FabSwingers.com forum: Couples, where's the guy pics?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK, so here's a question: we love meeting couples but there always seem to be so many couples profiles with barely a decent pic of the male half. And yet tonnes of the girl. Is it just us that would properly like to see both people in a couple that we might play with?

It's nothing to do with us being bi, it's just we'd love to see both of you! Interested to hear other's thoughts...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We do try although will admit there are more of Alexis.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I a few of my other half on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a topic that has been brought up so many times and we agree whole heartedly.

Adam hates any pics of him but I insist on having some on as I dislike profiles without.

I don't like our profile being all about me as we are a couple who are in this together and enjoy seeing each other being pleasured and pleasuring others. It's not a single female profile. Plus Adam is bloody gorgeous!!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My couples profile has pics of my guy. It was one of the agreements we had that it would include us both and not just rely on my pics. If you want to play with couples it's only fair to show both parties involved x

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

He's on the receiving end...! Doesn't much matter much to us in all honesty as we tend to meet at Chams

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a topic that has been brought up so many times and we agree whole heartedly.

Adam hates any pics of him but I insist on having some on as I dislike profiles without.

Eve. X"

100% agree.

By the way, you're both hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My couples profile has pics of my guy. It was one of the agreements we had that it would include us both and not just rely on my pics. If you want to play with couples it's only fair to show both parties involved x"

Phew it's not just us! X

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Major bugbear of ours on here too, not just only fem pics but profiles of just genitalia closeups too.

You want to play we want to know what you look like, quite a reasonably request I would have thought..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Major bugbear of ours on here too, not just only fem pics but profiles of just genitalia closeups too.

You want to play we want to know what you look like, quite a reasonably request I would have thought..

Yep agreed. How do people think that's ever going to work? Sorry to rant but it's such a bugbear of ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got just the right mix of us both on our profile I feel ,there's 2 many profiles now wiv Jst the lady's pic's even in the friends only pic's

Mrs

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have a roughly equal amount of pics of each of us on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of us both on ours, not that it seems to make much difference as the ones of my boob's seem to get all the attention.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We have about equal amounts. Mr has loads on his single profile and I have hardly any on mine ... just the type of people we are and who likes to be the centre of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment we are only seeing single males so no need for pics of Mr as he won't be playing.

Although I have told him we need some of him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I only have one of me it is a full body pic as is all mildreds. We agree cples should have at least one decent pic of the guy.

Close ups of body parts don't really show what body type you are.

So for us more full body pic's pls

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not just you op,drives me mad too.

If you have a couple who are looking for other couples,there should be pictures of both people on the profile.

If couples are only looking for men,then I understand just pics of the female.

I pass so many profiles by ,as there isn't 1 pic of the man and I often think there's ususally a reason why not

Miss

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"We have about equal amounts. Mr has loads on his single profile and I have hardly any on mine ... just the type of people we are and who likes to be the centre of attention"

Obviously if you read a profile and the male doesn't play then who cares what he looks like but so many have nothing at all & are full swap. As others have said before its not blooming blind date!

We are do fed up with it any messages from fem pic only couples go straight to delete as do explicit only pic ones. Not because we think its wrong but because if you honestly think your partners attractions are a foof, bumhole & tits then we probably wouldn't get on anyway.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have a couple, but I'm rapidly changing so will need new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I bi single female, I do like to see pics of both. I figure if I'm going to meet both people, I like to see both.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have some on show and some in private. Admittedly there are more of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's on the receiving end...! Doesn't much matter much to us in all honesty as we tend to meet at Chams

We are similar as tend to meet at clubs.. we have photos of lee. Just in private x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this I need to get some pics on the profile.... have a few set to friends but no public..... making me feel bad

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If there aren't any pictures of the guy we won't contact a profile or respond positively if they message. As a straight woman I feel a bit miffed that they don't consider me worth the courtesy of a photo. We have also found from experience that if there are no pictures of the guy or unclear ones they either aren't really in to it or just want to watch their partner with another guy. I know that isn't always the case but its happened often enough to make us very wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, but then we don't have an even mix, I just look so much better in sexy underwear than he does though

Ruby

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have pics of both of us (although more of me!). I always like to see a few pics of the couple together too. I prefer a couples avatar to show them both.

Sally

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We try to keep it even

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So great to know we're not alone on this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have pics of both of us (although more of me!). I always like to see a few pics of the couple together too. I prefer a couples avatar to show them both.

Sally"

We don't have any of us together and our avatar is just me I take your point on this though. It goes to show how opinions vary on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there aren't any pictures of the guy we won't contact a profile or respond positively if they message. As a straight woman I feel a bit miffed that they don't consider me worth the courtesy of a photo. We have also found from experience that if there are no pictures of the guy or unclear ones they either aren't really in to it or just want to watch their partner with another guy. I know that isn't always the case but its happened often enough to make us very wary."

Yeah it just shows the diffrence in people's thoughts... I always send pics of me once we get chatting with people but like I said none public. We're deffo both equally into it also... not one for sitting and watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one half of a couple I like to see pics of the guy too.. Swapping ain't much good if if I don't fancy the other half and he does!! If we don't see any pics of him it's a no go for us x

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By *ip and MeganCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We posted about this recently and totally agree with OP. If you are a couple looking for others, it would seem obvious that you have some pics of both. Surely the more information (ie Pics) you put on your profile, the more you are likely to meet the right people/person you are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are in the closet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bi fem who really enjoys meeting couples, I agree that there should be a good selection of pictures of both the male and female in a couples profile. I need to be physically attracted to both to consider taking things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have enough of Mr to get an idea of what he looks like. And we have an excessive amount of me, because I love posing for the camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have enough of Mr to get an idea of what he looks like. And we have an excessive amount of me, because I love posing for the camera

Yeah deffo nice mix of photos of you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread. Added a pic of my guy. See if it works.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have to agree with this totally.

Though Cal doesn't care what the bloke looks like, I do. I need to be attracted to both members of a couple and sure they're both interested.

We have photos of us both but could do with up to date ones of us together. Hoping to do some new photos this weekend, so will have to coax Cal in front of the camera

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of Mr B on our pics. It's `our` profile so `we` are on it. I hate having to ask for pics of the guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thread. Added a pic of my guy. See if it works. "

He has too many clothes on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ain't shy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, so here's a question: we love meeting couples but there always seem to be so many couples profiles with barely a decent pic of the male half. And yet tonnes of the girl. Is it just us that would properly like to see both people in a couple that we might play with?

It's nothing to do with us being bi, it's just we'd love to see both of you! Interested to hear other's thoughts..."

Totally agree even if 90% of the photos of her there should be a couple of him we're meeting a couple and want to see what the couple look like. I understand there's only a few ways guys can have a pic taken and women's pic will be of the majority but I do thing that there should be a couple of the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly because a photo of some of ghe guys would put you off playing as a couple?

Or...

Its not really a couples profile at all but a single guys ?

Can't think of any other reason other than those as to why a couples profile wouldnt show both parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're left off for a reason.

I've never met a couple where the guy has a decent body and didn't have at least one picture up.

I've met lots of couples where the guy has let himself go a bit and they never have pictures of him up.

Doesn't matter to me because I'm straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have very few on show and are equally in them...amazing the number of straight single guys who've fabbed buns peachy cheeks though...lol. I hope they don't think my legs are quite that hairy!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have 3 photos of hubby on the profile dosent like hes picture taken. But like he says no ones going to meet us if there isnt pictures of both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have one it hard to know what sort of male photos people would like to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only have one it hard to know what sort of male photos people would like to see "

Probably the same sort of male photos that you would like to see ??

Simple

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We do. Whilst Beth is Bi, she prefers guys and we want to see both of a couple, or at the very least (an attached!) torso of single guys.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For goodness sake, leave people to put up the photos THEY want. If you don't like the balance of photos move on to a profile that you do like. It is just another useful way of filtering couples that you don't want to meet - and if you don't like their profile they probably won't like you.

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By *ictor and RosieCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Sorry to say, but we are guilty of that.

We took some photos a few days ago and put them on our profile but they are all of me, we did take some of Victor but his tattoos were showing and he could be recognised by them if anyone we know came across our profile.

In the end he got so fed up with me taking pics and deleting them and re taking them that he said I should just put my photos on and try again with his another time.

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By *ictor and RosieCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"For goodness sake, leave people to put up the photos THEY want. If you don't like the balance of photos move on to a profile that you do like. It is just another useful way of filtering couples that you don't want to meet - and if you don't like their profile they probably won't like you."

Yes I agree, Victor doesn't really want his photos on here but he gets a kick out of knowing people are looking at mine and he encourages me to put mine on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to say, but we are guilty of that.

In the end he got so fed up with me taking pics and deleting them and re taking them that he said I should just put my photos on and try again with his another time.

I put some on last night and miss went mad saying they are obviously me

so there private again now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think we have enough of both of us for people to get an idea of whether they're attracted to us or not. I tend to put more up if me because I just enjoy taking naked photos haha

H x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

It is clearly up to everyone to put the photo's they want on their profile. However it just reinforces our decision to meet people at clubs rather than just rely on the photo's! If we see the guys photo one of us gets more interested...

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I like to think we have enough of both of us for people to get an idea of whether they're attracted to us or not. I tend to put more up if me because I just enjoy taking naked photos haha

H x"

Nice photo's of both of you...

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By *-and-S2016Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire

I understand most males don't like having there photo taken but I think having a couple profile should be about the couple and helps people decide if they want to meet you. Having just photos of the female means you are more likely to get people just asking for the female rather than the male to. When searching for couple meets I tend to just delete the profiles with no pictures of the male, which probably means we've missed out on some great couples but I think it's important that both male and female should be attracted to who there meeting/

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to self. Upload pic of Bobs sexy bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think,if you don't like what someone has,or hasn't got in their profile,and it isn't to your liking,avoid it.ignore it.Block if it satisfies your need to only have your ideal profiles available for you to see.

Griping about someone else's profile isn't going to make them (me) change anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Note to self. Upload pic of Bobs sexy bum. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand most males don't like having there photo taken but I think having a couple profile should be about the couple and helps people decide if they want to meet you. Having just photos of the female means you are more likely to get people just asking for the female rather than the male to. When searching for couple meets I tend to just delete the profiles with no pictures of the male, which probably means we've missed out on some great couples but I think it's important that both male and female should be attracted to who there meeting/

J x "

Allways happy to send pic or two privately ... all it takes is a hello this is us or vice versa.... I'm a big enough boy so at the point if thers no attraction happy with people just saying sorry... not for me!!

Although we wouldn't want anyone deleting a message for that reason so will need to take some suitably discreet ones!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people can do what they like with their profile.

We just like to present ourselves as a couple is all. It reinforces the fact that we don't play alone and that we wish to be treated as a couple.

Plus Adam is hot as hell so I like showing him off! I fancy the pants off of him and think it would be shame not to show it but letting other ladies ogle him as much as I ogle him.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Other people can do what they like with their profile.

We just like to present ourselves as a couple is all. It reinforces the fact that we don't play alone and that we wish to be treated as a couple.

Plus Adam is hot as hell so I like showing him off! I fancy the pants off of him and think it would be shame not to show it but letting other ladies ogle him as much as I ogle him.

Eve. X"

keeping that ink hidden wouldn't be fair

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ours are all of Sue as we're only looking for mmf threesomes so doesn't really seem much point in posting any of Dave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very true, why do most couples not post any pictures of the man? Strange.

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

V v interesting topic, never really considered it but going to get some pics tonight of the other half and add them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Other people can do what they like with their profile.

We just like to present ourselves as a couple is all. It reinforces the fact that we don't play alone and that we wish to be treated as a couple.

Plus Adam is hot as hell so I like showing him off! I fancy the pants off of him and think it would be shame not to show it but letting other ladies ogle him as much as I ogle him.

Eve. X

keeping that ink hidden wouldn't be fair

Indeed! We used to Blur it but he ended up being one big Blur ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"V v interesting topic, never really considered it but going to get some pics tonight of the other half and add them"

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

Got blocked in the past for asking for pics of the male half

We have a few pics of Mr public and then have a few friends only but must get some more done and a few of us both together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone who doesn't want to show male pictures should change their preferences.

I do though think threads like this help to show how many others perceive them.

We wouldn't expect a couple to meet us without a fair idea of our physical appearance, it's just about being fair to all parties.

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By *ecktheHallsCouple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

we have a few xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In friends gallery because they're all face pics.

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