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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bullet dodged. | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I've done that before when someone really catches my eye I read it but perhaps I'm not in a position to write a lengthy reply so unread to reply later on and like you they are straight on it and writing something rude ! ![]() | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly what I did. I had every intention of replying to him and seeing if we clicked but he had to go and have a fit ! As someone said earlier I think I dodged a bullet ![]() | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That was a lucky escape for you and he will be kicking himself more. That should be your test from now on to out the tossers | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's very rare i answer any messages straight away, i discovered a while back that it certainly acts as another filter... The amount of 'true' colours that can come out when having to wait a day or two for a reply is astonishing ![]() | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Means they are flooded with messages and can't keep up. As a couple if we open our mailbox to men we get 100+ messages a day, so dread to think what singles ladies have to deal with. | |||
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"After sending a message I delete sent messages and think nothing more of it if I get a reply then happy days ![]() that's a wise way of working ![]() | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I do this too I tend to wait a good week before responding if I'm interested | |||
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"Now that's rather interesting. You see, if I see that a message I have sent is still unread, yet the recipient has been logging on regularly, I take it that they have absolutely no interest in me whatsoever and / or they may be either fake or a timewaster - and therefore block them - to prevent me from messaging them again. I certainly wouldn't send any message (vile or otherwise) about a message being read and then marked unread or whatever like that. If I see a message has been read, and not deleted, then I consider that they may not be uninterested. Just goes to show how we all use our profiles differently." This also for me ![]() | |||
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"I do it just to annoy you all haha" Seems to be working. ![]() | |||
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"I don't delete any messages, even if I have no intention of meeting the sender. Sally" I agree she a nice lady and a lovely couples since i join they chatted to me. ![]() | |||
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"Now that's rather interesting. You see, if I see that a message I have sent is still unread, yet the recipient has been logging on regularly, I take it that they have absolutely no interest in me whatsoever and / or they may be either fake or a timewaster - and therefore block them - to prevent me from messaging them again. I certainly wouldn't send any message (vile or otherwise) about a message being read and then marked unread or whatever like that. If I see a message has been read, and not deleted, then I consider that they may not be uninterested. Just goes to show how we all use our profiles differently." That's kind of the way I look at it. Deleting makes it pretty clear that there's no interest, I almost always block to make sure I don't hassle again (I can have the memory of a flea). But I do feel that if there's a spark of interest and that's why a message has been left open, even a brief "Frantic you're on my very long long list" reply is simply good manners. Yes a little effort but I really don't see why that should be such an issue! And I have been known to chase once or twice...and that's bitten me on the bum once or twice. My loss but I genuinely don't see why (once the "wannafux" are ed out) being on a swinging site should absolve one from good manners. Signed, grumpy old git ![]() | |||
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"Sometimes I read messages and don't reply immediately. Might be on phone and someone comes over, or on my way somewhere. Plus if someone has the courtesy to read my profile and send a well considered message I like to reply in the same manner which takes time n thought. Sometimes I'm replying and my kid will call or a friend messages. There's always a reason. It's not for the pick of the bunch. " Yes me too, but some people don't understand I have a life other than Fab, then get arsy when you don't reply in 30 mins or so ![]() | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are." That's the sort of self entitlement a lot of the folk here hate. You'll either get a reply or you won't but I guarantee, if you sent the second message telling people to reply, even those considering you will then change their minds. | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are." Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x | |||
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"I'm sure it's already been said, deal with the people that reply - that's it. I may pick up and read a leaflet posted through my letterbox, then leave it on the side for 2 weeks to go out with the recycling. If someone's interested they'll reply. I don't understand the fascination or drama in trying to read into someone not replying. Seems pretty obvious to me?? - if you said hello to someone at a bar and they turned around and just stared at you, how long do you sit there before you think they do t want to speak? Move on. D" Great way of looking at it, I'm just imagining lots of women in a pub looking at one guy and he's just waiting for a reply... | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are. Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x" I'm digging in on this one. A delete, cool. Gals get lots of messages. Copy and paste no thanks are polite but if you're too busy I have no probs with a delete. But if there is a basic spark of interest, basic manners count. I'm sorry, call me old-fashioned but manners matter. Nothing whatever to do with being entitled. | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are. Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x I'm digging in on this one. A delete, cool. Gals get lots of messages. Copy and paste no thanks are polite but if you're too busy I have no probs with a delete. But if there is a basic spark of interest, basic manners count. I'm sorry, call me old-fashioned but manners matter. Nothing whatever to do with being entitled. " So why is a delete ok but not an ignore? They might not say no thanks because it opens them up to questions like 'why?' And 'am I not your type? What is your type?' Etc and abuse.. I speak from experience as people have really said this to us ![]() | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are. Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x I'm digging in on this one. A delete, cool. Gals get lots of messages. Copy and paste no thanks are polite but if you're too busy I have no probs with a delete. But if there is a basic spark of interest, basic manners count. I'm sorry, call me old-fashioned but manners matter. Nothing whatever to do with being entitled. " Oh it so is. If the reader of your message finds you attractive and wants to meet you, they will make contact. That contact may be immediate or weeks later and it is not up to you to demand when. Send your message and then just move on, you'll get a reply or you won't, but as I said previously, you risk alienating people of you tell them they must reply. | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are. Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x I'm digging in on this one. A delete, cool. Gals get lots of messages. Copy and paste no thanks are polite but if you're too busy I have no probs with a delete. But if there is a basic spark of interest, basic manners count. I'm sorry, call me old-fashioned but manners matter. Nothing whatever to do with being entitled. Oh it so is. If the reader of your message finds you attractive and wants to meet you, they will make contact. That contact may be immediate or weeks later and it is not up to you to demand when. Send your message and then just move on, you'll get a reply or you won't, but as I said previously, you risk alienating people of you tell them they must reply." even if you delete you often get someone messaging again asking 'i'm not for you then?' | |||
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" 30 minutes isn't the issue...it's a couple of days or more. I'll sometimes send a 2nd message saying "please reply if only briefly OR delete/block, I won't mind a bit". Maddening when that is opened but not acted on! On the pizza flyer point....I tend to hope I'm more appealing than Dominos. My pizzas certainly are. Ffs just assume that if you don't get a reply they're not interested. Why do men believe they're entitled to a reply? H x I'm digging in on this one. A delete, cool. Gals get lots of messages. Copy and paste no thanks are polite but if you're too busy I have no probs with a delete. But if there is a basic spark of interest, basic manners count. I'm sorry, call me old-fashioned but manners matter. Nothing whatever to do with being entitled. Oh it so is. If the reader of your message finds you attractive and wants to meet you, they will make contact. That contact may be immediate or weeks later and it is not up to you to demand when. Send your message and then just move on, you'll get a reply or you won't, but as I said previously, you risk alienating people of you tell them they must reply. even if you delete you often get someone messaging again asking 'i'm not for you then?'" Yeah that's also true. Some people just don't get the message ![]() | |||
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" I try to get round that by blocking if I'm deleted. Totally valid point. And it's not as though I'm expecting Yes Pleases. Simply a Hi thanks for that, busy here, will say hi when i have time. And for all those who say But I'm so busy...you've got time to post on here ![]() i am busy posting on here. sorry i don't devote my time to men i don't have any interest in. | |||
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" I try to get round that by blocking if I'm deleted. Totally valid point. And it's not as though I'm expecting Yes Pleases. Simply a Hi thanks for that, busy here, will say hi when i have time. And for all those who say But I'm so busy...you've got time to post on here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() I usually wait till they have gone off line then delete. usually stops them coming back with A WHY! ![]() | |||
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"Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know...." Overly undernumbered!!! My head nearly exploded trying to process that lol | |||
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" I try to get round that by blocking if I'm deleted. Totally valid point. And it's not as though I'm expecting Yes Pleases. Simply a Hi thanks for that, busy here, will say hi when i have time. And for all those who say But I'm so busy...you've got time to post on here ![]() Your self entitlement is showing. | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Most women on here are shallow as fuck, they're always looking for better! | |||
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"If women dont delete a message immediately but leave it unanswered...does it meant they are not interested or just considering other offers....Would be a good one for us overly undernumbered guys to know.... ![]() ![]() ![]() single women who want a lot of sex are always going to be looking for more, not necessarily better, because men tend not to want a lot of sex and are always looking for the next fuck. i've dropped my standards and regretted it coz lesser looking guys seem to be just the same as the better looking ones. | |||
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