FabSwingers.com forum: Guys... Opinions needed please...

By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I wouldn't let them go, I'd have to get to know them first

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I wouldn't let them go, I'd have to get to know them first "

Safety would obviously be a major issue we do go dogging together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless they already knew each other and already had that trust

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Depends if the guy/gal is a member on a site that can be vouched for a complete stranger is to to risky

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest"

Some people get off on high risk stuff. If the idea partly appeals, could you compromise and park in visual distance ?

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

"Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest"
whats the dif if its a car or hotel or his or even your own home if anythings gona happen its gona happen where ever unless in a club or somewhere public you can never be 100% safe at least a club you have the safety of others witnessing whats going on either that or you record whats going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, would have to have a social first at the very least. X

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest

Some people get off on high risk stuff. If the idea partly appeals, could you compromise and park in visual distance ?"

No as I'm not free she was going to do a solo meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest

Some people get off on high risk stuff. If the idea partly appeals, could you compromise and park in visual distance ?

No as I'm not free she was going to do a solo meet"

I wouldn't go for that. As a couple you are in a powerful position and able to be very choosy here on Fab, there must be other guys who can accommodate who also fit your other needs?

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Still wouldn't be happy about her meeting a guy in a car verified or not to be honest

Some people get off on high risk stuff. If the idea partly appeals, could you compromise and park in visual distance ?

No as I'm not free she was going to do a solo meet

I wouldn't go for that. As a couple you are in a powerful position and able to be very choosy here on Fab, there must be other guys who can accommodate who also fit your other needs?"

All we were looking for today was local to us and verified but no luck at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be wary of anyone suggesting car meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Too many nutters in the world

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope and tbh wiggles wouldn't anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol"

If I had a wife or girlfriend,

I personally wouldn't be on Fabs.

If, in the context of Fabs & swinging as a couple, and my partner received that request, I'd make it very clear, it wasn't happening.

If, she felt otherwise,

take care and have a lovely life.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

On the whole, no. I am not too keen on higher risk acts. Obviously everything we do carries risk, but some things more so.

However, my opinion may be moot depending on the relationship between the parties. I would also not like to force someone to do/not do something they wanted.

I would put my opinion forward, with the reasons and hope they agreed. If not they I would at least try to suggest some safety precautions we could use...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol"

Why is it any of the guys business?

Surely all that matters is how your partner feels, and the negotiated boundaries between the two of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I'm not free she was going to do a solo meet"

What's the difference between a solo meet in a car and a solo meet in a motel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol"

If your a couple you meet as one so no way id let my wife if i had one lol

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If they were verified I don't think I'd have an issue. Same shit can happen in a car that can happen in a room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redundant question for us as we don't do solo meets. But meeting a total stranger in a car, presumably somewhere remote, is asking for trouble. Some fantasies should stay as fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you should block him . Clearly states on your profile no meets alone . So why would you entertain someone who has not taken the time to read your profile ??

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Seems you should block him . Clearly states on your profile no meets alone . So why would you entertain someone who has not taken the time to read your profile ??"

She felt like doing a solo meet yesterday put local and verified only in status lots of unverified and 40+ miles away responded lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I am a wife.

If I met alone (I don't) I wouldn't meet a stranger in a car, no. If I was a single woman I wouldn't be doing this at all I would be far too scared.

Respect to those who do.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I would usually meet them at a pub first, i did meet a man a couple of times outside a pub to go with him in his van though i had been chatting with him quite a long time, i had a feeling that he was ok, it could be risky though. This wasnt on this site though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total no go unless already met and trusted

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We love dogging, only do it together, no solo meets EVER, when we do go out too play it's locked doors, windows up, we just love being watched, if we decide to do anything more it's only once we trust someone, again never solo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol"

Play together and stay safe!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

no i wdnt be happy if i wasnt to going along to

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"If you had a wife or a girlfriend would you be happy for her to meet a strange guy off the internet in a car somewhere?

Just interested in hearing your views on this as Mrs just had a message about a car meet and no she's not going lol

If I had a wife or girlfriend,

I personally wouldn't be on Fabs.

If, in the context of Fabs & swinging as a couple, and my partner received that request, I'd make it very clear, it wasn't happening.

If, she felt otherwise,

take care and have a lovely life."

We have the opposite view to this...we respect each other's views and have no wish to control each other. In this situation neither of us would want to be involved but that would be our individual choices.

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