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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just wondering whether any single women would actively prefer to date someone who is interested in cuckolding/being cuckolded, or whether it is something they prefer to avoid in a partner or potential partner?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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yes. i'm totally up for NSA cuckolding (and been doing this on and off) but would prefer a proper committed relationship. i am actively dating guys and prioritising them at this time.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

It does seem a lot of single ladies,put cuckolding as an interest.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

For me would only work if I am in a committed relationship with a man . I cant do The NSA cuckolding as Its Not real for me .

To have a boyfriend who is a Cuck and committed to me but me still living single lifestyle would be ideal .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really like the idea of NSA cuckolding. But I've had a long term cuck relationship, and it was great. More wittol actually...

I can be happily monogamous. I can also happily be a cuckoldress.

But, in regular dating.. how would you say that? So, I mention it on here, on a site where that type of guy might feel more comfortable coming forward. Because, it isn't the norm is it?

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I'm just wondering whether any single women would actively prefer to date someone who is interested in cuckolding/being cuckolded, or whether it is something they prefer to avoid in a partner or potential partner? "

Would love to be in a committed relationship witha lady who sampled others..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I think it would be difficult to include cuckolding on a profile on a regular dating site, as I think it might be off putting to some, and also you never know if someone you know sees your profile. But I often mention pretty early on to the other person that I'd be interested in them sleeping with other men.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Yep I think it would be difficult to include cuckolding on a profile on a regular dating site, as I think it might be off putting to some, and also you never know if someone you know sees your profile. But I often mention pretty early on to the other person that I'd be interested in them sleeping with other men. "

Interesting you mention this to potential vanilla dates - (i would love to do this - but havent had the guts) - what do they say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a guy to mention it to me! But maybe not on the first date!

I don't want to think that's all he's interested in...

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I'd love a guy to mention it to me! But maybe not on the first date!

I don't want to think that's all he's interested in..."

I fully agree with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner on a dating site and after talking for only a few weeks he explained his fantasies about cuckolding, it must have been scary for him to admit that so soon and we haven't looked back lol, it works well for us, I know it's not for everyone one but my advice for any guy who enjoys or is curious about the lifestyle is to be honest at an early stage with any potential partner, and they may just surprise you

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I met my partner on a dating site and after talking for only a few weeks he explained his fantasies about cuckolding, it must have been scary for him to admit that so soon and we haven't looked back lol, it works well for us, I know it's not for everyone one but my advice for any guy who enjoys or is curious about the lifestyle is to be honest at an early stage with any potential partner, and they may just surprise you "

wow - what a great story! i guess its question of having the guts to do so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find a partner who is committed but into being a cuckold. Unfortunately, at what stage in dating do you bring it up? Do you bring it up at all? Is it a deal breaker?

I just gave up on it now, as with Everything else lol

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I would love to find a partner who is committed but into being a cuckold. Unfortunately, at what stage in dating do you bring it up? Do you bring it up at all? Is it a deal breaker?

I just gave up on it now, as with Everything else lol "

Like you - would love to partner who wanted to swing and be a hotwife - bit alswo realise that sex/swinging is just one part of the relationship - compatibility on day to day basis is more important...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep I think it would be difficult to include cuckolding on a profile on a regular dating site, as I think it might be off putting to some, and also you never know if someone you know sees your profile. But I often mention pretty early on to the other person that I'd be interested in them sleeping with other men.

Interesting you mention this to potential vanilla dates - (i would love to do this - but havent had the guts) - what do they say?"

I only mention it in the right context eg. If we are talking about sex & fantasies. The response is about 50/50. About half the time they might say sounds interesting/or its an interesting fantasy. And about half of the women I've mentioned it to say they are not interested. My last girlfriend's response was 'i don't share and I don't like to shared'. But if you never put it out there then you never know....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to find a partner who is committed but into being a cuckold. Unfortunately, at what stage in dating do you bring it up? Do you bring it up at all? Is it a deal breaker?

I just gave up on it now, as with Everything else lol "

Haha the answer about it being a deal breaker depends on the person.....

Maybe it is more difficult for a woman to mention they are into cuckolding as it might be more of a potential deal breaker?

My suggestion would be to join fetlife and put an advert on there in for instance the UK cuckolding group, or even just the normal looking for a date groups and you won't have any problem meeting fairly normal men that are into cuckolding & long term relationships.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Yep I think it would be difficult to include cuckolding on a profile on a regular dating site, as I think it might be off putting to some, and also you never know if someone you know sees your profile. But I often mention pretty early on to the other person that I'd be interested in them sleeping with other men.

Interesting you mention this to potential vanilla dates - (i would love to do this - but havent had the guts) - what do they say?

I only mention it in the right context eg. If we are talking about sex & fantasies. The response is about 50/50. About half the time they might say sounds interesting/or its an interesting fantasy. And about half of the women I've mentioned it to say they are not interested. My last girlfriend's response was 'i don't share and I don't like to shared'. But if you never put it out there then you never know...."

Good for you - will have to pluck up the courage...

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them? "

he could fuck who he wanted (safe sex only) for all i care, but i wouldn't be interested in sharing that or hearing about it.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them? "

They must stay faithful if it's true cuckolding,but a lot of people either have no idea what true cuckolding is or just don't go that far.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them?

They must stay faithful if it's true cuckolding,but a lot of people either have no idea what true cuckolding is or just don't go that far."

I agree and in chastity

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them?

They must stay faithful if it's true cuckolding,but a lot of people either have no idea what true cuckolding is or just don't go that far."

there no such thing as true cuckolding. all the term means is a man who's wife cheats on him.

how many of you gonna get married for the 'true' term?

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

I'm the hubby/cuck and have no interest with having sex with others would love to explore chastity too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A full on cuckold relationship would be the ultimate for me. I have explored this with a couple of Ladies but in truth their heart was never really in it. It is hard finding a woman who understands and genuinely wants a cuckold relationship.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I'm just wondering whether any single women would actively prefer to date someone who is interested in cuckolding/being cuckolded, or whether it is something they prefer to avoid in a partner or potential partner? "

I guess I would love to have a relationship with a lady who was into swinging/being a hotwife. I would want to fuck other mens wifes! So wouldn't be a cuck type relationship - but would want a promiscuous wife who enjoyed other men with my blessing. Having met several hotwives, I know how wonderful they are

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By *ohncukMan
over a year ago

london

But how does a guy bring up cuckolding when on a date

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"But how does a guy bring up cuckolding when on a date "

you can't really. you gotta weight up the person before you ask them about that and prioritise what you want more if they're not into it.

you want that person or the cuckolding?

there's some (not many) guys i'd be happy to be with and not cuckold.

obviously in a perfect world you'd want that person and they'd be up for everything you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" They must stay faithful if it's true cuckolding,but a lot of people either have no idea what true cuckolding is or just don't go that far."

all cuckolding means is to lay your seeds into another mans wife just like the bird laying its eggs in another birds nest the humiliation side and sissy side are all bits that have been added on or porn film like .. so i guess alot of folk follow the made up porn version ...hotwife is the original version of cuckolding before porn changed it just like everything in life people change it to suit themselves but guess what its still cuckolding

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Also as a follow up question, for those who are interested in cuckolding, would you allow the man to play with others occasionally or would you expect them to be faithful while you cuckolded them?

They must stay faithful if it's true cuckolding,but a lot of people either have no idea what true cuckolding is or just don't go that far.

I agree and in chastity "
oh yes of course.

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Speaking from the bull viewpoint, the more successful cuckolds seem to be the ones in long-term relationships who take it seriously.

Couples who are less committed seem to see it as just a different style of threesome with some kind of script to be followed. Some people might like that but I have to suppress giggles if roleplaying is involved so I'm awful in that situation.

In the long-term couples I've been involved with there was never any option of the guy playing with anyone but his wife. Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my partner on a dating site and after talking for only a few weeks he explained his fantasies about cuckolding, it must have been scary for him to admit that so soon and we haven't looked back lol, it works well for us, I know it's not for everyone one but my advice for any guy who enjoys or is curious about the lifestyle is to be honest at an early stage with any potential partner, and they may just surprise you "

I think I agree with you. Not something I've experienced but in discussions with a guy. I would rather enter into something with my eyes wide open and from the start. I've experienced a shift in relationship before, it's painful and hard to constantly make those adjustments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I love the the idea of having a fully committed husband who loves me no matter what and is there for me emotionally when I need him. Then I live the single girl life and have hot sex with any guy I want.

We are only new to this but that's where we want to be in our relationship. Oh I can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to find a partner who is committed but into being a cuckold. Unfortunately, at what stage in dating do you bring it up? Do you bring it up at all? Is it a deal breaker?

I just gave up on it now, as with Everything else lol "

There's actually a UK cuck dating site. Hope you find your cuck you deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what I'm looking for! A committed cuck relationship. Lots of NSA cuck offers but limited potential relationships.

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