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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

your verifications tell a different story op!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" your verifications tell a different story op!"
nope I met all my veryfications same night in xtasia, yet can't attract anyone from fab mate

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

3 verifications in 2 weeks? Most guys complain they can't get one in months. If you do better on POF or tinder then stick to that. This isn't instashag or a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 verifications in 2 weeks? Most guys complain they can't get one in months. If you do better on POF or tinder then stick to that. This isn't instashag or a dating site. "
lol nooo I had to re join as had problems with old account, I had to wait a week as a newbie then messaged my old veryfications from September lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

Differnt username?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?"

I was wondering exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?

I was wondering exactly the same "
hi thanks guys will change my name

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?

I was wondering exactly the same hi thanks guys will change my name "

Were there 99 other 'iworshiptheclitoris's' ?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?

I was wondering exactly the same "

Do you ever sleep ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also not saying it's right but a lot of people assume can't accommodate means married and so don't want to meet.

Your pics are nice though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also not saying it's right but a lot of people assume can't accommodate means married and so don't want to meet.

Your pics are nice though. "
ok thanks for good advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people even compare dating sites with swinging sites. I appreciate there are overlaps in that on swingers sites there are still single people looking for other single people. But the focus is very different, and I bet you sell yourself very differently on a dating site. But if dating sites gets you more sex then why bother with Fab?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo."

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. "
point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get know where on either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most on them sites are on fab aswell I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please? "

"People far worse....??"

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem

Why do you think you're better than anyone else??

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

Well why are you here?

If you do so great on the other sites it would make sense to stick to them and stop complaining about not getting meets on fab surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

"People far worse....??"

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem

Why do you think you're better than anyone else?? "

I don't do bad for a 'far worse' person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?

I was wondering exactly the same

Do you ever sleep ? "

Rarely. Insomnia is my constant companion. And now I'm at work, caffeine is my most loyal ally

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please? "

Change your name, so you don't sound like a horny teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please? "

Are you mainly looking for couples or singles? If you like couples I can certainly give you advise on what we look for in a single gents profile. If it's predominantly single ladies you want, it sounds like you're doing very nicely on POF and Tinder so why fix what's working well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

Change your name, so you don't sound like a horny teenager. "
ok will change soon as I finish work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

"People far worse....??"

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem

Why do you think you're better than anyone else??

I don't do bad for a 'far worse' person "
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

Are you mainly looking for couples or singles? If you like couples I can certainly give you advise on what we look for in a single gents profile. If it's predominantly single ladies you want, it sounds like you're doing very nicely on POF and Tinder so why fix what's working well. "
advice for couples please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your POF and Tinder name and profile content the same as on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

More face pics on them sites!??

Not all women want to see lots of cock pics on here

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?"

This made me giggle .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Differnt username?

This made me giggle . "
lol I did know it was probably a ridiculous name I'll change it later, too big for the xtasia ffff night stickers lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

More face pics on them sites!??

Not all women want to see lots of cock pics on here"
that's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

Well then stick with them! Is not rocket science!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Can't speak for all women but personally, I look for different qualities in people that I'd date a people I'd casually fuck. So there's no comparison between POF and Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

If you do so well on POF & Tinder, why do you need Fab ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

If you do so well on POF & Tinder, why do you need Fab ?"
because I want more sexual experiences than what they offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Well then stick with them! Is not rocket science!"
I do get what you are saying ,but I've come to fab in search of different sexual experiences sort of thing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is your POF and Tinder name and profile content the same as on here?"
no it isn't as thought it too unsexual for fab??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your POF and Tinder name and profile content the same as on here? no it isn't as thought it too unsexual for fab??"

Being more unsexual may get you more sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask the women you meet on pof and tinder if they want to try swinging?

I've had 3 couples profiles in the past like this. I think you would be surprised how many women are interested if they get the opportunity?

Be honest with people, mostly they appreciate it even if it's something like swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you ask the women you meet on pof and tinder if they want to try swinging?

I've had 3 couples profiles in the past like this. I think you would be surprised how many women are interested if they get the opportunity?

Be honest with people, mostly they appreciate it even if it's something like swinging"
cool may just do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest your pictures are lacking, and not that exciting.. take a look at alot of well verifiated men.

your profile kind of screams, I'm not fussy and you have no interest's.

social gets you just as much as sexual meeting does.. because even if you don't have sex, you've been verified again as being genuine.

make the profile stand out many will walk on by it's not interesting. jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is your POF and Tinder name and profile content the same as on here? no it isn't as thought it too unsexual for fab??

Being more unsexual may get you more sexual "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to be honest your pictures are lacking, and not that exciting.. take a look at alot of well verifiated men.

your profile kind of screams, I'm not fussy and you have no interest's.

social gets you just as much as sexual meeting does.. because even if you don't have sex, you've been verified again as being genuine.

make the profile stand out many will walk on by it's not interesting. jo x"
any tips to spice it up pm me if you can help! I'm a fun cheeky guy but crap at selling myself when writing a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

Why don't you just meet women on POF and Tinder then? I'm not sure what the problem is.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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So you're looking for couples now?

Just use pof and tinder for women as you're doing well there and here for couples if that's what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you're looking for couples now?

Just use pof and tinder for women as you're doing well there and here for couples if that's what you want. "
good idea, but I'm pretty clueless about attracting the attention of couples? I do need tips I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

Are you mainly looking for couples or singles? If you like couples I can certainly give you advise on what we look for in a single gents profile. If it's predominantly single ladies you want, it sounds like you're doing very nicely on POF and Tinder so why fix what's working well. advice for couples please x"

Well for the area of your interests where you are seeking couples then obviously POF and Tinder will be totally useless. I think your profile is quite good, and what appeals is that you used to have a regular couple, so that would suggest that you understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple, which many men don't get. Us as a couple are always very sceptical of singke men on Fab, as to whether they are genuinely interested in playing with a couple, or just want sex and will put up with the husband in order to get sex. We only pursue male profile where it is very obvious in the text or verifications that the man likes threesones and is experienced with couples. I personally get quite turned off by an excessive amount of cock pics, and we have probably passed some quality men by because of this. I also find your profile name a turn-off. I suspect I would find your POF and Tinder profiles a lot more appealing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So you're looking for couples now?

Just use pof and tinder for women as you're doing well there and here for couples if that's what you want. good idea, but I'm pretty clueless about attracting the attention of couples? I do need tips I feel"

Well, there's some tips above now so good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having used all 3 sites I agree that it's not valid to compare fab with a dating site at all. It's like saying that Tescos is a much better supermarket than HSBC.

Also, I think that the general level of attractiveness is higher on fab, as well as the number of men and so the competition is tougher if you are looking to meet women rather than couples.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

More face pics on them sites!??

Not all women want to see lots of cock pics on here"

Exactly

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Fabswingers. Different mindset imo.

exactly this. I wouldn't dream of finding what I want on tinder or pof. I would suggest that if the op is more successful on the other 2 then he should concentrate there and not worry about fab. point taken, but what I mean is I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but also know I'm ok looking as attract girls on POF and Tinder but on fab people far worse seem to do better! Any tips on improving my profile please?

Are you mainly looking for couples or singles? If you like couples I can certainly give you advise on what we look for in a single gents profile. If it's predominantly single ladies you want, it sounds like you're doing very nicely on POF and Tinder so why fix what's working well. advice for couples please x

Well for the area of your interests where you are seeking couples then obviously POF and Tinder will be totally useless. I think your profile is quite good, and what appeals is that you used to have a regular couple, so that would suggest that you understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple, which many men don't get. Us as a couple are always very sceptical of singke men on Fab, as to whether they are genuinely interested in playing with a couple, or just want sex and will put up with the husband in order to get sex. We only pursue male profile where it is very obvious in the text or verifications that the man likes threesones and is experienced with couples. I personally get quite turned off by an excessive amount of cock pics, and we have probably passed some quality men by because of this. I also find your profile name a turn-off. I suspect I would find your POF and Tinder profiles a lot more appealing. "
thank you ever so much, this is great advice I really appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My username is now changed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fundamentally it makes sense that it's easier to get a meet via a dating site. There are lots of women wanting to date. Comparatively there are much fewer women wanting NSA sex, so there will be relatively few on Fab. I don't think I would use Fab if I were single, but as a couple we have no choice in the matter as dating sites are not for couples. Therefore we have to put up with the distastefulness.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"My username is now changed x"

Errr did I not say that it was a shit name and to hid your cock pics last week?

My advice not good enough for ya?

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

If you do so well on POF & Tinder, why do you need Fab ?"

Because they're radically differnt sites?

One thing this thread has done beautifully is expose everyone to whom this is just a quick shag site and nothing more..

Think the average pof/tinder girl will be up for swinging/multiple psrtners/clubs/parties/swapping etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x

Why don't you just meet women on POF and Tinder then? I'm not sure what the problem is."

How many women on pof do you think would be ok with your lifestyle vs those on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how on POF and Tinder I seem to attract girls yet on fab I can't attract well anyone enough to meet up??x"

The answer to your question is simple.

The ratio of women to men profiles on POF or Tinder are alot more even.

So you have more chance of getting replies/dates etc.

Here you are one of many many men all chasing the few women members so the odds of you getting "lucky" so to speak are vastly reduced as opposed to the more even ratio of men to women on a dating site.

Thats is why guys find it easier and have more success on sites like Pof and Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My username is now changed x

Errr did I not say that it was a shit name and to hid your cock pics last week?

My advice not good enough for ya?

Charming "
hi kailey thanks I'm currently sorting out my abominable profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't speak for all women but personally, I look for different qualities in people that I'd date a people I'd casually fuck. So there's no comparison between POF and Fab "

This

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