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Who's under more pressure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often feel under pressure during a meet, will I keep it up, will I cum too soon etc.

I wonder what the consensus is with regard to who's under more pressure, guys or girls?

I think girls have it easier but would be curious what you thought.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I don't feel under pressure when having sex, I just relax and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt under pressure and I hope I don't make anyone feel pressured to perform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel any at all

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel under pressure, I feel nerves yes, but not pressure. And I would hate to to think that the person I was meeting felt that they were under pressure when with me. It's meant to be fun.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Probably because we are not all about the cock it doesn't enter my head. Not had a failure to launch yet though the clockwork motor takes a bit more winding :·)

S

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I don't feel under pressure. I do think men can have more anxieties on performance.If both people are relaxed and don't have immeasurable expectations then it makes a better time.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If I didn't take the time to get to know someone I would feel a lot of pressure, I feel a lot more relaxed being in a Woman's company when we have been chatting for awhile

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP I have felt pressure as well. Are my BJs any good? How will I feel. What if I can't read the signals right.

I want to be good. To be memorable for the right reasons.

In my opinion both parties can feel pressures. It was only when I became confident in me that I stopped feeling any pressure as no one actually had expectations of me other than being myself and having a good time. Sometimes OP we needlessly put undue pressure on ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us girls have it easier. Apart from girl on girl play. That's when there is a bit of pressure - but fun pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I have felt pressure as well. Are my BJs any good? How will I feel. What if I can't read the signals right.

I want to be good. To be memorable for the right reasons.

In my opinion both parties can feel pressures. It was only when I became confident in me that I stopped feeling any pressure as no one actually had expectations of me other than being myself and having a good time. Sometimes OP we needlessly put undue pressure on ourselves. "

Exactly the same for me , but I'm still not totally confident in me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep-deep water fishies are under more pressure

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"OP I have felt pressure as well. Are my BJs any good? How will I feel. What if I can't read the signals right.

I want to be good. To be memorable for the right reasons.

In my opinion both parties can feel pressures. It was only when I became confident in me that I stopped feeling any pressure as no one actually had expectations of me other than being myself and having a good time. Sometimes OP we needlessly put undue pressure on ourselves.

Exactly the same for me , but I'm still not totally confident in me . "

Okay I will fess up. I also am still not totally confident in myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have questioned my own sexual prowess before when I've met men off Fabs. Usually a result of reading glowing veri trails or if they have a regular squeeze, I sometimes feel under pressure to pull something amazing out of the bag.

Then, I give myself a virtual slap on the face, reiterate how fabulous I am and go get 'em..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel under pressure but I do worry that they might be selfish lovers and not sort me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often feel under pressure during a meet, will I keep it up, will I cum too soon etc.

I wonder what the consensus is with regard to who's under more pressure, guys or girls?

I think girls have it easier but would be curious what you thought.

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Oh blimey!

I'd hate anyone to feel under pressure with me. It's all about having fun, whatever that may mean. I don't care if we have full sex or not just as long as it's enjoyable for both. Cuppa is a must xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since it's meant to be fun I don't feel under any pressure. Being confident and comfortable in your own wants, needs and desires also helps and dissolves any doubts about your own abilities to please and be pleased.

I guess if it turned into some kind of competition we'd all feel a lot more pressure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I have felt pressure as well. Are my BJs any good? How will I feel. What if I can't read the signals right.

I want to be good. To be memorable for the right reasons.

In my opinion both parties can feel pressures. It was only when I became confident in me that I stopped feeling any pressure as no one actually had expectations of me other than being myself and having a good time. Sometimes OP we needlessly put undue pressure on ourselves. "

This, nails it.

Most people feel pressure at some point.

It's also relevant to the particular person you're with. Easier said than done, but the above is pretty much spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I have felt pressure as well. Are my BJs any good? How will I feel. What if I can't read the signals right.

I want to be good. To be memorable for the right reasons.

In my opinion both parties can feel pressures. It was only when I became confident in me that I stopped feeling any pressure as no one actually had expectations of me other than being myself and having a good time. Sometimes OP we needlessly put undue pressure on ourselves. "

Thank you. Beautifully said. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressure is not an issue...if I feel comfortable enough to go to bed with a woman then I feel comfortable and relaxed enough to just let things happen without putting either of us under any sort of expectations that may cause pressure of some description. xx

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

From my experience I can say they're is an element of pressure to perform or live up to expectations.

Scenarios (group and spontaneous meets) I've been involved with have put me in situations where I've got to be ready to perform to a high standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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