FabSwingers.com forum: So many time wasters..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We get loads of shit messages, but have been lucky and not had anyone stand us up let.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Starting to give up

must be us or the area!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our message filters and the way we've worded our profile has more or less eliminated the shit messages. In fact we get very few messages full stop. No we have never knowingly come across a timeswaster. Had meets fall through usually due to sickness but only ever from people we knew well and those meets were rescheduled.

Mrs

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Happens to us all! I have had 1 no show this year (he forgot apparantly despite it being arranged the day before), one who wanted to meet under the pretenice it would be the weekend and then cancelled on the day only to try and rearrange on days that doesn't suit me, and someone who I thought I could trust who just strung it along....so that is three pretence cases this year alone, no wonder I have given up on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of appalling messages and of course there are going to be people who think it's OK or even funny to mess somebody about and lie .

Be grateful that you are not like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lovely profile! Hmm must just be bad luck and we are changes settings now! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

Yes!! Had loads tonight. I don't get it. Just be up front about it. Too many fantasists and fake profiles on here.. we still believe you should be photo verified from when you first open an account. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure do lol used to it by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of crap messages but I've never been let down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I massively agree that everyone should be verified and have public pictures before allowed a account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down twice by single guys. All mouth n no balls

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

This is why I only meet in clubs, doesn't matter if they don't show, I just carry on with my night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I massively agree that everyone should be verified and have public pictures before allowed a account "

We take the view that if someone doesn't have public photos or is verified that's their problem not ours. Its not like our paths are ever going to cross.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I massively agree that everyone should be verified and have public pictures before allowed a account "

I'd leave then and I'm perfectly genuine.

I don't get let down any more. Time wasters are part of Fab so Ive developed strategies to them out

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Oh forgot to say, my first two meets were socials only, my 'trusted' meet was after several sexual prior meets who I know now was playing mind games and will no longer be getting a 2nd chance

In fact all 3 have been black balled

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Oh forgot to say, my first two meets were socials only, my 'trusted' meet was after several sexual prior meets who I know now was playing mind games and will no longer be getting a 2nd chance

In fact all 3 have been black balled

sounds painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I massively agree that everyone should be verified and have public pictures before allowed a account "

Member's for a year and zero veries....

Hmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time but that's just seems the joys of being a submissive TV on here. A lot of the so called couples are just single men saying wife out etc etc.And when you ask for photos they run away to rejoin as someone else or block you

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Probably because 99% of the site are single men and you make it very clear that they have absolutely zero chance if they message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one last night from a couple who did all the arranging picking the pub to meetin the time to meet us and all the bull shit about what they would be wearing only to fail to show up at all followed by a message to say 'oops we fell asleep' Before we could message them back they blocked us lol .

We had as we always do these days a back up plan and ended up having a great night in Paradise hotel .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all the time for me!

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Shit messages from single guys, fake or dodgy couples are just part of the game. We just ignore, block or let it go. But in all fairness there are plenty of great genuine couples and lovely single guys on here and in the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

You've been on over a year and haven't got one meet verification, how come? Its not that hard for s couple to get a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoot them all lol if people been on site for a while n no meets we dont entertain them but saying that even verification is not a bullet proof way to do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shoot them all lol if people been on site for a while n no meets we dont entertain them but saying that even verification is not a bullet proof way to do things "

The couple who failed to show for us last night have 12 varies showed face pics and came across as genuine before they blocked us and left us standing like a couple of lemons in the pub lol.

O well onwards and upwards as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not until you put a meet request up that you realise how many people just don't read the profile.

Very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shoot them all lol if people been on site for a while n no meets we dont entertain them but saying that even verification is not a bullet proof way to do things

The couple who failed to show for us last night have 12 varies showed face pics and came across as genuine before they blocked us and left us standing like a couple of lemons in the pub lol.

O well onwards and upwards as they say."

Definitely their loss

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Had several no shows. Now they don't get a second chance, don't care what excuse they come up with (genuine or fake). They've wasted my time once they won't do it again

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

that's called calling there bluff if you suspect picture collector daydreamer keyboard wanker you just ask for a lunch time social very early in the chat long before any overt flirty behaviour .

two things happen they say ok and start negotiating dates or they run away,

no time wasted that way or should i say very little time wasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

Yes.

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By *oretta and SebrinaCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Rubery

Best yet- couple wanted a meet. Told them it was too far. 'we don't mind, we will come to you.'

Okay, did all the arranging, asked what time.?

'you be at ours around 12.

But...you are coming to us? I ask.

'Oh we don't travel ' was the reply....

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been chatting to a woman for like 3 weeks messaging non stop today is the day to meet she's stopped messaging lol I knew she was a timewaster that's why didt get hopes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

that's called calling there bluff if you suspect picture collector daydreamer keyboard wanker you just ask for a lunch time social very early in the chat long before any overt flirty behaviour .

two things happen they say ok and start negotiating dates or they run away,

no time wasted that way or should i say very little time wasted

This

I find once you mention meeting up quickly the majority soon stop chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears you can't name and shame on here, but we've been told of a great idea,

You can pass the names onto10 freinds and ask them each to tell 10 of there friends now there's an idea.

A few names will then regularly begin to appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

It happens to us blokes too believe it or not... that's why I'm looking for something different these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

We get a lot a shit messages; one liners, one worders, obvious not read the profilers....

But that's what the delete button is for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 time wasters last week. Its slim pickings at the best of times this far North.

Trips South on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be nice to have the chance to read a shit message or mess someone about , had loads of chat and fun when on here as a couple a three of years ago and now as a single guy I mostly get ignored , would love the chance to not let someone down lol but no offer's , unless you count the endless messages and interest from the guys on here and that includes the so called strait and married ones.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Anyone else just get shit messages and people that bail out when it comes to meeting..

Yeah... Lots of them about on here....

Hard to spot as some are all nice with messages....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people log on to pal when there half cut ...or stoned ..probably don't even remember what they typed.

Its not hard tho is it ....read there veris . Even message one of there veris checking there genuine ...ask for a mobile number . Speak on the phone . Meet for coffee first bka bla bla

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We don't get any shit messages, we rarely get any, so even time wasters messages are precious

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