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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

"

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that complicated. I'm looking for someone that puts out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not that complicated. I'm looking for someone that puts out. "

Same here

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm not that complicated. I'm looking for someone that puts out. "

great so why not just use a professional service from someone who spends 6 hours a day in the gym two or three hours a day on beauty treatments ,

who looks absolutely stunning because of all the effort they have put in looking that way

what tem minute phone call and its on by far they easiest way to have fun with someone looking to put out as you put it .

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

After so long building those defences up i think itll be hard to let them down again and completely open up to anyone. Im hoping at some point i will be able to, but there would have to be a great deal of trust there for that to happen

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more. "

I've had it before i have it now and i will have it again but sometimes you just have to give voice to it .

so everyone knows what your really about otherwise wires can become crossed and miss assumptions made xxx

i really like and respect those who can open the door just a crack allowing all the bluster to fall away for a brief moment and show a true glimpse of what behind that door

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"After so long building those defences up i think itll be hard to let them down again and completely open up to anyone. Im hoping at some point i will be able to, but there would have to be a great deal of trust there for that to happen"

its ok to be hurt by someone worth being hurt by ,

I should no I lost my mojo lost my lust for adventure because i was broken by the loss of someone and something .

but here's the thing.

if i could do it all again with her knowing it would end as it did ,i would because it was worth it the real often is but it always comes with a price .

lucky ive always found that price although sometimes incredibly high to be worth it no matter what the out come is at the end xxx

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

"

There is a saying that goes "Wants don't get". Maybe you should revise it to "I would like".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more.

I've had it before i have it now and i will have it again but sometimes you just have to give voice to it .

so everyone knows what your really about otherwise wires can become crossed and miss assumptions made xxx

i really like and respect those who can open the door just a crack allowing all the bluster to fall away for a brief moment and show a true glimpse of what behind that door "

Sometimes I think I'm too open, but I know I don't let many people know the true me. I've had to hide my feelings for so many years that being allowed to voice them now is proving hard but I'm learning.

The d/s dynamic works well for me in that respect as building the trust to submit myself to my master also means in return I know exactly how he feels about me in return. And the respect we give each other is more than I've experienced before.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more.

I've had it before i have it now and i will have it again but sometimes you just have to give voice to it .

so everyone knows what your really about otherwise wires can become crossed and miss assumptions made xxx

i really like and respect those who can open the door just a crack allowing all the bluster to fall away for a brief moment and show a true glimpse of what behind that door "

Sometimes it's very scary opening that door and sometimes you peek and wobble. But once you've opened it and let someone in its just so liberating. You've expressed what it is I'm looking for in a really beautiful way. Not everyone sees depth like this or even want it. I miss it and hope to have it again

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more.

I've had it before i have it now and i will have it again but sometimes you just have to give voice to it .

so everyone knows what your really about otherwise wires can become crossed and miss assumptions made xxx

i really like and respect those who can open the door just a crack allowing all the bluster to fall away for a brief moment and show a true glimpse of what behind that door

Sometimes it's very scary opening that door and sometimes you peek and wobble. But once you've opened it and let someone in its just so liberating. You've expressed what it is I'm looking for in a really beautiful way. Not everyone sees depth like this or even want it. I miss it and hope to have it again "

It can be scary, just need that faith to take the first step even without knowing where it will lead

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

There is a saying that goes "Wants don't get". Maybe you should revise it to "I would like". "

why should i be washy about it if you want something say it .

no need to say i would like as by doing so your saying less is ok

which is not being true to ones true core being and leaves things open to interpretation .

everything I've ever got i wanted there was no doubt no indecisiveness .

i don't do indecision when it comes to my needs and i would advice everyone to try and think that way when ever its possible to do so.

indecision can cost you that what you want where as saying what you want will never cost you anything because everyone you say it to knows exactly where they stand so can make a informed choice .

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm not looking for the superficial we give away so easily

I'm not looking for that which has no meaning and therefore no consequences

I'm not looking for that which we give to all because it has no meaning to us

I'm not interested in a persona designed to keep us safe and others at bay .

I'm here looking for depth real connection real risk and reward .

I want the bare you all the superficial stripped away leaving you naked to my glaze

I want that which you keep hidden away and rarely give away

I want your simple truths the real you

I want something that never can be taken away even when it ends because the truth never ends nor does it ever fade away

Give me all the above and I will hold it safe for you and give you my truths to hold to .

I want it all the real we hide away because it means so much to us so we rarely give it away

Very deep for a Friday morning, it's what I hope I can have within my relationship. I think the whole D/S dynamic when you get that is much more intense than a vanilla one.

I do struggle with letting my vulnerable side out, but learning to trust my master has helped me open myself up to him.

Hope you can find all this and more.

I've had it before i have it now and i will have it again but sometimes you just have to give voice to it .

so everyone knows what your really about otherwise wires can become crossed and miss assumptions made xxx

i really like and respect those who can open the door just a crack allowing all the bluster to fall away for a brief moment and show a true glimpse of what behind that door

Sometimes I think I'm too open, but I know I don't let many people know the true me. I've had to hide my feelings for so many years that being allowed to voice them now is proving hard but I'm learning.

The d/s dynamic works well for me in that respect as building the trust to submit myself to my master also means in return I know exactly how he feels about me in return. And the respect we give each other is more than I've experienced before. "

so true

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