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"Is this the plot for Horrible Bosses 3? " Why do you say that? | |||
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"Is this the plot for Horrible Bosses 3? " | |||
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"You should have replied 'I have pissed in your stationary draw and had your pencil up my arse, while several customers came over your yukka'" | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." I could add to this getting him to sit on your leather chair before you sit on top and straddle him bouncing up and down upon his lap | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." And you think this is acceptable?? | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." I'd be seriously unhappy if anyone (let alone my boss) said this at work! Did this really happen? | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. I'd be seriously unhappy if anyone (let alone my boss) said this at work! Did this really happen? " Yes it did. | |||
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"I'd be on the phone to HR if I'm honest " HR? | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened?" You genuinely don't? | |||
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"I'd be on the phone to HR if I'm honest HR?" what job do you do? | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? " No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? | |||
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"I shall pm you as I dint wish to state on s public forum." *dont | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it?" I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. | |||
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"I did a few things in my old office chair but I'd certainly never want to tell anyone! I think he sounds a right twat.. my reply would have been.. and then you woke up??" I think this is meant to be daring and sexy... | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. " Seriously ?! | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised." Does your boss know your a swinger then? | |||
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"I'd have demanded a new chair. You can't bleach leather. " Hahahaha I shall ask first thing tomorrow | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised." I'm surprised as I'm just used to being professional at work. In all the jobs I've ever had. | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. I'm surprised as I'm just used to being professional at work. In all the jobs I've ever had. " It's maybe different where I work to where you do. It's not a big company, it's a really small business. Small and friendly | |||
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"You don't work in DFS do you ?? " No but there's an interesting thought | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. I'm surprised as I'm just used to being professional at work. In all the jobs I've ever had. It's maybe different where I work to where you do. It's not a big company, it's a really small business. Small and friendly " evidently so. | |||
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"I've done many things on office chairs too...but why tell you..does he want you to be shocked ..or want you to do the same?" He tells me most things, we have known each other 30 years. He probably knew it would make me horny, that's maybe why he told me. But I don't know for sure. I never asked him. | |||
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"I did a few things in my old office chair but I'd certainly never want to tell anyone! I think he sounds a right twat.. my reply would have been.. and then you woke up??" | |||
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"Do you believe your boss OP, is it viable that could actually happen in the workplace?" Definetly yes to both. | |||
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"And I thought I was daring when I stacked empty boxes on top of each other so high that you could see them from other departments " health & safety alert | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. " Firstly I don't work for a company, I work for a small firm with a total number of 4 employees. Secondly, I haven't worked there 30 years. Thirdly, we don't have a HR department Fourthly, my boss is a friend and I think the relationship we have where we can talk is much better than a 'stand off-ish having to watch what I say' type of relationship. | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. " It's sexy though because a woman has said it. | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it?" You got any jobs going x | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. Firstly I don't work for a company, I work for a small firm with a total number of 4 employees. Secondly, I haven't worked there 30 years. Thirdly, we don't have a HR department Fourthly, my boss is a friend and I think the relationship we have where we can talk is much better than a 'stand off-ish having to watch what I say' type of relationship. " There's a big difference in the working environment between a small firm & a company. Does your boss have a Pirelli calendar on his wall? | |||
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"Firstly I don't work for a company, I work for a small firm with a total number of 4 employees. " Understood, I was trying to illustrate the difference it makes. | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. Firstly I don't work for a company, I work for a small firm with a total number of 4 employees. Secondly, I haven't worked there 30 years. Thirdly, we don't have a HR department Fourthly, my boss is a friend and I think the relationship we have where we can talk is much better than a 'stand off-ish having to watch what I say' type of relationship. There's a big difference in the working environment between a small firm & a company. Does your boss have a Pirelli calendar on his wall? " Not yet. I may buy him one for his Christmas present | |||
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"Leave the OP alone! I bet she wishes she hadnt mentioned it lol. Its clear her boss is a friend....so if a friend said that to you...would you mind?" You're on my wave length | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. I'm surprised as I'm just used to being professional at work. In all the jobs I've ever had. It's maybe different where I work to where you do. It's not a big company, it's a really small business. Small and friendly " A little too friendly? | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised." probably should have stated that in your opening post... | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. Firstly I don't work for a company, I work for a small firm with a total number of 4 employees. Secondly, I haven't worked there 30 years. Thirdly, we don't have a HR department Fourthly, my boss is a friend and I think the relationship we have where we can talk is much better than a 'stand off-ish having to watch what I say' type of relationship. There's a big difference in the working environment between a small firm & a company. Does your boss have a Pirelli calendar on his wall? Not yet. I may buy him one for his Christmas present " Not so Secret Santa | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. probably should have stated that in your opening post..." I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun. | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. probably should have stated that in your opening post... I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun." you do realise most bosses probably don't behave like yours? | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. probably should have stated that in your opening post... I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun. you do realise most bosses probably don't behave like yours? " Well I prefer to have a boss on a level with me. He's the best boss I've ever had. He's approachable and fun. Maybe other people don't like that. | |||
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"I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun." It's a forum. People post how they want not to spoil your fun thread. Lots of people don't have the rather old relationship you do with your boss with theirs. Apologies for not finding it as sexy as you... If people interpreting your post and commenting how they want is something that upsets you, adding something like 'only fun comments please/no negative remarks' would reduce that. | |||
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"Uurgggh ... I would demand a replacement chair " I'll tell him to use his own next time | |||
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"I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun. It's a forum. People post how they want not to spoil your fun thread. Lots of people don't have the rather old relationship you do with your boss with theirs. Apologies for not finding it as sexy as you... If people interpreting your post and commenting how they want is something that upsets you, adding something like 'only fun comments please/no negative remarks' would reduce that. " I don't mind people's comments. But people have wrongly jumped to conclusions on here. They have stated irrelevant facts. | |||
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"I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun. It's a forum. People post how they want not to spoil your fun thread. Lots of people don't have the rather old relationship you do with your boss with theirs. Apologies for not finding it as sexy as you... If people interpreting your post and commenting how they want is something that upsets you, adding something like 'only fun comments please/no negative remarks' would reduce that. I don't mind people's comments. But people have wrongly jumped to conclusions on here. They have stated irrelevant facts." Not irrelevant - they explain why people react the way they do to your post. No conclusions were jumped to - it's a fact that many workplaces would take a dim view on it. Anyways, I'm sure you'd rather a single male was posting and discussing how hot that is or how they wish they were your boss. | |||
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"I don't see why I should have to explain all the exact details. It was a scenario that I found sexy. It isn't my fault everyone has jumped to wrong conclusions and made the negative comments just to spoil a thread. It was meant to be fun. It's a forum. People post how they want not to spoil your fun thread. Lots of people don't have the rather old relationship you do with your boss with theirs. Apologies for not finding it as sexy as you... If people interpreting your post and commenting how they want is something that upsets you, adding something like 'only fun comments please/no negative remarks' would reduce that. I don't mind people's comments. But people have wrongly jumped to conclusions on here. They have stated irrelevant facts. Not irrelevant - they explain why people react the way they do to your post. No conclusions were jumped to - it's a fact that many workplaces would take a dim view on it. Anyways, I'm sure you'd rather a single male was posting and discussing how hot that is or how they wish they were your boss." Conclusions were jumped to, one being that I work for a company, and two, that I have a HR department. Please don't try to assume the type of people I would like posting here. That is absurd | |||
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"I seem to come in at the end of all the conversations like this at my work " Can't beat a fun atmosphere in the work place | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ????" You could......or you could do that on your bosses chair... | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ????" nah, keep it. | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ????" Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ???? Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx" What appointment time would be convenient for yourself sir? | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ???? Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx" A juiced up chair...... | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ???? Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx A juiced up chair...... " It does clean up afterwards | |||
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"Most of my clients a pensioners if that happened at my office, I wld be scared for life lol " They may prefer sex over a Zimmer frame than the office chair | |||
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"Most of my clients a pensioners if that happened at my office, I wld be scared for life lol They may prefer sex over a Zimmer frame than the office chair " Hahaha that wld be a balancing act will leave the office & give them a moment | |||
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"Hope there's not a ban coming from this thread" No reason that there should be is there? | |||
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"Hope there's not a ban coming from this thread No reason that there should be is there?" None at all, but you know what can happen | |||
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"Oh no you didn't talk about ban club " Shhhh | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." Think I remember seeing this in a porn video once | |||
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"I called my boss a cunt yesterday and told him to do his own fucking invoices. Felt really good I fucked in his car too " Go girl | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." Totally unprofessional and inappropriate in my opinion. Why would this ever come up in conversation? | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. And you think this is acceptable?? " Not just me then! | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. I'd be seriously unhappy if anyone (let alone my boss) said this at work! Did this really happen? " My thoughts too. | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened?" You don't see this as totally inappropriate behaviour in the workplace? You don't think your boss has stepped over boundaries? Imagine if your daughter was in your position, you'd think this would be acceptable in the workplace...seriously?!! | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. Totally unprofessional and inappropriate in my opinion. Why would this ever come up in conversation? " I was just thinking that What the hell was they talking about to get her boss around to saying that I'd be demanding a new chair | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. Seriously ?!" I've been able to retire at 56 from dealing with people like your boss who have acted inappropriately within the workplace. I'm more surprised with your attitude than his if I'm honest. | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. " Maybe she works in the sex industry where this kind of thing happens a lot, i could never in a million years picture my boss saying such a thing to me I think its totally disrespectful towards his staff to be honest | |||
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"I'd expect to be sacked if I said that to a co-worker. I've "contaminated " her working environment, had inappropriate activity with a customer, brought the company into disrepute, and probably sexually harrassed her as there's a clear implication that I would like to repeat the activity with my co-worker (why else did we use her chair?). In the 30 years since OP has been working for this company, corporate HR departments have begun to frown on this kind of behaviour. Hence we no longer pinch secretaries' bottoms, or have Pirelli calendars on the wall. " I had a case where a female, in a male environment found Pirelli calenders offensive and traumatic. They were removed. If she'd been subjected to the above... | |||
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"I'm more surprised with your attitude than his if I'm honest." Me too | |||
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"Do you believe your boss OP, is it viable that could actually happen in the workplace? Definetly yes to both." I've worked out where you work! The 1970's!!! | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You don't see this as totally inappropriate behaviour in the workplace? You don't think your boss has stepped over boundaries? Imagine if your daughter was in your position, you'd think this would be acceptable in the workplace...seriously?!! " He's a friend too. I like to think friends can confide in me. | |||
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"I commented early on this thread as I thought it more fantasy than reality though that aside. I can see how a friendship would allow open conversation but you seem accepting that this relationship should allow explicit references especially from your boss. You have cut short people on here for 'bad language' as they cause you offence but not this when it is an act against you where you work? I do have a question - what would you do if your friendly boss took it a step further and physically invaded your space or asked you for sex, job dependent. Would you still brush it off as office banter and put it down to experience?" Where have I cut short anyone? I just suggested that people keep the post fun and not judge my boss. He said it all in good taste, there is nothing malice in anything he ever does or says. | |||
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"Just come across this thread whilst on mid morning break with bacon sandwich in hand.... Being self employed with a decorating business you be surprised at some of the things you get told by home alone housewives. Some jobs just turn into sexual innuendo bingo!! Different situation as to working in an office with a naughty conversations. But the same outcome, a very horny decorator!! " Certainly makes the workplace fun | |||
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"I commented early on this thread as I thought it more fantasy than reality though that aside. I can see how a friendship would allow open conversation but you seem accepting that this relationship should allow explicit references especially from your boss. You have cut short people on here for 'bad language' as they cause you offence but not this when it is an act against you where you work? I do have a question - what would you do if your friendly boss took it a step further and physically invaded your space or asked you for sex, job dependent. Would you still brush it off as office banter and put it down to experience?" He wouldn't ever put me in a situation that I wouldn't be happy about. | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. Maybe she works in the sex industry where this kind of thing happens a lot, i could never in a million years picture my boss saying such a thing to me I think its totally disrespectful towards his staff to be honest " He's a friend too, not just a boss. | |||
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"Fantastic post really glad that you have such a great atmosphere at work and all you wingers if you don't like it post something of you own instead of bitching about something that doesn't affect you" Couldnt agree more | |||
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"I commented early on this thread as I thought it more fantasy than reality though that aside. I can see how a friendship would allow open conversation but you seem accepting that this relationship should allow explicit references especially from your boss. You have cut short people on here for 'bad language' as they cause you offence but not this when it is an act against you where you work? I do have a question - what would you do if your friendly boss took it a step further and physically invaded your space or asked you for sex, job dependent. Would you still brush it off as office banter and put it down to experience? Where have I cut short anyone? I just suggested that people keep the post fun and not judge my boss. He said it all in good taste, there is nothing malice in anything he ever does or says." "He wouldn't ever put me in a situation that I wouldn't be happy about. " You have done on other threads. I am not about to trawl through your posts to find a quote to post here though you have shown a dislike for ill language against you, so seems strange you'd accept it as fun in the workplace. I would really be interested in knowing what you'd do as you avoided answering, and surprisingly nobody has asked the question. What would you do if he asked you what he asked the customer or came on to you. | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ???? Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx What appointment time would be convenient for yourself sir? " I work for myself and can always find a space in my schedule for you xxx | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ???? Such a horny thought... I used to love fecking in my office. Don't order a new chair... savour it. Even better invite me for a meeting and maybe add more juices to the mix xxx What appointment time would be convenient for yourself sir? I work for myself and can always find a space in my schedule for you xxx" Just turn up, I'll fit you in | |||
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"Surely this thread is getting out of hand. Is it no longer ok to be close friends with people you work with? Be they your boss or a colleague? The OP has never suggested that this sort of conversation should be ok between a boss and staff throughout all work places or that sexual harrassment is acceptable has she? She has simply mentioned a conversation of a sexual nature between a colleague (who happens to be her boss) that she is close friends with. Would people be complaining if the OP was a man talking about his male boss telling he shagged someone in his office? " | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ????" Fa is,the forums most definitely are not. | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though." Where's the office and when do you want me? | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised." I've got a job here for you in the USA working part time under me | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised." id have been disgusted if it had been my boss | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. Where's the office and when do you want me? " I'll PM you | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. id have been disgusted if it had been my boss " Some of us talk openly with friends who we've known for years, some don't. Each to their own. | |||
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"I do apologise to everyone but I really don't see where there is an issue. I have an excellent working relationship with my boss. We talk about everything and anything. We are friends.i can't see any reason why people are shocked/surprised. I've got a job here for you in the USA working part time under me " Only if I'll have a big leather chair | |||
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"My boss told me today that at the weekend, one of his customers sat in my leather office chair and fingered herself while he watched, then she gave him a blowjob. I was instantly turned on by this thought. Now it's all I want to do, obviously not with my boss though. Where's the office and when do you want me? I'll PM you " I'll just wait here then | |||
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"I'd people can't appreciate the sexiness of this scenario then please refrain from slating my boss. He is a good friend to me and you are judging without knowing him. i would appreciate fun comments, after all, Fab is about fun. So.....should I go in this morning and order myself a new chair ? ????" For any normal person in a normal place of work the scenario in the OP would be a sackable offence. It just seemed a bit odd that you couldn't understand why people might think it's a strange scenario. | |||
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"Please excuse me if I'm being ignorant, but I don't see the problem with what happened? You genuinely don't? No, I seriously don't. I found it horny, why would I have an issue about it? I'm not quite sure where you work but many companies would take a dim view on that conversation if it happened. Seriously ?! I've been able to retire at 56 from dealing with people like your boss who have acted inappropriately within the workplace. I'm more surprised with your attitude than his if I'm honest." | |||
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"Even if we're on a swingers site it doesn't change the fact this is a forum - a place for discussion and exchanging ideas - as stated previously if it was desired that there was only posts in agreement, it should have been mentioned in the OP. Maybe we should delete the delete any thread not discussing swinging as it's that site. People have spoken about it from their experience and what would happen if their boss acted in such a way - not criticised the OP or resorted to name calling. " People have very wrongly judged and criticised my boss, but that's fine. This is all a good learning tool on here | |||
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"Dunno about opportunity but i definitely have something rising..." Call maintenance, they'll order you a chair. | |||
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"You should have replied 'I have pissed in your stationary draw and had your pencil up my arse, while several customers came over your yukka'" | |||
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"I would find it intimidating and threatening, and I would no longer wish to work in that environment. It's sexual harassment and it's not appropriate in the workplace. I go to work to work, not to be hit on by colleagues or to have to put up with someone telling me stories like that. At a larger company I would talk to HR. At a smaller company (I too have worked for small companies with just 4 people) would start looking for a new job. Immediately. On their time. Hopefully this is an extension of your friendship, and the conversation was just as likely to happen in your home as anywhere else. Hopefully your boss is aware that they should not say similar things to other people who they have not known for 30 years." | |||
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"I would find it intimidating and threatening, and I would no longer wish to work in that environment. It's sexual harassment and it's not appropriate in the workplace. I go to work to work, not to be hit on by colleagues or to have to put up with someone telling me stories like that. At a larger company I would talk to HR. At a smaller company (I too have worked for small companies with just 4 people) would start looking for a new job. Immediately. On their time. Hopefully this is an extension of your friendship, and the conversation was just as likely to happen in your home as anywhere else. Hopefully your boss is aware that they should not say similar things to other people who they have not known for 30 years. " I'd love to know which bit you're rolling your eyes at. | |||
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"I would find it intimidating and threatening, and I would no longer wish to work in that environment. It's sexual harassment and it's not appropriate in the workplace. I go to work to work, not to be hit on by colleagues or to have to put up with someone telling me stories like that. At a larger company I would talk to HR. At a smaller company (I too have worked for small companies with just 4 people) would start looking for a new job. Immediately. On their time. Hopefully this is an extension of your friendship, and the conversation was just as likely to happen in your home as anywhere else. Hopefully your boss is aware that they should not say similar things to other people who they have not known for 30 years. I'd love to know which bit you're rolling your eyes at." If shes anything like me, probably all of it | |||
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"I would find it intimidating and threatening, and I would no longer wish to work in that environment. It's sexual harassment and it's not appropriate in the workplace. I go to work to work, not to be hit on by colleagues or to have to put up with someone telling me stories like that. At a larger company I would talk to HR. At a smaller company (I too have worked for small companies with just 4 people) would start looking for a new job. Immediately. On their time. Hopefully this is an extension of your friendship, and the conversation was just as likely to happen in your home as anywhere else. Hopefully your boss is aware that they should not say similar things to other people who they have not known for 30 years. I'd love to know which bit you're rolling your eyes at. If shes anything like me, probably all of it" You think it's appropriate for bosses to have sexual encounters with clients in the workplace and then tell their employee about it? | |||
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"I would find it intimidating and threatening, and I would no longer wish to work in that environment. It's sexual harassment and it's not appropriate in the workplace. I go to work to work, not to be hit on by colleagues or to have to put up with someone telling me stories like that. At a larger company I would talk to HR. At a smaller company (I too have worked for small companies with just 4 people) would start looking for a new job. Immediately. On their time. Hopefully this is an extension of your friendship, and the conversation was just as likely to happen in your home as anywhere else. Hopefully your boss is aware that they should not say similar things to other people who they have not known for 30 years. I'd love to know which bit you're rolling your eyes at. If shes anything like me, probably all of it You think it's appropriate for bosses to have sexual encounters with clients in the workplace and then tell their employee about it?" In a general situation? No. But she's made it clear numerous times in this thread that she is long time friends with her boss (over 30 years I think she said). So the real question is, do I think it's appropriate for friends to have sexual encounters with clients in the workplace and then tell their friends about it? Yes I do, and the location of WHERE this was said has absolutely nothing to do with anything. Two friends spoke about sex in private, that is all there is too is | |||
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" But she's made it clear numerous times in this thread that she is long time friends with her boss (over 30 years I think she said). " Which is why I split my post into two parts, explained how *I* would feel, and then suggested that I hoped her boss understood that they shouldn't behave that way with people who aren't old friends. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft " Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. " ^ ah but does your boss really care about being professional if he accepts bj's from customers? | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. " I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons." ^ exactly! This whole thing I am sorry if this offends seems like fantasist nonsense, great for erotic fiction, or just plain attention grabbing, at the end of the day small or big an company that employs 4 people the boss should not be accepting blowjobs off customers. My local corner shop has about 4 staff shall I go in there and off him one? | |||
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"I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons. ^ exactly! This whole thing I am sorry if this offends seems like fantasist nonsense, great for erotic fiction, or just plain attention grabbing, at the end of the day small or big an company that employs 4 people the boss should not be accepting blowjobs off customers. My local corner shop has about 4 staff shall I go in there and off him one? " Please don't, it's hard enough to get served quickly as it is. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons. ^ exactly! This whole thing I am sorry if this offends seems like fantasist nonsense, great for erotic fiction, or just plain attention grabbing, at the end of the day small or big an company that employs 4 people the boss should not be accepting blowjobs off customers. My local corner shop has about 4 staff shall I go in there and off him one? " What? This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, they'll boss's around the world having all sorts of sexual encounters with people they meet at work. Whether it be the boss of an enterprise, or a self employed tradesmen. I would even bet there are a few self employed trades men on here that have had a blowjob from a customer | |||
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" What? This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, they'll boss's around the world having all sorts of sexual encounters with people they meet at work. Whether it be the boss of an enterprise, or a self employed tradesmen. I would even bet there are a few self employed trades men on here that have had a blowjob from a customer" It really doesn't seem extraordinary to hope that individuals will be professional when dealing with others in the course of their business. However I suspect that yours is the same mindset that one of my old boss' used to have - who suggested to me that I should wear a short skirt and high heels in order to gain more business from customers I visited. I simply replied that if we couldn't get business if I was dressed in flats and trousers (to walk around warehouses...) then we proberbly need to look at how we are doing business. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. ^ ah but does your boss really care about being professional if he accepts bj's from customers? " Of course he is professional. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons. ^ exactly! This whole thing I am sorry if this offends seems like fantasist nonsense, great for erotic fiction, or just plain attention grabbing, at the end of the day small or big an company that employs 4 people the boss should not be accepting blowjobs off customers. My local corner shop has about 4 staff shall I go in there and off him one? What? This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, they'll boss's around the world having all sorts of sexual encounters with people they meet at work. Whether it be the boss of an enterprise, or a self employed tradesmen. I would even bet there are a few self employed trades men on here that have had a blowjob from a customer" Exactly. | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons. ^ exactly! This whole thing I am sorry if this offends seems like fantasist nonsense, great for erotic fiction, or just plain attention grabbing, at the end of the day small or big an company that employs 4 people the boss should not be accepting blowjobs off customers. My local corner shop has about 4 staff shall I go in there and off him one? " Why not, he might enjoy it | |||
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"I bet I know how the OP negotiates a pay rise! Must be nice working in such a friendly environment. Or if you want extra holiday -there are ways and means. Maybe ask your super friendly on the level boss to get you a cushion pad though, unless the carpet is soft Excuse me A pay rise would be based purely upon my professional capabilities and standard of work. I suspect, since your boss is ok with the kind of behaviour you mention in your first post, that your boss doesn't give much of a fuck about professionalism and is therefore likely to give you a pay rise for all kinds of reasons." Excuse me | |||
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"To those people who have been against this thread, are you really all telling me that you have never heard of sexual encounters happening in the work place? Bosses and their secretaries? Work colleagues having affairs? Your telling me in the large companies where hundreds of people work, that nothing ever happens? Because I for one, know that it does go on, both from my own experience of working in larger firms and from other people who work within large organisations. So those of you who don't believe this goes on, you must be very naïve or you go around with your eyes closed. " Yeah - and I don't think it's professional for them to be having sex at work either (with clients or colleagues), or wanking at work, or bragging to colleagues about any of those things happening. | |||
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"To those people who have been against this thread, are you really all telling me that you have never heard of sexual encounters happening in the work place? Bosses and their secretaries? Work colleagues having affairs? Your telling me in the large companies where hundreds of people work, that nothing ever happens? Because I for one, know that it does go on, both from my own experience of working in larger firms and from other people who work within large organisations. So those of you who don't believe this goes on, you must be very naïve or you go around with your eyes closed. Yeah - and I don't think it's professional for them to be having sex at work either (with clients or colleagues), or wanking at work, or bragging to colleagues about any of those things happening." Agreed | |||
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"He wasn't bragging. He was telling me, as frirnds do tell each other things. I leeinally found it very horny, hence my post. But this is the forums, and people are allowed to disagree. I know my boss is vey professional in his work. He has an excellent reputation in his business, with both staff and customers alike. I know he did nothing out of order, and did nothing that doesn't happen in a lot of other work places. " Damn typos lol...he was telling me as friends do tell each other. I personally found it horny | |||
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