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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people feel about this? It happens a lot to me. I'll start chatting with people and sometimes give them my kik. Before I know it they are asking for more pics and videos! There are plenty of pics on my profile and oersonally I find it offensive and disrespectful.......thoughts please

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We never take conversations off site unless it's in person.

I think asking for pictures and videos via other methods is sometimes the start of a scam at worst and plain cheeky at best.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yeah not my thing pretty obvious there just looking for a quick wank rather than a chat or arranging a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about this? It happens a lot to me. I'll start chatting with people and sometimes give them my kik. Before I know it they are asking for more pics and videos! There are plenty of pics on my profile and oersonally I find it offensive and disrespectful.......thoughts please "

I check out of the conversation and delete them

I make it clear before I give them my kik I don't have videos or participate in picture exchange but they always try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This annoys me too. It's obvious which people are picture/video collectors.

It's also annoying when couples message me out of the blue because they are obviously playing with each other, and want a single fem in their fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I don't bother with Kik. Almost everyone who asks for it wants something to wank over.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yep, just using you as rank fodder as far as we are concerned.

Use kik by all means for group chats (we are always dubious if talking to a couple of only one of them chats on kik).

Just put in your profile "Have kik but for chat, not for pic or vid sharing as have zero interest in that".

We put similar on our profile..

S

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

that's pretty much all most guys use kik for, wanking or taking your pics to share with others, or both.

i used to add a lot of guys to my kik, you can remove them or block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Yes deffo just wankers in every sense! I'm using my block button a lot more these days on here and on kik ha ha

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton

At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone."

Guessing you don't ask for extra pictures and videos so it's easy to tell you're genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a cock picture. There soon leave you alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I share my pics or vids with ladies it's because I want to but I don't expect anything in return. If they want to share more with me it's their choice and normally only with at least a modicom of trust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send them a cock picture. There soon leave you alone "

Ha ha don't worry I have an ugly decoy picture and if they ask for vids or pics within a few messages then it's the decoy they get. They soon leave me alone ha ha on here they just get blocked as there are plenty of pics they can see on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send them a cock picture. There soon leave you alone

Ha ha don't worry I have an ugly decoy picture and if they ask for vids or pics within a few messages then it's the decoy they get. They soon leave me alone ha ha on here they just get blocked as there are plenty of pics they can see on my profile "

Oh I can see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I share my pics or vids with ladies it's because I want to but I don't expect anything in return. If they want to share more with me it's their choice and normally only with at least a modicom of trust. "

Exactly! Half the time though they haven't sent any, just asking me to send vids. The cheek! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone."

Try Opera Mini Browser. It gets past my work wifi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it annoying...not offensive though...I just say no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I share my pics or vids with ladies it's because I want to but I don't expect anything in return. If they want to share more with me it's their choice and normally only with at least a modicom of trust.

Exactly! Half the time though they haven't sent any, just asking me to send vids. The cheek! Ha ha "

I think that since most blokes will wank at anyone they believe it's their god given right to disrespect others and demand, since this is a sex site.

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone."

I have worked all over the world, and in some places you can't get on to fab. so yes KIk and what app are good for this.

but there should be no need to send pictures or vids. that seems to come natural and the conversation/friendship builds. never after only talking for 5 mins. and I would have to have chatted to someone longer that that to give out my kik details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone."

Using my vast experience of Kik, I can state that most men use it for wanking. Can't say about women, as I block all the gorgeous young women who ask me how I'm doing, on there, and want to add me.

If I talk to someone on here and get a good feeling about them I will talk on Whatsapp. Those men rarely want something to wank over, they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I share my pics or vids with ladies it's because I want to but I don't expect anything in return. If they want to share more with me it's their choice and normally only with at least a modicom of trust. "

Do you ask first, before sharing pics and videos and let the women know, before adding them, that you intend to share them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone.

I have worked all over the world, and in some places you can't get on to fab. so yes KIk and what app are good for this.

but there should be no need to send pictures or vids. that seems to come natural and the conversation/friendship builds. never after only talking for 5 mins. and I would have to have chatted to someone longer that that to give out my kik details "

Yeah I agree but I can't always be logged on here 24/7 so it's easier to give my kik out. There is always the block button but I just find the asking for videos disrespectful same as I do when a man wants to cum on my face ha ha it's just personal feelings I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to add to someone's wank bank.

If they want to see pics or videos then I tell to go log on a free porn site and get their kicks that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone.

Using my vast experience of Kik, I can state that most men use it for wanking. Can't say about women, as I block all the gorgeous young women who ask me how I'm doing, on there, and want to add me.

If I talk to someone on here and get a good feeling about them I will talk on Whatsapp. Those men rarely want something to wank over, they want to meet. "

See that's why I prefer kik though. You don't have to give out your digits where as on whatsapp you do but maybe you have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't send them Willy nilly, pardon the pun. If they haven't asked, then I won't send. Respect is the key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not here to add to someone's wank bank.

If they want to see pics or videos then I tell to go log on a free porn site and get their kicks that way "

Amen sister there is enough free porn out there

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"At the risk of getting absolutely slated..... not all guys that use kik do it for the reasons stated; some (and that definitely includes me) use it as another means of communication as I can't always get on here, for e.g. when I'm at work as certain websites are blocked.

Just saying so don't all rush to judge everyone by the same yardstick; it doesn't apply to everyone.

I have worked all over the world, and in some places you can't get on to fab. so yes KIk and what app are good for this.

but there should be no need to send pictures or vids. that seems to come natural and the conversation/friendship builds. never after only talking for 5 mins. and I would have to have chatted to someone longer that that to give out my kik details

Yeah I agree but I can't always be logged on here 24/7 so it's easier to give my kik out. There is always the block button but I just find the asking for videos disrespectful same as I do when a man wants to cum on my face ha ha it's just personal feelings I guess "

I am afraid that you will all ways get it on sites like this, people just expect it !! the forums are the same. but there is still a lot of nice genuine people out there. and I for one have had good fun on KIK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about this? It happens a lot to me. I'll start chatting with people and sometimes give them my kik. Before I know it they are asking for more pics and videos! There are plenty of pics on my profile and oersonally I find it offensive and disrespectful.......thoughts please "

Have you got any vids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The minute a man says send me some pics, my brain shuts down and my vagina closes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAB and fab only nothing else plus not fair too this site don't ASK = delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I add people like that I just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about this? It happens a lot to me. I'll start chatting with people and sometimes give them my kik. Before I know it they are asking for more pics and videos! There are plenty of pics on my profile and oersonally I find it offensive and disrespectful.......thoughts please "

Dont give them your Kik then and just keep convos on here ?

Most who pester to go on kik or swop number for watsap etc do so cos they want to send videos and photos of their dicks and them wanking dtc and expect you to send them too.

To guys like that your nothing more than an addition to their internet porn wanking material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how the women sayng they won't add to a man's wank bank have semi naked public pics perfect for wank banks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how the women sayng they won't add to a man's wank bank have semi naked public pics perfect for wank banks. "

Why is that funny? When someone asks me to talk off site it's to arrange to meet. Not to spend time taking pics and making videos for them. I'm here for real sex, not cyber crap.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

As soon as somebody asks us if we use kik or skype that pretty much ends the conversation for us, we will not talk about swinging off site unless physically meeting.

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Like watching porn surly ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how the women sayng they won't add to a man's wank bank have semi naked public pics perfect for wank banks.

Why is that funny? When someone asks me to talk off site it's to arrange to meet. Not to spend time taking pics and making videos for them. I'm here for real sex, not cyber crap. "

because they already gave wank fodder to thousands of strangers just by having profile pics. cyber crap

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I move to KIK quickly if I'm planning on any social or meet and I have never been asked for pictures or videos so one of us has got it wrong!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I've taken a chat to kik and I've not met them as soon as they mention sending a video I'm out of there!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"We never take conversations off site unless it's in person.

I think asking for pictures and videos via other methods is sometimes the start of a scam at worst and plain cheeky at best."

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