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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?"

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs "

Oh really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?"
most of our playtimes with guys i dont even get a name... and prefer one offs with guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hot x love that

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I like a social meet first I like to know lots about them before I'll consider fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the patience for social meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like both a social first or just to get on , can be sexy with no words just hot passionate sex X

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

When we are looking for a single male, it's not looking for Mr Right (I've found him) it's looking for Mr Right now, with a very specific task in mind, no matter how good you are once it's done, you are gone, that's the nature of our game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it, sometimes they have been amazing and sometimes being horny has got the better of me and it's proved to have been a less than brilliant move.

Now I prefer to get know someone a little bit and try and have a social, although my coffee has ended up becoming "coffee" with added extras a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs

Oh really?

Yes really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't usually fit spontaneity into my day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't usually fit spontaneity into my day!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've never had a social before a meet, unless you count the five minutes of chat before I start sucking their cock.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've never had a social before a meet, unless you count the five minutes of chat before I start sucking their cock.

Katie."

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs

Oh really?

Yes really

Brizzles not that far...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As club goers we rarely even know people's names before playing with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously different ways work for different people, in truth I (hot wife) never stick to a certain way in that I have " not even known his name" done the social before fun, and been in a fwb relationship and found ALL a turn on in their own ways.

It is all about fun after all and happy swinging to you all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous and no messing about, straight to sex, always works best for me.

I have to be in the mood, and if I am then I want it and I want it now! So if I dcide to meet then I've already decided that I'm ready for sex, unless something drastic goes wrong...

I've tried the "social first" thing and it bores me - I've never had a social develop into a second meet - even with people that I really like and get on with. If I've met you for a social then we've probably become friends, and I don't want casual sex with my friends...!

But I also quickly loose interest in anyone who keeps messaging, especially the ones who ask if I'm free to do something spontaneous in three weeks time, on Thursday afternoon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs

Oh really?

Yes really

Brizzles not that far..."

We are actually about 10 miles southwest so might be closer than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies

Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?

Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex

Mrs

Oh really?

Yes really

Brizzles not that far...

We are actually about 10 miles southwest so might be closer than you think "

Sound better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social first. I got fed up of getting "meet ready" only to find that I didn't click with the guy. Or having a spontaneous meet with someone who turned out to be a dickhead.

Now for time and safety reasons I do lots of vetting and prefer regular guys. Parties are my outlet for spontaneous/anonymous action.

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

We love to get straight down to it. If guy(s) we meet are a little shy, we start playing with each other and before long I have a Cock in one of my holes, preferably two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social for me first unless it was in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have tried both (social and spontaneous) I prefer a social first because the spontaneous felt a little awkward (not that I wouldn't do it again though haha)

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Yes at a party or club

Not into making plans,rather just see who I connect with at the time,if do play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy clubs so yes! !...by the time I'm up for meeting guys on here we're pretty sure we've got a click going on so sex on the first meeting is very likely but not expected

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By *ansterCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Prefer the meet prior to a sexual encounter! Then when it comes to the sex, it is more suited to either the level of fantasy or role play! Or the meet is more meaningful because of chemistry and taste...

Jan X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

It's not usually an instant meet now meet - I'm generally busy and slow. Too quick and I find it reduces the potential for getting a high level of compatibility. But I like both quicker to shag as well as slower paced thoroughness

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I dont think I have ever had a pure social... just drinks before the fun bit... or no drinks at times

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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rarely now. built up a nice collection of men over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've never had a social before a meet, unless you count the five minutes of chat before I start sucking their cock.

Katie."

Sounds like us

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

My first two meets on my old profile were like this

Very hot

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Social first for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually chat for quite a while before I meet so by that point, yes, I'm pretty damn certain theres going to be sex

Hopefully the "cant wait to rip your bloody clothes off" Kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"rarely now. built up a nice collection of men over the years.

You're my hero,I swear.

What do people class as a social? I know straightaway when I meet someone in person if I want anything to happen. Normally chat happens before that cus I don't like to presume and often can't tell whether the guy feels the same way. If the guy indicates he does, I'm all over that. But I'll chat as long as it takes to happen (has been 10 minutes, has been 2 hours).

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As we play slmost entirely in clubs most of my swinging sex is both spontaneous and one off. For us that is what is fun about swinging.

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