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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... Please stop ruining it for all of us genuine and respectful swingers by doing stupid things in messages! ESPECIALLY messaging couples asking if you could "meet the missus whilst the mr is away" and that sort of thing!

Had a meet with a new couple on Fab around my area last night. They've only been on Fab barely 3 days and I was their first meet. Next thing I know in the morning they deleted their profile. Asked them what happened and they said they just got sick of all the idiotic messages from men asking to see only the missus/disrespectful messages/fake "couples profile" messages when it was clearly just a man behind the screen and all that!

Just sick to the back of my teeth now with the dearth of swingers and ever-slimmer chances for single men to get meets on here other than at socials and club meets. Idiots ruin it for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is full of idiots, but there are a few gems also. I. for one, appreciate single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be a way to sort this really ,maybe a common thread where all the fuckwits can be named and shamed and blocked by everyone ?...I don't know the solution but there has to be one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is full of idiots, but there are a few gems also. I. for one, appreciate single men."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you judge everyone by a few people actions then who is really at fault ?

Mrs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Just sick to the back of my teeth now with the dearth of swingers and ever-slimmer chances for single men to get meets on here other than at socials and club meets. Idiots ruin it for everyone! "

Perhaps it's getting you too wound up? I mean worrying what other people are up to is never a good thing.

And, as I've said many times, I don't buy the idiots ruing it story.

Decent guys stick out a mile so, in fact, the idiots do the decent guys a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is full of idiots, but there are a few gems also. I. for one, appreciate single men."

well said

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Just sick to the back of my teeth now with the dearth of swingers and ever-slimmer chances for single men to get meets on here other than at socials and club meets. Idiots ruin it for everyone!

Perhaps it's getting you too wound up? I mean worrying what other people are up to is never a good thing.

And, as I've said many times, I don't buy the idiots ruing it story.

Decent guys stick out a mile so, in fact, the idiots do the decent guys a favour "

*ruining

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"There must be a way to sort this really ,maybe a common thread where all the fuckwits can be named and shamed and blocked by everyone ?...I don't know the solution but there has to be one "

There is, any sensible woman picks the decent guys. And they are easy to spot amongst the dregs

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You need thick skin to be on here, and a sense of proportion. What is wrong with them just deleting the crap messages? Or blocking all single men and doing their own search?

If people want to enjoy this lifestyle they really need to consider using the filters and other tools here to get the best out of the site, instead of running the minute it gets a bit silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiots don't ruin it for everybody, they just ruin it for themselves, people who go UNLOS because of them can't be helped, sensible people ignore the idiots and just get on with having fun.

OP Self promotion by slagging off the competition is never a robust marketing strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be a way to sort this really ,maybe a common thread where all the fuckwits can be named and shamed and blocked by everyone ?...I don't know the solution but there has to be one

There is, any sensible woman picks the decent guys. And they are easy to spot amongst the dregs "

This maybe true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Please stop ruining it for all of us genuine and respectful swingers by doing stupid things in messages! ESPECIALLY messaging couples asking if you could "meet the missus whilst the mr is away" and that sort of thing!

Had a meet with a new couple on Fab around my area last night. They've only been on Fab barely 3 days and I was their first meet. Next thing I know in the morning they deleted their profile. Asked them what happened and they said they just got sick of all the idiotic messages from men asking to see only the missus/disrespectful messages/fake "couples profile" messages when it was clearly just a man behind the screen and all that!

Just sick to the back of my teeth now with the dearth of swingers and ever-slimmer chances for single men to get meets on here other than at socials and club meets. Idiots ruin it for everyone! "

but you have loads of verifications, the newest 20 hours ago...

Id be more convinced about your butt hurt rant if you had been on here a year with no meets under your belt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need thick skin to be on here, and a sense of proportion. What is wrong with them just deleting the crap messages? Or blocking all single men and doing their own search?

If people want to enjoy this lifestyle they really need to consider using the filters and other tools here to get the best out of the site, instead of running the minute it gets a bit silly."

That's true.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's not just single men who are guilty of being idiots on here,some couples are and some single women.

Miss

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it's any consolation, I only lasted a few days before deleting then came back a week later, with a tougher skin, suggest you tell them to do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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but you have loads of verifications, the newest 20 hours ago...

Id be more convinced about your butt hurt rant if you had been on here a year with no meets under your belt... "

That newest verification was left by the couple that got too creeped out and left Fab. Apparently Fab still counts them in the statistics even though they might have gone UNLOS.

And meh. I'm alright myself. It's just that around my area I do see a lot of single male profiles moaning about no meets but it's not like the community around where I am is terribly big either. Thus any newbies who get put off before they have properly discovered the filter functions and tailored their stuff is a pretty big blow against the community around here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's any consolation, I only lasted a few days before deleting then came back a week later, with a tougher skin, suggest you tell them to do the same "

Haha I did. Well on the bright side at least they're still in contact with me privately off site. ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This OP isn't really concerned about the idiots. It is all just a disguised compliment paid to himself.

I don't see why he feels the need to try and portray himself as the figurehead of the perfect male.

It's simple on here, just have fun and don't be horrible. No more, no less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This OP isn't really concerned about the idiots. It is all just a disguised compliment paid to himself.

I don't see why he feels the need to try and portray himself as the figurehead of the perfect male.

It's simple on here, just have fun and don't be horrible. No more, no less. "

Well said !!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This OP isn't really concerned about the idiots. It is all just a disguised compliment paid to himself.

I don't see why he feels the need to try and portray himself as the figurehead of the perfect male.

It's simple on here, just have fun and don't be horrible. No more, no less. "

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Just sick to the back of my teeth now with the dearth of swingers and ever-slimmer chances for single men to get meets on here other than at socials and club meets. Idiots ruin it for everyone! "

Hit the clubs then.

Best night out going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This OP isn't really concerned about the idiots. It is all just a disguised compliment paid to himself.

I don't see why he feels the need to try and portray himself as the figurehead of the perfect male.

It's simple on here, just have fun and don't be horrible. No more, no less. "

Did you get a degree in psychology to pick my brains apart? OR are you just trying to be snarky about my legitimate comment here?

Disguised compliment indeed. HAH. I wonder why would I still need to do that with the amount of verifications I already have.

Nothing good to say, keep jogging kitty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This OP isn't really concerned about the idiots. It is all just a disguised compliment paid to himself.

I don't see why he feels the need to try and portray himself as the figurehead of the perfect male.

It's simple on here, just have fun and don't be horrible. No more, no less.

Did you get a degree in psychology to pick my brains apart? OR are you just trying to be snarky about my legitimate comment here?

Disguised compliment indeed. HAH. I wonder why would I still need to do that with the amount of verifications I already have.

Nothing good to say, keep jogging kitty. "

On one hand you've complained about other single men ruining for everyone and making it difficult for you to get meets and then you say you have no need to pay yourself a compliment as you get plenty of veris. Can't work both ways I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disguised compliment indeed. HAH. I wonder why would I still need to do that with the amount of verifications I already have.

Nothing good to say, keep jogging kitty. "

Didn't mean to touch a nerve However, bragging about verifications probably doesn't help your whiter than whiter reputation you're trying to give yourself.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"There must be a way to sort this really ,maybe a common thread where all the fuckwits can be named and shamed and blocked by everyone ?...I don't know the solution but there has to be one

There is, any sensible woman picks the decent guys. And they are easy to spot amongst the dregs "

Exactly these statements never make sense to me. Surely if every profile was 'perfect' and there were non of these 'idiots' (whatever that means) then it would be even more difficult to get meets and replies to messages.

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