FabSwingers.com forum: Fit hot guys wanting curvy out of shape gals

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please don't come back with everyone has different tastes.. I'm just so curious why really fit, obviously seriously gym guys want a curvy out of shape broad like me? I reckon they can have any girl.. am I their bit of rough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because opposite attracts.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

They like variety?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I once asked this of an absolute hottie who was 15 years younger too and he said he'd never thought about it but he liked older curvy ladies. Having known him now for a few years it is true. He doesn't meet slim or gym fit girls. Takes all sorts I guess but good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls are supposed to have curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curvy women!! Not out of shape in my eyes, What the media might make you believe is that being slim is the most desirable body shape! Well trust me it isn't, Everyone has individual tastes on all most everything so it's no different when it come to body shape! Mine has always been busty curvy women.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Because variety can be very alluring one minute thinking about dominating really short women next tall women same goes for weight size lol

You have to have ass can't do pancakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't come back with everyone has different tastes.. I'm just so curious why really fit, obviously seriously gym guys want a curvy out of shape broad like me? I reckon they can have any girl.. am I their bit of rough?"

It really is because people all have different tastes. Otherwise we wouldn't have such a diverse population

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

Enjoy the attention! Loads of people have different ideas beyond glossy magazines and the daily mail online on what they think is attractive

Playing Devils advocate...

And On the flip-side ask them to have a night out with the guy and his friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls are supposed to have curves.

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I love curvy girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows eh.

One of the great mysteries of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the attention! Loads of people have different ideas beyond glossy magazines and the daily mail online on what they think is attractive

Playing Devils advocate...

And On the flip-side ask them to have a night out with the guy and his friends "

I wouldn't want to go out with any man and his friends. I've got me own mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly but why question it...hell, take advantage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because certain looks turn them on, doesn't matter what their body is like, arousal happens in the head, if they stuck their brains in an unfit thirty stone smoker, they'd still fancy you.

that and big bottoms and boobs can be subconsciously perceived as signs a woman would bear children well, the arch a big bottom seems to create at the bottom of the spine is well suited to birthing and big boobs are self explanatory i guess. that's one theory anyhow

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Possibly but why question it...hell, take advantage! "

gorgeous body, lovely curves x

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

I'm attracted to anyone who is comfortable with their own body. Low self esteem is so unattractive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because theres lots of gym fit guys in here and not many women.

So they dont have the option of being too choosey if they want their balls emptying.

Any holes a goal to some guys.

And maybe some just enjoy fucking curvy out of shape women?

Theres various reasons why people choose to fuck each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very dubious responses on this thread!!!

I asked a very attractive, gym fit guy the same question. His reply was quite simple really. Gym bunnies are so self obsessed and full of themselves. He (and some of his friends) prefer real women!!

I was happy to accept that response.

My body isn't perfect. I'm 42, have two children and my body shows that. It is what it is and most of the time I'm happy with it. I'm never short of attention be it in real life or on fab.

There is very rarely room for two body obsessed people in any form of relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it's a secret fetish. Seriously doubt they would be bragging to their mates about it tho. If you are both happy with the arrangement go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it's a secret fetish. Seriously doubt they would be bragging to their mates about it tho. If you are both happy with the arrangement go for it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some very dubious responses on this thread!!!

I asked a very attractive, gym fit guy the same question. His reply was quite simple really. Gym bunnies are so self obsessed and full of themselves. He (and some of his friends) prefer real women!!

I was happy to accept that response.

My body isn't perfect. I'm 42, have two children and my body shows that. It is what it is and most of the time I'm happy with it. I'm never short of attention be it in real life or on fab.

There is very rarely room for two body obsessed people in any form of relationship. "

I know lots of gym fit couples who take great care of their health and bodies and have a really great relationship.

They go to the gym together and work out together and help with each others fitness goals and diets too.

Works really well for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger girls..I find very womanly and sexy.

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Because most men on here will fuck absolutely anything.

Just because they are gym fit doesn't mean they are amazing people with great personalities who women fall for all the time. Yes the chavs in the club and on here will be up for it because it's all about looks and ticking the gym guy off their 'fucket list', but being fit doesn't mean you're a decent person - male and female.

Squaddies being a perfect example from my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once asked a gym fit body building guy what kind of porn star he was into.

He told me Lexxxi Luxe. I was a bit suprised, assuming he'd go for slim women, and all he said to me was "never assume anything".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because on here there are comparitively few single ladies so going for the ones who will be flattered by the attention of a younger and fitter male is an easy and pretty much guaranteed way of getting a meet.

Not saying that is the case for all but it is for some and I suspect it is for many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm obv not gym fit but it's not true to say that they can have any girl they want. And also, ones own body shape doesn't dictate ones preference in a potential sexual partner.

I'm fugly and balding but I do like pretty women with a full head of hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because on here there are comparitively few single ladies so going for the ones who will be flattered by the attention of a younger and fitter male is an easy and pretty much guaranteed way of getting a meet.

Not saying that is the case for all but it is for some and I suspect it is for many"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being gym fit doesn't mean they have egos. Some men aren't obsessed by only fucking fit women, to make them feel better about themselves and fat isn't an issue with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are those who will fuck anyone . However there are men who prefer curvier or bigger women (not all big women are curvy) . I see it like this - I love grey hair on a man yet cover my greys with dye. I am short yet like tall men . How you look has nothing to do with who you find attractive

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some guys it might be your eyes, which have a really sparkle. For others a really odd profile name might suggest a really odd person to meet (in a good, happy, fun way!)

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By *f4loanMan
over a year ago

Spain

fat/ curvey chicks are just as loveable as slim fit chicks there's just more surface area therefore increasing our desireability .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Some very dubious responses on this thread!!!

I asked a very attractive, gym fit guy the same question. His reply was quite simple really. Gym bunnies are so self obsessed and full of themselves. He (and some of his friends) prefer real women!!

I was happy to accept that response.

My body isn't perfect. I'm 42, have two children and my body shows that. It is what it is and most of the time I'm happy with it. I'm never short of attention be it in real life or on fab.

There is very rarely room for two body obsessed people in any form of relationship.

I know lots of gym fit couples who take great care of their health and bodies and have a really great relationship.

They go to the gym together and work out together and help with each others fitness goals and diets too.

Works really well for them

That wasn't the question though was it. Of course there are lots of people who enjoy the same activities that have great relationships. Why state the Fucking obvious?!

In answer to the op.... Unless you ask them directly you will never know. Even if you ask them directly you might not ever know lol

Yes for some it's a numbers game. Overweight women seem to be the majority so if they want some they have to 'lower' their standards.... Desperation us such an ugly trait

For some there is a genuine attraction to a larger body shape. At bbw nights you see couples (genuine married/attached couples, not just fuck buddies) where the men are slim/buff and their partners are not..... Works really well for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some very dubious responses on this thread!!!

I asked a very attractive, gym fit guy the same question. His reply was quite simple really. Gym bunnies are so self obsessed and full of themselves. He (and some of his friends) prefer real women!!

I was happy to accept that response.

My body isn't perfect. I'm 42, have two children and my body shows that. It is what it is and most of the time I'm happy with it. I'm never short of attention be it in real life or on fab.

There is very rarely room for two body obsessed people in any form of relationship.

I know lots of gym fit couples who take great care of their health and bodies and have a really great relationship.

They go to the gym together and work out together and help with each others fitness goals and diets too.

Works really well for them

That wasn't the question though was it. Of course there are lots of people who enjoy the same activities that have great relationships. Why state the Fucking obvious?!

In answer to the op.... Unless you ask them directly you will never know. Even if you ask them directly you might not ever know lol

Yes for some it's a numbers game. Overweight women seem to be the majority so if they want some they have to 'lower' their standards.... Desperation us such an ugly trait

My post was in response the posters thread that I have included in my post not the OP's question.

As I've already answered the OPs original post with my answer.

I suggest you read post correctly before swearing and making yourself look like an idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a bit dubious if a gym fit guy contacts me, and I'm yet to meet one

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I doubt I'm so very different to the majority of guys, and I tend to favour women with confidence and personality. If they have more curves and less shape than a 'Perfect10-BarbieDoll-Airhead', then so be it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Some very dubious responses on this thread!!!

I asked a very attractive, gym fit guy the same question. His reply was quite simple really. Gym bunnies are so self obsessed and full of themselves. He (and some of his friends) prefer real women!!

I was happy to accept that response.

My body isn't perfect. I'm 42, have two children and my body shows that. It is what it is and most of the time I'm happy with it. I'm never short of attention be it in real life or on fab.

There is very rarely room for two body obsessed people in any form of relationship.

I know lots of gym fit couples who take great care of their health and bodies and have a really great relationship.

They go to the gym together and work out together and help with each others fitness goals and diets too.

Works really well for them

That wasn't the question though was it. Of course there are lots of people who enjoy the same activities that have great relationships. Why state the Fucking obvious?!

In answer to the op.... Unless you ask them directly you will never know. Even if you ask them directly you might not ever know lol

Yes for some it's a numbers game. Overweight women seem to be the majority so if they want some they have to 'lower' their standards.... Desperation us such an ugly trait

My post was in response the posters thread that I have included in my post not the OP's question.

As I've already answered the OPs original post with my answer.

I suggest you read post correctly before swearing and making yourself look like an idiot

Nice personal insult there.... Very grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always amazes me when these young guys message us, and saying the things they want to do to me (Angie here). Not that I'm not flattered but they're the type of man that in a social gathering would be surrounded by lots of pretty girls fluttering their eyes at them and wouldn't look my way twice.

I know the whole saying horses for courses and all that but as a curvy woman I would like to know why my body is attractive to them as I'm so much more than that.

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Hate my curves but that 3 kids later and age x very body conchus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this, at first, in summer 2015.

I had a bout three months of regular fun, with a gym fit, 29 yr old blonde stunner.

First couple of weeks I thought...what the hell....after that I just enjoyed it!

She even did a 40 mile round trip on a bicycle to come out for a drink and stay the night with me.

Sadly (for me....but good for her really?) she got back with her ex...and her account has been dormant over a year now.

I just don't ask any more....just count your blessings!

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

It really is because people all have different tastes. Otherwise we wouldn't have such a diverse population

I'm with you on that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Interesting responses some good some not so good

. I think I'm the same when a younger fit/unfit guy contact's me,I just think why the heck is he messaging a nearly 50 year old with wrinkles when he can message someone a lot younger. Is it because it's a case of not many women to choose from so I'll do.

Don't know,anyway sometimes we can over think thing's far too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not gym fit, but in reasonable shape. I would much rather fuck a woman with curves than a stick, don't really know why, just find them more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to anyone who is

comfortable with their own body. Low self esteem is so unattractive..."

My ex took twenty years to destroy my self esteem. brcause of posts like This im.slowly building it back up again.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm not gym fit, but in reasonable shape. I would much rather fuck a woman with curves than a stick, don't really know why, just find them more attractive."

Well you see that's where you're going wrong. One should never go and break off a stick from a tree and try and shag it,that's abuse to a tree do you not think and probably not good for your penis as far as splints are concerned.

Let this be a warning to any other men wanting to have sex with a stick. MEN leave the sticks on the tree's where they belong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry if this upset or offends anyone.

I like women to have curves and bumps here and there as I like my cars and love to drive I love the turns of a country roads and hates motorway driving, I always say imbrase what you got and enjoy the time you got and don't worry about what other people think as they could be jealous of what you got or what your doing x

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

"I doubt I'm so very different to the majority of guys, and I tend to favour women with confidence and personality. If they have more curves and less shape than a 'Perfect10-BarbieDoll-Airhead', then so be it

BarbieDoll-Airhead? Really? Couldn't you think of a more original insult for a woman who chooses to work out? This thread was about exploring preferences rather than throwing insults around. Epic fail obviously. Grow up. There's room for every shape and size of woman on here - the size of her brain is unconnected to her dress size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls are supposed to have curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder the same thing! About me, not you op!

If I do get contacted by very fit, hot guys, it's always at the back of my head.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I can't speak for everybody but for me it takes allsorts to have an appeal xxx sometimes The eyes x sometimes it's the smile sometimes the figure sometimes is just the way a person presents themselves x any woman who makes an effort to feel good looks good x if she has confidence she has sex appeal x anyway just my thoughts and by the way in no way am I suggesting I'm super fit lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

I think if we start to question why people on a swingers web site are interested in us we might come up with some uncomfortable answers. For many of us we're not here for a relationship so the terms of engagement might be different. If you're interested in no strings sex on an equal basis and will ultimately both gain what you want why do the reasons behind your attraction to each other important? I think too many people think about this too deeply.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

Suppose people at least like to think they're really wanted on a physical level and desired,not because it's a case of 'she'll do for a shag' kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

That's very true, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as long as you enjoy yourself with the company your with then why worry about what people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of insults on this thread, most less direct than that by men presumably desperate to win favour with the curvy women on this thread. The comments about 'real women' and 'sticks' are pathetic and body shaming.

Why can't people express a preference without having a go at opposites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that I'm REALLY bored of the endless threads on BBW / slim / fit / unfit / fit but fat / slim but unfit .... you get the picture

So I don't actually know why I'm posting on this one

There it is x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

Suppose people at least like to think they're really wanted on a physical level and desired,not because it's a case of 'she'll do for a shag' kinda thing. "

Loads of men think of women that way that's never going to change. It's probably not a good idea to question why a guy wants you but accept that as long as you're getting what you want its all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies.. just got round to reading them all.. Just to say I have lots of confidence, no esteem issues about my body which may seem odd given my question. Now I'm off to perv all your profiles!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't people express a preference without having a go at opposites? "

But I don't think he was saying that all size 10 women are barbiedoll airheads. Just that he'd rather meet someone with a personality and confidence, and that the size of them was secondary. That's how I read it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

Agreed.

But alot of people join sites like this to hopefully boost their lack of self esteem in regards to how they look.

They want people to find them attractive and sexy.

Why do you think snog fuck avoid threads and fab my photos threads etc are always popular?

There's lots of people around with big insecurities regarding their body size shape and attractiveness and look for reasurance in places like this that they are considered to be found attractive.

In the real world you wouldnt dream of walking upto a group of strangers and strip off then say....

What you think ??

Do you think im sexy?

But these types of places and the people in it are here for all manner of different reasons.

And its not just to have casual sex with strangers.

Just my personal thoughts on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't people express a preference without having a go at opposites?

Maybe he wasn't. But my point remains valid for all those who have refered to real women and sticks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand this. Im quite 'big' and curvy and i get guys that i would think are way out of my league messaging. I don't believe them and just think there just desperate.

. Maybe thats more my own issues.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

at my gym the two most good looking guys ...super fit super toned super tanned....push weights all day and most eves....most of u ladies would think wow....as does my wife ....news for you guys ,,,,they both gay ...one is my scaffolder....as js said if only he was not gay ...I would fuck his brains out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because certain looks turn them on, doesn't matter what their body is like, arousal happens in the head, if they stuck their brains in an unfit thirty stone smoker, they'd still fancy you.

Its easily this reason...like it or not our deep programming often kicks in...I'd definitely be a good "she looks fertile and able to feed the offspring " kind of woman.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's only sex. i agree with the don't think too deeply about it.

why doesn't anyone ask why unattractive men feel comfortable enough to approach them? or is it only me who gets those guys?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Exactly, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand it quite easily. They want sex. Some will pick a fat woman because they don't give a toss about body shape, some because they don't care who they fuck, as long as they get a pussy around their cock and some will be attracted to the bulk. The same as non-fit men who don't go to the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile only says curvy

..write out of shape on it and your replies will go down and those really body fit guys will be replaced by a large amount of body fat guys..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Firstly let me say that all women are real whatever their size or shape.

Agreed.

But alot of people join sites like this to hopefully boost their lack of self esteem in regards to how they look.

They want people to find them attractive and sexy.

Why do you think snog fuck avoid threads and fab my photos threads etc are always popular?

There's lots of people around with big insecurities regarding their body size shape and attractiveness and look for reasurance in places like this that they are considered to be found attractive.

In the real world you wouldnt dream of walking upto a group of strangers and strip off then say....

What you think ??

Do you think im sexy?

But these types of places and the people in it are here for all manner of different reasons.

And its not just to have casual sex with strangers.

Just my personal thoughts on it."

Yes, I think you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have always been curvy even when slimmer. I have large breasts and hips. I now have a mum tum too. I have never had a problem getting dates or meeting guys. I am body confident and sexy as hell. The guys I meet are slim as that is my preference. I am not slim, I tell people this before meeting. Men take me out too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found alot of men here do genuinely love a fuller figure. I attend a bbw night and alot of the men are very gym fit. I would take it as a compliment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for people saying they wouldn't want to be seen in a pub with you, quite a few of them don't care about that. Some even invite you to meet their friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually assume they're having a laugh!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"it's only sex. i agree with the don't think too deeply about it.

why doesn't anyone ask why unattractive men feel comfortable enough to approach them? or is it only me who gets those guys?"

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we need to have labels?

Fat,thin,straight,bi,gay,lesbian, Black, white etc etc etc!!!!

At the end of the day we all come into the world the same and all go out the same.

Our bodies are merely vehicles for the journey that is our life.

Just like cars we come in all shapes, sizes, colours, extras. Doesn't mean anyones choice is right or wrong, its just they're preference.

The society we live in has a lot to answer for about how we should act, dress, look.................

I've spent too long beating myself up for the way I look as I don't 'conform' and for what?

Lets just live our lives the way we want, and stop overthinking everything. The only ones missing out otherwise are us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because curvy girls take big cock better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because curvy girls take big cock better."

Why?

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By *laymateMJMan
over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

Nothing wrong with curves or being out of the the 'media perceived' correct body shape.

However, some people are just unhealthy and as someone who works very hard to maintain a level of fitness and health despise anyone who is just plain lazy and unhealthy through their unwillingness to maintain even a basic form of healthy lifestyle. Harsh, but in my opinion fair and it is just my opinion before I get pounced on!

You're just as likely to find a slim person who is a fat unhealthy mess on the inside as a bigger person who is in good shape and health.

Determining the difference on a fab profile can be difficult.

Some people will simply take what they can get when they can get, some people have a preference for a larger woman, other smaller.. no difference to a preference to blondes over brunettes or red heads etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's only sex."

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

One of the nicest men i have ever met a few years ago on here was an athlete in his 20st who i found extremely attractive, he was a bit mysterious and didnt want me to take any photos which did make me wonder why. He kept saying he wanted to see me so i agreed to in the end, he was very affectionate which is unusual. He moved away but contacted me again saying he would like to have been able to meet me again if he could.

Maybe he was a bit shy.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Do you meet these gym guys for a social first, do you like the person behind the physique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh this thread has given me loads of confidence! I LOVE my curves and bust! My bum is quite large and Wish I was taller but otherwise thanks for all your comments!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

It could also be that some young men are slightly shy and they may feel comfortable with an older ordinary woman, even like a mother figure.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I reckon they can have any girl.."

this is wrong also.

you often see gym fit guys complaining they can't get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a belly I love/hate but most men don't bat an eyelash as really, it's my flawless personality wot brings the men flocking loike.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I reckon they can have any girl..

this is wrong also.

you often see gym fit guys complaining they can't get meets."

Yes i had noticed that on here or they cant get meets as often as they want to.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Some like girls that shape.

But just like you see hot women with a tiny troll looking guy on their arm to draw attention to themselves and look hotter, so shall you find guys doing same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon they can have any girl..

this is wrong also.

you often see gym fit guys complaining they can't get meets."
Yes I seen it too. I reckon it is as most are above the league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curvy out of shape mummy reporting for duty

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Also quite a few gym body guys still see the fat dad bod in the mirror, it quite a funny complex where you work out and everyone but you can see the difference.

And as stated some guys just like what they like, some also turn into feeders as when you are counting cals and protien all the time, you just enjoy seeing others eat anything they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mix my choice its what the person is like also personality

Helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because curvy girls take big cock better."

That's just your perception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

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By *laymateMJMan
over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

person what now?

Pretty sure we all know that counts and is important but this thread is more about physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

Yes, I saw someone that did.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

If you change the word curvy in the thread title to curry, it brings on an entirely new meaning

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By *laymateMJMan
over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

Yes, I saw someone that did."

Alright hawk eyes.. no need to show off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

I did

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

No disrespect to you as you're very attractive op but a lot of the guys on here would shag a dog if it winked at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence and personality are so important.

Also I find women of all shapes and sizes attractive. If I really want to fuck someone with huge tits and a big ass that I find attractive that's what I want to do. A week later I may want to fuck a size 6 A cup girl who again I find attractive. Some people have strict types some don't.

Physical and mental attraction isn't a simple linear process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

Yes, I saw someone that did.

Alright hawk eyes.. no need to show off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

person what now?

Pretty sure we all know that counts and is important but this thread is more about physical attraction. "

Some men get all dribbly-mouthed and fetishy about a fat body. It's a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my ex boyfriends have been gym-fit, my last was a triathlete. Some genuinely do enjoy a fuller figure. I'm in no doubt that many guys on here do experiment with different body types. I don't want it to call it "lowering standards".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

person what now?

Pretty sure we all know that counts and is important but this thread is more about physical attraction.

Some men get all dribbly-mouthed and fetishy about a fat body. It's a bit

I remember a guy looking at my thighs as though he wanted to eat them. It was weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see anyone mentioning anything about personality

Yes, I saw someone that did.

Alright hawk eyes.. no need to show off!

Hawk eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy - but definitely not out of shape and unfit - and I attract exactly the kind of guys the OP mentions. I look after myself and often have better stamina than the young men I meet.

I've always believed it's the whole package though that turns a guy on...not just body shape. I've also got plenty of self-confidence, personality, experience and no hang ups about my appearance, which men find sexy.

Maybe primal mating instincts are subconsciously at work, and the hunter/gatherer males lean towards more fertile appearing females? Whatever the reason, I'm certainly not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No disrespect to you as you're very attractive op but a lot of the guys on here would shag a dog if it winked at them"

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question should be why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people would fuck any wet hole. Some genuinely do fancy 'bigger' women.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No disrespect to you as you're very attractive op but a lot of the guys on here would shag a dog if it winked at them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely fancy curvy women and not afraid to admit it..we all have our preference but some hide it behind their ego

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing beats curves on a women.. However you women come in all great shapes and sizes, just learn to love your body and remember that confidence is the biggest attraction...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because curvy girls take big cock better."

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also found alot of gym fit and slim women like chubby men x

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"Interesting responses some good some not so good

Don't know,anyway sometimes we can over think thing's far too much

Perhaps he's messaging you because you're hot! Just a thought

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"Because curvy girls take big cock better.

Really

Wtf lol

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River

Because guys naturally and inherently like curves despite what the fashion industry and media try to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No disrespect to you as you're very attractive op but a lot of the guys on here would shag a dog if it winked at them"

This is so true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're easy.

Simple as. Have spent too many times with guys who were very in shape or very appealing to the opposite sex. Its the same way many of the highly attractive women I met would, ultimately, be dating highly sought after/wealthy men. Its the way its always been and always will be. Social heirarchies exist and dating/sex is ultimately a marketplace.

There are more men on here competing for a smaller pool of women. However, at the same time, Fab dangles the prospect of straight-to-the-point hot and kinky sex. Since most of us men have a sexual appetite we will gladly exchange ideal looks for easy sex.

Those on here desperate to convince themselves that men secretely find "curvy" oh so sexy...a lot of the time they're lying. Especially if its a guy who takes care of his physical appearance. There is an amusing stat which says that 80%+ of partners who lose weight then go on to leave their partners/spouses. People are shallow. Its life. The idea that attractive women are all airheads and bimbos is a lie many tell themselves to make them feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They like variety? "

This

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By *arry442Man
over a year ago

Bucks

"I once asked this of an absolute hottie who was 15 years younger too and he said he'd never thought about it but he liked older curvy ladies. Having known him now for a few years it is true. He doesn't meet slim or gym fit girls. Takes all sorts I guess but good for me

5 miles away? Sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

That may be true for the people that you hang out with, but I'm afraid it doesn't go for everyone. I know beautiful, successful women who are with guys that you'd consider pretty average. I know gorgeous, successful guys who are with women that you'd consider curvy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

A) I have lots of friends who are attractive and don't think any of them are bimbos or airheads

B) I'm not desperate to convince myself of anything

C) mr is not 'gymfit' but is athletic and fit ( he runs every day) and he loves my body (I'm fat with extra big boobs ) . He isn't settling or making do . My body excites him . In fact when we have threesokes he love to day to the other guy how amazing every inch of me is

Mrs

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I don't know why but I'm glad they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most people date within their socioeconomic bracket/interests/occupations so if you do know genuinely beautiful women then they will ultimately be dating men who are likely have some kind of wealth and/or status. I used to believe otherwise until the numbers kinda brought me to a sobering reality.

It's not about stereotypes instead it is about facts. Facts say that men or women who are either active or keep in shape strongly desire partners who do the same. Once again, as someone rightly pointed out, men will fuck anything on here...don't start to think because a man will fuck a big woman that it also means he wants to be seen in public with one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

A) I have lots of friends who are attractive and don't think any of them are bimbos or airheads

B) I'm not desperate to convince myself of anything

Mrs "

We'll it's good that you and your husband have a healthy relationship. But people on here are waaay to quick to start using anecdotal experience as a barometer for everything. Creates the delusion.

I notice guys who struggle on here (being fit is not exactly proof that one will have people clamouring to meet them) will relax their standards alot.. simply due to the NSA nature of the site. But if you're using an NSA site as a gunge of male interest then you're very deluded. Which is probably the reason why so many struggle to transition from swinging back to "vanilla" relations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is some science to bore you

The Measure of attractiveness section on the Wikipedia page below is about body ratios and attractiveness.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waist–hip_ratio

The optimal waist-to-hip ratio appears to be about .70, or when the waist’s width is about 70% of the hips’ width (think of your typical hourglass figure)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

There could be many reasons, those reasons will be different for each hot guy. I don't question there motives when they message me I just say oooh yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is some science to bore you

The Measure of attractiveness section on the Wikipedia page below is about body ratios and attractiveness.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waist–hip_ratio

The optimal waist-to-hip ratio appears to be about .70, or when the waist’s width is about 70% of the hips’ width (think of your typical hourglass figure)"

Lol do you genuinely think people who use the term "curvy" here abide to that stat? 70% will be considered as slim or average on here...not curvy.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"There could be many reasons, those reasons will be different for each hot guy. I don't question there motives when they message me I just say oooh yes please

I question them but it's fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Men are not women. We don't radically change our preferences according to peer pressure...we do based on access and opportunity. No man will not choose a highly attractive woman just because his friends don't approve of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is some science to bore you

The Measure of attractiveness section on the Wikipedia page below is about body ratios and attractiveness.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waist–hip_ratio

The optimal waist-to-hip ratio appears to be about .70, or when the waist’s width is about 70% of the hips’ width (think of your typical hourglass figure)

Lol do you genuinely think people who use the term "curvy" here abide to that stat? 70% will be considered as slim or average on here...not curvy."

In your opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Did I miss the election ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be evolutionary. Curvy girls have wider hips so less risk in childbirth

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Not many women are that fickle either, most of my friends are dating absolute toss pots ones even on here cheating on her, but my opinion hasn't changed theirs

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Yes all but my last ex were gym fit too and I was a much bigger when dating them than I am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The porn industry has larger ladies in some films so there must be a market for seeing larger ladies having sex and probably the same with people wanting to meet larger ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it's a secret fetish. Seriously doubt they would be bragging to their mates about it tho. If you are both happy with the arrangement go for it."

I sometimes think this myself.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Well I've seen it happen so that's what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

Just because a guy goes to the gym doesn't mean he looks like the gym. Funny how many people here claim their exes were super hot and fit and fucked like porn stars. Yet they're single..ano on here. Besides, once again, your evidence is entirely anecdotal.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"It might be evolutionary. Curvy girls have wider hips so less risk in childbirth"

i've had to have c-sections because my pelvis (and that is what needs to be wide) isn't big enough to allow babies to pass through.

so really guys should be going for taller women as they have wider pelvises.

plus midwives don't really like women to be obese as it causes problems monitoring the baby also. they struggle find the heartbeat through all the fat. i've seen that on the wards and heard them discussing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex gfs have all been very curvy and i found them all so attractive. Id much rather that than a size 0! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heard from a bloke that says the bigger women are more aprreciative of a fuck than skinny birds so will put out more often ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debunked my theory lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The porn industry has larger ladies in some films so there must be a market for seeing larger ladies having sex and probably the same with people wanting to meet larger ladies."

Last year BBW porn was wishing the top 5 grossing catagories it makes the industry some serious money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The porn industry has larger ladies in some films so there must be a market for seeing larger ladies having sex and probably the same with people wanting to meet larger ladies.

Last year BBW porn was wishing the top 5 grossing catagories it makes the industry some serious money "

That was probably all me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Well I've seen it happen so that's what I think

Yeah...funny isn't it.

On the forums...looks hardly matter, penis size doesn't matter, men are all secretely searching for girlfriends on here. Yet..somehow the rest of the site seems to show the complete opposite.

A lot of you are really delusional. It's what happens when you spend too long on a sex site and start to think your inbox reflects real life.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

You're single and "hot" whys that?

To be honest reading between the lines I think you speak from a place of deep bias and uniting insecurities. Were you a former fatty by any chance?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I'm attracted to anyone who is comfortable with their own body. Low self esteem is so unattractive..."

Now that is a great reason and exactly what I look for in a man as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less hate. It may be hard to believe but it happens

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"heard from a bloke that says the bigger women are more aprreciative of a fuck than skinny birds so will put out more often ... "

Nah that's the shit picture less profiles always spout to try and cause a stir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most gym goers are massively insecure about their bodies and can pic more faults with themselves than you ever could. For me personally a woman's shape has no bearing on how attractive she is. It comes down to their confidence, the way they carry themselves and for some unknown reason curvy girls always seem to have beautiful faces,

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think it's because they're not as shallow as they are made out to be or feel the need to because of peer pressure

Well I've seen it happen so that's what I think

Yeah...funny isn't it.

On the forums...looks hardly matter, penis size doesn't matter, men are all secretely searching for girlfriends on here. Yet..somehow the rest of the site seems to show the complete opposite.

A lot of you are really delusional. It's what happens when you spend too long on a sex site and start to think your inbox reflects real life. "

You may think you're something special and know everything, but don't you call me delusional.

You know nothing about me, my life or what I know about people.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm attracted to anyone who is comfortable with their own body. Low self esteem is so unattractive...

Now that is a great reason and exactly what I look for in a man as well! "

Yea I've been all sizes from a 10 to a 32 at my biggest and it's only when I've found my self confidence have I started doing far better for myself at attracting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The porn industry has larger ladies in some films so there must be a market for seeing larger ladies having sex and probably the same with people wanting to meet larger ladies.

Last year BBW porn was wishing the top 5 grossing catagories it makes the industry some serious money "

I'm surprised people still pay for it when it's all over the internet for free these days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Some guys go for a pretty face first and foremost and the attached body is a secondary consideration. Some go for personality. Some go for their own preferential combination of traits, both physical and mental. Although I am sure that the law of averages means that there are some guys who might just go for anyone (even if they don't let their prospective meets know that) I'm also pretty sure that to claim the majority fall into that category is to do men on here a disservice. All of the above could just as equally apply to any other gender, couple combination and every body type on fab anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

And why are you assuming that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an older out of shape woman - and I think it's better for my mental health to realise that on a sex site a lot of men ( not all )

Will fuck anyone!

If getting fucked by a hot young man strokes your ego then all is well in the world!

I have times where I use the fact that I've got a vagina to my advantage.

But I want to keep it real!

None of these men want a relationship with me or even be seen in public with me.

But I'm not on Fab for a relationship.

I meet rarely these days because I'm here to forfill my fantasies - not to be a hole for a horny guy who's wife is out

Or for a young gut my who's had too much to drink!

That's what this site is about at the weekend

I'd like to meet an individual or a couple that want some mutual funds that's respectful and not just about fucking a fat bird because he can!

God I'm bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love curvy women!! Not out of shape in my eyes, What the media might make you believe is that being slim is the most desirable body shape! Well trust me it isn't, Everyone has individual tastes on all most everything so it's no different when it come to body shape! Mine has always been busty curvy women. "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The porn industry has larger ladies in some films so there must be a market for seeing larger ladies having sex and probably the same with people wanting to meet larger ladies.

Last year BBW porn was wishing the top 5 grossing catagories it makes the industry some serious money

I'm surprised people still pay for it when it's all over the internet for free these days lol"

A lot of the free sites get income from pop up ads that are somehow related to the movie you aim to view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of thesd curvy out of shape girls can fuck for England.

Not so out of shape after all hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do we need to have labels?

Fat,thin,straight,bi,gay,lesbian, Black, white etc etc etc!!!!

At the end of the day we all come into the world the same and all go out the same.

Our bodies are merely vehicles for the journey that is our life.

Just like cars we come in all shapes, sizes, colours, extras. Doesn't mean anyones choice is right or wrong, its just they're preference.

The society we live in has a lot to answer for about how we should act, dress, look.................

I've spent too long beating myself up for the way I look as I don't 'conform' and for what?

Lets just live our lives the way we want, and stop overthinking everything. The only ones missing out otherwise are us x"

Absolutely love this!!!!! ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you meet these gym guys for a social first, do you like the person behind the physique?"

met one without a social or face pic as I enjoyed his chat..successful meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

You shouldn't assume anything. Also, I don't need to try and convince you. You obviously really believe what you're saying, which is a shame. However, I can only imagine it comes from a place of insecurity as I know extremely muscle-clad guys are much less fawned over, on here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

You're single and "hot" whys that?

To be honest reading between the lines I think you speak from a place of deep bias and uniting insecurities. Were you a former fatty by any chance? "

Since when did I ever say I was single? I have a life outside of here.

I was out of shape actually...years ago. When I was a teenager. Insecurities about weight have died a death. If it makes you feel better telling yourself that though be my guest.

Fact of the matter is...overweight is not mainstream. And that's even less so among those who keep in shape. One of the most frequent desires in a mens fitness poll of desired traits...a women who also took care of her body and exercised regularly was one of the highest.

Are there outliers? Of course they are. Problem is though that fab is a place where people want to treat outliers as rule.

Men on here are at a disadvantage and thus they will lower their standards. The faxt people are denying this is phenomenal...it's the very reason why threads in which most of you sit and complain about "being used" actually exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No disrespect to you as you're very attractive op but a lot of the guys on here would shag a dog if it winked at them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

Now you're getting defensive. Being muscular is currency here. It's attractive to many couples hence why the term "gym fit" exists. Same with penis size. Go on...You're gonna deny that too?

It's not even really an out there...are you going to sit here and claim you're regularly in the gym/sport centre. Fraternizing with those who attend there? Seriously???

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

You're single and "hot" whys that?

To be honest reading between the lines I think you speak from a place of deep bias and uniting insecurities. Were you a former fatty by any chance?

Since when did I ever say I was single? I have a life outside of here.

I was out of shape actually...years ago. When I was a teenager. Insecurities about weight have died a death. If it makes you feel better telling yourself that though be my guest.

Are there outliers? Of course they are. Problem is though that fab is a place where people want to treat outliers as rule.

I actually quite pity you for you poor attitude towards your fellow man

And no the securities are still there I can see them after all I was right about you being out of shape wasn't I? You might want to work on that little more and you may find fab takes on a new prespective for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh this thread has given me loads of confidence! I LOVE my curves and bust! My bum is quite large and Wish I was taller but otherwise thanks for all your comments!"

Awesome!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering has anyone been to a bbw night at a club before?

I have been to a few and there's always nice looking girls and the guy seem to like the girls that go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

You're single and "hot" whys that?

To be honest reading between the lines I think you speak from a place of deep bias and uniting insecurities. Were you a former fatty by any chance?

Since when did I ever say I was single? I have a life outside of here.

I was out of shape actually...years ago. When I was a teenager. Insecurities about weight have died a death. If it makes you feel better telling yourself that though be my guest.

Are there outliers? Of course they are. Problem is though that fab is a place where people want to treat outliers as rule.

You are entitled to your opinion but you when you make statements such as 'most of you ' it just undermines it. Unless you've collated stats please don't use words like most or majority

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

Now you're getting defensive. Being muscular is currency here. It's attractive to many couples hence why the term "gym fit" exists. Same with penis size. Go on...You're gonna deny that too?

It's not even really an out there...are you going to sit here and claim you're regularly in the gym/sport centre. Fraternizing with those who attend there? Seriously???"

Well I don't go to the gym but I have a cross trainer in my living room andyes it gets used daily it's why I've gone from a size 32 to an 18, but of course I'm still fat so none of that can be true hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do we need to have labels?

Fat,thin,straight,bi,gay,lesbian, Black, white etc etc etc!!!!

At the end of the day we all come into the world the same and all go out the same.

Our bodies are merely vehicles for the journey that is our life.

Just like cars we come in all shapes, sizes, colours, extras. Doesn't mean anyones choice is right or wrong, its just they're preference.

The society we live in has a lot to answer for about how we should act, dress, look.................

I've spent too long beating myself up for the way I look as I don't 'conform' and for what?

Lets just live our lives the way we want, and stop overthinking everything. The only ones missing out otherwise are us x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot believe some of the absolute shite I'm reading in this thread.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

Curvy girls rule !! Love their shape, their walk, their wiggle. Love em !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

Now you're getting defensive. Being muscular is currency here. It's attractive to many couples hence why the term "gym fit" exists. Same with penis size. Go on...You're gonna deny that too?

It's not even really an out there...are you going to sit here and claim you're regularly in the gym/sport centre. Fraternizing with those who attend there? Seriously???"

Oh not defensive, like I said, you obviously truly believe what you're saying. I just completely disagree with you.

Also, yes, I go to the gym most days. I weight train and do HIIT. 7 stone down now. Like I said, don't assume anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an older out of shape woman - and I think it's better for my mental health to realise that on a sex site a lot of men ( not all )

Will fuck anyone!

If getting fucked by a hot young man strokes your ego then all is well in the world!

I have times where I use the fact that I've got a vagina to my advantage.

But I want to keep it real!

None of these men want a relationship with me or even be seen in public with me.

But I'm not on Fab for a relationship.

I meet rarely these days because I'm here to forfill my fantasies - not to be a hole for a horny guy who's wife is out

Or for a young gut my who's had too much to drink!

That's what this site is about at the weekend

I'd like to meet an individual or a couple that want some mutual funds that's respectful and not just about fucking a fat bird because he can!

God I'm bored!"

I kinda agree with this. I actually despise a lot of the fat shaming I see in the mainstream media. BUT...people here really get carried away by the idea that because they open their legs then it magically means all of these men will actually value theit company beyond their vagina.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

This thread has a lot of drivel and crap in it.

Men like different things. Obviously some will go for the easy fuck. Some won't.

The irony of berating those who use anedoctal references and doing so yourself is lost on some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have a regular playmate who was very popular on the London swing scene. He was referred to us by a mutual friend from Fab. He looked like he'd stepped out of a Hollywood movie. He really chased me, and I never understood what this young fit stud saw in me. I was particular embarrassed when my husband showed me the photos he'd taken. The contrast of this beautiful honed body with me with my belly hanging down. Needless to say I'm more within my comfort zone playing with men my own age with a cozy dad's bod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're easy.

Of course, there will be men on here who spin a yarn to get a woman into bed. I have no doubt about that.

Saying definitely, that ALL men think ALL fuller-figured women are easy is a bit like saying that ALL muscle-clad men are steroid-taking, tiny-willied idiots... Surely you don't agree with that!?

I spent some time on various fitness forums in reddit with plenty of desirable people...you would be surprised by how "shallow" many were. I've been to a few gyms too and seen the couples who attend.

Most of my ex-boyfriends have been gym-fit attractive guys, and we also went out in public. Shock! Horror! I've also been to gyms, believe it or not.

Soz Malcom, I just debunked your theory

Quite frankly...I don't believe you.

I am going to assume I know far...far more people who regularly exercise than you do. But go ahead and convince me that your experience is diametrically opposed to reality

Now you're getting defensive. Being muscular is currency here. It's attractive to many couples hence why the term "gym fit" exists. Same with penis size. Go on...You're gonna deny that too?

It's not even really an out there...are you going to sit here and claim you're regularly in the gym/sport centre. Fraternizing with those who attend there? Seriously???"

Also, many ladies like myself who are bigger, are under no illusion that many guys aren't necessarily into our body shape, but would still ask for a meet. However, you're assuming that this is the same for ALL men and measuring them with your standards.

I wonder, if you're so highly in demand, why you're not verified yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think curves does not mean out of shape! Have many sexy slim girls with curves! Also I see on here without offence obese girls calling themselves curvy!

I personally don't like fit gym guys! I like a bit of Daddy bud!But we all have different tastes! Is not a proven fact that they really like it,or they just want to empty their sacs!

I always see while out ,fit people with fit people! Not saying doesn't have couple her or him out of shape with someone extremely fit.just my opinion.

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