FabSwingers.com forum: what you looking for in a FWB?

By *orum Troll OP Woman
over a year ago

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just wondering what people specifically look for in a FWB?

i know some people don't 'look' but obviously you don't just become FWB for no reason...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Someone I enjoy socially as much as sexually who feels the same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to be the full package, i.e. Attractive to us, intelligent, articulate and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends first...then benefits a close second

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By *entleman callerMan
over a year ago

ripon

Someone to dig the allotment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends first...then benefits a close second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I can hang out with before and after the benefits part. So drinks before and pizza in bed after! I'm easily pleased haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone I enjoy socially as much as sexually who feels the same....

Yes this is so for me as well.

Plus time to meet on a regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who can hold a conversation and dirty minded...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We are friends, have great sex, know each other well now, respect, no jealousy. Better than any relationship I have ever had.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

..... and truthful

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Someone who can enjoy a good laugh, conversation and is physically attractive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend .... who is also a job seeker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend in n out of the bedroom someone I can have a drink with before the fun n after lay there chatting n mayb fall asleep then start all over again

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

A " partner in crime"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I can enjoy social time with as much as the fuck time but without any commitments or excessive emotions being involved.

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

A friend first lover a close second

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By *orum Troll OP Woman
over a year ago

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idk why i posted this topic asking that even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I can have a good laugh with and let our inhibitions go. Thats a recipe for a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"idk why i posted this topic asking that even."

I wasn't sure either....surely the clue is in the name.

A friend ( you can go out with and have a laugh with)

With benefits (you can have great sex with no complications)

Kinda sums it up fir me..... just realised I actually have two such, just never thought of it before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, humour, looks and performance

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By *orum Troll OP Woman
over a year ago

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"idk why i posted this topic asking that even.

I wasn't sure either....surely the clue is in the name.

A friend ( you can go out with and have a laugh with)

With benefits (you can have great sex with no complications)

Kinda sums it up fir me..... just realised I actually have two such, just never thought of it before!"

well, there'd be a reason for me doing it, i don't just start making topics.

i just don't know why it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, personality and looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty, personality and looks

Oh! And single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who I connect with personality wise as well as sexually. Someine who is happy to share me without any jealousy issues. Someone who doesn't judge me. Someone who is happy to sit and have a drink/lunch with me. Someone who is happy to exchange a few messages in between meets as 'normal' friends would.

I'm fortunate in that I have found one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

somebody local (ish)

looks well not so important. no size 6/8 please only bigger. with a nice smile

friendship and banter are key. with a kinky side a bonus

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

"Someone who I connect with personality wise as well as sexually. Someine who is happy to share me without any jealousy issues. Someone who doesn't judge me. Someone who is happy to sit and have a drink/lunch with me. Someone who is happy to exchange a few messages in between meets as 'normal' friends would.

I'm fortunate in that I have found one."

That sums it up for me with the addition of someone to go to socials and clubs with.

I too am fortunate to have found such a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rare to find fwb on here

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm fortunate in that I have found one."

All of this plus some...someone who will hang with us even if no play is on the cards, someone to have a laugh with drinking, watching TV, cinema, meals/drinking out, then sometimes nothing happens sometimes we end up a sweaty heap on a drenched bed & most importantly someone that doesn't mind which way it goes because they want our company & we want theirs..

But that's not really an fwb, that's a girlfriend I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as most people I guess. Attraction that goes beyond looks. Someone I'm equally happy hanging out with as I am being naughty.

Trust and honesty are important.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh and a villa in the South of France....and maybe a Ski lodge....too much??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I like, who's on the same wavelength as me, and when I look at them I feel the overwhelming desire to rip their clothes off and lick them from head to toe.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We like the thought of someone being respectful of the fact that we're a family (with kids).

We also like the idea of a friend, someone / people who would be as happy coming over for board games, movies etc, as they are for sex.

And obviously, they'd have to be bi and want sex!!

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