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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I am quite keen to hear from other bi and bi curious couples to get a sense of the best places and events to attend if both partners are bi and you don't want to feel in any way obligated to hold back so as not to cause offence.

I am experienced enough to know that swinging is always going to be a hit or miss affair. But to date we have only been to two evens where we felt the balance of play and atmosphere were just right.

What have your experiences been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Meets at home have been best by a long way

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here"

We have been lucky with one club. Vanilla Alternative on their monthly bi night. But it is a bit of a trek so we'd love to find more local regular venues too.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Meets at home have been best by a long way "

My gf is really nervous about private home meets so for now we are only able to meet at clubs and spas.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here

We have been lucky with one club. Vanilla Alternative on their monthly bi night. But it is a bit of a trek so we'd love to find more local regular venues too."

VA is way too open for my liking. I don't think it suits bi male play.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here

We have been lucky with one club. Vanilla Alternative on their monthly bi night. But it is a bit of a trek so we'd love to find more local regular venues too.

VA is way too open for my liking. I don't think it suits bi male play. "

Up until I started going to VA on bi night I would have said that too. Historically I always hated open play. But when I attended their bi night I played out in the open the whole time I was there. This was back when I was single. Because it was bi night everything was out in the open. Guys sucking guys. Guys fucking TVs and of course men and women fucking so the balance was perfect. What it is like on a non bi night with single guys, I wouldn't be able to say.

Its weird, I still rarely feel totally relaxed at ordinary swinging events, even if I have no interested in having a bit of bi fun. But at an openly bi party I'm totally relaxed and horny to the max.

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Swindon swingers club have their 'remix' party twice a month all welcome bi, straight, gay, TVs

It's a good mix, always a good night and excellent facilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here

We have been lucky with one club. Vanilla Alternative on their monthly bi night. But it is a bit of a trek so we'd love to find more local regular venues too."

We go to that but there remains very little bi play happening there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are starved of such nights in Yorkshire

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"we've pretty much given up on bi nights in clubs. our best nights have been when we've held our own small parties or been to ones that friends hold but we struggle for the time to arrange them and people are such hard work on here

We have been lucky with one club. Vanilla Alternative on their monthly bi night. But it is a bit of a trek so we'd love to find more local regular venues too.

We go to that but there remains very little bi play happening there "

Really? Maybe we have just been lucky the times that we have been. This week we are thinking of giving BizarreEvents a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are starved of such nights in Yorkshire"

We are indeed.

Eve x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have only been to VA's Bi Nights and have had some fantastic nights there where pretty much anything went and there was lots of bi play involving all genders.

That said there have been bi nights there where there hasn't been a great deal of bi male play at all and we've come away disappointed. Have always tried to look at it the same way as a non-bi night in that you never know what is going to happen or who is going to be there until you step through the door.

Would definitely recommend giving a VA Bi Night a visit though - is a great club and when the vibe is right it can be incredibly heady.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We are starved of such nights in Yorkshire

We are indeed.

Eve x"

To be fair it is only relatively recently that we've had a bit more choice where I'm based.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Have only been to VA's Bi Nights and have had some fantastic nights there where pretty much anything went and there was lots of bi play involving all genders.

That said there have been bi nights there where there hasn't been a great deal of bi male play at all and we've come away disappointed. Have always tried to look at it the same way as a non-bi night in that you never know what is going to happen or who is going to be there until you step through the door.

Would definitely recommend giving a VA Bi Night a visit though - is a great club and when the vibe is right it can be incredibly heady."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attended va first bi night. It was packed. Plenty of action going on with all sexes.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Kent_bi_parties host a monthly night at eureka

Good friends of mine and loads of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is the bi fun club in Sutton. It can be a bit Marmite though. I spoke with couples who love it and couples who are not so keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am quite keen to hear from other bi and bi curious couples to get a sense of the best places and events to attend if both partners are bi and you don't want to feel in any way obligated to hold back so as not to cause offence.

I am experienced enough to know that swinging is always going to be a hit or miss affair. But to date we have only been to two evens where we felt the balance of play and atmosphere were just right.

What have your experiences been?"

Not to bl;ow our own trumpet, though that is always fun at a bi event, but we have recently started hosting a Bi & Gay night at Eureka in Kent. We took over this night after attending ourselves and finding that the previous hosts just weren't giving it their all.

In the 3 months we've been the hosts we've built up from a handful of bi guys and the occasional lady, couple and/or TV to over 60 in attendance in February, with a really good mix of couples and singles.

We are going to be promoting our party night every opportunity we can, with the hope of building up to well over 100 attendees by the summer.

Eureka is a fantastic club and one we've been attending every week for nearly 3 years, so we felt very at home there, and with the work the management are putting in to modernise the venue, it is only getting better and better.

We promise you, if you come along to one of our parties, we will always do our best to make sure you have a fantastic night and go home happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a really good bi party up north.

Eve. X

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hi,

I remember attending the Eureka bi night before you took over. When I went I was one of only two single guys and one couple that attended. I'm happy to give it another chance at some point though.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"There is the bi fun club in Sutton. It can be a bit Marmite though. I spoke with couples who love it and couples who are not so keen. "

Hi, are you referring to the weekly event on Monday afternoons or the monthly event on Thursday evenings?

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge


"I am quite keen to hear from other bi and bi curious couples to get a sense of the best places and events to attend if both partners are bi and you don't want to feel in any way obligated to hold back so as not to cause offence.

I am experienced enough to know that swinging is always going to be a hit or miss affair. But to date we have only been to two evens where we felt the balance of play and atmosphere were just right.

What have your experiences been?

Not to bl;ow our own trumpet, though that is always fun at a bi event, but we have recently started hosting a Bi & Gay night at Eureka in Kent. We took over this night after attending ourselves and finding that the previous hosts just weren't giving it their all.

In the 3 months we've been the hosts we've built up from a handful of bi guys and the occasional lady, couple and/or TV to over 60 in attendance in February, with a really good mix of couples and singles.

We are going to be promoting our party night every opportunity we can, with the hope of building up to well over 100 attendees by the summer.

Eureka is a fantastic club and one we've been attending every week for nearly 3 years, so we felt very at home there, and with the work the management are putting in to modernise the venue, it is only getting better and better.

We promise you, if you come along to one of our parties, we will always do our best to make sure you have a fantastic night and go home happy!"

Have looked at your night with much interest and definitely plan on attending very soon.

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By *reokink OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Tonights the night we give Bi Kink BizarreEvents a try. I'm crossing my fingers and hoping we get to have our fair share of bi fun mmmm.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"There is the bi fun club in Sutton. It can be a bit Marmite though. I spoke with couples who love it and couples who are not so keen. "

We went last month. It's a bit of a mind game first off, only because it's 11am on Monday morning and that's a bit of an ask anyway (!). Loads of men, not many women/couples, but we did find some nice guys to play with and had a good time. Hosts are great, very friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My house is always a good bi party !!

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