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Would a lady play with an ugly bloke if he had a good body

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO. I wouldn't fuck anyone I thought ugly ...either looks or personality.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if i was going for looks i'd need the whole package.

i don't always go for looks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have sex with people I find facially attractive. Doesn't matter what their personality or body is like, if I don't feel attraction to the face, I can't fuck them.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

Body is the last thing on my list of priorities when looking at men, so no.

And looks don't matter to most guys? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. Got to be an attraction facially x

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"NO. I wouldn't fuck anyone I thought ugly ...either looks or personality."
I wouldn't either ..even with a bag over their head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the personality, mental attraction and face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All interesting comments

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't have sex with a women if she had a nice body but not attracted to her face.

The other way around. Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i was going for looks i'd need the whole package.

i don't always go for looks though."

So just his package then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*hopefully enters thread, paper bag in hand*

*slinks back out*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

Really ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

I'm male and couldn't "fancy" a woman just on her body type, have to like her looks and personality also.

Shaz is the same for both guys and laides, she has to be attracted to there looks/body and personality.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't think I could

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

Really ????"
I never said I could, just an observation from my times with friends in pubs and clubs since 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons ugly guy might not be another's though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

Really ????"
I never said I could, just an observation from my times with friends in pubs and clubs since 18

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One persons ugly guy might not be another's though?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as he brings his own bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No iv got to like the look of all of them after all I'd want to kiss them n if I didn't fancy them I cdnt do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as he brings his own bag "

Score!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"as long as he brings his own bag

Score!"

lol, there's nothing wrong with your face.

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i just came back in to reiterate that when i'm not going for looks i still wouldn't fuck someone i don't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as he brings his own bag

Score!

lol, there's nothing wrong with your face.

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i just came back in to reiterate that when i'm not going for looks i still wouldn't fuck someone i don't find attractive."

Nose is weird, eyes bizzarely chinese one more so than the other, look oddly like a grasshopper at times.

And when i laugh or smile i look like a twat.

Its fortunate i look serious 90% of the time as i dont look as retarded thwn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with a few men who are not what most people would consider to be goodlooking. They won me over with big personalities as a result of getting to know them over time. However it's more likely to be the other way round with me. My favourite playmates are usually 'classically' goodlooking, but tend to have 'dads bods'.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"as long as he brings his own bag

Score!

lol, there's nothing wrong with your face.

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i just came back in to reiterate that when i'm not going for looks i still wouldn't fuck someone i don't find attractive.

Nose is weird, eyes bizzarely chinese one more so than the other, look oddly like a grasshopper at times.

And when i laugh or smile i look like a twat.

Its fortunate i look serious 90% of the time as i dont look as retarded thwn lol"

everyone looks like a twat when they laugh, or imbecile. -that's my excuse for being a miserable cunt anyway.

you look fine, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as he brings his own bag

Score!

lol, there's nothing wrong with your face.

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i just came back in to reiterate that when i'm not going for looks i still wouldn't fuck someone i don't find attractive.

Nose is weird, eyes bizzarely chinese one more so than the other, look oddly like a grasshopper at times.

And when i laugh or smile i look like a twat.

Its fortunate i look serious 90% of the time as i dont look as retarded thwn lol

everyone looks like a twat when they laugh, or imbecile. -that's my excuse for being a miserable cunt anyway.

you look fine, really. "

Haha resting bitch face for the win!

Im fine with it tbh i know a lot of people find me attractive or think i look good but genuinely i dont really see why.

I think its cause i look quite differnt to how i did untill i was about 22.

So im still stuck seeing the skinny-fat nerd who could place firt in a harry potter look alike competition

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've played with a few men who are not what most people would consider to be goodlooking. They won me over with big personalities as a result of getting to know them over time. However it's more likely to be the other way round with me. My favourite playmates are usually 'classically' goodlooking, but tend to have 'dads bods'. "
I've definitely got the dad bod these days

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"No. I have sex with people I find facially attractive. Doesn't matter what their personality or body is like, if I don't feel attraction to the face, I can't fuck them. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

Really ???? I never said I could, just an observation from my times with friends in pubs and clubs since 18"

Ahhh beer goggles.

Definitely wouldn't fuck anyone I didn't fancy.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Nice face and dad body for me anyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

Really ???? I never said I could, just an observation from my times with friends in pubs and clubs since 18

Ahhh beer goggles.

Definitely wouldn't fuck anyone I didn't fancy."
haha yes lol x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

I think you will find 90 percent of woman even when it comes to random hook ups are just not that shallow despite what you may be lead to believe when reading some profiles on here .

I've been winked at by female profiles where I clearly don't fit with how they describe they want there man to look and yes I've also played with woman with profiles asking for a guy who I clearly don't look like

there's more to attraction than what's on the outside my experiences clearly prove that .

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"as long as he brings his own bag

Score!

lol, there's nothing wrong with your face.

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i just came back in to reiterate that when i'm not going for looks i still wouldn't fuck someone i don't find attractive.

Nose is weird, eyes bizzarely chinese one more so than the other, look oddly like a grasshopper at times.

And when i laugh or smile i look like a twat.

Its fortunate i look serious 90% of the time as i dont look as retarded thwn lol

everyone looks like a twat when they laugh, or imbecile. -that's my excuse for being a miserable cunt anyway.

you look fine, really.

Haha resting bitch face for the win!

Im fine with it tbh i know a lot of people find me attractive or think i look good but genuinely i dont really see why.

I think its cause i look quite differnt to how i did untill i was about 22.

So im still stuck seeing the skinny-fat nerd who could place firt in a harry potter look alike competition"

it's better not to be a big head and think you're gorgeous and that coz that can seem quite arrogant.

but definitely don't think you're odd or anything, or if you do look 'odd' and not like your pics then still don't worry about it. i noticed in another topic you felt you get treated differently now you've improved yourself aesthetically, listen to that thought a bit more maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter

I think you will find 90 percent of woman even when it comes to random hook ups are just not that shallow despite what you may be lead to believe when reading some profiles on here .

I've been winked at by female profiles where I clearly don't fit with how they describe they want there man to look and yes I've also played with woman with profiles asking for a guy who I clearly don't look like

there's more to attraction than what's on the outside my experiences clearly prove that . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aesthetically challenged man I can say that some women are able (thankfully) to overlook that and still find me attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As an aesthetically challenged man I can say that some women are able (thankfully) to overlook that and still find me attractive "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt sleep with a guy if im not attracted. But this has been tested on here. I like the way a guy chats etc without seeing a face pic, like their personality and then i prob will be more attracted to them, even if i had seen there pic beforehand i prob wouldnt of been intrested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I couldnt sleep with a guy if im not attracted. But this has been tested on here. I like the way a guy chats etc without seeing a face pic, like their personality and then i prob will be more attracted to them, even if i had seen there pic beforehand i prob wouldnt of been intrested. "
loving these answers my threads producing x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I couldnt sleep with a guy if im not attracted. But this has been tested on here. I like the way a guy chats etc without seeing a face pic, like their personality and then i prob will be more attracted to them, even if i had seen there pic beforehand i prob wouldnt of been intrested. "

i've been doing this with dating. figured we should be compatible on more than a physical level. i've been pleasantly surprised by the guys as well, they were well good looking. did think they'd not be what with having no pics themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive.."
lol so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be an odd man out (nothing new there then lol).

I'm not sure that I've ever been too concerned about looks...I have a preference for cuddly women...but other than that...I'm not sure...Like most I do only play with ladies who attract me insane way. I have played with ladies who some would say attractive and also with ladies who some would say aren't attractive..I found that all of them had something that attracted me...But I don't have the faintest idea what it was...Other than it wasn't about looks I couldn't tell anyone what it was I found attracted me...Anyone else the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive.."

I rhink thats what nearly every single person in this thread has said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive..

I rhink thats what nearly every single person in this thread has said "

yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive.."

That's what we are saying too.

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

who decide whois ugly and who is not you might be ugly to others

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive..

I rhink thats what nearly every single person in this thread has said "

Just what I was thinking.

Could I fuck an ugly guy? No chance because I need to kiss a lot and I really couldn't kiss a ming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive..

That's what we are saying too. "

That's what I said as well...just that other than its not looks...I have no idea what attracts me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"
Barking up the wrong tree all the women are picky and do not like ugly men loll

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"well, sorry to be really shallow and not play to the crowd but I would only fuck someone that I found attractive..

I rhink thats what nearly every single person in this thread has said

Just what I was thinking.

Could I fuck an ugly guy? No chance because I need to kiss a lot and I really couldn't kiss a ming "

that explains a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who decide whois ugly and who is not you might be ugly to others "

I decide who I think is attractive. Others may disagree with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who decide whois ugly and who is not you might be ugly to others "

You realise how utterly meaninless this statement is right?

If i find somone ugly but rhw rest of the worls finds them super star beautiful it aint going to affect thier chabes of meeting me is it?

Others perception lf beauty has zero impact on anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No personally I wouldn't. There has to be some physical attraction to that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who decide whois ugly and who is not you might be ugly to others "

that's true...

and you might be ugly to others too..

ugliness and attractiveness are subjective and totally personal to whoever is doing the picking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my order.....

Their eyes

Their confidence

Their smile

Their dynamic - character - personality

Their shoulders

Their face / shape of head

Their voice

Their height

Their dress sense

Their manners

Their smell

Their hands

Their kiss

Less important ....

Body - big or small

Height short or tall

Skin - fur or unfur

Those three less important if first 13 points are met ....

Mmmmm bliss right now ... giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't kiss a guy I found unattractive. If I can't kiss him then it goes no further, simple as that.

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno

I'm far from an oil painting and a lady I chatted to on here Said no thanks, I sent her my cock pic and within an hour we were down and dirty and were play Mates for a long time... It can happen just not common

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

Hilary says no.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I met a guy who isn't physically attractive in any way but he turned out to be one of my best meets and every time I meet him again I enjoy every second of it.

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno


"I met a guy who isn't physically attractive in any way but he turned out to be one of my best meets and every time I meet him again I enjoy every second of it. "
it wasn't you was it???

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

No. Wouldn't matter how hot their body was if I felt no attraction to their face it just wouldn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting dejavu...Are we having a gangbang in costa again?

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peoples attractiveness does seem to improve with their level of healthiness and fitness etc.

You can have an ugly chubby faced guy on a blobby body that you probably wouldn't immediately find attractive?

But if that same guy lost the weight hit the gym and was making the most of himself then the same guys level of attractiveness would increase.

Their face is still their face but their body and fitness has improved and because of that their success with the ladies has definitely improved.

Seen it many times with people I know both male and female.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

Well, each women has her own mind, not a collective thought so I guess the answer is some will, some won't and some don't care.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I need to find someone visually attractive if I'm getting intimate with them.

Although once I wasn't 100% sure I liked them that much and I regret that.

Ho hum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to find someone visually attractive if I'm getting intimate with them.

Although once I wasn't 100% sure I liked them that much and I regret that.

Ho hum "

Yes done that myself a on a couple of occasions.

Was disappointed in myself afterwards as I shouldnt have gone through with it.

But for various reasons at the time I did . I was alot younger and naive at those times though.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

"

yes they are but if what's on the outside has a rotten core no one man or woman will go there willingly mo matter how good looking or fit that person is .

but a slightly battered and worn exterior with a wonderful core will attract almost anyone .

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By *erminxWoman
over a year ago

Quinton

I need to be attracted, face, personality or chemistry, but for that I have to meet, I will admit a nice face will get you a (coffee) meet with me so I guess I'm shallow to a point

But I'm not ripped so being up close and personal to someone that is with no chemistry keeping us there? No thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

yes they are but if what's on the outside has a rotten core no one man or woman will go there willingly mo matter how good looking or fit that person is .

but a slightly battered and worn exterior with a wonderful core will attract almost anyone ."

All depends what you are looking for at the time.

Alot in here just want sex and its all visual attractiveness and the fantasy aspect etc.

That taken into consideration whether the person they choose to fuck is a nice person inside or not is irrelevant as they are chosen for sex fantasy only and nothing more.

The battered and worn exterior type of people are not what alot of people are looking for when they are here to fulfill fantasies.

This is not my personal view but I know thats how it is for many people here.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

Ugly is subjective.

*I* have to find the man *attractive*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

yes they are but if what's on the outside has a rotten core no one man or woman will go there willingly mo matter how good looking or fit that person is .

but a slightly battered and worn exterior with a wonderful core will attract almost anyone .

All depends what you are looking for at the time.

Alot in here just want sex and its all visual attractiveness and the fantasy aspect etc.

That taken into consideration whether the person they choose to fuck is a nice person inside or not is irrelevant as they are chosen for sex fantasy only and nothing more.

The battered and worn exterior type of people are not what alot of people are looking for when they are here to fulfill fantasies.

This is not my personal view but I know thats how it is for many people here.

"

But then people have different sexual fantasies. Some might have a young gym fit stud as a fantasy, in which case it won't matter what his personality is like. My husband likes to watch me with that type. But my fantasy is, as a married woman, to have a number of lovers. So I tend to choose the more mature gentleman who can handle that. He will usually be handsome, but maybe a bit weathered. I basically go for the same men I would date if I were single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

yes they are but if what's on the outside has a rotten core no one man or woman will go there willingly mo matter how good looking or fit that person is .

but a slightly battered and worn exterior with a wonderful core will attract almost anyone .

All depends what you are looking for at the time.

Alot in here just want sex and its all visual attractiveness and the fantasy aspect etc.

That taken into consideration whether the person they choose to fuck is a nice person inside or not is irrelevant as they are chosen for sex fantasy only and nothing more.

The battered and worn exterior type of people are not what alot of people are looking for when they are here to fulfill fantasies.

This is not my personal view but I know thats how it is for many people here.

But then people have different sexual fantasies. Some might have a young gym fit stud as a fantasy, in which case it won't matter what his personality is like. My husband likes to watch me with that type. But my fantasy is, as a married woman, to have a number of lovers. So I tend to choose the more mature gentleman who can handle that. He will usually be handsome, but maybe a bit weathered. I basically go for the same men I would date if I were single. "

Yes that is the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really gone for classically handsome. I like quirky looks and am drawn really to whether a man looks like he'd be filthy in bed.

I mean i fancy Paul Kaye. He's not exactly Brad Pitt, but he don't half look like he'd throw you around the bedroom a bit and that gets me going far more than a chisseled jaw would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I have sex with people I find facially attractive. Doesn't matter what their personality or body is like, if I don't feel attraction to the face, I can't fuck them. "

What a handicap to be browsing this site where most people's faces are obscured. I've been surprised by my own reaction, to people whose bodies leave me disinterested but whose face lights me up, or whose bodies get me going but whose face (usually expression) puts me off.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"If I didn't find all of that person attractive, sex wouldn't happen.

Looks are important to men.

yes they are but if what's on the outside has a rotten core no one man or woman will go there willingly mo matter how good looking or fit that person is .

but a slightly battered and worn exterior with a wonderful core will attract almost anyone .

All depends what you are looking for at the time.

Alot in here just want sex and its all visual attractiveness and the fantasy aspect etc.

That taken into consideration whether the person they choose to fuck is a nice person inside or not is irrelevant as they are chosen for sex fantasy only and nothing more.

The battered and worn exterior type of people are not what alot of people are looking for when they are here to fulfill fantasies.

This is not my personal view but I know thats how it is for many people here.

"

in a club environment for a fuck and go rhat may be true but I think you will find when it comes to a one to one or a regular fwb or a regular clubbing and chaperoning partner. what's on the inside is suddenly going to become very important indeed .

if you don't want to end up with a unhinged rotten apple in your life causing serious grief for you as you try to get them out of your life .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I need to find someone visually attractive if I'm getting intimate with them.

Although once I wasn't 100% sure I liked them that much and I regret that.

Ho hum

Yes done that myself a on a couple of occasions.

Was disappointed in myself afterwards as I shouldnt have gone through with it.

But for various reasons at the time I did . I was alot younger and naive at those times though.

"

Jesus...we agree on something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to find someone visually attractive if I'm getting intimate with them.

Although once I wasn't 100% sure I liked them that much and I regret that.

Ho hum

Yes done that myself a on a couple of occasions.

Was disappointed in myself afterwards as I shouldnt have gone through with it.

But for various reasons at the time I did . I was alot younger and naive at those times though.

Jesus...we agree on something! "

Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attractiveness trumps body/physical attractiveness for me every time.

I've slept with people who didn't have my ideal body type because I found them handsome. I've never slept with someone I found facially unattractive just because they had my ideal body type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I have sex with people I find facially attractive. Doesn't matter what their personality or body is like, if I don't feel attraction to the face, I can't fuck them. "

So if a guy was the best looking guy in the world but had the body of say Professor Flump you fuck him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it would depend on the level if ugliness but in general I would rather a guy had a good body and decent cock than be pretty! To fuck someone based purely on their facial features is just fucking ludicrous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HB likes just your standard, run of the mill, regular looking guy with a standard, run of the mill, regular looking body, she is not into your super gym fit type guys, they just make her self conscious about her own body and she has said the ones who had, that she was with, struggle to get and maintain errections. So she likes a Normal looking guy with a normal looking body, ohhh and I almost forgot, they must have a massive monster cock too.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Personality wins the day on this one for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm curious now when I was younger I never had a problem with the ladies. After 30 years of marriage. I'm back single. And would like some input. I still think I'm an attractive man, but I'm not having any luck and can't figure it out. So is it my looks, profile my age? are the simple fact that I'm single? Because I refuse to think I am not good looking enough to get to know. And if you get to know me I know you will find me interesting.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

This woman has never fucked a guy yet because of his looks. Handsome or ugly.

On the other hand an intelligent guy with a big personality gets me every time.

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Fuck women are so fussy on here you would think that all goddesses get real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super-fussy. I want looks, height, brains, personality....

Might explain why I'm single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"No. Wouldn't matter how hot their body was if I felt no attraction to their face it just wouldn't happen"
one example above another goddess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HB likes just your standard, run of the mill, regular looking guy with a standard, run of the mill, regular looking body, she is not into your super gym fit type guys, they just make her self conscious about her own body and she has said the ones who had, that she was with, struggle to get and maintain errections. So she likes a Normal looking guy with a normal looking body, ohhh and I almost forgot, they must have a massive monster cock too."

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree OP on the 'looks don't matter to men'. I have to be attracted to them, bit shallow but doesn't mean they have to look like Jennifer Anniston!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope have to find them attractive and a good body doesn't mean I will .

Miss

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

other way around- if I like the face the body doesn't really matter. that is if the personality fits

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Just wondering how womens minds think on this subject, as most men can fancy a girl on the strength of a sexy body therefore looks probably wouldn't matter"

The ability to make me laugh, be able to have a good conversation with and get on with each other out of the bedroom is more important but I won't deny that a cute face does help. If this makes me shallow so be it but personality comes first.

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