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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male to female ratio is very high on here. If you are choosy you limit your responses.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I think a lot of guys would. When I had no picture up when I first started I had loads of guys wanting to meet not even asking for a pic

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I think a lot of guys would. When I had no picture up when I first started I had loads of guys wanting to meet not even asking for a pic"

Could it just be that single guys are the most sensitive/ caring of the bunch and wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there are certain men who will have sex with just about any woman on here and in general. It's possible that there seem to be more on fab because of the nature of the site.

However I dont believe the majority of men are like this because so many clearly have a type, just like lots of women.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"I think a lot of guys would. When I had no picture up when I first started I had loads of guys wanting to meet not even asking for a pic

Could it just be that single guys are the most sensitive/ caring of the bunch and wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings?

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Nope, just wanted to get their dicks wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the odd wink or message a month, I can simply send a message no thanks. Don't need to clutter my profile up with negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found men on here knowing what they want - and it's definitely not everything in a skirt (and I am not speaking from the CD perspective)

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

I've seen that on single male profiles. Normally it's size specific and only very occasionally hair colour or race.

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.

ethicity doesn't bother me in the slightest and to an extent age either. I don't think that means I'd fuck anyone though

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"With the odd wink or message a month, I can simply send a message no thanks. Don't need to clutter my profile up with negativity. "

What's a wink? Never had one of those

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I think a lot of guys would. When I had no picture up when I first started I had loads of guys wanting to meet not even asking for a pic

Could it just be that single guys are the most sensitive/ caring of the bunch and wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings?

Nope, just wanted to get their dicks wet

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Oh go on then, why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the odd wink or message a month, I can simply send a message no thanks. Don't need to clutter my profile up with negativity.

What's a wink? Never had one of those

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now you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there are certain men who will have sex with just about any woman on here and in general. It's possible that there seem to be more on fab because of the nature of the site.

However I dont believe the majority of men are like this because so many clearly have a type, just like lots of women."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?

I've seen that on single male profiles. Normally it's size specific and only very occasionally hair colour or race. "

Yes I've seen size specific on a few too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm choosy. Pulse is a must

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I think everybody's choosy whether it be coupe single lady single man otherwise we wouldent have profiles stating this

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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there actually are men who say they won't fuck bbw, i've seen the profiles. not that that makes them fussy particularly, but they do rule at least one type of woman out.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I'm choosey to an extent, but I will pretty much fuck anything that comes in my direction given how infrequent the meets I get around here are.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've seen quite a few single male profiles with those they will and will not meet OP, so I'm not quite sure that's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

Its a gross generalisation but I think generally men are less choosy, yes.

I prefer to meet the choosy ones though- there are still plenty with a bit of class.

Stay choosy! I want to feel special/individual, not any hole is the goal!

It might go back to the plug/socket thing where sex is less personal for men than women, who knows!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I've seen quite a few single male profiles with those they will and will not meet OP, so I'm not quite sure that's true."

Was just gonna say this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm choosey to an extent, but I will pretty much fuck anything that comes in my direction given how infrequent the meets I get around here are.

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Anything?! Charming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down for size, age and in one instance been too forward - I'd messaged him first!!!

So, thankfully, guys are choosy

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Speaking personally OP the answer is no I wouldn't - whilst this site is about NSA it doesn't have to be completely detached from all the normal things around attraction, connection and chemistry either. I'd much rather take my time and tick those boxes than just have meets with anyone that would look twice at me.

That said there are plenty of people here, and not just single males (although they are in the majority) who probably do sit in the camp you describe.

And like others I've seen plenty of single male profiles that do specify prefences of one kind or another.

I guess another reason that you may see it more on single female and couple profiles though is as a means of trying to reduce the volume of messages those profiles receive compared to single male ones.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"Male to female ratio is very high on here. If you are choosy you limit your responses. "

Ain't that the truth lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I've been turned down for size, age and in one instance been too forward - I'd messaged him first!!!

So, thankfully, guys are choosy"

Can't imagine that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i personally dont exclude anyone to start with. All people are different and as such give them a chance and see what develops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most the comments. For me as a sexually guy, I know what I want and don't want and that's not just a looks thing. I agree some guys will just go with anyone regardless of sex. I've also know a few women who are the same. I guess they see sex as purely physical. Not me but everyone to there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about women who don't have anything like that on their profiles, do they fuck anyone?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

I've seen profiles with "I prefer white women" and "I prefer women under a size 14", so no, not all men will sleep with anything in a skirt!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think there are certain men who will have sex with just about any woman on here and in general. It's possible that there seem to be more on fab because of the nature of the site.

However I dont believe the majority of men are like this because so many clearly have a type, just like lots of women."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some will yes,but some couples and women also will.

We have had messages asking to meet immediately from couples,never ask to see our faces .Also some profiles state they will never show a face pic and still seem to have meets,men ,women and couples.

We would never meet someone without exchanging face pics ,there has to be some attraction before we would consider a social.

However each to their own

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have to put your type on your profile. After all is t there an exception to all rules

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

I don't have "parameters" set on who I'd meet/fuck not because I'd fuck just anyone.. but because everyone is different and I may find one particular person who is similar to another attractive for example I don't find all blonds attractive or all redheads attractive nor are either all unattractive (for example) so why set parameters.. a lack of defining parameters is not an indication that I'd fuck anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the men outnumber the women, but I'm not here to try and fuck anyone within a 20 mile radius or anyone who views my profile, but the majority of single guys probably would. Some people just go to extreme legnths to shag anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"What about women who don't have anything like that on their profiles, do they fuck anyone? "

Let's hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do message women even if they have no picture up. However, most of time I get a no thanks (where i said a polite reply back, "thanks for letting me know") or a no reply so all good. If I do meet and I'm not attracted I say as rather be honest than not.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

OP, do you f**k anything in a skirt, female, TV, etc just like the others do or are you the very selective type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put 'looking for a certain type' or shape, colour etc coz I just love women - all shapes and colours, to me a woman is a woman and I love them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its an old cliche, but, I need to find the lady attractive and get on with her, its not justt about a fuck

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

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Please!

I've seen profiles with white only, in fact when visible I have white only. I've never been called anything.

Even if I been called names, would I give a fuck? Of course not! Who I take into my home and bed is no one's business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put a load of "you must be" shite on my profile because I actually prefer to chat to someone and see what they are really like before anything progresses further. I'm not attracted to a specific physical setup. I have to find the whole person to be sexy.

Fussy fucker, I know. But it'd be boring if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

Any hole is a goal for many men on here, it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male to female ratio is very high on here. If you are choosy you limit your responses. "

I am choosy.....it may limit my options but:

It hasn't stopped me from having fun

I will not lower my standards

I do say no thanks to some (politely)

I only message or respond to those that i choose

I do not think it should be any different....but I do accept that some guys on here do seem rather desperate!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

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That's nonsense - lots of profiles have it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?"

Too many guys on here have their preference filters set to "I want a fuck" You only have to read about women having profiles with no pics & no info & they still get messages to meet to realise that.

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?"

Excellently put, and just what I was trying to get across but made mess of.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I've had meets with women (and couples) of all different ages, sizes and colours - nothing is really off the table so long as we get along. If I can have a laugh with you, it's highly likely I am going to be having a good time in bed as they'll be more open. I have similarly turned down women that I haven't had a word to say to whether they were a perfect 10 or over weight. I have met people with perfect figures though bar a few their sexual appetite and personalties were donated to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?

Too many guys on here have their preference filters set to "I want a fuck" You only have to read about women having profiles with no pics & no info & they still get messages to meet to realise that.

S"

I had a message from someone within a few minutes of setting a profile up, I had no pics up and a very basic profile.

What made me laugh was that they had written they were very choosy in their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?

Too many guys on here have their preference filters set to "I want a fuck" You only have to read about women having profiles with no pics & no info & they still get messages to meet to realise that.

S

I had a message from someone within a few minutes of setting a profile up, I had no pics up and a very basic profile.

What made me laugh was that they had written they were very choosy in their profile

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I am very choosy, it's just that I could tell that you were lovely and my type just from your username

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

Please!

I've seen profiles with white only, in fact when visible I have white only. I've never been called anything.

Even if I been called names, would I give a fuck? Of course not! Who I take into my home and bed is no one's business! "

One is only racist if one is Caucasian and looking for Caucasian only; otherwise, its' a preference

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Are you taking piss OP

Loads of male profiles ask for no fatties, there's at least one name I could drop of a regular single male forum poster that has somdthing similar in his profile

But of course that would be naming and shaming and is against the rules

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Just because i am not explicit on my profile, it doesnt mean i dont make choices or have standards. I know the type i am attracted to and what turns me on, so i would only meet women who fulfil that - it does limit my success on here, but prefer it that way.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

"I'm choosey to an extent, but I will pretty much fuck anything that comes in my direction given how infrequent the meets I get around here are.

Anything?! Charming!

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It was just a joke about how few people there are locally for me, I'm not actually that easy. Though I imagine you must get all sorts to choose from down butt hole road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because i am not explicit on my profile, it doesnt mean i dont make choices or have standards. I know the type i am attracted to and what turns me on, so i would only meet women who fulfil that - it does limit my success on here, but prefer it that way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not picky guy when it comes to sex with would but most women are picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men, in general, are less choosey about casual sex but every bit as choosey for relationships.

I don't know for sure but i'd bet it stems from evolutionary tactics for passing on one's genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

Please!

I've seen profiles with white only, in fact when visible I have white only. I've never been called anything.

Even if I been called names, would I give a fuck? Of course not! Who I take into my home and bed is no one's business! "
MN

You have tits and boobs. I don't. Different rules on fab

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think men are less choosy generally on fab because there are far more men then women - and because this is about fun sex rather than a relationship!

However - I still firmly believe most have their standards and will have their own personal methods select those they're interested in - whether that's personality, attractiveness, size etc etc!

At the end of the day they've got to be able to 'get it up' for the person they meet!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I didnt think that many people read profiles we have had a couple of profiles txt us for meets and i couldent understand why because they where either both stright or dont smoke why txt then im i mew to this i dont have all the rules down yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

That's nonsense - lots of profiles have it."

Just because you don't agree with my comment don't make it nonsense.

That's my experience if I've ever had it on my profile.

These forums make me laugh.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The men don't *HAVE* to f**k. Reading some posts about ratios it sounds as if they are being forced to have sex with less attractive women then would normally make a dash for them. What utter nonsense

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Because if I put Caucasian only I get called a racist.

That's nonsense - lots of profiles have it.

Just because you don't agree with my comment don't make it nonsense.

That's my experience if I've ever had it on my profile.

These forums make me laugh. "

Okies. I will reword. Quite a few people have Caucasians only on their profile - if that's who you want to meet crack on, it's a useful thing to read. People will find an issue on any profile if they want to.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

Although I dont have pacific No-No's on my profiles it does clearly state I'm not a desperate single guy that will smash anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men have preferences just like women and couples.

Like most men on here I don't mention then on my profile as I'm not inundated with messages our winks and so I am easily able to apply any preferences on a case by case basis.

In any event, they are just preferences and I take each person as they come and see what happens - why limit ones experiences by applying (probably irrational) prejudices and preconceptions?

Too many guys on here have their preference filters set to "I want a fuck" You only have to read about women having profiles with no pics & no info & they still get messages to meet to realise that.

S

I had a message from someone within a few minutes of setting a profile up, I had no pics up and a very basic profile.

What made me laugh was that they had written they were very choosy in their profile

I am very choosy, it's just that I could tell that you were lovely and my type just from your username

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I had a different user name

The funny thing was I actually knew who the person was but they had no idea who I was

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Don't need to clutter my profile up with negativity. "

Love this phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not picky guy when it comes to sex with would but most women are picky.

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This just makes it sound like you treat women as prostitutes and would fuck anyone who said yes to you

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

See we don't have any limits on our profile it doesn't mean we would fuck anything it means we don't rule anything out whilst a certain type may not be our preference there are always exceptions to those rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen men who, on their profile, are at pains to state how much they DON'T want to fuck anyone fat, non-gym fit, over size 12...etc etc. Yet somehow they still get pissy if I reply to their messages to point out that I clearly don't meet their stated requirements and to save embarrassment they should probably stop messaging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen men who, on their profile, are at pains to state how much they DON'T want to fuck anyone fat, non-gym fit, over size 12...etc etc. Yet somehow they still get pissy if I reply to their messages to point out that I clearly don't meet their stated requirements and to save embarrassment they should probably stop messaging..."

Maybe he didn't think you are a bbw? I don't think you are as large are you seem to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen men who, on their profile, are at pains to state how much they DON'T want to fuck anyone fat, non-gym fit, over size 12...etc etc. Yet somehow they still get pissy if I reply to their messages to point out that I clearly don't meet their stated requirements and to save embarrassment they should probably stop messaging...

Maybe he didn't think you are a bbw? I don't think you are as large are you seem to think."

I don't think I'm a BBW either but I'm firmly in the large camp and miles away from anything that could ever be described as gym fit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen men who, on their profile, are at pains to state how much they DON'T want to fuck anyone fat, non-gym fit, over size 12...etc etc. Yet somehow they still get pissy if I reply to their messages to point out that I clearly don't meet their stated requirements and to save embarrassment they should probably stop messaging...

Maybe he didn't think you are a bbw? I don't think you are as large are you seem to think.

I don't think I'm a BBW either but I'm firmly in the large camp and miles away from anything that could ever be described as gym fit..."

Oh. I see. Missed the gym fit bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not , hence not meeting very often , always send a polite no thanks though as manners cost nothing .

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

In swinging surely there is not the need for being as fussy. We are not after all seeking out a partner for life, we are looking to have fun. On a personal level my brain allows me to fancy one man at a time - my husband. That doesn't mean I don't play with a wide variety of different 'types' of men, I personally just don't need to fancy them. Play is about feel touch and sensation, not a huge attraction for another person. Perhaps I am a little male in my viewpoint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In swinging surely there is not the need for being as fussy. We are not after all seeking out a partner for life, we are looking to have fun. On a personal level my brain allows me to fancy one man at a time - my husband. That doesn't mean I don't play with a wide variety of different 'types' of men, I personally just don't need to fancy them. Play is about feel touch and sensation, not a huge attraction for another person. Perhaps I am a little male in my viewpoint?"

If that's what works for you, that's great. Personally touch, feel and sensation are completely different for me with someone I fancy versus someone I don't, so I do need attraction. Otherwise it won't be fun.

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over a year ago

I think its because men take the first steps and message first majority of the time, and you wouldnt do that if you werent attracted to them.

I don't have a distinct type of woman that I find attractive, but I wouldn't sleep with just anyone. If I like the body pics, I message and wait till the face pics come out. If I think they are pretty,,I go ahead, if I don't I make my apologies and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its because men take the first steps and message first majority of the time, and you wouldnt do that if you werent attracted to them.

I don't have a distinct type of woman that I find attractive, but I wouldn't sleep with just anyone. If I like the body pics, I message and wait till the face pics come out. If I think they are pretty,,I go ahead, if I don't I make my apologies and move on"

I had a message from someone and I replied saying they weren't my type to which they replied I wasn't their type either but it was just a fuck

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"In swinging surely there is not the need for being as fussy. We are not after all seeking out a partner for life, we are looking to have fun. On a personal level my brain allows me to fancy one man at a time - my husband. That doesn't mean I don't play with a wide variety of different 'types' of men, I personally just don't need to fancy them. Play is about feel touch and sensation, not a huge attraction for another person. Perhaps I am a little male in my viewpoint?"

Exactly, someone may be physically attractive but experience has taught me that if they aren't attuned to you personally then the sex will be lifeless and one sided. They have to have a certain amount of charm, filth and fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its because men take the first steps and message first majority of the time, and you wouldnt do that if you werent attracted to them.

I don't have a distinct type of woman that I find attractive, but I wouldn't sleep with just anyone. If I like the body pics, I message and wait till the face pics come out. If I think they are pretty,,I go ahead, if I don't I make my apologies and move on

I had a message from someone and I replied saying they weren't my type to which they replied I wasn't their type either but it was just a fuck

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Some men aint fussy. Just want to get their dick wet

. I have to be attracted to them just to get it up. I physically cannot havebsex with someone I am not attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure some don't care, there is a big difference between not having a type and not fucking anybody, for me there has too be an attraction, but i don't discriminate on race or body type etc, i am attracted too a pretty face more than a body (maybe that is just me) and a personality, attitude or sense of humour can send someone i wouldn't normally attracted too into a must meet, and equally a stunning figure and model face can be made unappealing if they have a self absorbed/ condescending or conceited personality or completely take themselves too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. I do t have a list because I've found myself attracted to lots of different women. That's all.

I have been known to say no. And she wore a skirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. I do t have a list because I've found myself attracted to lots of different women. That's all.

I have been known to say no. And she wore a skirt. "

That's the last time I wear a skirt

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"What about women who don't have anything like that on their profiles, do they fuck anyone?

Let's hope so lol"

Indeed, indeed.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I'm open minded and find that being negative is a turn off.

I tend to be more interested in someone being interesting and attractive rather than filling a shallow desire..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Taken from my profile,

Being slim and a short arse (Yes it does make my cock look bigger then it actually is) I love all types of Women but I'm not on here to just to fuck anybody I need to be sexually attracted to you, I would prefer to meet Women of similar build or average with curves and smaller in height,

It doesn't say anything about a person colour but mentions height and being in similar body type, But I wouldn't rule out other types of Women, I would just pick one over the other given the choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am wondering if single guys would fuck just anyone or as they say, anything in a skirt? Why do I pose the question, I hear you ask.

I have never seen a single male profile saying things like, " no blacks/ no Asians/ no thin women/ no fatties/ only British born blacks/ no bi women, etc.

What's going on? Am I missing a trick?"

Attraction is all that concerns me. Mentally and physically

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I have a list on my profile.

I need to be attracted physically and mentally to want to have sex with someone...I'm not a machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most men don't put there dislikes/won't meet on the profiles because they will be chastised by those that don't meet the criteria they've set out

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Think most men don't put there dislikes/won't meet on the profiles because they will be chastised by those that don't meet the criteria they've set out"

Covering all bases

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