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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do ppl think your reply to them if they keep sending you message over and over and you didnt reply to they frist one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do ppl think your reply to them if they keep sending you message over and over and you didnt reply to they frist one "
why not reply to say thanks but,no thanks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people read profiles in the first place, there would be no messages for us to ignore

Seriously though, it is annoying, even more when they think that we match profile wise but forget there has to be a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

may be like me thay forget thay sent message before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

might be easy for a guys to reply to all messages but us single fems and couples get far to many

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

ah well that's because some guys are goldfish, they circle the bowl once, and forget what they'd done on the last lap round... LOL

you can always block em if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might be easy for a guys to reply to all messages but us single fems and couples get far to many "
well you can also just block can't you,only takes a second.I do send more then one message to ppl,but not in a row or in the same day.I will resend messages to people I wanna meet again because first time they may have not read your message or not be interested in meeting you at that time.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

use all filters available..

newbies..

unverified..

without pics..

then read them and if you don't like the sound of them or they don't appeal... BLOCK.

then reply to the ones who do..

that will endeth your problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"use all filters available..

newbies..

unverified..

without pics..

then read them and if you don't like the sound of them or they don't appeal... BLOCK.

then reply to the ones who do..

that will endeth your problem.."

but you might end up with no messages at all lol

Most of the time we say no thanks, if we get a message again we will say, that its still "a no" from us. after that - block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do ppl think your reply to them if they keep sending you message over and over and you didnt reply to they frist one "

Just read your profile (Very sexy!) and your preferences aren't really that clear. This might be a reason why guys keep trying their luck. Even though they shouldn't. Try and have a clear idea of what you're looking for and you're more likely to get the people you want.

By the way, it's impression, not "imprecision." Sorry babe.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite not thanks, probably takes less than 5 seconds. Thats the problem with this country common courtesy and decency is going out of the window !! Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite not thanks, probably takes less than 5 seconds. Thats the problem with this country common courtesy and decency is going out of the window !! Manners cost nothing"

However, manners work both ways. If a person messages us and it's obvious they haven't read our profile, or is blunt bordering on rude, they don't warrant even 5 secs of our time on a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept that and understand if people are blunt and abusive why should people respond. I always take the time to read profiles and give a specific message as opposed to cut and paste and yet still people ignore messages. More and more timewasters seem to be popping up on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but try replying to all your messages when in the time it takes to reply to 1 you get 3 more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but try replying to all your messages when in the time it takes to reply to 1 you get 3 more "
why not block men and only contact ones your interested in ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i block enough ppl as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i block enough ppl as it is "
You can't blame them though,look at your pics your stunning.Most guys would walk over hot coals to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do ppl think your reply to them if they keep sending you message over and over and you didnt reply to they frist one "
just block them if you dont want them 2 replay back

they may think could b interested

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"i block enough ppl as it is "

if you ain't gonna block and stop them... why are you moaning about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

because i like hearing off guys just to many are dreamers time waster or assholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because i like hearing off guys just to many are dreamers time waster or assholes"
yeah and plenty of gen guys,who do meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"because i like hearing off guys just to many are dreamers time waster or assholes"

why would a guy writing to you at a time you are not meeting be a 'timewaster'.. sorry if I am missing the obvious...

either way... good luck and hope it improves for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people forget, many more live in hope!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"use all filters available..

newbies..

unverified..

without pics..

then read them and if you don't like the sound of them or they don't appeal... BLOCK.

then reply to the ones who do..

that will endeth your problem.."
i do use the no pics filter but it does not work!! ive reported it to admin with no joy, i wish we had working filters for age limits etc, i spend most of my time deleting messages from people too young and smokers gggrrrr

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"use all filters available..

newbies..

unverified..

without pics..

then read them and if you don't like the sound of them or they don't appeal... BLOCK.

then reply to the ones who do..

that will endeth your problem..i do use the no pics filter but it does not work!! ive reported it to admin with no joy, i wish we had working filters for age limits etc, i spend most of my time deleting messages from people too young and smokers gggrrrr "

block all guys... and do the finding.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"use all filters available..

newbies..

unverified..

without pics..

then read them and if you don't like the sound of them or they don't appeal... BLOCK.

then reply to the ones who do..

that will endeth your problem..i do use the no pics filter but it does not work!! ive reported it to admin with no joy, i wish we had working filters for age limits etc, i spend most of my time deleting messages from people too young and smokers gggrrrr

block all guys... and do the finding.

"
ha ha maybe!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because i like hearing off guys just to many are dreamers time waster or assholes"
so were all assoles n time wasters then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish had messages to delete lol!! dont see it really being much of a problem, dont like it...hit block and delete, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you really dislike a message do as suggested delete and block then they cant message you again, thats what i do

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester


"might be easy for a guys to reply to all messages but us single fems and couples get far to many "

We must be doing someting wrong, we only get 5 or 6 messages a week. Pretty east to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol we dont get more than that too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might be easy for a guys to reply to all messages but us single fems and couples get far to many

We must be doing someting wrong, we only get 5 or 6 messages a week. Pretty east to deal with. "

We're in the same club, sad times.

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By *latinum_geezerMan
over a year ago

Durham


"By the way, it's impression, not "imprecision." Sorry babe.

Have fun. "

also break not brake, OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED, not what it is, possibly messaging not massaging

but really like the _iew when you open your legs wide

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Its hard being popular aint it?

Mistress (with tongue firmly in cheek)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might be easy for a guys to reply to all messages but us single fems and couples get far to many "

i know its not easy for you ladies to reply to them all.

but i would recommend if you got one which is constantly messaging you to just send a polite message asking them to stop as your not interested.

if they continue after this just block them.

i hope you and your baby are well. congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By the way, it's impression, not "imprecision." Sorry babe.

Have fun.

also break not brake, OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED, not what it is, possibly messaging not massaging

but really like the _iew when you open your legs wide "

oh ya point of my Dyslexia that will help you get on my good side NOT!!!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Yep, congratulations young lady.

Mistress x

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By *latinum_geezerMan
over a year ago

Durham


"really like the _iew when your legs are open wide

oh ya point of my Dyslexia that will help you get on my good side NOT!!!"

all done in good faith but if you ever needed a reason to use the block...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and this one......

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Think she took on board a few things maybe this time.... lol Welcome back. x

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