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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " yes we can read | |||
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"Not all babe honest Some of us are half intelligent x" I think the trouble is that the more intelligent of us are only half intelligent!!! | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " Men read by pictures. and when your pic are that good, there is no reason to read i guess. we suffer the same fate | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " thing to do is not judge everyone as the same. some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless. but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away. i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others. but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others. lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it. im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me. | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles thing to do is not judge everyone as the same. some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless. but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away. i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others. but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others. lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it. im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me. " 1 out of 20 might read before messaging | |||
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"Guys reading profiles... ha ha ha ha Mistress x " very disappointing. sorry you think this way about me. | |||
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"Guys reading profiles... ha ha ha ha Mistress x very disappointing. sorry you think this way about me. " It is of course a tongue in cheek generalisation. Not a personal slight. If you do then good for you, you are probably more successful on here. Some cant multitask... and have their hands busy elsewhere (just a suspicion of mine lol). Mistress x | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles thing to do is not judge everyone as the same. some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless. but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away. i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others. but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others. lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it. im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me. 1 out of 20 might read before messaging " sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly. people i meet will tell you different. just because im a single guy makes no difference. i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully. | |||
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"1 out of 20 might read before messaging sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly. people i meet will tell you different. just because im a single guy makes no difference. i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully. " Single Guys Fight Back - The Movie! Unfortunately guys who read an entire profile are rare, so you can't blame people for being a bit ranty. | |||
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"1 out of 20 might read before messaging sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly. people i meet will tell you different. just because im a single guy makes no difference. i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully. Single Guys Fight Back - The Movie! Unfortunately guys who read an entire profile are rare, so you can't blame people for being a bit ranty." The statement is only true if the OP's suggestion that a user's inability to read or pay attention to a profile is a symptom exclusive to the single male - I'm inclined to agree with the responder as I've had my fare share from the other side of the looking glass. | |||
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"there's only a handful of guys that do take the time to read profiles and guess the rest need to go back to reading class lol " i only have a few male friends on here and they are the one that have taking the time to fully read my profile and send a full message not a quick copy and paste one | |||
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"atm my profile clearly say i'll block any one that trys adding me as a friend with out asking or i'll block them and i'm blocking about 15 ppl aday " Damn was just gonna add ya lol Mistress x | |||
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"atm my profile clearly say i'll block any one that trys adding me as a friend with out asking or i'll block them and i'm blocking about 15 ppl aday " Guess how many couples (that I've never had contact with) I delete when they try adding me as friend? and when I point this out via a status message (after usually the 5th one) guess how many try it on? Double the number. Yet not one of them will progress with a "Hello" email (clearly too much hassle am guessing - why should they? I'm a single male: I should be grateful they sent me a friend invite afterall!) | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about " no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about " should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message " then why are you moaning? | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message " Alas, you can't have it both ways. | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message Alas, you can't have it both ways." exactly you either want the guys messaging you or you don't | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch" but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine | |||
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"sorry but some of you are really unhappy. if you dont want single guys a part of the community then you should join a site just for couples. some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems. " Funny thing is I know of a (paid) swing site that intentionally holds its annual site socials at a venue on a night that's couples only - despite the fact the single guys pay one and half times more than a couple,.. and for no extra benefits or features on the site | |||
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"sorry but some of you are really unhappy. if you dont want single guys a part of the community then you should join a site just for couples. some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems. " Often couple bashing too on here but we dont take it to heart. We know that not everyone is guilty of the same sins (well not the same ones as Raisealaff anyway). Single guys are brill. We are only on here to meet them. Try not to take things so much to heart! Mistress x | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine " So how do you know who the real gems are? 1) by letting all guys message you 2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive 3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"? Might it not be easier to: 1) set your filters on 2) go to a social (see meets thread) 3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person. Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me. | |||
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"I always thought guys tried adding as friends when there was a private gallery to perv i mean _iew. Having just sneaked a peek at your profile myself, I can see why they get distracted from reading the profile lol but I do like to read the profile myself, gives you a little insight into the person if written well. That's just me though lol " so did i thats why i put all my pics a public but it didnt stop the adds | |||
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"some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems. " I don't think that word means what you think it means. | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine So how do you know who the real gems are? 1) by letting all guys message you 2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive 3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"? Might it not be easier to: 1) set your filters on 2) go to a social (see meets thread) 3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person. Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me." as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply | |||
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine So how do you know who the real gems are? 1) by letting all guys message you 2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive 3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"? Might it not be easier to: 1) set your filters on 2) go to a social (see meets thread) 3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person. Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me. as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply " Then, seeing as you're taking the time and effort, you've got nothing to complain about: you've by choice adopted a "come one come all" approach. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching " unattractive i'd say. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching " Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply " as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant " "as a single guy" what are you talking about | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant " i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate. i see where your coming from but unnecessary. things in life happen. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from?" thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant " I got the joke | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant I got the joke " yes lol. well im done now. so disapointing some of you see guys like me in a bad way. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way " Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant I got the joke " some don't realise what they have written hehe | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant I got the joke " well i dont and i dont like ppl making jokes about me | |||
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"i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate. i see where your coming from but unnecessary. things in life happen." you got me wrong, just beginning to wonder if OP is infact a bloke. Would a female refer to herself as a single guy?? | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane." i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here | |||
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"i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate. i see where your coming from but unnecessary. things in life happen. you got me wrong, just beginning to wonder if OP is infact a bloke. Would a female refer to herself as a single guy?? " seei thought you was talking about me thats all so sorry about that | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here " Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?" no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " think it is a technical problem with the location of their brain. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?" Oh now that is a spiffing idea! Mistress | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that " Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol Mistress x | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol Mistress x" i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " All the blood rushes from the head... | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles All the blood rushes from the head..." Mistress x | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol Mistress x i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for " In which case, 2 points: 1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want 2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else. | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol Mistress x i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for In which case, 2 points: 1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want 2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else." that is what i do any how when looking just wish i could set fitters to in a simler way | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching Ok, let me phrase it this way: Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?" Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want? Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people". See where am coming from? thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen. You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol Mistress x i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for In which case, 2 points: 1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want 2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else. that is what i do any how when looking just wish i could set fitters to in a simler way " Then...... block single males. Job done! | |||
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching " It does look like you're complaining, especially as this is your second thread along similar lines in as many days. If men are remessaging you and not reading your profile why start threads to increase the hit rate?!! Seems like attention seeking to me! Oh!!! | |||
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"Then...... block single males. Job done!" Poster is male not female, has no intention of blocking single males and is probably getting off on all the cock pics he continues to receive | |||
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant " | |||
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"atm my profile clearly say i'll block any one that trys adding me as a friend with out asking or i'll block them and i'm blocking about 15 ppl aday " Understandable, thats a lazy assed move i hate too, xx | |||
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"my profile states no married or attached men, no under 40s and local to me but yet still get messages from the married/attached, men under 40 and ones not local to me........... so yes quite a few cant read " You are local to some, Scotland is next to England | |||
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles " shame she gone | |||
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"but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine " So not all guys then. I find it so frustrating that people make single guys out to be knuckle dragging morons. Yes there are plenty about. But there are also pleny of couples and single women who behave like prima donnas or can't read a profile either. Just do what the rest of us do, delete them and accept that it's part of being a member on a free site - you get your chancers who don't understand how it works. | |||
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"Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them " Me toooooooo | |||
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"Another negative thread started about single males....... err ****Newsflash**** It isn't just single males who don't read profiles. Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them " No worries, some of us are here for the long haul and it takes more than that to scare us off! | |||
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"Another negative thread started about single males....... err ****Newsflash**** It isn't just single males who don't read profiles. Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them No worries, some of us are here for the long haul and it takes more than that to scare us off! " At times on here I think it is just as well | |||
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"lol talk about single guys not reading profiles...I had a few cpls befriending me only to discover i was a single male.....SHOCKKKKKkkkkkkkkk!-ah well i got to perv the wifes/gf fanny hahhaha" I fking love u pmsl xx | |||
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"lol talk about single guys not reading profiles...I had a few cpls befriending me only to discover i was a single male.....SHOCKKKKKkkkkkkkkk!-ah well i got to perv the wifes/gf fanny hahhaha I fking love u pmsl xx " aye wheres my shag ffs xxxx | |||
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"Not all babe honest Some of us are half intelligent x I think the trouble is that the more intelligent of us are only half intelligent!!!" The trouble is their are many females up their own arses on here and many men who like to creep around these women...be yourself, if others dont like you they can block you...and yes men can read, but lets be fair, if you have your tits out in your profile pic, the mentality is a picture paints a thousand words ie...."i dont like men who are after one thing blah blah blah...oh here you all go, a picture of my big round tits!!!!!! Muwah xxx | |||
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"Op... maybe you should proof read your own profile and see what everyone else is seeing. I am seeing an open invite for every man and woman on here to message you! I do not want to dissect your profile... but seriously think some of it needs attention because it is wreaking of "I'm gonna sleep with the lot of you when I'm good and ready". Sorry mods if you think I have 'nit picked' but the op is moaning about floods of mail. I am just trying to point out that folk are reading the profile and thinking something along the lines of "cor blimey, she'll give out to anyone... I must message her" " Said what I was thinking And the exact reason why I ran the other way, lol. | |||
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