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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Least ther straight up about it, I bet thers a few who ain't.would u ever donate sperm to help someone out?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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my oldest 2 kids dad did exactly this. we weren't breeding but he walked away from both his kids very easily.

my youngest 2 kids dad was always there for his kids and the older 2 who weren't his.

if this isn't for you then don't participate. but i'm sure people are allowed to get pregnant and bring up their own genetic children or other peoples.

i'm sure people are planning this stuff without asking permission also, i don't agree with hiding something like that but can understand why they might.

and, here's the biggie, do you know how many guys ask for bb sex but don't ask/care what other contraception you're using?

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By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York

Let's say you are prepared to do bareback and they lie and say they on the pill you could be donating the required sperm so if you don't want that risk you have to practice safe sex your call op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?"

Just remember you will be fully financially liable for the child for the next 18 years....

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?

Just remember you will be fully financially liable for the child for the next 18 years....

"

not necessarily.

you could put your husbands name on the birth certificate. it used to be all legal as well, just coz you were married, not sure if it now but who's gonna know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?

Just remember you will be fully financially liable for the child for the next 18 years....

not necessarily.

you could put your husbands name on the birth certificate. it used to be all legal as well, just coz you were married, not sure if it now but who's gonna know?"

The cps when they rock up after she gives them his details and takes him to court to claim maintenance?

Somones word you can just walk away is worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how I feel about this'scenario '. As posted by other poster my two kids dad's didn't want to know. But they don't realise the mess they leave behind. And they are both ok now, in their 20s. I've never lied to them about the situation. But my main concern, especially with grandchild no 1, on the way is the medical history of the paternity of my boys. That's the main issue. But, and I hate to say it, that this couple are going about it in a kind of sensible way, getting to know you etc, so if there are any issues medically etc, then I guess it will be at least discussed. The other main concern is a child needs to know it's history, it's not fair to lie to the child. One day it'll come back to bite the parents in the arse in the worst way. But chances are this whole thing is for you to do your bit, and then remain a secret or anonymous, so that would be your bit' done' so to speak. But this is just how I feel. And I'm not one to judge. I guess it's up to you at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?"

Basically yes those are the expectations and in most cases the reality

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"I know how I feel about this'scenario '. As posted by other poster my two kids dad's didn't want to know. But they don't realise the mess they leave behind. And they are both ok now, in their 20s. I've never lied to them about the situation. But my main concern, especially with grandchild no 1, on the way is the medical history of the paternity of my boys. That's the main issue. But, and I hate to say it, that this couple are going about it in a kind of sensible way, getting to know you etc, so if there are any issues medically etc, then I guess it will be at least discussed. The other main concern is a child needs to know it's history, it's not fair to lie to the child. One day it'll come back to bite the parents in the arse in the worst way. But chances are this whole thing is for you to do your bit, and then remain a secret or anonymous, so that would be your bit' done' so to speak. But this is just how I feel. And I'm not one to judge. I guess it's up to you at the end of the day"

Here here

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?

Just remember you will be fully financially liable for the child for the next 18 years....

not necessarily.

you could put your husbands name on the birth certificate. it used to be all legal as well, just coz you were married, not sure if it now but who's gonna know?

The cps when they rock up after she gives them his details and takes him to court to claim maintenance?

Somones word you can just walk away is worthless

"

true, some people might lie.

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

West Mids

Don't get me wrong, it might sound hot but think realistically. Is it worth the risk? 2 weeks later you might start feeling unpleasant down below, 18 years later you get a knock at the door.

Just my thought process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By that thought process I don't think you'd do anything lol

What if you were mugged when dogging, or you were at a gangbang but changed your mind, a gang rape might happen..... Its are endless things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ifs not its lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By that thought process I don't think you'd do anything lol

What if you were mugged when dogging, or you were at a gangbang but changed your mind, a gang rape might happen..... Its are endless things"

Yeah willing having s child with somone is a little more of a seripus choice than most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?"

LOL I have met a girl on POF wanting to do the same thing. It ends up being fantasy 95% of the time but you do get those who get a bit carried away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto"

But its a ratger silly thing to do. If you want a kid with a random do it through a spermbank so youre not on the hook for potentially 18 years for back paid child maintainence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto"

Hear, Hear...people's lives and choices are up to them...they make their choices and then...if they are decent people live with the consequences and if they aren't they usually run away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get me wrong, it might sound hot but think realistically. Is it worth the risk? 2 weeks later you might start feeling unpleasant down below, 18 years later you get a knock at the door.

Just my thought process "
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When the situation could involve an older child/ teenager scenario, saying mum I heard you and dad talkimg the other night, and I heard dad say he's not my dad. Is thatltrue mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto

Hear, Hear...people's lives and choices are up to them...they make their choices and then...if they are decent people live with the consequences and if they aren't they usually run away!

"

Ok so random dude agrees to breed aomone random guys wife on here.

Does it and goes on his merry way as per the agreement.

The breeders turn our to be abusive parents child suffers for decades.

How can you take that risk with yout offspring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto

Hear, Hear...people's lives and choices are up to them...they make their choices and then...if they are decent people live with the consequences and if they aren't they usually run away!

Ok so random dude agrees to breed aomone random guys wife on here.

Does it and goes on his merry way as per the agreement.

The breeders turn our to be abusive parents child suffers for decades.

How can you take that risk with yout offsprings?

"

You are pulling my leg now aren't you?

Most men aren't as decent as you. Jeremy Vile and his stupid paternity tests don't exist because men care about their offspring.

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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"Please excuse my naivety but I have recently been approached to engage in 'breeding'. I have always thought breeding was simply fucking anybody and getting them pregnant without a second thought. Is this really possible?

Are women (and in some cases their partners) expecting someone on here to come round and knock them up. Do the men that agree to do this expect to be able to simply walk away from this?

I actually asked the question of the last lady to ask for this 'service'. Will I be able to simply walk away after performing the deed. It seemed as though the lady was just wanting to find someone who vaguely fit her desires to plant a seed and walk away; however, before this happened the lady wanted to see a picture of me and we should exchange numbers so we could speak on the phone. I would then have to meet her partner seeking his approval prior to meeting.

Does anybody agree to this? Do they actually think that you can create life and leave as easily as that?

Just remember you will be fully financially liable for the child for the next 18 years....

"

Exactly. Who would allow themselves to fall liable off the back of an advert on a swinging website. How would either explain that to the poor child?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Id say if you want to do it do it

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Well I am speaking from experience here as I have done this with a decent couple. The reason was he was not fertile and she wanted children however they where not prepared to pay vast amounts of money to get her pregnant (mainly as they could not afford the high cost)

The criteria for them was we all got tested together i.e. Health and fertility checks, built up a great friendship but one stipulation was when she went full term then not to have any part of child's life as they want him to be theirs.

So I was on call night and day when she was ovulating and must admit it did take 3 months in fun with them. Then I got a call from them to hear the good news but to my surprise she wanted to still see me during pregnancy for pure fucking when her mood took her.

Anyway 9 months of great fun then as always got a call saying mum and baby boy where great and well then received a card saying thank you and still keep in contact now even though they moved to Cornwall.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Forgot to add do I have regrets and should I take a role in my child.

Well no regrets from me as I helped a couple have a family so feel honoured they picked me.

I wouldn't want to upset his mind as I am not his father I was just the sperm his father is the man raising him why ruin him if he comes looking later on then I will embrace him but I don't count on it.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Forgot to add do I have regrets and should I take a role in my child.

Well no regrets from me as I helped a couple have a family so feel honoured they picked me.

I wouldn't want to upset his mind as I am not his father I was just the sperm his father is the man raising him why ruin him if he comes looking later on then I will embrace him but I don't count on it."

I think that's nice id love to do that myself for someone especially as me and gf probably wont have kids ourselves as shes infertile ;(

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By *bjones1000Man
over a year ago

exeter

Surely the whole thing of anything is consent with all people involved? The kid hasn't got much of a say in this situation, after all its him\her thats probably going to be lied to for the next 20yrs or so.

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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"Forgot to add do I have regrets and should I take a role in my child.

Well no regrets from me as I helped a couple have a family so feel honoured they picked me.

I wouldn't want to upset his mind as I am not his father I was just the sperm his father is the man raising him why ruin him if he comes looking later on then I will embrace him but I don't count on it."

Really lovely to hear that all parties were consistent in this approach. I note that you still refer to the child as yours. Many others may also do the same. Do you ever worry that an agency similar to CSA may also take the same view and may pursue you in the future?

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"

Really lovely to hear that all parties were consistent in this approach. I note that you still refer to the child as yours. Many others may also do the same. Do you ever worry that an agency similar to CSA may also take the same view and may pursue you in the future?

"

I think this would be very difficult to prove by law as his birth certificate will have her husbands name on as the father.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Surely the whole thing of anything is consent with all people involved? The kid hasn't got much of a say in this situation, after all its him\her thats probably going to be lied to for the next 20yrs or so."

Well it was all consent and why is it a lie to the child he will have a father. Even in modern fertility clinics there is law protecting the anonymity of the sperm donors who don't want to be contacted or held accountable.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"To most people it would be but then dogging might mortify the vast majority. Our lifestyle wouldn't be mainstream. I'm loathed to criticize anyone tbh I'm not perfect so to each their own is my motto

Hear, Hear...people's lives and choices are up to them...they make their choices and then...if they are decent people live with the consequences and if they aren't they usually run away!

Ok so random dude agrees to breed aomone random guys wife on here.

Does it and goes on his merry way as per the agreement.

The breeders turn our to be abusive parents child suffers for decades.

How can you take that risk with yout offsprings?

You are pulling my leg now aren't you?

Most men aren't as decent as you. Jeremy Vile and his stupid paternity tests don't exist because men care about their offspring.

T

"

Speaking of Jeremy Dyle, first, the paternity tests are not stupid. Secondly if maternity were not that apparent, their tests would be just as common.

Now let's proceed: without taking anything away from how hard and expensive it is to bring up a child, we all know of women who just make babies and think they can fold their arms and watch the benefits and csa payments role in.

I leave readers to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bringing a new life for a sexual kick(breeders or Bulls, commonly are for the purpose of an extreme cuckold scenario, where the child is to be born to remind the cuckold that he was not worthy enough to impregnate his partner).....is offensive and depraved(I'd worry about the childs future)

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By *bjones1000Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Surely the whole thing of anything is consent with all people involved? The kid hasn't got much of a say in this situation, after all its him\her thats probably going to be lied to for the next 20yrs or so.

Well it was all consent and why is it a lie to the child he will have a father. Even in modern fertility clinics there is law protecting the anonymity of the sperm donors who don't want to be contacted or held accountable. "

Yeah between the adults, kid obviously doesn't get a say, I'm definitely not knocking fertility clinics, they are clearly a good thing for all involved, but there is a huge difference with doing things through the right channels and just finding a random bloke off the internet to fuck and get pregnant, may seem ok at the time to do this but lets be honest its not about what's right for you or even the parents. You can't tell me that its not a lie to the child, yeah will have a father who cares but its not the same is it.

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