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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to you....?

And you didn't kick him in the nut sack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the sex was so good he had a sudden fear you'd get attached so wanted to remind you he is meeting others. Also he's a bit of an asshole? Unless he intends to invite you along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds insecure

Ruby

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

What a twit! Kick him to the curb girl.

Sounds like he is angleing for a 3some as your Bi. But in that case he should just ask out right and not act like a prick!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I had this from a guy when I ventured back onto the scene and newly single last year. Had met him before when I was on as a couple.

I think it was his warning sign to me I wasn't the only one he saw, in case I turned bunny boiler.

I took the warning and got my sex else where

He sent a few whiny messages after asking to meet. Sorry pal too busy and besides you have other options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

What did you say?

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

And what us your point? You got a meet got sex.... whats your point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

And what us your point? You got a meet got sex.... whats your point?"

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

classic misogynist behaviour slyly putting you down when your venerable after sex by telling you how insignificant you are compared to him .

who is very desirable very sort after at a time when he should be praising you lifting you up making you feel great and wanted . he's to busy lifting himself up while making you feel like just another shag and rather insignificant one to boot .

kick that misogynist prat into touch after you have kicked in the plums what a doush bag .

blue you can and do deserve better .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say he was wanting you to think that your special because he chose you compared to all the millions of others falling at his feet. In fact though he just comes across as an utterly insensitive knob.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Can't wait for the veri

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him if he has a sly habbit ....egotistical blabbering random shit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissistic fuckwit.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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he's like a male version of a cuckoldress?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

classic misogynist behaviour slyly putting you down when your venerable after sex by telling you how insignificant you are compared to him .

kick that misogynist prat into touch after you have kicked in the plums what a doush bag .

blue you can and do deserve better . "

As opposed to the man that whispers sweet nothings, tells her she was the best ever, that her eyes are as deep as a wells and has just had the most amazing full body orgasm to try and keep her sweet even if he doesn't mean it you mean.

People do ramble about inane stuff, he probably just felt relaxed enough to have a laugh about it and thought you might open up about guys that have done the same. Who know what goes through peoples heads.

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

OMG.... and all women are angels..... did he read the rule book on what he was supposed to talk about?

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Narcissistic fuckwit. "

Less of it being about you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was a few years ago, not off here. I just thought it would be interesting what people thought about it.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

OMG.... and all women are angels..... did he read the rule book on what he was supposed to talk about?"

knob alert knob alert

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"It was a few years ago, not off here. I just thought it would be interesting what people thought about it.

I'm surprised he was able to talk at all (take that anyway you like)

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

OMG.... and all women are angels..... did he read the rule book on what he was supposed to talk about?

knob alert knob alert

Yes but is there a pic on the profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It was a few years ago, not off here. I just thought it would be interesting what people thought about it.

I'm surprised he was able to talk at all (take that anyway you like)

Should I be offended?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

OMG.... and all women are angels..... did he read the rule book on what he was supposed to talk about?

knob alert knob alert

Yes but is there a pic on the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of answered with guess they've not met you yet . I've had better.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I would of answered with guess they've not met you yet . I've had better.

Ha "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

What did you say?"

I said "lucky you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this from a guy when I ventured back onto the scene and newly single last year. Had met him before when I was on as a couple.

I think it was his warning sign to me I wasn't the only one he saw, in case I turned bunny boiler.

I took the warning and got my sex else where

He sent a few whiny messages after asking to meet. Sorry pal too busy and besides you have other options

that's the spirit..

play them at their own game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id leave or tell him to - dependant on situation - and inform him to go get on with it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

Pity you didn't realise what a twat he was before he got what he wanted from you

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I think people need to shake their heads a bit, last year we chatted to a lady about a meet, she had, three meets lined up in two days including us. We had two.

To her it was fun & sex & she & we were quite happy chatting about our plans.

So maybe, just maybe your guy thought NSA means exactly that, you wanted to fuck him, he wanted to fuck you? Once this was done why not talk of others you are making plans with if its NSA?

I'm not talking sex chat, more who they are chasing etc.

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Some men are knobs and don't deserve to meet you in the first place. Behaviour like that they're unlikely to get a second

OMG.... and all women are angels..... did he read the rule book on what he was supposed to talk about?

knob alert knob alert

Hahahaha you hero.... someone says something against the norm and they are a knob...

Bravo sir may you never have to cum in a sock again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

Best to avoid small talk after the deed is done. Just say it was lovely, throw his boxers at him and tell him it's time to go...works for me

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I think people need to shake their heads a bit, last year we chatted to a lady about a meet, she had, three meets lined up in two days including us. We had two.

To her it was fun & sex & she & we were quite happy chatting about our plans.

So maybe, just maybe your guy thought NSA means exactly that, you wanted to fuck him, he wanted to fuck you? Once this was done why not talk of others you are making plans with if its NSA?

I'm not talking sex chat, more who they are chasing etc.

my answer to that would be this because its in my opinion disrespectful to discuss who your looking to fuck to the person your looking to fuck .

i come from a world where its very very bad taste and dame right disrespectful to those you interact with to discuss such things or brag about things like,

who you have fucked

who you have turned down

who you looking to fuck

how some one fucks

what turns someone on

what someone's fantasy is

what they wanted you to do to them

what you did do to them and how it turned out.

those things should never be in my opinion shared with a third party they should out of respect for the other person involved stay between only the two people involved ,

in other words who i would like to fuck stays between me and who i would like to fuck, who i have fucked stays between me and them and what went on stays between my and them unless i have there permission to tell.

the same with who i turned down and who turned me down ,

etiquette respect manners they in my opinion dictate to me that the behaviour listed above is unacceptable behaviour in my eyes .

but in the op story the guy in my opinion was clearly a misogynist .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on the way it's said, if it's said in an arrogant way or if they are playing a nasty game. If it's just conversation though it wouldn't bother me. In fact I enjoy and encourage a good chinwag with my playmates about what we've been up to on the swing scene, who we've played with recently etc.

Mrs

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Narcissistic fuckwit. "

Sounds fair to me....

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I agree, nothing was discussed except what plans we have no interest in the ins & outs as it were.

If you believe some ladies do not discuss the hot totty & their plans for them on here you are living in cuckoo land. Also I've overheard more than once ladies discussing guys in clubs, basically advising on "He's good" type conversations..

There is no way in hell we'd discuss what goes on with who, who we'd like to hit it off with though to a like minded open individual then we don't see it as an issue.

Do you honestly not think this goes on between women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds insecure, probably plays a few woman off against each other & likes them fawing over him.

#TwuntAlert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, nothing was discussed except what plans we have no interest in the ins & outs as it were.

There is no way in hell we'd discuss what goes on with who, who we'd like to hit it off with though to a like minded open individual then we don't see it as an issue.

Do you honestly not think this goes on between women?

Of course it does, probably more so between women that are chasing the same men from forums / chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just had amazing sex and you're both laying there head fucked and smiling. Making small talk.

He starts telling you about all the other women that fancy him and what they've said about wanting to fuck him.

What the actual fuck is his point?!?!?

Sounds like his defence mechanism, in case you were thinking of getting too close.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I agree, nothing was discussed except what plans we have no interest in the ins & outs as it were.

There is no way in hell we'd discuss what goes on with who, who we'd like to hit it off with though to a like minded open individual then we don't see it as an issue.

Do you honestly not think this goes on between women?

oh I know they do and I have told off my fair share of women for doing that because lets be honest here most would not like me behaving in that way when it comes to business between me and them .

I'm not pussy whipped you do something I think is disrespectful to me I will politely tell you off for doing it and i will expect a apology .

i treat people as adult no taking behind there backs i just say it to there face no misunderstanding that way they know exactly where we stand on matters that way ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissistic fuckwit. "

Yep...nail on head...should be IN his head

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I agree, nothing was discussed except what plans we have no interest in the ins & outs as it were.

There is no way in hell we'd discuss what goes on with who, who we'd like to hit it off with though to a like minded open individual then we don't see it as an issue.

Do you honestly not think this goes on between women?

oh I know they do and I have told off my fair share of women for doing that because lets be honest here most would not like me behaving in that way when it comes to business between me and them .

I'm not pussy whipped you do something I think is disrespectful to me I will politely tell you off for doing it and i will expect a apology .

i treat people as adult no taking behind there backs i just say it to there face no misunderstanding that way they know exactly where we stand on matters that way , "

In our convo it just came up as we were trying to tie down a time, it was very matter of fact, personally we don't give a toss who someone is meeting as long as they also want to meet us its all good, not like we will be after a wife after all

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