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nice guys really do finish last

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its seem to be getting so much harder for genuine guys like my self to meet any one these days due to lots of time waster and ppl that are only wanting to meet if you have a huge cock or look like a model

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are so right..

of course the pics of your big cock and the numerous verifications may not validate your claim

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'm not really that big and it has take a long time to gte my feed back and some of which are from ppl i met of my old profile

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"i'm not really that big and it has take a long time to gte my feed back and some of which are from ppl i met of my old profile "

well keep up the good work.... sumit is working

imagine if you had a tiny cock and no verifications... see always a positive

seriously... the good guys shine thro, so keep the faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you never know michael you might find a girl and spark up a friendship like we use to have as i know first hand how nice you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this seems to be a common problem

just go to a few socials have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you never know michael you might find a girl and spark up a friendship like we use to have as i know first hand how nice you are "
why don't you restore his faith and meet him naughty ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks sam and who knows and for the socials not that easy when you cant drive to get to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont drive but there is such things as PUBLIC transport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep at it fella your doing better than most single guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find you have times of lots of meets and none,when I first joined I had about 3 in the first few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont meet like that atm and we are mainly just friends now

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Stick at it fella you just have to work harder to get your meets its nice when you dont have go looking for meets, by the way dont moan it puts peeps off you big time good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and respect the persons decision if they say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do if some one says they dont want to meet i want dog them about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taken me a while to get my first verification,and 1st meet is nearing very shortly...

As a single male it's difficult but you must persevere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats true and just more rewarding when you do get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully I'll know very soon...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"thanks sam and who knows and for the socials not that easy when you cant drive to get to them "

Any woman that insists I have to drive (in order for me to meet her) is either after my car, wants to assess my worth based on the car... or isn't worth my time whatever her reason.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"its seem to be getting so much harder for genuine guys like my self to meet any one these days due to lots of time waster and ppl that are only wanting to meet if you have a huge cock or look like a model "

Yes, it must be everyone else's fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not just looks and cock size, personality and aptitude are also important contributing factors to one's successes.

I stay away from any moaners and whingers, as they do not come across as being attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont drive and have no intentions to

i use the bus,train or taxi to get to where im going and i have never been judged upon for this

i dont care if they drive or not and i dont care what job they do long as that when we meet we meet and not let down, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I stay away from any moaners and whingers, as they do not come across as being attractive to me. "

winging turns me off

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"its seem to be getting so much harder for genuine guys like my self to meet any one these days due to lots of time waster and ppl that are only wanting to meet if you have a huge cock or look like a model "

oh please!!! can i say that is absolutely rubbish....

you make of the site what you do... you can be reactive, sit on your arse and play "oh woe is me".... or you can be proactive... go out there, and do something about it...

p.s... moaning doesn't count as "doing something about it"

p.p.s... moaning isn't really that sexy a "trait" either.... why should people choose someone with a negative attitude?? what impression does "moaning" leave people with???

for example... go to socials... if not, why not???

go to clubs... if not why not???

if you are having problems with timewasters... question the way you select people (i.e not just those with a pulse!!)

there are a million things you can do out there to improve your chances and you decide to choose one that doesn't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not just looks and cock size, personality and aptitude are also important contributing factors to one's successes.

I stay away from any moaners and whingers, as they do not come across as being attractive to me. "

the lady is right.

make them smile and be polite.

funny at the right time but build up a friendship and her trust.

she will meet you and then its so worth it.

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