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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past... "Perhaps to see is anyone daft enough to fall for it or just posted for reactions  | |||
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"I almost wrote off my mates Nova SRI when we was young lads............... Ahhhhhh I get it, STI..... No sorry I have never owned an motorbike either" SRI I'd rather admit to an sti  hehee | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past... "Why should it matter? | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past... "Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once? | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past... "yes everyone knows that if you've ever been unlucky enough to have an sti it automatically makes you unclean and unsafe for life  | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
yes everyone knows that if you've ever been unlucky enough to have an sti it automatically makes you unclean and unsafe for life "And of course that 30,000 members of fab will read it and throw up into their copies of the Daily Mail... before blocking you | |||
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"Fortunately non. Although a nasty swelling and burning after an encounter... Turned out I've a latex allergy" Ouchy! | |||
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"I think all those Subarus were a bit dodgy to be honest; the gearboxes and differentials on the road cars are notoriously weak........(blatant lads' joke to lighten the thread) "Are they? I never knew that! | |||
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"I've been lucky enough to not have caught one yet.
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"Fortunately non. Although a nasty swelling and burning after an encounter... Turned out I've a latex allergy Ouchy!" Very | |||
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"Fuck it i'll admit it, i got the same off my ex husband when we first started dating (i was 21) since then ive been super super cautious of making sure before i do bb with a partner we both go for a screening and in all the time i played before i met him and after ive never caught anything.. It taught me a lot and its made sure im never embarrassed about sexual screenings, smears etc " I cought a sti off my then husband its how i found out he was fucking other women I can hear the block buttons from here  | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?"Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc | |||
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"I think all those Subarus were a bit dodgy to be honest; the gearboxes and differentials on the road cars are notoriously weak........(blatant lads' joke to lighten the thread)
Are they? I never knew that! "Yep, the boycers think they've bought a rally car, so go off to carparks to do doughnuts like Ken Block, and then it's 'Oh dear'..... | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"Ordeal of sti clinics?! You should be going to those anyway! | |||
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"I almost wrote off my mates Nova SRI when we was young lads............... Ahhhhhh I get it, STI..... No sorry I have never owned an motorbike either SRI I'd rather admit to an sti hehee"nothing wrong with the sri..although only sti I have had was a type r version x | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"So you don't go for regular checks anyway? | |||
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"I think all those Subarus were a bit dodgy to be honest; the gearboxes and differentials on the road cars are notoriously weak........(blatant lads' joke to lighten the thread)
Are they? I never knew that!
Yep, the boycers think they've bought a rally car, so go off to carparks to do doughnuts like Ken Block, and then it's 'Oh dear'..... "Bloody hell! Scratch them off my "cars to get" list. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
Ordeal of sti clinics?! You should be going to those anyway! "some people think they dont need too | |||
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"Fuck it i'll admit it, i got the same off my ex husband when we first started dating (i was 21) since then ive been super super cautious of making sure before i do bb with a partner we both go for a screening and in all the time i played before i met him and after ive never caught anything.. It taught me a lot and its made sure im never embarrassed about sexual screenings, smears etc I cought a sti off my then husband its how i found out he was fucking other women I can hear the block buttons from here "Haha how i found he cheated.. why i stayed i dont know! Lol oh they can block away if they dont have the intelligence to know its been treated, gone and clear for god knows how long then they arent worth knowing lol! | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
Ordeal of sti clinics?! You should be going to those anyway! "What they said and its hardly an ordeal in any way shape or form | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
So you don't go for regular checks anyway? "May shock and surprise some people on here that not all men just sleep with anyone and regularly therefore having a need to go regularly is just a waste of time. If you regularly sleep with different partners then yes carry on going regularly | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"so how do you know you dont have a sti if you never go through the ordeal of sti clinics? id say you are a higher risk than anybody who has cough something in the past and as a result goes for regular tests not all sti's have symptoms and condoms are not 100% | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past... "Because, apart from two notable exceptions, all STIs are easily cured by antibiotics these days. having Chlamydia once doesn't mean you have it always. The only STI I've ever had I didn't know about until I got tested, so no symptoms whatsoever. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
So you don't go for regular checks anyway?
May shock and surprise some people on here that not all men just sleep with anyone and regularly therefore having a need to go regularly is just a waste of time. If you regularly sleep with different partners then yes carry on going regularly "if your having sex your at risk its that simple you can sleep with one person a year and get a sti | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
So you don't go for regular checks anyway?
May shock and surprise some people on here that not all men just sleep with anyone and regularly therefore having a need to go regularly is just a waste of time. If you regularly sleep with different partners then yes carry on going regularly "You don't have to sleep with just anyone and regularly, it only takes a trusted partner to cheat and pass something on.... | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"You're on here and you don't get tested regularly? How do you know you don't have one already? They don't always show symptoms. I'm more likely to block someone so cavalier about their sexual health than someone who at least gets tested and treated. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
So you don't go for regular checks anyway?
May shock and surprise some people on here that not all men just sleep with anyone and regularly therefore having a need to go regularly is just a waste of time. If you regularly sleep with different partners then yes carry on going regularly "^^this is what i was getting at. | |||
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"I think all those Subarus were a bit dodgy to be honest; the gearboxes and differentials on the road cars are notoriously weak........(blatant lads' joke to lighten the thread)
Are they? I never knew that!
Yep, the boycers think they've bought a rally car, so go off to carparks to do doughnuts like Ken Block, and then it's 'Oh dear'.....
Bloody hell! Scratch them off my "cars to get" list."I wouldn't be so quick to do that. There are still some good ones out there x | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
So you don't go for regular checks anyway?
May shock and surprise some people on here that not all men just sleep with anyone and regularly therefore having a need to go regularly is just a waste of time. If you regularly sleep with different partners then yes carry on going regularly "if your having sex you should be tested.. protected or not x | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
so how do you know you dont have a sti if you never go through the ordeal of sti clinics? id say you are a higher risk than anybody who has cough something in the past and as a result goes for regular tests
not all sti's have symptoms and condoms are not 100%"I didnt say I have never been did I. Just because I say ordeal does mean I have never been so before expressing your un wanted views on me and thinking I am more at risk read what I am actually saying | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why should it matter? "you know what folk are like clem, ok with the flu and cold and other infections and stuff to be talked about but these std's are mucky horrible things that should never be mentioned and nobody here has ever had one. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
so how do you know you dont have a sti if you never go through the ordeal of sti clinics? id say you are a higher risk than anybody who has cough something in the past and as a result goes for regular tests
not all sti's have symptoms and condoms are not 100%
I didnt say I have never been did I. Just because I say ordeal does mean I have never been so before expressing your un wanted views on me and thinking I am more at risk read what I am actually saying "We are. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"what ordeal? it's easier than going to your g.p. i suddenly trust your sexual health alot less for some reason | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why should it matter?
you know what folk are like clem, ok with the flu and cold and other infections and stuff to be talked about but these std's are mucky horrible things that should never be mentioned and nobody here has ever had one."Absolutely there's some good peeps here. But alot of people are "above all that". | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why should it matter?
you know what folk are like clem, ok with the flu and cold and other infections and stuff to be talked about but these std's are mucky horrible things that should never be mentioned and nobody here has ever had one.
Absolutely there's some good peeps here. But alot of people are "above all that". "you dont even have to have multiple partners to catch an sti so i never understand people who say they dont need tests because they dont sleep about When i cought my sti i was married and i had only had sex with my husband since we met, sadly he couldn't say the same, he had been sleeping about unprotected and bought it home to me, as a married couple we didn't use condoms Nobody is above catching a sti and only having a few partners will not protect you | |||
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"STIs are common and usually treatable but because it's on your bits it makes you disgusting. If you had the flu on your bits you'd be seen as dirty by society. In fact the flu is more contagious than a lot of other more 'dirty' infections. I have HSV type 1. That's coldsores to anyone who doesn't know. You wouldn't avoid somebody who had once had a cold sore, would you? But seeing as I caught hsv type 1 on my bits it's dirty.. even though it's exactly the same virus as your great aunt Delilah gave you when you were a kid. I'll never understand the logic of some people. " Plus flu has killed far more people than AIDS etc. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc"I'd rather sleep with somebody who once had an sti than somebody who won't bother with the gum clinic.... | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
Ordeal of sti clinics?! You should be going to those anyway! "He thought that was an "i'm a good clean boy" response and has instead activated the "this guy never gets checked" block filter | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though. "Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why should it matter?
you know what folk are like clem, ok with the flu and cold and other infections and stuff to be talked about but these std's are mucky horrible things that should never be mentioned and nobody here has ever had one.
Absolutely there's some good peeps here. But alot of people are "above all that".
you dont even have to have multiple partners to catch an sti so i never understand people who say they dont need tests because they dont sleep about
When i cought my sti i was married and i had only had sex with my husband since we met, sadly he couldn't say the same, he had been sleeping about unprotected and bought it home to me, as a married couple we didn't use condoms
Nobody is above catching a sti and only having a few partners will not protect you"I agree. I've had sex with one female swinger. And thats where i caught my STI. I was lulled into the "I'm not a real swinger, i don't meet many men". Myth! | |||
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"STIs are common and usually treatable but because it's on your bits it makes you disgusting. If you had the flu on your bits you'd be seen as dirty by society. In fact the flu is more contagious than a lot of other more 'dirty' infections. I have HSV type 1. That's coldsores to anyone who doesn't know. You wouldn't avoid somebody who had once had a cold sore, would you? But seeing as I caught hsv type 1 on my bits it's dirty.. even though it's exactly the same virus as your great aunt Delilah gave you when you were a kid. I'll never understand the logic of some people. " dirty bitch! giz a kiss | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
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"Fuck it i'll admit it, i got the same off my ex husband when we first started dating (i was 21) since then ive been super super cautious of making sure before i do bb with a partner we both go for a screening and in all the time i played before i met him and after ive never caught anything.. It taught me a lot and its made sure im never embarrassed about sexual screenings, smears etc I cought a sti off my then husband its how i found out he was fucking other women I can hear the block buttons from here "(Mrs) Me too, I was 22 and caught chlamydia from my partner whom I'd just had a baby with, he had been fucking around behind my back. | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
"Caught it from a woman. I've never wondered that either. I don't meet with prejudiced people of any sex though. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?"It wouldnt, only if you had hiv or herpes, even then people dont like to admit they caught something. | |||
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"STIs are common and usually treatable but because it's on your bits it makes you disgusting. If you had the flu on your bits you'd be seen as dirty by society. In fact the flu is more contagious than a lot of other more 'dirty' infections. I have HSV type 1. That's coldsores to anyone who doesn't know. You wouldn't avoid somebody who had once had a cold sore, would you? But seeing as I caught hsv type 1 on my bits it's dirty.. even though it's exactly the same virus as your great aunt Delilah gave you when you were a kid. I'll never understand the logic of some people. Plus flu has killed far more people than AIDS etc." I think I'd be more pissed off if somebody gave me the flu than Chlamydia or something.. I don't have the energy to deal with the flu | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
Caught it from a woman. I've never wondered that either. I don't meet with prejudiced people of any sex though. "gerraway a man could never catch anything from a woman we all know straight sex is invincible | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?"Yes seriously I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man Or do you want me to draw you some pictures  | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
"Lol, by that logic you could say that men shouldn't meet women because they also get STIs. Unfortunately it seems that people are not only very judgemental about STIs, but are also a bit hazy about what they actually are. | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though. " | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures "yes, i'd like pictures please | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
Caught it from a woman. I've never wondered that either. I don't meet with prejudiced people of any sex though.
gerraway a man could never catch anything from a woman we all know straight sex is invincible "Oh well. Brought a few out didn't it.. | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
Ordeal of sti clinics?! You should be going to those anyway!
He thought that was an "i'm a good clean boy" response and has instead activated the "this guy never gets checked" block filter "Utter nonsense response. Infact an ex cheating partner who was sleeping behind my back gave me an sti so dont tell me about being clean. And do you really think I am bothered who blocks me.. I couldnt give a damn. Thanks for your views... block me all you like | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
It wouldnt, only if you had hiv or herpes, even then people dont like to admit they caught something."Soooooo many people carry the herpes virus in one form or the other (I'm only talking hsv-1 and -2 here, not chicken pox etc) whether it be oral or genital. A lot of people never know they have it, especially if you have a strong immune system. My first attack of herpes was when I was working 16 hours a day at a gig.. so I was tired, and I had a cold, and I was stressed. Fuck knows who I got it from, or even when. You can get it as a kid and not have sores until you're being made redundant in your 40s.... I'd be willing to bet that half the people on this thread have herpes. | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures "Of course you have not STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
Lol, by that logic you could say that men shouldn't meet women because they also get STIs.
Unfortunately it seems that people are not only very judgemental about STIs, but are also a bit hazy about what they actually are."Come on! What have i told you about trying to use "logic".. | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please "In 3d or sketches? | |||
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"Why would you put on a sex site or anywhere any sti's you caught in the past...
Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
You're on here and you don't get tested regularly? How do you know you don't have one already? They don't always show symptoms.
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WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
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Why would it be any different to saying you had flu once?
Because I rather catch flu than an sti and go through the ordeal of sti clinics and results etc
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Yes seriously
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
Lol, by that logic you could say that men shouldn't meet women because they also get STIs.
Unfortunately it seems that people are not only very judgemental about STIs, but are also a bit hazy about what they actually are.
Come on! What have i told you about trying to use "logic".."Sorry, forgot where I was for a moment there. | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do
I think you would understand more if I told you in pictures "its ok im not three i understand the English language so an explanation will do | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
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WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
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WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point. "Finger puppets would be appropriate. | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
ah ok seems we do want pictures "i'd quite like some...see if it gets the point over because so far the words are just baffling me and making little sense | |||
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Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
ah ok seems we do want pictures
i'd quite like some...see if it gets the point over because so far the words are just baffling me and making little sense "I've a feeling the pictures won't make much sense either. .. | |||
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"Are you telling us that you've never been with a man that's been with a woman that's been with a bi man? That bi man could have passed an sti to a straight woman who could pass it to a straight man who could pass it to you. Being a bisexual man doesn't make you more likely to get an sti... maybe 50 years ago or whatever when aids was a 'gay man's disease'... but times have changed... men sleep with men who sleep with other men who sleep with women who sleep with other women. Nobody is safe. | |||
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WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point. "she does not have a point thats why shes trying to make out we are to stupid to understand so need pics to show us, a cop out we call it back home | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
Finger puppets would be appropriate."fingermouse explains s.t.i's! | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do
I think you would understand more if I told you in pictures
its ok im not three i understand the English language so an explanation will do "You might understand the English language but I still think pictures will be best in your case | |||
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"Funnily enough women are more likely to get STIs due to the, erm, invasive nature of sex. However its only slightly higher, and I am as likely to get a STI from a straight bloke as from a bi bloke. because they are both blokes. I definitely got mine from a straight bloke." It wasn't me then! I'm massively bent, and riddled with disease! | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
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Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do
I think you would understand more if I told you in pictures
its ok im not three i understand the English language so an explanation will do
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"Funnily enough women are more likely to get STIs due to the, erm, invasive nature of sex. However its only slightly higher, and I am as likely to get a STI from a straight bloke as from a bi bloke. because they are both blokes. I definitely got mine from a straight bloke. It wasn't me then! I'm massively bent, and riddled with disease! "No it wasn't you, unfortunately.  | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
Are you telling us that you've never been with a man that's been with a woman that's been with a bi man?
That bi man could have passed an sti to a straight woman who could pass it to a straight man who could pass it to you.
Being a bisexual man doesn't make you more likely to get an sti... maybe 50 years ago or whatever when aids was a 'gay man's disease'... but times have changed... men sleep with men who sleep with other men who sleep with women who sleep with other women. Nobody is safe. "but as long as they FEEL safe then it's ok ignorance as they say is bliss, and some on here as blissfull as i've ever seen | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
she does not have a point thats why shes trying to make out we are to stupid to understand so need pics to show us, a cop out we call it back home "It's not a cop out and you mentioned the word stupid I let you figure it out and then you can explain it to everyone why bi sexual men are at higher risk of catching a sti by having unprotected sex | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
she does not have a point thats why shes trying to make out we are to stupid to understand so need pics to show us, a cop out we call it back home
It's not a cop out and you mentioned the word stupid
I let you figure it out and then you can explain it to everyone why bi sexual men are at higher risk of catching a sti by having unprotected sex
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
Finger puppets would be appropriate.
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I've met many bi men and never cought anything off of any of them, you are of no highet risk of catching something like chlamydia off a bi man than a straight man, it can also be passes from woman to woman if you share toys and dont put condoms on them "Your head will get sore, if you keep on banging it against the wall. Step Away. | |||
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"Come on people. Grow up. OP is totally right in opening up this discussion thread. Shame how many idiots crawl out of the woodwork! " Come on, it's Clem, it's a lighthearted post | |||
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"This forum thread just goes to show how many swingers are still surprisingly immature and ignorant about sexual health issues, and how many still wrongly stigmatise STIs as though they were the mark of the Black Death or something like that. I'm just drop-jawed in absolute bewilderment at people who would even dare suggest that anyone admitting to having an STI or having a close shave with one is suddenly going to be PNGed in the Fab swinging community. Condoms are not 100% foolproof protection against STIs, and certainly not all STIs need fluid transmission in order to spread (how do you explain herpes or genital warts/cold sores or crabs then?). We are all swingers. It is merely a game of probability and statistics that the more partners we have sex with, protected or otherwise, the higher the chances are of us potentially catching something. So unless you are abstinent or you only have sexual contact in your life with one person ever (in both cases you probably wouldn't be on Fab), this whole demonisation and pussyfooting around the topic of STIs and personal sexual health histories does nobody any good. Come on people. Grow up. OP is totally right in opening up this discussion thread. Shame how many idiots crawl out of the woodwork! " *Applauds* | |||
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"It's ppl that are in denial they can catch anything are usually the ones that do
Any sex acts have risks and the more aware ppl are of them the better" 100% this ... and pre joining fab and swinging i was one of these people ... not so much outright denial as something that had never happened up til now, and something i thought "would never happen to me"
Joined fab a few years back and at the beginning was mostly safe bar literally one time with one regular person i "trusted" ...(yep just like teen pregnancy it only takes one time folks ) big mistake! It also later turned out the person knew and never had the decency to tell either me or the other partners he passed it to
No symptoms and just by luck caught quite quickly as joining fab made me think i should have more regular checkups ... one dose of antibiotics and thats it gone but the lesson learned definitely stays with you! (I may have been a tad dramatic at the shock of it  )
No longer am i safe "most of the time" its now 100% of the time and even outwith fab i wouldnt stop using condoms in a monogomous relationship until we had both been tested ... something i would never have considered an issue before ... i also get regularly tested now because im no longer niave enough to think that condoms are 100% prevention ... luckily i havent had any further issues
I think actually in general the swinging population has a much better attitude to the prevention and reality of stds ... i dont think it was a lack of education or knowledge of actual stds on my part before ... i knew these things existed and how you get them ... i think its more a cultural "yeah but i don't sleep around so this doesnt really apply to me" thing that needs to be somehow tackled in sex ed when people are young ... i will bet my life that a large number of the non swinging community bumble along oblivious thinking they can trust peoples word much like i did before ... the focus on here and threads like this actually help to educate people to the reality of the dangers ...
further down the line once the shock wore off i am glad i learned my lesson with something pretty minor and completely treatable ...
People can feel free to block away but it wont make me less honest about what i think was a valuable lesson
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
she does not have a point thats why shes trying to make out we are to stupid to understand so need pics to show us, a cop out we call it back home
It's not a cop out and you mentioned the word stupid
I let you figure it out and then you can explain it to everyone why bi sexual men are at higher risk of catching a sti by having unprotected sex
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"This forum thread just goes to show how many swingers are still surprisingly immature and ignorant about sexual health issues, and how many still wrongly stigmatise STIs as though they were the mark of the Black Death or something like that. I'm just drop-jawed in absolute bewilderment at people who would even dare suggest that anyone admitting to having an STI or having a close shave with one is suddenly going to be PNGed in the Fab swinging community. Condoms are not 100% foolproof protection against STIs, and certainly not all STIs need fluid transmission in order to spread (how do you explain herpes or genital warts/cold sores or crabs then?). We are all swingers. It is merely a game of probability and statistics that the more partners we have sex with, protected or otherwise, the higher the chances are of us potentially catching something. So unless you are abstinent or you only have sexual contact in your life with one person ever (in both cases you probably wouldn't be on Fab), this whole demonisation and pussyfooting around the topic of STIs and personal sexual health histories does nobody any good. Come on people. Grow up. OP is totally right in opening up this discussion thread. Shame how many idiots crawl out of the woodwork! *Applauds* " I second this applause | |||
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It's not all that light hearted. I'm sick of the stigmatism, the Ill informed 1950's views over sexuality, the "not in my back yard" attitude. The shear number of ostrich. I'd call it unbelievable. But it isn't.
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"Oh yes, I found out when I got vaccinated for Hep B that I'd already had it (they found antibodies when they tested my blood for HIV & syphilis). I caught it from my daughters father, who caught it when he was travelling in India as a lad. By some people's attitudes I am a disgustingly filthy woman. I would love to know how they think I could have prevented that." By those people's atittudes those who catch similar stuff from infected needles or blood transfusions would be equally stigmatised upon. They're just Puritan idiots! | |||
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and it makes a good point about the swinging community. I think swingers are well educated and matter of fact about such issues. However, let's look at fab. Let's call membership 100,000. How many are lifestyle swingers? How many are on the rebound looking for the next mr/mrs right? How many are just singles wanting to hook up? I'd say the swingers are in the minority. So be careful, whatever that means to you. But don't come round here the your daily mail holier than thou attitude and associated prejudices! | |||
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It's not all that light hearted. I'm sick of the stigmatism, the Ill informed 1950's views over sexuality, the "not in my back yard" attitude. The shear number of ostrich. I'd call it unbelievable. But it isn't.
"Ok, I guess I saw it as lighthearted because I don't have issues about it, in that people get them and that's life. Being careful helps but one never knows. | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently" Quite possibly just one wrong partner. | |||
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Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do "I am going to be devils advocate here and argue her case (a little) and then cancel it out haha If you are jo(anna) bloggs average single lady on the street then having UNPROTECTED sex with a bisexual man is higher risk of std transmission than having unprotected sex with a straight man ... based purely on the statistics though rather than his sexuality The bisexual community are statistically more promiscuous upping their chances and anal sex has less natural lubrication which can make some thing easier passed i believe (this is all assuming the bisexual man and the straight lady are never using protection to reduce their risk HOWEVER given people in the swinging community are already in a higher promiscious group... they already have that law of averages against them which basically negates the added risk from the bisexual man being statistically more promsiscous Add a layer of protection (condom) on top of that and really it matters not a not wether you sleep with gay, straight, man, woman ... you have reduced your risk again Obviously this all goes on averages and you could meet a "slutty" straight man than never plays safe and has everything going or you could meet a "prudish" bi man always safe and never had anything ... not everyone fits a statistic so basically as long as you protect yourself it shouldn't matter what sex or sexuality you meet in regards to std risk | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted " Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina. | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina." Eeewww | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina." Well, I've certainly learnt something new today! | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently" I had pre cancerous cells removed back when i was an angel and had a very boring sparse sex life so if thats what the doctor told you they talk rubbish! Lots of sex and or partners can maybe increase your chances but its not a direct link ... a bit like these people who smoked their whole life and reach 100 while others never smoke a day in their life can get lung cancer in their 50s | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina. Eeewww "bit of a schoolboy reaction? | |||
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"If anyone who's never had an STI wants to give it I try, I'm riddled. "And the award for the sexiest 'who wants a fuck?' post goes to... | |||
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina. Eeewww
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"I had HPV had to have the coloscopy and laser cells removed not pleasant by any means not exactly an sti but get it from having too much sex and too many partners apparently I always think its a tad unfair that women seem to hatch a lot more STIs than men. I had Trichomoniasis when I was 18, which is a STI that women just develop but unfortunately can pass on. Men get it too. Its a parasite and sexually transmitted Men can get it because women transmit it. But women can have it without it being transmitted to them. Its caused by a parasite in the vagina. Eeewww
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do
I am going to be devils advocate here and argue her case (a little) and then cancel it out haha
If you are jo(anna) bloggs average single lady on the street then having UNPROTECTED sex with a bisexual man is higher risk of std transmission than having unprotected sex with a straight man ... based purely on the statistics though rather than his sexuality
The bisexual community are statistically more promiscuous upping their chances and anal sex has less natural lubrication which can make some thing easier passed i believe (this is all assuming the bisexual man and the straight lady are never using protection to reduce their risk
HOWEVER given people in the swinging community are already in a higher promiscious group... they already have that law of averages against them which basically negates the added risk from the bisexual man being statistically more promsiscous
Add a layer of protection (condom) on top of that and really it matters not a not wether you sleep with gay, straight, man, woman ... you have reduced your risk again
Obviously this all goes on averages and you could meet a "slutty" straight man than never plays safe and has everything going or you could meet a "prudish" bi man always safe and never had anything ... not everyone fits a statistic so basically as long as you protect yourself it shouldn't matter what sex or sexuality you meet in regards to std risk "It doesn't matter if I'm statistically in a high risk group. It's the fact she WRONGLY assumed I'd caught it from a man! That's what's wrong. | |||
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"My worst STI is my Russian STI tier 9 Heavy tank in WOT. When I first started playing this tank with the stock gun couldn't penetrate anything it was useless. However things have changed now I can penetrate any tank in the game. "I thought Russian Bias was still stronk in WOT? :p Or has Wargaming been slacking off? Hahaha. Fellow gamer here. WoWS though! | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
Of course you have not
STIs dont care about sex, how is a guy more likely to catch chlamydia from a man than a woman, no pictures needed just an explanation will do
I am going to be devils advocate here and argue her case (a little) and then cancel it out haha
If you are jo(anna) bloggs average single lady on the street then having UNPROTECTED sex with a bisexual man is higher risk of std transmission than having unprotected sex with a straight man ... based purely on the statistics though rather than his sexuality
The bisexual community are statistically more promiscuous upping their chances and anal sex has less natural lubrication which can make some thing easier passed i believe (this is all assuming the bisexual man and the straight lady are never using protection to reduce their risk
HOWEVER given people in the swinging community are already in a higher promiscious group... they already have that law of averages against them which basically negates the added risk from the bisexual man being statistically more promsiscous
Add a layer of protection (condom) on top of that and really it matters not a not wether you sleep with gay, straight, man, woman ... you have reduced your risk again
Obviously this all goes on averages and you could meet a "slutty" straight man than never plays safe and has everything going or you could meet a "prudish" bi man always safe and never had anything ... not everyone fits a statistic so basically as long as you protect yourself it shouldn't matter what sex or sexuality you meet in regards to std risk
It doesn't matter if I'm statistically in a high risk group. It's the fact she WRONGLY assumed I'd caught it from a man! That's what's wrong. "Assuming just makes an ass of you and me
Wasnt saying i agree and actually also gave reasons why i dont ... was just trying to show where the theory comes from ... and it was at terrence higgins during all the pre check up chat that i was told this ...
However i take your point about the stigma she has attached to it | |||
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"My worst STI is my Russian STI tier 9 Heavy tank in WOT. When I first started playing this tank with the stock gun couldn't penetrate anything it was useless. However things have changed now I can penetrate any tank in the game.
I thought Russian Bias was still stronk in WOT? :p Or has Wargaming been slacking off? Hahaha.
Fellow gamer here. WoWS though! "Yeah it's one of my best ones. Lol | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet " Perhaps he asked so he knew weather to get some or not. How do you check people's sexual history from real life? IE people not off fab? | |||
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
Finger puppets would be appropriate.
fingermouse explains s.t.i's!
Didnt it change its name to Finger Bobs??
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"For me its been chlamydia. By fuck! That stings when you piss!
Impressed with how quick the tablets work though.
Then you wonder why women on here don't like meeting bi sexual men
WTF?
seriously?
Yes seriously
I have more chance of catching a sti from a bisexual man
Or do you want me to draw you some pictures
yes, i'd like pictures please
In 3d or sketches?
however best explains your point.
Finger puppets would be appropriate.
fingermouse explains s.t.i's!
Didnt it change its name to Finger Bobs??
Oooh I'm not sure...maybe. either way there's a future in sex ed now the telly career has dried up " | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet " fucking hell. | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet " Perhaps swinging isn't for you. Not with this level of ignorance and fear. | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet Perhaps swinging isn't for you. Not with this level of ignorance and fear. " I'm NOT a swinger! | |||
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"Maybe he thought if you had them already, he wouldn't need to bring them???" No he dosent have any or carry any to meets he told me. Obviously he dosent care about his health | |||
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"I had one 2 years ago, Although after reading up on it and what I was told it wasn't necessary due to having sex, You can catch it in other ways and the virus was contagious through direct contact and is more common in children, I didn't tell anybody at the time and stopped looking for meets or go out with the intention of meeting women, It lasted for 2-3 months, But with one trip to the clinic and some treatment it went after 2-3 months, It messed with my head for a bit as I commonly thought using a condom was all I needed to be safe, I have mentioned it before on a previous thread about the subject, Maybe people do judge you as I haven't had a meet since, So if you needed another reason not to meet and missed that thread this is your chance to take notes "I'd rather meet someone who has checked and is honest than someone who has their head buried in the sand | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet Perhaps swinging isn't for you. Not with this level of ignorance and fear. I'm NOT a swinger!" Perhaps meeting strangers for sex isn't for you .... expecting men to take care if the details like condoms. It's your health, so you should take responsibility for it, surely? Why 'punish' the man if he is checking if you have condoms. It could be his way checking if you do bareback or not ... | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet Perhaps swinging isn't for you. Not with this level of ignorance and fear. I'm NOT a swinger!" Swap swinging for looking for sex on line and it's tantamount to the same thing whatever the label. | |||
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"There is more unprotected sex going on with swingers And bi sexual men Every other profile is we only do bb Or pics of group sex etc and not a condom In sight Only yesterday i had to cancel a meet because he asked me if I had condoms I have plenty of condoms, why isn't he carrying any condoms with him when he goes to a meet Perhaps swinging isn't for you. Not with this level of ignorance and fear. I'm NOT a swinger! Perhaps meeting strangers for sex isn't for you .... expecting men to take care if the details like condoms. It's your health, so you should take responsibility for it, surely? Why 'punish' the man if he is checking if you have condoms. It could be his way checking if you do bareback or not ... " You don't own me I can do what I like I had condoms he didn't Which bit of I had condoms don't you understand | |||
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