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what you do for a job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

should what you do for a job really matter?

we get slated and praised mind for what we do for a living does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't see why it should have an impact on swinging?! just out of interest, what do you guys do? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, it's no ones business but yours anyway

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

matters not...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i don't see why it should have an impact on swinging?! just out of interest, what do you guys do? lol"

ha ha ha i dont like to say might lose more meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol "

nope the opposite really lol

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By *latinum_geezerMan
over a year ago

Durham

I've seen a number of posters looking for a professional couple etc, or declaring themselves as such.

What does that mean? All scrubbed up and will bring a vintage wine or can have a chat about shares before stripping off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me professional is more a reflection on persona than actual job. I dont really care what someone does for a job but I do care whether they can hold down a decent conversation. I assume that when people say proffesional they mean intelligent and articulate/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol

nope the opposite really lol "

ohhhh....enough said! never know if the police are tracking this site eh lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol

nope the opposite really lol

ohhhh....enough said! never know if the police are tracking this site eh lol "

nothing illegal lol

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

afterall its all about having fun...not what u do for a living...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does being a peep show floor mopperupper's mop wringerooter mean i'm not professional then ?

*gets coat*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol

nope the opposite really lol

ohhhh....enough said! never know if the police are tracking this site eh lol

nothing illegal lol "

pffft, i give up then!!! if it's the opposite of government work, it must mean it involves honesty haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care what people do for work to be honest

it pisses me off when people say they are professionals and then it seems they are on the dole which makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol thats right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhh don't tell anyone but I'm an Astronaut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ryan giggs would have said its nobodys buissiness a few weeks ago but not now honesty is the best policy that way nobody gets hurt

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By *latinum_geezerMan
over a year ago

Durham


"i dont care what people do for work to be honest

it pisses me off when people say they are professionals and then it seems they are on the dole which makes me laugh"

I suppose if you do what you do well...

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield


"i dont care what people do for work to be honest

it pisses me off when people say they are professionals and then it seems they are on the dole which makes me laugh"

Perhaps they're professional spongers

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Is anyone else thinking - I don't care what the op does - they're gorgeous???

I can just imagine meeting..."yes well the kitten culling trade isn't what it used to be, but at least we're having fun"

Us : "another drink?"

Seriously though, we just have a preference not to say, 1) because it's boring and 2) because we're not supposed to.

Like already said, who cares anyway? Unless what they do could negatively affect the meet, which maybe what they are hinting at.

Ta

D&K

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I think its just taking an interest in the other person and maybe saying something about who you are. Not sure I would turn down many cos of their professions.... youre not a traffic warden I hope though! lol

Mistress x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The golden rule from old was you dont ask i never do and dont want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we have been turned down by several couples when they find out what one of us does for a living - not far enough up the social ladder apparently and wouldnt fit in with their friends / social circle!

Though on occasions telling folk your a Gynecologist does illicit some fun responses (and no neither of us are!)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Well, we have been turned down by several couples when they find out what one of us does for a living - not far enough up the social ladder apparently and wouldnt fit in with their friends / social circle!

"

To be fair to them.. that's their choice and should be respected.

However, for everyone a good timely reminder in these harsh economic times.. From a highly paid banker to a rubbish collector you can go........ as quickly as you can move from Number 99 to Number 1 on a snakes and ladders board........

and nowt wrong with both professions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should what you do for a job really matter?

we get slated and praised mind for what we do for a living does it really matter?

"

I have been asked before and often wondered why. I am clean, presentable and polite so i don't really see what it matters as long as i can play my own way hotel or petrol wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, what someone does for a loving could matter to me. If someone said they were an undertaker every time they touched me I'd wonder where their hands had been: I couldn't relax.

Likewise, if someone said they were an actor, for me that equals professional liar: wouldn't believe a word they told me.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Yes, what someone does for a loving could matter to me. If someone said they were an undertaker every time they touched me I'd wonder where their hands had been: I couldn't relax.

Likewise, if someone said they were an actor, for me that equals professional liar: wouldn't believe a word they told me. "

Made me giggle. Same goes for an mp I presume....

We enjoy chatting to people about their jobs. Its very interesting and are richer in knowledge. Have never once met anyone who wasn't happy to chat about it.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter to us but it can be a talking point, especially if its an interesting job. And if someone is a copper a meet is pretty much guarenteed as long as you bring your hat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, if it comes up in conversation then maybe I would say, however for me, when I leave the office I try and leave the work and thoughts there on the desk.

Meeting with someone for a social or a hot steamy no string sex session, doesn't usually have me asking for references,

When building a friendship or something else, yes it would come in, however I have never met someone who's job has influenced my feeling over them.

It might make me ask them not to lecture me, or advise me within their professional occupation, but thats my personal choice, business and pleasure etc...

ftr, I work in a small security company, so nothing drastic nor overly exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just checked their profile , mm yes they are lovely eye candy , but i noticed something odd !

in the lady made of xxx ooo and mmm was a secret code , ! bloody hell they are mi5 errr or cia or any other three letter spy school , xx

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

It doesn't matter to us but it can be a talking point, especially if its an interesting job. And if someone is a copper a meet is pretty much guarenteed as long as you bring your hat!

well , can supply a truncheon but no hat unfortunately . shouldnt matter what you do for a living as long as your polite , well mannered ,easy to talk to and a good laugh then were happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

truncheon will do!

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich


"truncheon will do! "

and the hand cuffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....you are quite cagey about your occupation....that must mean one thing....you work for the government don't ya!!!! i take it back....it does affect your meets and i'm telling everyone lol

nope the opposite really lol

ohhhh....enough said! never know if the police are tracking this site eh lol

nothing illegal lol

pffft, i give up then!!! if it's the opposite of government work, it must mean it involves honesty haha"

I got it! They're Bankers!

(cheap stab! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a High Court Judge and my wife is an MP... but we don't tell anyone for fear of being blackmailed.... and we just don't dig the interracial stuff, it's too racist for us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was lying by the way, my wife and I own an animal experiment laboratory, where we conduct extremely cruel scientific experiments on the cutest animals....truth is we only do it for fun...

Anyone want to meet us??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, that was a lie too, we are BBW Farmers and business is good, but foodstuffs are scarce!!

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

Peoples jobs do matter.

I'd like to meet as many female tax inspectors, traffic wardens and politicians as I can.

Well they've all fucked me enough times, maybe it's my turn now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was lying by the way, my wife and I own an animal experiment laboratory, where we conduct extremely cruel scientific experiments on the cutest animals....truth is we only do it for fun...

Anyone want to meet us?? "

Noooooooooooooooo! Not Bankers operating on the LOLcats?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree. It's about how you conduct yourself. Can you hold a sensible conversation or write a proper sentence?

I don't think people care what we all do for a living as long as we are clean, polite and friendly.

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