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Why is it so hard for single men on this site

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By *jlee1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one is going to mail you to know more. They can't be faffed when there are plenty of peeps who explain very well what they are about, and what they can bring to the meet, on their profile.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Fill out your profile, explain to people what you are like & what you like. If you can put on a few "bum pics" then the ladies will love you I'm sure.

Enjoy anyway & happy hunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep bum pics gets my vote lol

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I have met more people from this site having gone to socials and chatted on cam first, last one was the camping trip to Norfolk in May, wow what a weekend that was. Let people see you are genuine and you will get more interest, it has to be said there are a lot of single males here but you wont meet up if people dont know you are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not hard to single guys on this site, only for those who put little in their profiles, nothing therefore to tempt us ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As _obsrocket says above get yourself a cam and into chat and actually talk to people. Get out to some social events and don't get disappointed if it takes a while. Single fellas are everywhere and you need to make yourself stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with all the above, fill out your profile, i for one would not contact anyone who says email me if you want to know more!!! you need to sell yourself a little, make the women want to know more about you!

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over a year ago

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"agree with all the above, fill out your profile, i for one would not contact anyone who says email me if you want to know more!!! you need to sell yourself a little, make the women want to know more about you! "

Absolutely, you have to remember that its like window shopping, so give ladies a reason to want to look closer.

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

Also want to add that a great profile really can work wonders. We browsed one last night that was watching the mrs on cam, winked our way. It was so well written that it left us in no doubt what the guy was all about, and as for the pictures, well, she could have eaten him alive, right there and then off the screen lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one is going to mail you to know more. They can't be faffed when there are plenty of peeps who explain very well what they are about, and what they can bring to the meet, on their profile."

Sigh, I don't know why they don't get this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all "

This site isn't hard for single men - only for single men who don't put the effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all

This site isn't hard for single men - only for single men who don't put the effort in."
its also about paitence

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all

This site isn't hard for single men - only for single men who don't put the effort in."

Fully agree

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all

This site isn't hard for single men - only for single men who don't put the effort in.

Fully agree "

Yep no easy way but your profile says nothing about you or what you are looking for and a single pic of a toned bod but taken unimaginatively.

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By *jlee1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

ok so i have edited my profile few more pics face too hopefully this is better any opinions all feedback would be helpful

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Went blue in the face trying to read that! Does your keyboard not have full stops or capital letters???

Most people would give up before they got half way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above.

The pics look good but the text would put me off. I'm a bit confused by you saying you're very new to this when you've been registered here for more than a year.

I'd also rewrite or remove "or two women that would be the bonus lol i dont mind at all lol x" and "three somes with a guy or a girl as long as its opposite ends".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went blue in the face trying to read that! Does your keyboard not have full stops or capital letters???

Most people would give up before they got half way! "

Agreed: I did give up!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am surprised you have had no meets.

Very surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on this site for a year nearly and not a sniff im never crude am nice to people only rude when they are after that dont get it at all

This site isn't hard for single men - only for single men who don't put the effort in.

its also about paitence "

And using full stops. Reading a 10-line paragraph without any hurts the eyes. Total switch-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing i found is talk to people in chat and just be charming and pleasant... there re so many "show me ya tits" messages going about that you stand out...

Also, get down a club and talk to people. Even a few bad jokes help you stand out from the stalking majority lol

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By *jlee1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Thanks for all your input i have edited my profile broken it down a bit think it looks bit better now but any help is appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest OP I actually dont care what you say in your profile, one thing stuck out for me, your a champain thai boxer and are fit and have good stamina, I didnt read anything else. I think its great

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oi, I thought it's just us guys that don't read profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest OP I actually dont care what you say in your profile, one thing stuck out for me, your a champain thai boxer and are fit and have good stamina, I didnt read anything else. I think its great "

and they say guys are shallow... lol

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