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"Always jolly polite here ans I like a chuckle not confrontation . It's all about having a splendid giggle " And I can't remember a time when you have ever used that in a 'White Knight' way | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here." Women do it as well | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well " True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy | |||
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" I draw the line at publically fawning over strangers though - as is sometimes the case " You don't know that those people who do that are strangers to each other though. They could easily be intimately acquainted, as this is a sex site after all | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy " White knightdress, I think we came up with before. | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy White knightdress, I think we came up with before." must have missed that one | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " This isnt white knighting. White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy " It's much the same with keyboard warrior or point scoring because they disagree with one poster - I think they are just terms that are beginning to be used whenever someone is unhappy about a point. | |||
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"I also draw a distinction between sycophancy and white knighting. Sycophancy is also a bit vomit inducing too." Some love licking arse here and yes its vomit inducing but it do make me smile ... | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy White knightdress, I think we came up with before." That's a new one on me, but then I haven't been here that long. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " That isn't what I class as white knighting | |||
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"White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker" It's particularly amusing when they say something like "his loss, you're gorgeous" when the female profile has only one pic and it's a close-up of a foot. | |||
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"I feel there may be an inverse relationship between how polite people are and how they are in the bedroom " could be onto something there | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Women do it as well True not sure what it is called with women apart from being bitchy White knightdress, I think we came up with before. That's a new one on me, but then I haven't been here that long." It was a tongue in cheek name | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses." Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate" This guy knows !!! | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate" Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? " But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? " Erm...no. I didn't mean I send posts as blatant as my example. I was speaking more generally | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception." You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive?" Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive." I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time" They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. " The exact words were "all women are beautiful" | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " I totally agree! You're soo clever and insightful! | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " Well that's the first I've heard of it,thanks for enlighting me | |||
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"White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker It's particularly amusing when they say something like "his loss, you're gorgeous" when the female profile has only one pic and it's a close-up of a foot." In fairness it could be a nice foot | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here." Pretty much this ^^ I see white-knighting as a public attempt to defend the honour of a fair maiden and slay the enemy in hope of earning the favour of said damsel. It's the internet equivalent of sidling up to a lady in a bar and saying 'excuse me Miss, is this gentleman bothering you?' Many use it as a tool to elevate themselves (in their mind at least) above the 'competition'. It can be very amusing to witness from afar | |||
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"Leaping to the defense of a poor, helpless woman is white knighting. " No its not. Read the whole thread | |||
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"White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker It's particularly amusing when they say something like "his loss, you're gorgeous" when the female profile has only one pic and it's a close-up of a foot. In fairness it could be a nice foot " | |||
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"Leaping to the defense of a poor, helpless woman is white knighting. No its not. Read the whole thread" That's what it should be. On here it's called for all manner of reasons. | |||
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"Leaping to the defense of a poor, helpless woman is white knighting. No its not. Read the whole thread That's what it should be. On here it's called for all manner of reasons. " The term wasnt born on fab...its an internet thing, been around a while. Pretty sure it was born on the misc. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " Polite, funny and flirty are not the qualities of a white knight. A white knight will reply positively to ANY female comment, regardless how stupid or wrong, simply to gain her attention ain the hopes of getting his dick wet. Simple test,just post something blatently dumb and get a male friend to call you out and watch as Mr white knight charges in to argue your cause with flattery and apparent charm. We sadly know several outside swinging,they call themselves male feminists and hang on any female in pubs words in the hope of pulling... yet later are bragging at what they got up to.. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. Polite, funny and flirty are not the qualities of a white knight. A white knight will reply positively to ANY female comment, regardless how stupid or wrong, simply to gain her attention ain the hopes of getting his dick wet. Simple test,just post something blatently dumb and get a male friend to call you out and watch as Mr white knight charges in to argue your cause with flattery and apparent charm. We sadly know several outside swinging,they call themselves male feminists and hang on any female in pubs words in the hope of pulling... yet later are bragging at what they got up to.." best description yet | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. Polite, funny and flirty are not the qualities of a white knight. A white knight will reply positively to ANY female comment, regardless how stupid or wrong, simply to gain her attention ain the hopes of getting his dick wet. Simple test,just post something blatently dumb and get a male friend to call you out and watch as Mr white knight charges in to argue your cause with flattery and apparent charm. We sadly know several outside swinging,they call themselves male feminists and hang on any female in pubs words in the hope of pulling... yet later are bragging at what they got up to.." This is what I'd class as a white knight too | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here." The devil is in the detail | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. The exact words were "all women are beautiful"" All women on here are beautiful - there's software that crashes the computers of ugly women whenever they try to sign up Glad I made it in before they recalibrated it for blokes. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. " You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating. | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. The exact words were "all women are beautiful"" some people genuinely think all women are superior sexually, i think they would find any woman beautiful. the phrase 'all women are beautiful' could also apply to the fact that someone will fancy a woman no matter what she looks like. so they are all indeed beautiful to someone. but we all know neither the above are true, it's still a nice thing to say though. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " I will tell someone to leave it out when ever I think they have crossed a line in how they are questions a fellow human being and passing judgement on them .its in me to be that way its instinctive because i have a strong protectorate streak running through my personality . and of coarse there only response is to say oh your just white knights but that's because a prat is always the last person to realise there a prat | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. I will tell someone to leave it out when ever I think they have crossed a line in how they are questions a fellow human being and passing judgement on them .its in me to be that way its instinctive because i have a strong protectorate streak running through my personality . and of coarse there only response is to say oh your just white knights but that's because a prat is always the last person to realise there a prat " Irony thy name is John | |||
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"I've questioned myself a bit over this if, I'm honest. I imagine we are all trying to present an online image of ourselves, in the hope that we'll come across well, make some nice connections, or even get invited to that gangbang in the Travelodge at Junc 37 on the M6. Have I sometimes written things that I reckon will present me in a good light with women on here-yup. It wasn't really conscious - just an attempt to come across well and highlight my magnificence. I kinda check for it now. I think it's possible to tip over into a situation where all your posts are focused on that. I guess it could get wearing for others if it's overt. It's often in response to somewhat attention seeking starting posts, y'know: "My fanny looks like a badger that's been run over.... No hun, it's gorgeous, you're gorgeous. It looks like it was crafted lovingly by angels and filled with the nectar of the gods". It's no crime though. As for being white knight - I'm sca_ed of horses. Yes but why tell someone theyre gorgeous if theyre not? Surely you dont think ALL women are gorgeous? But they could be gorgeous in their eyes. It's all about personal perception. You really think that its possible to find EVERY single woman attractive? Not at all, but then I've never actually seen or heard anyone say that all women are attractive. I have, more times than i care to cringe at..on forums all the time They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. The exact words were "all women are beautiful" some people genuinely think all women are superior sexually, i think they would find any woman beautiful. the phrase 'all women are beautiful' could also apply to the fact that someone will fancy a woman no matter what she looks like. so they are all indeed beautiful to someone. but we all know neither the above are true, it's still a nice thing to say though." I agree. I can find all women have something about them that makes them 'look' beautiful. But i thought we said attractive. | |||
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"They literally said "every single woman is attractive'? Is that right? If so. Even I find that bullshit. I've seen works of art that are classed as masterpieces that I don't like. The exact words were "all women are beautiful" some people genuinely think all women are superior sexually, i think they would find any woman beautiful. the phrase 'all women are beautiful' could also apply to the fact that someone will fancy a woman no matter what she looks like. so they are all indeed beautiful to someone. but we all know neither the above are true, it's still a nice thing to say though. I agree. I can find all women have something about them that makes them 'look' beautiful. But i thought we said attractive. " the person said beautiful, those were the exact words apparently. i probably should've cropped the quote though. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. I will tell someone to leave it out when ever I think they have crossed a line in how they are questions a fellow human being and passing judgement on them .its in me to be that way its instinctive because i have a strong protectorate streak running through my personality . and of coarse there only response is to say oh your just white knights but that's because a prat is always the last person to realise there a prat Irony thy name is John " | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here." This perfectly said and youve been around these forums long enough to speak from experience Witchy | |||
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" I draw the line at publically fawning over strangers though - as is sometimes the case You don't know that those people who do that are strangers to each other though. They could easily be intimately acquainted, as this is a sex site after all " Doubtful, for all our play, never from peeps from the forums and not from the lack of trying | |||
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"Nothing wrong with being polite, or flirty, or respectful I draw the line at publically fawning over strangers though - as is sometimes the case I also dislike seeing guys knocking other guys as a general statement, purely to get female attention. If a particular guy is being a knob, fair enough, but sweeping statements do nothing but make the writer appear more needy or unable to find other ways to up their own game as opposed to making them chivalrous" | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. This isnt white knighting. White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker" | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. That isn't what I class as white knighting" | |||
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"White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker It's particularly amusing when they say something like "his loss, you're gorgeous" when the female profile has only one pic and it's a close-up of a foot." | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate" | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here. Pretty much this ^^ I see white-knighting as a public attempt to defend the honour of a fair maiden and slay the enemy in hope of earning the favour of said damsel. It's the internet equivalent of sidling up to a lady in a bar and saying 'excuse me Miss, is this gentleman bothering you?' Many use it as a tool to elevate themselves (in their mind at least) above the 'competition'. It can be very amusing to witness from afar " | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. Polite, funny and flirty are not the qualities of a white knight. A white knight will reply positively to ANY female comment, regardless how stupid or wrong, simply to gain her attention ain the hopes of getting his dick wet. Simple test,just post something blatently dumb and get a male friend to call you out and watch as Mr white knight charges in to argue your cause with flattery and apparent charm. We sadly know several outside swinging,they call themselves male feminists and hang on any female in pubs words in the hope of pulling... yet later are bragging at what they got up to.." | |||
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"A white knight isn't just being polite, it is the guy who is trying to curry favour while putting another bloke down. The 'I would never do that to you, he must be some kind of twat, you deserve so much better' guy. The one who is trying to get in your knickers and being creepy about it that is the white knight." | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating." Well said | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. I will tell someone to leave it out when ever I think they have crossed a line in how they are questions a fellow human being and passing judgement on them .its in me to be that way its instinctive because i have a strong protectorate streak running through my personality . and of coarse there only response is to say oh your just white knights but that's because a prat is always the last person to realise there a prat Irony thy name is John " | |||
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"sometimes i agree with people, sometimes i don't. call it what you will i don't care. i don't like the folk who turn up posting on behalf of others and letting us know how hard it is for that poor person, it's quite often guys on behalf of a female friend having a moan at the disrespectful way they've been treat on here. have they? let them post themselves then and stop being a hero." | |||
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"I don't see any problem in being nice and trying to raise a smile... There are people who are paid good money to do this " Politicians ? | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. This isnt white knighting. White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker" My personal favourite is - 'we are all beautiful on the inside!' Hitler? Ghengis Khan? Rosemary West? Peter Sutcliffe? Myra Hindley? I find sweeping statements a bit of a mystery tbh! X | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. This isnt white knighting. White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker My personal favourite is - 'we are all beautiful on the inside!' Hitler? Ghengis Khan? Rosemary West? Peter Sutcliffe? Myra Hindley? I find sweeping statements a bit of a mystery tbh! X" Insightful AND beautiful! | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating." I have never, not would I seek approval for my cheating. I live my life how I please and don't need approval. I may engage in conversation with those who are intellectual enough to realise that life isn't black and white. I don't see politeness and someone voicing an opinion that agrees with mine as white knighting. It is exactly what it is, them voicing there opinion. If you choose to look at if from a different _iewpoint, then of course that is your perogative. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. This isnt white knighting. White knighting is when a guy agrees with every single thing you say. Says things like "all women are beautiful" etc. Which is cringey as fuck Mrs.biker My personal favourite is - 'we are all beautiful on the inside!' Hitler? Ghengis Khan? Rosemary West? Peter Sutcliffe? Myra Hindley? I find sweeping statements a bit of a mystery tbh! X" But someone will of thought those people were beautiful. A parent for example. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate " | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. " you got either the description wrong or you are confusing one type of men for something entirely different... 'white knights' are certain types of men who see a woman in a forum who is generally putting herself down, or is getting unfavourable attention, so they comment by saying that she is lovely and they would meet her and generally blow smoke up her arse... | |||
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"I don't think white knighting is just blokes who are being polite and courteous. It is when they are disparaging about other men in an attempt to court favour with women by defending their 'honour'. In that situation I find it crass, however the term is bandied about far too frequently in an inappropriate way on here." Nail on head | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating. I have never, not would I seek approval for my cheating. I live my life how I please and don't need approval. I may engage in conversation with those who are intellectual enough to realise that life isn't black and white. I don't see politeness and someone voicing an opinion that agrees with mine as white knighting. It is exactly what it is, them voicing there opinion. If you choose to look at if from a different _iewpoint, then of course that is your perogative." I think it clearly ruffles some people's feathers because you don't bite back or rise to the bait on those threads. You are generally calm. Of course you'll gravitate towards people who share a similar opinion on an emotive subject like cheating, a united front to those that don't. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating. I have never, not would I seek approval for my cheating. I live my life how I please and don't need approval. I may engage in conversation with those who are intellectual enough to realise that life isn't black and white. I don't see politeness and someone voicing an opinion that agrees with mine as white knighting. It is exactly what it is, them voicing there opinion. If you choose to look at if from a different _iewpoint, then of course that is your perogative. I think it clearly ruffles some people's feathers because you don't bite back or rise to the bait on those threads. You are generally calm. Of course you'll gravitate towards people who share a similar opinion on an emotive subject like cheating, a united front to those that don't." well said, in exactly the same way that those who share the same opposing opinion gravitate towards each other. It's human nature. | |||
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"When men are polite, funny and flirty in the forums, it's classed as white knighting by others. It's ridiculous and says much more about the personality of those who call it white knighting. I'd much rather have that in the forum than personal attacks, snide comments and insults that are thrown around by others. No they're not its when they're sycophantic, manipulative and simpering. If you can't see through that you're either very naive or every desperate Yes, damn, you've sussed me, I'm desperate. I really struggle to find anyone who wants to meet me Hey ho, it's a tough world. You realise there is more than meeting in the world right? You may not be desperate for meets but you are very clearly desperate for approval of your cheating. And you do nearly always engage with the white knights in your threads about your cheating." what the fuck is this shit | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone...." Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account " Think she is back | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account " Oh I loved her posts. Always so controversial and unique. | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Oh I loved her posts. Always so controversial and unique. " unlike this one then | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Oh I loved her posts. Always so controversial and unique. unlike this one then" Oh completely the opposite to my posts. Obviously. | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Think she is back " Are you allowed to make a new account if you got a lifetime ban? | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Think she is back Are you allowed to make a new account if you got a lifetime ban? " How do you know she got a lifetime ban? | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Think she is back Are you allowed to make a new account if you got a lifetime ban? How do you know she got a lifetime ban?" There was a comment from another member after a thread of hers, which was later removed. She may not have, though... | |||
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"Ah where's playful minx gone.... Guessing either she wasnt as smart as she thought and hubby found out. Or in about 5 days we're going to get a new "controversial" forum poster once the newbie time elapses on her new account Think she is back Are you allowed to make a new account if you got a lifetime ban? How do you know she got a lifetime ban? There was a comment from another member after a thread of hers, which was later removed. She may not have, though... " What a fantastic opinion | |||
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