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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it when a guy who meets my mrs for fun yet they wont speak to me ?? makes me laught they know im ok with it hell they even know it turns me on but as soon as they know its not mrs talking on here they go quite lol yet in a club or dogging they all chat to me .. mrs thinks its rude but i just lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely odd, I have a good dialogue with my subs husband we chat, have a laugh and support each other in our efforts, far more rewarding to get along with both parties in a couple in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't engage with people who ignore Pete, we find it rude and it winds him right up!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be that they assumed they were talking to the Mrs from the start of the convo.

My head knows that it could be the Mr I'm talking to when I message a couple, but my cock forgets and I'm sometimes suprised/disconcerted to be told that it's the Mr I'm chatting to

Once I know who it is, then I'll chat happily to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just good manners. If a guy is happy enough for me to enjoy some quality time with his wife, some polite conversation is the least he deserves.

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

..And yet if I go to a club with a lady . The men ask me if they can join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going to shag another mans wife the least you can do is have a chat

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By *ragon-tattMan
over a year ago

runcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the guy, lots will talk to both quite happily online.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

This is something that I've never understood

At clubs I constantly tell guys that if they want to play with a couple then remember there are two people they need to impress !

They can fancy the pants of the lady but ignoring the male is downright rude .... and that is exactly the same on here too

A simple 'you both seem great' is way better than 'come sit on my huge cock' haha

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham

Although not very experienced in this I actually like to talk to both, used to meet with a couple many years ago and the husband was a really interesting guy, used to chat with him online frequently. I don't understand why you would ignore the man.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

No idea it does not worry me in the slightest. Actually if both are into the idea all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get that a lot too the men seem to forget about my partners existence and have to put "your talking to both of us" when they ask who they are talking too it's just rude

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We don't engage with people who ignore Pete, we find it rude and it winds him right up!

Ruby"

Totally agree,we delete messages where it is aimed at just me .Have had it the other way too ,where a woman spoke just to Jack as if I didn't exist.

Miss

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"We don't engage with people who ignore Pete, we find it rude and it winds him right up!

Ruby"

Same. It's more than fine that they're not interested in me sexually, but to completely ignore me is pretty rude in our books.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume I'm talking to both on here as most couples are a team. Just as as happy to chat with guy or gal.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

To be fair in some instances, it might be the couples preferred dynamic that the male half isn't to be involved in choosing partners, but it's probably not the wise move to assume it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair in some instances, it might be the couples preferred dynamic that the male half isn't to be involved in choosing partners, but it's probably not the wise move to assume it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always address both parties if Im going to message a couple as it polite and its the wrong thing to do as it just dam right rude and ignorent

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