couple and fem is straight but she still gets couples asking her to play alone with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol"

We're in the same boat could any of you sexy females give us some sound advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol

We're in the same boat could any of you sexy females give us some sound advise "

If you put a new thread up asking for advice people can help

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"we have changed it full swop on our profile x

It is "swap" not "swop".

Sally"
love when the spelling and grammar police are out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are a very genuine married couple,we have had a few meets with couples and would now love to meet a bi female,but finding it very hard, can anybody advise us how lol

We're in the same boat could any of you sexy females give us some sound advise

Can't I get advise on this thread or can I only get advise on my own threads ?

If you put a new thread up asking for advice people can help"

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Large net and tranquiliser gun.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Large net and tranquiliser gun."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have offered lots of couples who claim to seeking a single bi female a meet... most are all talk and nothing ever comes from it.....

Or 'I'll see if I can talk her into it'

What!!!! You requested to meet a single girl now you need to see if you can talk her into it!!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

A more recent veri would help, also visit clubs, there are plenty of great ladies and meeting you there first can take a lot of unknowns out of the equation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples on my own in the past, but I liked to speak to both and I often found just the guy would message. Then I questioned is it a single guy masquerading as a couple. I also think you want to know you won't be the third wheel, that it'll be a fully inclusive threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know four single bi women. but maybe they don't like meeting couples on there own

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've met couples on my own in the past, but I liked to speak to both and I often found just the guy would message. Then I questioned is it a single guy masquerading as a couple. I also think you want to know you won't be the third wheel, that it'll be a fully inclusive threesome. "

Good points, Bun does most of the chatting when we meet single ladies. If the ladies get on then it works great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 people meeting, 3 people all enjoying each other on equal terms....simple

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