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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the thighs size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

"

No its most definitely not about the cock size for me , I'm more interested in the person.

When I am meeting I never want to see cock pics or ask the size as it's irrelevant to me . I've met some smaller men and some larger men and each time it's been a total surprise.

Some prefer to find men just by cock size and if that's what they want , it's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

No its most definitely not about the cock size for me , I'm more interested in the person.

When I am meeting I never want to see cock pics or ask the size as it's irrelevant to me . I've met some smaller men and some larger men and each time it's been a total surprise.

Some prefer to find men just by cock size and if that's what they want , it's their choice. "
that means us smaller guys arnt left out in cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I get the obsession to a point and tbh i'm yet to find a cock that I would really classify and huge.

Yet saying that the couple of 8/9 inch ones have been very very intense once I have taken them deep!

Some of the best sex I have had is with more average guys tbh.....

It the person and connection that turns me on the most...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because almost every profile/ meet we read asks for VWE, VVWE etc.......

I'm no shrinking violet in the trouser department but even I get a complex sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it..."

That is because quite a lot of men are confused. In threads, women claim it isn't the most important thing. But for meets they often request for VWE or BBCs or other such acronyms. It all seems rather ironic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a difficult one and requires quite a lot of sensitivity. Men need to avoid thinking that they need to have a big cock in order to be worthy. Women (and men) need to be careful in terms of objectifying men in terms of penis size.

It is of course fine to express preferences but if the situation was reversed and men were expressing preferences eg. About female body types then it would certainly be a quite distasteful thing to do. So that should always be remembered when prefences for male bodies are expressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few guys that would come into the Vwe category (+8inches) including a long term partner.

I can say with all honesty that the best sex I've ever had is with my then fwb, now husband whose size would be considered average but my god what he can do with it!

We hooked up for sex only in the beginning and it was a revelation, attentive yet masterful and he knows how move.

It's the hammer behind the pin as they say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

That is because quite a lot of men are confused. In threads, women claim it isn't the most important thing. But for meets they often request for VWE or BBCs or other such acronyms. It all seems rather ironic... "

some do, some may, but many many don't...for some reason men seem to prefer to fixate on ones that do, and then moan theyre made to feel that they dont come up to scratch..and i find it odd men even notice womens preference re size on profiles, because they seem to take dick all notice of anything else on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely do see VWE being requested lot.

lt's nice that you are empathetic to men. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a difficult one and requires quite a lot of sensitivity. Men need to avoid thinking that they need to have a big cock in order to be worthy. Women (and men) need to be careful in terms of objectifying men in terms of penis size.

It is of course fine to express preferences but if the situation was reversed and men were expressing preferences eg. About female body types then it would certainly be a quite distasteful thing to do. So that should always be remembered when prefences for male bodies are expressed"

profiles often,even usually,express a liking for specific size all the time...nothing distatsteful about it at all...havent you seen the 20+ threads every day on here about bbws for example?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a difficult one and requires quite a lot of sensitivity. Men need to avoid thinking that they need to have a big cock in order to be worthy. Women (and men) need to be careful in terms of objectifying men in terms of penis size.

It is of course fine to express preferences but if the situation was reversed and men were expressing preferences eg. About female body types then it would certainly be a quite distasteful thing to do. So that should always be remembered when prefences for male bodies are expressed

profiles often,even usually,express a liking for specific size all the time...nothing distatsteful about it at all...havent you seen the 20+ threads every day on here about bbws for example?"

Having a massive cock has positive connotations. Being a large women generally doesn't on a societal level. That is why those threads are well received. When you see the fit body or slim woman appreciation thread there tends to be more annoyance at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a difficult one and requires quite a lot of sensitivity. Men need to avoid thinking that they need to have a big cock in order to be worthy. Women (and men) need to be careful in terms of objectifying men in terms of penis size.

It is of course fine to express preferences but if the situation was reversed and men were expressing preferences eg. About female body types then it would certainly be a quite distasteful thing to do. So that should always be remembered when prefences for male bodies are expressed

profiles often,even usually,express a liking for specific size all the time...nothing distatsteful about it at all...havent you seen the 20+ threads every day on here about bbws for example?

Having a massive cock has positive connotations. Being a large women generally doesn't on a societal level. That is why those threads are well received. When you see the fit body or slim woman appreciation thread there tends to be more annoyance at them."

i was taking issue with the previous posters comment that it would be wrong if people professed a taste for a particular body size, when it is on most profiles,which is fine..and i cant say ive ever seen any 'annoyance' in the few threads there are on slim women at all..and i have no idea what you mean about 'societal level'..as you can clearly see on here, as well as on regular dating sites, its actually far more accepted than ever before...whether thats a good or bad thing is a whole other discussion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

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By *oinMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm still unsure when vwe turns in to vvwe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still unsure when vwe turns in to vvwe "

all seems to hinge on the size of the handiest tv remote...

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

For me it's not about the size it's about the whole experience.....I prefer a guy that uses all he has and not just the size of his member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter if you're very well educated??

I'm more than happy with what I have, never had any issues. And I don't consider myself vwe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the thighs size "

Fully agree with you there! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still unsure when vwe turns in to vvwe

all seems to hinge on the size of the handiest tv remote..."

Then best have the fire stick remote, will make anyone appear to have an elephants trunk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well...if they need it...perhaps try some pelvic exercises is my view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it..."

Because for whatever is saod by the very small number of women on the forums it's not carried over to the main site.

Where the majority of female or couples profiles looking for men have VWE as a requirement.

The foruns are not representative of the site at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a difficult one and requires quite a lot of sensitivity. Men need to avoid thinking that they need to have a big cock in order to be worthy. Women (and men) need to be careful in terms of objectifying men in terms of penis size.

It is of course fine to express preferences but if the situation was reversed and men were expressing preferences eg. About female body types then it would certainly be a quite distasteful thing to do. So that should always be remembered when prefences for male bodies are expressed

profiles often,even usually,express a liking for specific size all the time...nothing distatsteful about it at all...havent you seen the 20+ threads every day on here about bbws for example?

Having a massive cock has positive connotations. Being a large women generally doesn't on a societal level. That is why those threads are well received. When you see the fit body or slim woman appreciation thread there tends to be more annoyance at them.

i was taking issue with the previous posters comment that it would be wrong if people professed a taste for a particular body size, when it is on most profiles,which is fine..and i cant say ive ever seen any 'annoyance' in the few threads there are on slim women at all..and i have no idea what you mean about 'societal level'..as you can clearly see on here, as well as on regular dating sites, its actually far more accepted than ever before...whether thats a good or bad thing is a whole other discussion.."

l know you were but l was just highlighting the difference.

lt's more accepted because there has never been as many fat people in human history.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"That's because almost every profile/ meet we read asks for VWE, VVWE etc......."

Exactly this

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Oh well...if they need it...perhaps try some pelvic exercises is my view!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin! "

Made me chuckle x

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have my small cock and imagination rather then swinging my donkey kong cock about(do donkeys have big cocks?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's because almost every profile/ meet we read asks for VWE, VVWE etc.......

Exactly this

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just done a quick poll of the 1st 10 womens profiles in my area...only 1 mentions cock size, and even that is a comment about being 'curious' about a BBC..not a deal breaker at all..i really don't believe its 'most ' profiles at all im afraid, i think a lot of men are concentrating on the few that do mention it..and dwell on it as a useful reason to explain maybe why they don't get as many meets as they may have imagined they would on here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits"

Thank you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin! "

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits"

But every female profile doesn't say must have a massive cock?

OP

I've had a look at female profiles within my area who are looking to meet men. Out of fifteen of them, there are two who specify cock size. I don't think it's that much of a thing for most on here - quite often it's men who choose to identify as a bbc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours "

your profile states you're average...maybe your username is just making a rod,pardon the pun,for your own back!

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

I'm tight

I block men with big cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

But every female profile doesn't say must have a massive cock?

OP

I've had a look at female profiles within my area who are looking to meet men. Out of fifteen of them, there are two who specify cock size. I don't think it's that much of a thing for most on here - quite often it's men who choose to identify as a bbc. "

we're looking at the same women!..its a bit of a cop out i feel for a lot of men...along with the old 'the bad guys spoil it for us genuine ones'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos. "

which is possibly why most don't care about it! as they clearly and repeatedly say...to deaf ears it seems..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

But every female profile doesn't say must have a massive cock?

OP

I've had a look at female profiles within my area who are looking to meet men. Out of fifteen of them, there are two who specify cock size. I don't think it's that much of a thing for most on here - quite often it's men who choose to identify as a bbc.

we're looking at the same women!..its a bit of a cop out i feel for a lot of men...along with the old 'the bad guys spoil it for us genuine ones'.."

We are indeed!

Maybe Londoners are less fussed about penis size? I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the thighs size "

26" here bruh.. what you packing

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

But every female profile doesn't say must have a massive cock?

OP

I've had a look at female profiles within my area who are looking to meet men. Out of fifteen of them, there are two who specify cock size. I don't think it's that much of a thing for most on here - quite often it's men who choose to identify as a bbc.

we're looking at the same women!..its a bit of a cop out i feel for a lot of men...along with the old 'the bad guys spoil it for us genuine ones'.."

l don't think the most profiles require VWE but l also think you are understating it. l dare say that men view more female profiles than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

"

Tbh I'm very dick conscious.. even more so since joining fab.

If I was a single guy, I wouldn't have any dick pics etc.

But I feel as thought we shouldn't catfish people and just whip it out for all to see.

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

which is possibly why most don't care about it! as they clearly and repeatedly say...to deaf ears it seems.."

Okay. Let's just swallow your narrative. Their opinions don't matter and you are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

But every female profile doesn't say must have a massive cock?

OP

I've had a look at female profiles within my area who are looking to meet men. Out of fifteen of them, there are two who specify cock size. I don't think it's that much of a thing for most on here - quite often it's men who choose to identify as a bbc.

we're looking at the same women!..its a bit of a cop out i feel for a lot of men...along with the old 'the bad guys spoil it for us genuine ones'..

We are indeed!

Maybe Londoners are less fussed about penis size? I don't know."

dont think so, just looked at a postcode where i lived for a while in shropshire...(you can tell ive got a day off and too much time on my hands!)..and out of 20 profiles,none mentioned cock size!...its just another cop out excuse as i always thought it was..but i do think as a whole londoners are more open to pretty much anyone..be in a constant state of civil unrest if they weren 't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

which is possibly why most don't care about it! as they clearly and repeatedly say...to deaf ears it seems..

Okay. Let's just swallow your narrative. Their opinions don't matter and you are right."

i don't know what you are attempting to argue about..i have not said anything about 'im right, theyre wrong' at all, just given my opinion,which has been similar to most of the womens posted on this thread so far...and yes, obviously men view a lot more female profiles than i do, but as i , and another poster have said, the quick browse of the ones local, and not so local do not reflect the fact that 'most' mention cock size.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for men in this regard. There are far fewer women for them on here than there are men for women. Then, of those women, many of them do indeed requests VWE or something similar.

It's quite easy for people to say only 2 of 10 profiles they looked at request it (as an example), but that's still only 8 potential people left. I have a hard enough time finding men I'm attracted to keeping in mind the crazy number of them that are on the site - if even 20% of them said they only wanted size D breasts or above I certainly would start feeling more conscious of my body.

Now, there's really nothing that can be done about it. If people only want an 8" dick or above (or size D boobs) that is their choice. But I do feel for the pressure that men are under.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours

your profile states you're average...maybe your username is just making a rod,pardon the pun,for your own back!"

You make a very good point, I just thought I was being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours

your profile states you're average...maybe your username is just making a rod,pardon the pun,for your own back!

You make a very good point, I just thought I was being honest. "

not that honest if your profile then says its average..but personally, i would be put off by a username that seemed to focus on that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours

your profile states you're average...maybe your username is just making a rod,pardon the pun,for your own back!

You make a very good point, I just thought I was being honest. "

Your cock doesn't look small when you are hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, my humble opinion. I'm a decent size, 7.5", never had anything but compliments, even been told it's a bit too big on more than one occasion. Get me, blowing my trumpet! When I look on Fab and try to draw up a short list of potential suitors, all I see is 'must be VWE etc....' Am I looking at the wrong women? I spent my 20s as a keen nudist (read: pervert), visiting beaches and resorts all over the world. I always came away feeling that I was well above average. So, what exactly do women want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone required VWE, I'd still be a virgin!

Ditto lol.

Having said that this is the second time I've tried this site, had no luck the first time round and was on for over a year. I'm guessing being honest about my size is doing me no favours

your profile states you're average...maybe your username is just making a rod,pardon the pun,for your own back!

You make a very good point, I just thought I was being honest.

not that honest if your profile then says its average..but personally, i would be put off by a username that seemed to focus on that.."

It is small soft but would appear more average when hard which I didn't especially know until I got many messages saying it's not that small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest never really had a complex about the size of my cock if no one wants to play with it then I jus do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i were a guy with an average sized cock, i would just quietly assume that all the women requesting VWE males, had a baggy fanny

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm tight

I block men with big cocks "

What about men with big wallets?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"To be honest never really had a complex about the size of my cock if no one wants to play with it then I jus do it myself "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I actively block women and couples who specify VWE/BBC only, as I hate to be thought of as 'a cock with legs'. Makes me feel like I would be given marks out of ten for my performance, once I'd left the room. Not my scene guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i were a guy with an average sized cock, i would just quietly assume that all the women requesting VWE males, had a baggy fanny "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why would people be self conscious about their body when reading profiles.

Don't fit the bill, just move on.

I never contact people with preferences/musts that I don't fit, whether they're flexible with them or not they are clearly important enough to state on their profile, which simply means you're not what I want but you'll 'do'.

There's a huge amount of ladies with no preferences stated at all, why bother with others.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

Because for whatever is saod by the very small number of women on the forums it's not carried over to the main site.

Where the majority of female or couples profiles looking for men have VWE as a requirement.

The foruns are not representative of the site at all."

So True!! The Forums are not representative of the site at all.

I have seen hundreds of female and couples profiles on here asking for BBC, VWE, VVWE, and 9+ inches.

So its not just the men that are obsessed by cock size, it is the request that is coming from the females that is putting the pressure on men with smaller sizes.

And even though some women don't state cock size on their profile, they still ask for me for my size and pics when they message me. So the fact that they don't state it on their profile does not mean they are not particular about size.

Some women are size queens and some are not. Nothing wrong with that, its all down to preference like everything else.

So for those guys who don't consider themselves VWE, I'll say chin up, as there are women on here who are not particular about size and are prepared to meet you for what you've got.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actively block women and couples who specify VWE/BBC only, as I hate to be thought of as 'a cock with legs'. Makes me feel like I would be given marks out of ten for my performance, once I'd left the room. Not my scene guys "

A bit like 'Come Dine With Me' ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

Because for whatever is saod by the very small number of women on the forums it's not carried over to the main site.

Where the majority of female or couples profiles looking for men have VWE as a requirement.

The foruns are not representative of the site at all."

Absolutely right .

It never ceases to amaze me how many people come on the forums and take comments and advice as gospel !

The forum is a place where a very , very small % of people make a lot of unfounded statements about swinging and fab .

The reality is that the vast majority of fab users who never come on the forum are very aware of what works for them . Including vwe... especially couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm her for pleasure not pain found bigger cocks don't put in as much effort it's not all about the cock in my book

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For me it's not about the size it's about the whole experience.....I prefer a guy that uses all he has and not just the size of his member.

"

Agreed there is more to sex than just a big olde pounding with a cock. I pretty much enjoy being tactile and sensual and knowing how to use your fingers and tongue too

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By *cottishsurprise5Couple
over a year ago

East Ayrshire


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

"

This personally big cock doesn't do it for me. It actually frightens me haha. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I instantly delete any message where a guy just talks about his cock. If the size is all you have to offer I'm not interested

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

Because for whatever is saod by the very small number of women on the forums it's not carried over to the main site.

Where the majority of female or couples profiles looking for men have VWE as a requirement.

The foruns are not representative of the site at all.

Absolutely right .

It never ceases to amaze me how many people come on the forums and take comments and advice as gospel !

The forum is a place where a very , very small % of people make a lot of unfounded statements about swinging and fab .

The reality is that the vast majority of fab users who never come on the forum are very aware of what works for them . Including vwe... especially couples "

Well said

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As I always say on these threads, cock size is not what I judge a man on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough "

I shouldn't worry, you probably got rejected by a man pretending to be a woman or couple . In my experience couples who insist on vwe are either fake or being driven by a so called 'straight' man . As for females asking for vwe they have probably got growlers like a wizards sleeve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i were a guy with an average sized cock, i would just quietly assume that all the women requesting VWE males, had a baggy fanny "

Both extremely baggy here, even a 11incher isn't enough to feel anything!!!!!!!

People's attitudes make me laff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big cocks certainly seem to be on trend at the moment!

What can you do!?

Hint. Meet women (or whoever you're looking for) normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough

I shouldn't worry, you probably got rejected by a man pretending to be a woman or couple . In my experience couples who insist on vwe are either fake or being driven by a so called 'straight' man . As for females asking for vwe they have probably got growlers like a wizards sleeve "

What a ridiculous statement !

If we are looking for a meet with a vwe guy , we are no more fake than if we aren't .

What's more , I am straight , I just enjoy seeing S with a vwe guy sometimes . This certainly doesn't make me anything other than straight .

And finally , I am pleased to say that S hasn't got a growler like a wizards sleeve either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough

I shouldn't worry, you probably got rejected by a man pretending to be a woman or couple . In my experience couples who insist on vwe are either fake or being driven by a so called 'straight' man . As for females asking for vwe they have probably got growlers like a wizards sleeve

What a ridiculous statement !

If we are looking for a meet with a vwe guy , we are no more fake than if we aren't .

What's more , I am straight , I just enjoy seeing S with a vwe guy sometimes . This certainly doesn't make me anything other than straight .

And finally , I am pleased to say that S hasn't got a growler like a wizards sleeve either "

I said in 'my experience', I have never chatted to you so I can't possibly comment

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough

I shouldn't worry, you probably got rejected by a man pretending to be a woman or couple . In my experience couples who insist on vwe are either fake or being driven by a so called 'straight' man . As for females asking for vwe they have probably got growlers like a wizards sleeve

What a ridiculous statement !

If we are looking for a meet with a vwe guy , we are no more fake than if we aren't .

What's more , I am straight , I just enjoy seeing S with a vwe guy sometimes . This certainly doesn't make me anything other than straight .

And finally , I am pleased to say that S hasn't got a growler like a wizards sleeve either "

I always thought a growler was the pubic hair anyway. And why would anyone be baggy if they liked a long cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a nightmare for us average guys lol i have never had a complaint about how i fuck but been told plenty of times on here my cock aint big enough

I shouldn't worry, you probably got rejected by a man pretending to be a woman or couple . In my experience couples who insist on vwe are either fake or being driven by a so called 'straight' man . As for females asking for vwe they have probably got growlers like a wizards sleeve

What a ridiculous statement !

If we are looking for a meet with a vwe guy , we are no more fake than if we aren't .

What's more , I am straight , I just enjoy seeing S with a vwe guy sometimes . This certainly doesn't make me anything other than straight .

And finally , I am pleased to say that S hasn't got a growler like a wizards sleeve either

I always thought a growler was the pubic hair anyway. And why would anyone be baggy if they liked a long cock? "

Absolutely no idea , from our experience they haven't .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear echoes as I enter sometimes, sometimes the echo echoes. I'm not saying she's big but fisting has caused untold damage.

On a serious note...my approach to the request for a massive cock is block and move on. I'm more than a cock....whether big or small and if that's the focus then we're not going to be compatible anyways..... shallow in the head and cavernous in the muff....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear echoes as I enter sometimes, sometimes the echo echoes. I'm not saying she's big but fisting has caused untold damage.

On a serious note...my approach to the request for a massive cock is block and move on. I'm more than a cock....whether big or small and if that's the focus then we're not going to be compatible anyways..... shallow in the head and cavernous in the muff.... "

If i get asked I just reply asking how tight they are, funnily enough I don't get many replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos. "

That's true, one girl told me she loved my ten inches. It's almost 8" on a good day....

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

Well at least I now know what to do...

Next time someone asks me for my cock dimensions and a pic, I will ask for their vaginal dimensions..

Fair is fair...

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Well at least I now know what to do...

Next time someone asks me for my cock dimensions and a pic, I will ask for their vaginal dimensions..

Fair is fair... "

I will get the tape measure out. May need help though

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North


"Well at least I now know what to do...

Next time someone asks me for my cock dimensions and a pic, I will ask for their vaginal dimensions..

Fair is fair...

I will get the tape measure out. May need help though "

I will measure you if you measure me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason we swing is variety , adrenaline , the buzz and the excitement . Sometimes we enjoy chatting , socialising and the company of people we meet , as well as the sexual fun . Others we just like a fuck and go , or suck and go , and sometimes a combination of both .

The size of a guys cock is rarely a consideration , unless that's what we really want that night . Which is no different than anyone who has a preference on here . Be it a bbw , a slim woman , a busty lady etc........

So for the guys who seem to think that women who like to meet vwe guys are baggy down there , your comments are at best childish and immature , and at worst a typical sour grapes type of attitude which does you no favours at all .

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Well at least I now know what to do...

Next time someone asks me for my cock dimensions and a pic, I will ask for their vaginal dimensions..

Fair is fair...

I will get the tape measure out. May need help though

I will measure you if you measure me "

Kinky. Let's do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason we swing is variety , adrenaline , the buzz and the excitement . Sometimes we enjoy chatting , socialising and the company of people we meet , as well as the sexual fun . Others we just like a fuck and go , or suck and go , and sometimes a combination of both .

The size of a guys cock is rarely a consideration , unless that's what we really want that night . Which is no different than anyone who has a preference on here . Be it a bbw , a slim woman , a busty lady etc........

So for the guys who seem to think that women who like to meet vwe guys are baggy down there , your comments are at best childish and immature , and at worst a typical sour grapes type of attitude which does you no favours at all . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits"

Id be winning at life there

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"The reason we swing is variety , adrenaline , the buzz and the excitement . Sometimes we enjoy chatting , socialising and the company of people we meet , as well as the sexual fun . Others we just like a fuck and go , or suck and go , and sometimes a combination of both .

The size of a guys cock is rarely a consideration , unless that's what we really want that night . Which is no different than anyone who has a preference on here . Be it a bbw , a slim woman , a busty lady etc........

So for the guys who seem to think that women who like to meet vwe guys are baggy down there , your comments are at best childish and immature , and at worst a typical sour grapes type of attitude which does you no favours at all . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

"
and black men are expected to have a sense of rhythm too and is not always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is most refreshing imagine the feminist backlash if every male profile said must have massive tits

Id be winning at life there "

I think you are winning but profile hidden

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Hear hear.

Yes cock size, but also body, height, facial hair, tattoos etc etc.

Men are the new women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sat here reading posts about BBC and VWE males .............

I genuinely feel sorry for men who have the pressure of feeling their cocks are just not big enough.

Black males are almost expected to have a massive cock just because they're black.

I know everyone has a type but surely it's not just about cock size?

Thoughts ...............

"

I feel like you've spoken on my behalf haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my tongue and my fingers are gifted...apparently..but if I'm relaxed I can fire on all guns most of the night..sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos. "

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are. "

Looks are the most important thing to me..call me shallow but I have to be attracted. Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems to be far more to men than it is to women...however many threads have endless comments from women saying its not the most important thing,men on here seem obsessed by it...

Because for whatever is saod by the very small number of women on the forums it's not carried over to the main site.

Where the majority of female or couples profiles looking for men have VWE as a requirement.

The foruns are not representative of the site at all.

Absolutely right .

It never ceases to amaze me how many people come on the forums and take comments and advice as gospel !

The forum is a place where a very , very small % of people make a lot of unfounded statements about swinging and fab .

The reality is that the vast majority of fab users who never come on the forum are very aware of what works for them . Including vwe... especially couples "

Very true. As I have always said a lot of the forum regulars (many of them in this thread) are the deluded types. Stuck in a constant circlejerk with their e-friends...ends up with many existing in this weird parallel universe where Fab is not highly looks dependent and its impossible for single males to deal with insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are.

Looks are the most important thing to me..call me shallow but I have to be attracted. Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list"

Meh. Personally its something I stopped getting caught up on. In shape is enough. I swear, I feel women are becoming the new teenage boys. Gakked up on pornography and lacking in an understanding of what sex actually is.

Abs, muscles, tattoos and cocks have kinda taken over at the expense of skill, chemistry, foreplay and experience.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are.

Looks are the most important thing to me..call me shallow but I have to be attracted. Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list

Meh. Personally its something I stopped getting caught up on. In shape is enough. I swear, I feel women are becoming the new teenage boys. Gakked up on pornography and lacking in an understanding of what sex actually is.

Abs, muscles, tattoos and cocks have kinda taken over at the expense of skill, chemistry, foreplay and experience. "

I wouldn't say that, I could meet someone who fit my wants visually and therefore the chemistry is there but they could be shit in the sack. I wouldn't find that out until I started to have fun with them. That would just mean I wouldn't meet them again

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are.

Looks are the most important thing to me..call me shallow but I have to be attracted. Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list"

"Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list"

Way down in the list for you, but way up on the list for some others.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking personally, I find that whilst there may be quite a few profiles asking for vwe there are also those where the ladies specifically ask for average or smaller. I am sure both sets of people would rather have 'something' over nothing and have on occasion had bigger or smaller than their preferred size. At the end of the day it's just a preference...I prefer bigger cuddlier ladies...who cares its my preference...I'm not asking everyone to prefer them as well...after all there are lots of different sized ladies on here, enough for everyone's preferences. I happen to have an (I assume) average size cock...I'd have to estimate it as I've never bothered to measure the damn thing...but if sex was just down to cocks and fannies we'd all (every one of us) be pretty bored with it. So, just let people have their personal preferences and let's stop worrying about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the motion in the ocean not the size of the boat , look at the titanic biggest ship and that was a flop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"l seriously think the average woman's idea of what VWE is skewed from the men bullshitting them about size over the years.. The profiles stating 8+ only most don't have 8+ cock in the photos.

Most men dont have 8 inch cocks period. Liberal stats peg it at 0.5% of the general population.

TBH the forums irritate me IMMENSELY on the subject. People all go on about how it doesnt matter and then half the profiles specify one and you'll be hard pressed to find at least one there a day on it.

Its part of the general bullshitting nature of many of the forum participants. People who are incredibly show and yet seem to be obsessed with pretending they're somehow otherwise.

Size matters. Looks matter. Your personality is a great lubricant to being successful but, like it or not, sites like these (or Tinder/POF/OKC for that matter) will be a playground for physicallt desirable men...such is the reality of sexual parity. When people here sit here and pretend that looks or penis size doesnt figure largely into MODERN swinging I just laugh...as I always do when people try to pretend they're less shallow than they are.

Looks are the most important thing to me..call me shallow but I have to be attracted. Penis size, whilst I don't want anyone with a micro penis, is way down the list"

.see but its still on the list.

Women on here have so much choice that "way down the list" is actually where the decision is made as everything at the top of a list is a given

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By *oxy502Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I wish I had a biger cock

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By *bonyheavenMan
over a year ago

london

Wow ..... The subject of penis size is clearly a Massive talking point/issue & probably fantasy for " some " people .

Clearly just looking at the number of people who have commented within the last day shows that size , whether we like it or not is something that matters to people.

There is so much that could be said about this niche , but i think a large cock will continue to fascinate,excite & give pleasure to curious ladies/couples who desire this strand of swing!. A fascinating topic .

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Cock size has no importance what so ever it`s what he can do with it and of course his tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size has no importance what so ever it`s what he can do with it and of course his tongue "

Whats funny is when guys ask for profile advice and they have "size isnt important to me" about womens body size rhey aleays get told to take it off as ir soubds like theyll fuck anything lol

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