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What puts people off meeting you?

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton

I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Generally, my personality.

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"Generally, my personality."

Would you like a biscuit? {offers chocolate hobnob}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos...

My fat rolls...

My love for clubs..

My love for mmf...

Me just being me and being really blunt. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With some it coz I dnt play straight away

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Generally, my personality.

Would you like a biscuit? {offers chocolate hobnob}"

I am partial to a hobnob. Thank you!

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone "

But Jesus, you're in everyone's heart

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

my tattoos probably, for some people, and that i'm not BBW and only fat.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our desperation..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Its either,

My Face, Body, or Height

or all of the above

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton

I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Probably weight and height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I'm picky

Cos I want a social with no play option

Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone

But Jesus, you're in everyone's heart "

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We don't know. Could be that we are looking for a female to join us. Or maybe they don't like our profile or the way we look. Have to leave that for others to decide.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab "

i don't, thought we was just giving opinions of why someone wouldn't wanna meet us?

my, lack of, grammar.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab "

Unicorns .

People like different things and regardless of the imbalance of numbers on this site, they still like them and don't want to meet ones who don't fit what they want.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally."

How about two hours?

,

S

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Probably because I don't have a lot of free time to meet, so might even be several weeks before I can even arrange a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i can't accommodate. I like to be picked up. Play then dropped off home.. not to much to ask? ??

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No idea, though we prefer clubs and parties to long pm swaps or random "can you meet now"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally.

How about two hours?

,

S"

That has happened once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tattoos...

My fat rolls...

My love for clubs..

My love for mmf...

Me just being me and being really blunt. .."

I can relate, honesty is seen as a dirty word now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I'm picky and I think my profile comes across as a bit bitchy and negative

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me "

I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To open and friendly, people just don't trust any body any more ... oh get the violins out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My aloofness.

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton

I'm a tall woman, and I wonder if that's off putting sometimes. I'm fussy about height with men, so it works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very limited free time, people seem to think we're just messing them around when trying to pin us down for dates for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably my age and size. (It's ok though, there's plenty who aren't put off).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect an effort, a little too much to ask apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that I won't just meet any random person who messages me, and the fact I won't meet at the drop of a hat.

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me

I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason"

Attraction often is shallow though, especially when you're not looking for forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I have met.

Not giving them sex talk or fantasy talk.

Having had too many sexual partners.

Other miscellaneous reasons I have no idea about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refusing to send them naked photos.

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

The fact I'm male and live a long way from civilization doesn't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The fact that I am Indian or I cannot accommodate. Most profiles state no asains these days... so colour of my skin I guess. It would be nice to meet someone willing to meet an indian. x

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

The more of the responses I read, I'm mentally agreeing with a lot of them... so perhaps it's a combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age, not Bi-anything or interested in being a sub.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"I'm a tall woman, and I wonder if that's off putting sometimes. I'm fussy about height with men, so it works both ways."

It does for me and I can relate to your last comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably my age and size. (It's ok though, there's plenty who aren't put off). "

Neither nor anything would put me off a meet with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons"

Oh and i'm 6ft 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not everyones/anyones type. Well thats how feel anyway x

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons

Oh and i'm 6ft 2"

Wow! I achieve that in heels Getting trousers is a bastard, am I right? {Hob nob}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm let me think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons"

Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me

I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason

Attraction often is shallow though, especially when you're not looking for forever "

Lots of guys I've turned down couldn't see why I have to be attracted to them. Glad it's not just me that can see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Availability.

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"Hmm let me think "

I like the way you're trying to lure people in with sweeties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair envy

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Probably because I'm a fussy bugger who hasn't met the right man to take it further than soft play

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"Hair envy "

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"Probably because I'm a fussy bugger who hasn't met the right man to take it further than soft play"

Nowt wrong with fussy

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because I don't meet at the drop of a hat and like to get to know them on here first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm let me think

I like the way you're trying to lure people in with sweeties."

It's not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair envy "

*swish swish

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I guessing age, that I'm a choosey, and most of all, being a male.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons

Oh and i'm 6ft 2

Wow! I achieve that in heels Getting trousers is a bastard, am I right? {Hob nob}"

Yep! Total nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair envy

*swish swish "

Because we're worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons

Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet "

i like licking lollipops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....

It's a long list of potential reasons

Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet

i like licking lollipops "

Shall we share one? You lick one side and I lick the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tattoos

My face

My wife jokes she's ace!!

And my massive.. thighs

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can't meet at the drop of a hat, and can only do daytimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What puts people off meeting me? - if I knew that, then I could do something to fix it.

I'm guessing either my photos, or profile, or both. (Answers on a postcard?...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.

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The poor pronunciation of the chillier of the continents is a deal breaker for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think some guys think I'm a bit demanding!

The fact I don't want to meet in a hotel.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'be no idea what puts people off me and I don't really care to be honest. I'm more interested in the ones who do want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.

"

Do you have an obsession with flegs? If not I can look past all of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my face is like a smashed up vauxhall nova, my body looks like leftover fondue and my mind is just a bit of a shithole.

otherwise i'm flawless...so close!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you "

I dont have that problem

The other way round though is rudness, Im not a fan of the rude self important people! Some times I can find people very patronising which turns me off no matter how nice they are in their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location comes up a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m all podgy XXX

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

West Mids

I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never cared enough to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m all podgy XXX"

hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist "

are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our lack of free time to be able to meet at the drop of a hat or should that be knickers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.

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I can't pronounce sardonicism. I usually can't spell it either.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The male half, wiggles gets plenty of offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who am I kidding.

No one ever turns me down

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The Cue

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

West Mids


"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist

are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at "

I'll guess the prescription and hope I get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're either intimidated by our raw unbridled sex power, have noticed that everyone we meet mysteriously falls off a cliff 3 days later, or they just can't be arsed

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Because I like to meet at clubs socially before play ... and I don't mean when hosting before anyone thinks I'm plugging Haha

I mean on nights off to party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That we love outdoors , and we don't seem to models ?? Who are successful and good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the fact I'm not meeting and have cleared my profile text ... It would be the fact I don't suffer fools gladly and say it exactly how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist

are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at

I'll guess the prescription and hope I get it right"

yes mate, it's ten to eight

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Being new....

Not having much free time...

Wanting a social first....

Not being sure where our limits are yet....

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you

I dont have that problem

The other way round though is rudness, Im not a fan of the rude self important people! Some times I can find people very patronising which turns me off no matter how nice they are in their profiles. "

Very, very true.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".

That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..

Que Sera Sera

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that we are so anal with our diaries and plans meets 3 or 4 weeks in advance. Being restricted to Saturday nights doesn't help either.

Also the fact that we like to go for drinks and socialise with our playmates prior to a play session is a turnoff for a lot of men who just want to fuck.

Can't help our diary problems, it's just the way our life is. Wish we could be more flexible as we have missed out at times. Don't care however if we put off the guys who don't want to socialise - that's a good filter.

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Probably because I look after my daughter alot so I can't accommodate atm.

I prefer daytime meets for the same reason.

I'm happy to bide my time.

I'm having fun just chatting to a few new friends.

My waistline ain't what it used to be either, but I'm working on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him - being overly hirsute doesn't help.

Her - no that confidently chatty initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

probably me being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sorts of things I imagine. Just as well really. I like not being inundated

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".

That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..

Que Sera Sera

S"

Mine is because I am a cunt

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I'm shy! Lol

Actually, we've not met anyone yet.... Just taking it step by step. I think that will put lots off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are too old, perceived as too hardcore, have too many verifications.....

Who knows

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".

That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..

Que Sera Sera

S

Mine is because I am a cunt "

Talk of the devil & they are bound to arrive as they say

S

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you "

My spotty arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you "

Couldn't say. We seem to do pretty well on meets, so it has never really come up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're either intimidated by our raw unbridled sex power, have noticed that everyone we meet mysteriously falls off a cliff 3 days later, or they just can't be arsed "

Way too scary...lol

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"Cos I'm picky

Cos I want a social with no play option

Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice"

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By *eviant and Bemused OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burton


"I'm shy! Lol

Actually, we've not met anyone yet.... Just taking it step by step. I think that will put lots off "

Everyone has to start somewhere x

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

You'd have to ask them

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Could be many reasons, but age has to be up there! Didn't have a problem before we got old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My weight, probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My weight, probably. "

You can stop that when you like Miss

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".

That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..

Que Sera Sera

S

Mine is because I am a cunt

Talk of the devil & they are bound to arrive as they say

S"

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My weight, probably.

You can stop that when you like Miss "

What, being fat!? Nah, I'm too lazy...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you "

Because I'm a minger! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My weight, probably.

You can stop that when you like Miss

What, being fat!? Nah, I'm too lazy... "

You know what I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob my height and weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.

Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.

Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies "

The old reverse psychology trick.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Because our photos and profile are a bit naff and we're only free when most people are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With some it coz I dnt play straight away "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we state we are gay

Because we are quite specific in what we want

Because we have a profile that seems to cut down on chancers

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Generally, my personality."

Ironic that, as it's your personality that attracts me you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.

Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies

The old reverse psychology trick. "

Hasn't worked me mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont meet couples alone - but the fact they keep asking when ive said no already means they get blocked

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I'm not bisexual or even curious.

And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever

Over to you

Because I'm a minger! X"

A ging-er minger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as attractive as most of the women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My weight, my face, the fact that I actually want to get to know people before I waste both of our time meeting, the fact that I won't meet without a social, I'm awful at planning meets cause I'm so busy all the time, the fact that I'm a hardcore socialist, I'm constantly on my phone so I get grumpy when people don't reply to my messages quick enough... I'm a picky bugger

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

our good looks charm and personality .our massive house .the fact we have servants .drink pink champers .[ok we just fibbers but we get lots meets and plenty chats .] just being us .and we chat to any fabbers that are good enough to text us .

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

We sometimes get side stepped because Kim is a well known porn star & I have been shooting / starring in hardcore porn for 20 years, when people do finally meet us they then realise we're a normal friendly down to earth couple that's the complete opposite to what they were expecting.

Never judge a book by it cover lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm picky

Cos I want a social with no play option

Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice"

This,

plus...I don't play with more than two regulars

....only meet single ladies.

....too far away from most on my list....

but when I do ifs always fucking good !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age.

cut off for most seems to be 55.

Hey-ho

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Being 'Exotic'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body and my bluntness most likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, bisexuality, single bloke, picky, no face pic unless I 'trust' you.... availability...

Fucking hell, I'm amazed I get any at all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno...apparently being old fat and ugly doesn't help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno maybe hairier men that look like a teddy bear?

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"My age.

cut off for most seems to be 55.

Hey-ho "
fuck you still gotta use a crow bar and 2 big men to get me off a young 55 year old .age dont mean nothing .being a player male or female does .

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'm an enigma xxx

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

the fact that i go through hating men stages scares some guys off, i'm sure of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm picky and I think my profile comes across as a bit bitchy and negative "

lol

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I don't swap pictures. There's enough on here as far as I'm concerned.

I don't like facials or cum in my mouth.

I'm not into women.

I'm blunt.

I'm sure the list is endless haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat my hair, is that off putting?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My male pattern baldness, my lack of height, the fact I'm over 45, I don't live in a bustling metropolis, I'm married and playing away

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My big tummy

My bluntness

They're scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I eat my hair, is that off putting?"

Only if you cough up hairballs

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By *onforming_deviantWoman
over a year ago

Hull

My insistence on a social

My lack of trust

I'm picky

And being willing to rearrange to suit us both makes me seem easy I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno...apparently being old fat and ugly doesn't help xx"

You have a lovely bum. From what i can see anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because we only meet at a club and work commitments and we're not for them,who knows

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

our age,

lack of confidence (not had a meet for a while).

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a slut

I have pics of meets on my profile

I'm not black enough,nor white enough

I'm a geek

I look like a brown mr bean

I'm skinny

no interest in 'manly' things really(cars,sport)

I meet larger people,I meet slim people

I have too many verifications

I have cock pics

I dont pander

I dont listen to music

I drink

I smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some wench is going around telling people I have a dodgy coat.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Height

Skin colour

But oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm overly fussy...I insist on a social meet first...I refuse to show explicit pics...I have a sharp tongue...and apparently I'm intimidating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont respond to all my messages

I talk myself out of meets

I get bored very easily and have a very demanding and time consuming job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a grumpy bugger now and then

I am prone to over flirting at times

I get carried away and frequently catch foot in mouth syndrome

I completely miss the fact that I might be affecting someone else's feelings with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as attractive as most of the women on here."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What puts ppl off...I know this one,confidence,ppl stuck in there comfort zone,ppl keep doing the same things going clubs.

Ppl fantazie but sayimg n.doing it is 2 different things.

Tbh u can keep going on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What puts ppl off...I know this one,confidence,ppl stuck in there comfort zone,ppl keep doing the same things going clubs.

Ppl fantazie but sayimg n.doing it is 2 different things.

Tbh u can keep going on here lol"

None of those are anything to do with you putting them off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the strap on scared a few

Apparently two women can be intimidating but we are pussy cats really

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have had social meets , and people who just message and say want to meet.but cant meet at the drop of a hat or the fact we haven't been on that long dont know. Would have to check our profile maybe its not very good any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wheelchair.

The fact I can't meet instantly.

The fact I don't like loads of chat before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as attractive as most of the women on here.

This! "

Not true for either of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wheelchair.

The fact I can't meet instantly.

The fact I don't like loads of chat before a meet.

"

No.... it's the fact I don't drive and you're some way away.... (and probably have too much taste to say yes x)

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Cos I never reply to messages probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact I won't meet someone ten minutes after they messaged me, just cos they asked politely or directly. Also the fact that I stress socials and conversations that don't involve cock shots.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Being open to actual meets with real couples, as opposed to keyboard warrioring and double click- hand on dick.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

My lack of interest in nsa mostly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm picky

Cos I want a social with no play option

Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice

This,

plus...I don't play with more than two regulars

....only meet single ladies.

....too far away from most on my list....

but when I do ifs always fucking good ! "

Being 100% straight ...not even fab straight.

Blocking those who don't reply.... Saves wasting both our time in future searches.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Because I'm

Old

Fat

Ugly

A minger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Plenty!

But there's more that persuades them they want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We really don't know"

I don't either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably tattoos and I'm a guy

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