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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Gm fab members. Okay so I just wanted everyone's honest opinions.

This week I put up a meet being romantic. Offering home cooked meal by me (of her choicing) chocolate covered strawberries rose' or champagne and to finish the night with oral (me giving) and a back rub. I got no responses and deleted messages. I then went to the chat rooms to see to have any luck there to no avail, then a male half of a couple laughed and said that's a bit full on isn't it.

What do you guys think of that type of meet

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By *ittyskitchenWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

That's lovely for a date with your girlfriend, but probably not what most ladies on fab are looking for.

Tbh it would make me run a mile if someone in fab offered me that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds lovely but more the type of experience is want after a while of seeing someone. A little too much forced intimacy for a first meet (btw I'd only want a social for a first meet anyway). It also may come across as overly keen which for some reason puts most people off. If somebody did this for me then I'd want it done for ME if that makes sense, not just that you'd be willing to do it for anybody. It's a lovely thing to offer though so hope you find somebody x

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Gm fab members. Okay so I just wanted everyone's honest opinions.

This week I put up a meet being romantic. Offering home cooked meal by me (of her choicing) chocolate covered strawberries rose' or champagne and to finish the night with oral (me giving) and a back rub. I got no responses and deleted messages. I then went to the chat rooms to see to have any luck there to no avail, then a male half of a couple laughed and said that's a bit full on isn't it.

What do you guys think of that type of meet"
yea it does sound a lil full on and comes across a little desperate.not saying at all that that is what u are about but as a first post/Message it does come across like that over the internet.think if you msged this after chatting to a girl for a bit first then bring the idea up then u would have more luck it's not as bad as the il lick your pussy and want nothing in return then leave no talking msgs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't appeal to me. I'm not here for romance.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"It sounds lovely but more the type of experience is want after a while of seeing someone. A little too much forced intimacy for a first meet (btw I'd only want a social for a first meet anyway). It also may come across as overly keen which for some reason puts most people off. If somebody did this for me then I'd want it done for ME if that makes sense, not just that you'd be willing to do it for anybody. It's a lovely thing to offer though so hope you find somebody x"

Couldn't have put it better

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By *ersephone 69Woman
over a year ago

swindon

This has a lot of vanilla 'date like' qualities attached OP. A lot of women on here wouldn't have time for a whole evening/night meet as that would cut into their real lives quite heavily. For some, Fab is more about thrill and convenience so again what you offered doesn't really apply. For those ladies in couples who may play separately etc it might also be too romantic for their tastes. Personally, I have no issue with something romantic as long as the lines are clear at the start. Not sure about the home cooked meal, but the rest would be ok. I think it just depends on who happens to read your event/message and their situation at the time. I wouldn't take it personally and if that's what you like then it's just as valid as any other kind of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lovely for a date with your girlfriend, but probably not what most ladies on fab are looking for.

Tbh it would make me run a mile if someone in fab offered me that! "

You and me both

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I would like to think this was something put on specifically for me because you wanted to do it for me.... Not just for anyone who chose to take you up on the offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gm fab members. Okay so I just wanted everyone's honest opinions.

This week I put up a meet being romantic. Offering home cooked meal by me (of her choicing) chocolate covered strawberries rose' or champagne and to finish the night with oral (me giving) and a back rub. I got no responses and deleted messages. I then went to the chat rooms to see to have any luck there to no avail, then a male half of a couple laughed and said that's a bit full on isn't it.

What do you guys think of that type of meet"

That would be ok but I wouldn't want the back rub and I'd need to close my eyes during the oral so I could pretend that you were a woman

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Yes.

If I had started dating the guy as in the first couple of months, and he pulled this I would find it a bit much. But for a NSA sex meet then it is way over the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gm fab members. Okay so I just wanted everyone's honest opinions.

This week I put up a meet being romantic. Offering home cooked meal by me (of her choicing) chocolate covered strawberries rose' or champagne and to finish the night with oral (me giving) and a back rub. I got no responses and deleted messages. I then went to the chat rooms to see to have any luck there to no avail, then a male half of a couple laughed and said that's a bit full on isn't it.

What do you guys think of that type of meet"

It sounds like you might be more suited to a traditional dating site, where people are looking for more traditional ideas of romance.

To me it sounds like outdated cliche, that is a bit tired and overused.

Plus I don't want to finish the night with oral. Oral is boring. Oral isn't sex. I'm here to fuck. Not to let a man get off on his oral fetish.

And I don't need a back rub from someone who isn't a professional masseuse either. If I need a back rub it's because I've hurt my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And I don't need a back rub from someone who isn't a professional masseuse either. If I need a back rub it's because I've hurt my back."

I LOVE a back rub, literally could be massaged for hours and still not have had enough of it. Poor hubby ends up with hands aching so much he has to use a TV remote or wooden spoon to massage me Just like in Friends with Ross massaging the old guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be fine with it if I knew you. I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone I had never spoken to.

Some people might see it as a type of bribery too.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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as a lazy bitch all the appeals to me, apart from the alcohol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it fella. You seem to be doing just fine, looking at your number of verifications.

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