FabSwingers.com forum: Long Term Relationships

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm on here because I primarily want to find an LTR but one that is sensually based and explorative... has anyone joined for similar reasons? And is it the right site for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen some mentions in other threads about LTR being found on here.

It's a swinging site, not a hook up site, as some seem to see it.

LTR and swinging aren't mutually exclusive so you should do ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're upfront about what you're looking for there shouldn't be problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as you're upfront about what you're looking for there shouldn't be problem. "

It's not currently clear that is what you want. ...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here as singles,neither of us were looking for more,but we have now been together 15 months .

Like others have said,as long as you are upfront about what you are looking for ,I dont see a problem with it.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had god knows how many relationships based on the physical........ they always ended. But that is passion for you, it's spontaneous and burns out as quickly as it's started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's possible...it's human interaction...I'm going to assume not everyone on here is purely in pursuit of sexual gratification without connection. Casual sex is fun but we don't leave our humanity behind.

I totally get where you are coming from...if sex and intimacy (and a degree of fetish/BDSM ) are especially important in the mix of who you are and what you require to be fulfilled (and need the same type of partner) then it DOES make sense to look here - maybe better odds than regular dating to find a match .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The other thing is that if you join a conventional site, they may remove you if you openly speak of anything remotely fruity or alternative, as it were ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a bit of a difference between 'regular' and 'long term'...

I didn't get you were looking for either by reading your profile, apart from what your header says

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as you're upfront about what you're looking for there shouldn't be problem.

It's not currently clear that is what you want. ..."

You're right. Which shows why regular reviews of one's profile should be the order of the day ahem. You're currently doing that I see

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I am on here for sex and friendship. Love the social side of the site. But if someone special came along, I would consider a long term relationship, but would still be looking for fun in addition to the relationship.

I cannot think of a better place to look for someone wanting a similar lifestyle.

You don't need to put on your profile that you are here only for LTR ....you need to meet people to see if the chemistry is right.

Good luck

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP most people on fab are not looking for a long term relationship but many do find one. My sister met her husband on here and they have been married almost 2 years. Anything can happen.

Just let it happen, you can't force it. Don't go into every meet expecting more than just fun. Just enjoy the moment and see if anything more evolves from it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We met on here as singles

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I have had god knows how many relationships based on the physical........ they always ended. But that is passion for you, it's spontaneous and burns out as quickly as it's started.

other way round for me, all my relationships started off as sexual.

OP, i didn't join for that, just joined for sex and haven't been disappointed there. i'm pretty distrusting of a guy who would be looking for a relationship on here coz almost every guy who has mentioned one usually comes off as selfish in that dept. like a one sided relationship where he gets what he can't get by being single.

but if you approach the right person in the right ways then a relationship can develop from that eventually.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I'm on here because I primarily want to find an LTR but one that is sensually based and explorative... has anyone joined for similar reasons? And is it the right site for that?"

Sure why not. I met my partner sort of through Fab, but I was deluding myself that I only wanted something casual. Once I met him I realised I wanted more. I don't have any secrets from him and did not have to hide my actually quite kinky side. It makes it easier that he is on here as i

You might meet someone you might not. Be careful and enjoy the ride.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Sure a LTR is possible, a high proportion of singles I've met on here and other sites want more than just sex. I prefer intimacy and regular meets to one offs. Swinging is a big umbrella. I always say careful of what you wish for, and don't put all your eggs in 1 basket. Enjoy life and don't look too hard for something. Some things happen for reasons, you never know what's around the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm not looking for that, but I've seen a few success stories on here, so good luck in your search OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the right guy came along, I would consider a relationship, but as I enjoy both this and the naturist lifestyle, I would want not only an emotionally intelligent person, capable of love and respect, but also someone who would be happy to swing and be adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In any relationship there should be good sex. If you have unusual tastes, it can be difficult to be upfront about them at the start of a relationship. So you end up wasting time finding out that their idea of often is maybe every couple of months or so.

I'd suggest meeting local people who have similar tastes, and take it from there, enjoy yourself and see if you find someone compatible.

Just remember, just because you get enough out of it, doesn't mean they will. And if you decide you want to stop swinging and settle down, there is no guarantee that they will want to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a few people who have met and married on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner "

Will you then become exclusive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner "

That's the ideal, then at least both know they're with someone with a kinky side, which can actually split couples up if it's some form of big 'reveal' ... no pun intended ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner

Will you then become exclusive?"

If we transition into a relationship yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner

Will you then become exclusive?

If we transition into a relationship yes "

So you wouldn't want to share him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people haven't been looking but have ended up finding a LTR here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner

Will you then become exclusive?

If we transition into a relationship yes

So you wouldn't want to share him ?"

You share sweets, not a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I want an fwb to start with but hopefully with someone who at some point will become a partner

Will you then become exclusive?

If we transition into a relationship yes

So you wouldn't want to share him ?

You share sweets, not a person. "

Lots in here share their partners as well as their sweets

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"I've seen some mentions in other threads about LTR being found on here.

It's a swinging site, not a hook up site, as some seem to see it.

LTR and swinging aren't mutually exclusive so you should do ok."

Agree

Yes some people use it for hookups just the same as some use it for regular great meets

We found each other through swinging coming up nearly 2 years ago and are looking forward to our life together with the odd naughtiness with others too

However anyone decides to use fab is their choice and OP hood you find what you are looking for x

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