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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?

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By *enuine lad2Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?"
to do what Hun x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?"

Oz

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?"

Courage for what as we would need to know to tailor the pep talk accordingly

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Follow the yellow brick road ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever."

*quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you chat to some people before you go, put a meet up & see who's attending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Courage comes with trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more you think about it, the worse it will become in your head.

Don't think, just go ahead and do it.

I'm sure you will be fine OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more you think about it, the worse it will become in your head.

Don't think, just go ahead and do it.

I'm sure you will be fine OP "

What she said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m looking for some faith, I,'ll swap you some of my courage for some of your faith if you got any going spare XXX

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't think just do it.

Walk in go to the bar get a drink and take in the scene. Act as if you belong there and then approach couples to talk to if nobody approaches you first.

What is the worst that can happen they will say a few words to you and move on but you might just hit the jackpot and either way you will have a great night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow some bollocks, man up and just go.

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Us too, we really want to go to a club or party but worry about just waking in, so many people seem to know eachother and we may be just left there not knowing what to do hubby says let's just go for it, but I'm very low in confidence and courage and the amount of Dutch courage I would need I'd be banned from going in for being d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow some bollocks, man up and just go.

"

.. which is what people always say to men when they ask the same question.......

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Us too, we really want to go to a club or party but worry about just waking in, so many people seem to know eachother and we may be just left there not knowing what to do hubby says let's just go for it, but I'm very low in confidence and courage and the amount of Dutch courage I would need I'd be banned from going in for being d*unk lol"

We have been to many clubs now and trust us it is easier when you are part of a couple. Think of it was a night out on the town together if nobody talks to you then you have each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever."

if I was near I'd definitely accompany you .. as I was hoping to go tonight but got cancelled. and like you I can't just go on my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't think just do it.

Walk in go to the bar get a drink and take in the scene. Act as if you belong there and then approach couples to talk to if nobody approaches you first.

What is the worst that can happen they will say a few words to you and move on but you might just hit the jackpot and either way you will have a great night."

Or I could be sat alone all night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grow some bollocks, man up and just go.

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I'm totally happy with my pussy thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow some bollocks, man up and just go.

I'm totally happy with my pussy thank you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?"

There is alway alcohol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever."

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

OP - I'd be more than happy to accompany you tonight if you want? No strings or pressure and if nothing else we'll have a laugh.... x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?"

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own."

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude "

I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude

I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different."

Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.

I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude

I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.

Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.

I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening. "

It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others.

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By *ary for funMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever."
. A ct like a school teacher,your mainly be amongst kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.. A ct like a school teacher,your mainly be amongst kids"

Age wise or behaviour?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"find some courage? Anyone got some going spare?"

They could make a film about this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude

I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.

Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.

I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening.

It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others."

ok.

Enjoy yourself anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.

what advice would you give someone in your situation?

It easier giving advice than taking your own.

ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude

I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.

Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.

I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening.

It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others.

ok.

Enjoy yourself anyway."

Thank you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always go and talk most on club nights x we know how scary it can be... but its so much less pressure than other meet scenarios. X

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