FabSwingers.com forum: Selfie pics with untidy rooms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It always makes me laugh when you see a pic on here and you can see the mess under there bed!! Some people still live like teenagers lol!! For some reason it becomes a distraction from the main image for me. I expect it's my ocd coming out. Anyone else feel the same??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh yes,it's a crime I tell ya,a crime! Or should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it I can spot behind you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse when the toilet is in the background with a wee in it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it always makes me laugh that there is always a post about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it I can spot behind you ? "

a heap of messy towels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the level of mess. If it's just a tiny bit of clutter when someone's caught sight of themselves in a mirror and thought "fuck it", I don't mind. But if it's a room covered in all the clothes they've tried on for hours to get the shot, tut tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

And that makes you laugh?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"It always makes me laugh when you see a pic on here and you can see the mess under there bed!! Some people still live like teenagers lol!! For some reason it becomes a distraction from the main image for me. I expect it's my ocd coming out. Anyone else feel the same??"

I kinda like it as I zoom in and have a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of yours has distractions from the main image

Some of ours have also but then if someone don't want to meet us because of something they see in the background then no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

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Big pet hate of mine is this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always zoom when I see untidy rooms.

I'm a nosey fucker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messy rooms says a lot about a person

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

My biggest pet hate is messy background pics or towels draped over doors

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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Hmmm, just going to check my pics! I may be guilty of this crime, I apologise in advance! I promise you my house is normally neat and tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messy rooms says a lot about a person "

What does it say do you think?

Apart from they are obviously a messy person

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Messy rooms says a lot about a person "

It says they have nothing better to do than tidy up ... I have a man for that job, on his day off, its untidy

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I hate a messy background too but what I hate more so is a toilet in the background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

THIS drives me crazy. I literally can't continue talking to someone who can't tell the difference between there and their or your and you're.

I shouldn't really worry cos I'm not on here to have a pen pal but it's just one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oopsie haha I normally take photos of myself when I'm in between outfits hence the mess

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

THIS drives me crazy. I literally can't continue talking to someone who can't tell the difference between there and their or your and you're.

I shouldn't really worry cos I'm not on here to have a pen pal but it's just one of those things.

'Cos' lol

H x

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By *5happycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tooting / dept 23 France

I can't bear the pics that are out of focus or you spend 10 minutes trying to work out which body part(s) you are looking at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh feck.I best tidy before I take my next pic

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i moved my cupboards around in my bedroom and found a used condom behind my drawers.

sometimes it's the things you can't see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree -love to see nice settings / rooms some people do themselves a big injustice by putting certain pics on. A lot of the time less is more .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

Guess you're dyslexia intolerant then?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I agree though that some pics tell a story in themselves

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

*checks pictures for background mess* it bothers me more now than it used to. I got told off by a guy on here for having a cluttered book shelf and a card board box on top of my chest of drawers.

I walk into a room and start tidying now. Picked a pal up from work today, went into his living room and started picking up rubbish and dirty socks. The poor lad had been at work all day and my actions made him feel the need to tidy up xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty untidy looking backgrounds I always think of the person being lazy and that goes for their personal hygiene also too.

Rightly or wrongly thats the impression that I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now going to look at my pics and check for any mess

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I always take a picture of the area I hope to be in, then check the background. Sound time consuming, but it is worth it.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

More on dating sites than fab for me.

But I do like scrutinising the background of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty untidy looking backgrounds I always think of the person being lazy and that goes for their personal hygiene also too.

Rightly or wrongly thats the impression that I get.

I tend to think super-tidy people are anally retentive, slavishly disciplined and most probably so unable to think for themselves that they have accepted the work-ethic hook, line and sinker - and that sends my boner right into the ground!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messy rooms says a lot about a person

What does it say do you think?

Apart from they are obviously a messy person

Lol funny guy, just be careful not to sit on the hamster under the pile of clothes/rubbish

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Oooops guilty

. Must make an effort to tidy up and declutter before I take photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interestingly enough, the original meaning of the word 'slut' was a lazy, slovenly woman. So I guess all you guys who like their women 'slutty' will just have to put up with the mess in their photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interestingly enough, the original meaning of the word 'slut' was a lazy, slovenly woman. So I guess all you guys who like their women 'slutty' will just have to put up with the mess in their photos."

Yes hence the term "dirty slut"

For whatever reason people assume it means someghing sexual

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Stay away from spelling critiquing, it'll kick off....

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Why do most guys have to take a photo in bathroom and also too many cock pics on profiles

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Our latest pic is massively guilty of this!

We're usually pretty tidy, but I've tried to crop out most of it and I think she's distracting enough from the mess

;o)

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By *illyTroubleWoman
over a year ago

shefford

"It also makes me laugh how many adults can't spell

THIS drives me crazy. I literally can't continue talking to someone who can't tell the difference between there and their or your and you're.

I shouldn't really worry cos I'm not on here to have a pen pal but it's just one of those things.

I have to agree...bad spelling is a huge turn off. I've been known to correct them!

Oops!

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By *illyTroubleWoman
over a year ago

shefford

"Dirty untidy looking backgrounds I always think of the person being lazy and that goes for their personal hygiene also too.

Rightly or wrongly thats the impression that I get.

I'd give you the wrong impression then!!

Reality my house is too small for all my possessions having had to downsize from a 3 bed to a 1!!

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I'm still waiting for someone to zoom in on the CD rack opposite my full length mirror and go "Fuck Off! I'm not meeting a guy who listens to that crap!"

But, for the record, I definitely still live like a teenager and have no plans to change anytime soon.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"Oh feck.I best tidy before I take my next pic

Yes, there is an inordinate amount of lace clogging up your photos x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either push all my messy stuff to one side or crop / blur it out.

Distracts from the subject if the background is more interesting....

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"Our latest pic is massively guilty of this!

We're usually pretty tidy, but I've tried to crop out most of it and I think she's distracting enough from the mess

;o)"

Mission Accomplished

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