FabSwingers.com forum: Does distance really matter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello everyone

I'm posting this to see how far any of you has travelled to meet someone?

Does the distance REALLY matter?

I can understand if you want a 'relationship' it would however this isn't a relationship site...

If you was to meet a guy/girl let's say once a month surely the distance wouldn't matter too much?

Let me know your thoughts

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes it does matter to us. Neither of us wants to travel hours for just for sex. I would travel for hours just for love though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it depends on ones situation and circumstance. I only get a few hours of an evening now and then to meet. I think it's a waste of time to spend it travelling. So to me distance is very much an issue.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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why go for once a month though if you can fuck several times a week with someone nearer?

i mostly turn guys down who are far away. is usually a 40 min time limit on getting to me.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Being unemployed and not owning a car, I find it's just too expensive to travel very far, especially on a regular basis. I'd say London is my travel limit atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Depends on both parties efforts.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I say I'm happy to travel 30 mins because my time is limited and I'd rather spend it in the bedroom than my car

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just for sex, yes it matters, for a night or two away at some point involving food, drinks, clubs & laugh and then maybe sex, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest...Unless you are seeking something very specific (where it is worth travelling ) will depend on your gender.

Women often have the pick of many so there's no need to travel

Men have to travel because what's on offer is limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes distance matters to me, I don't host and I don't drive. So am.only looking for

Local meets who can host or want car sex xxx

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Distance does matter to us.We're not prepared to travel very far.We still manage to get plenty of local meets though..

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

well as I live in France most of the year, yes I'd travel..

In fact as I travel to the Uk quite often and am actively seeking an FB or FWB, then I guess that means travel is a necessity

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I suppose it would depend on how long we had been chatting and the connection we had, Just for a social probably no more then a hours drive, Anymore and I would have to plan it in advance and I would book accommodation, For a meet I would book a hotel for anything over a 2 hour drive

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Distance doesn't matter if the chemistry is great and it's likely to be an overnight or weekend stay, for a quick meet then obviously it is, I've travelled up 2 and half hours, but we made a afternoon, evening and night of it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything over 25 miles radius is a no from me.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

The furthest is an hours drive to a club, but normally only 35 minutes to a more local one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say I'm happy to travel 30 mins because my time is limited and I'd rather spend it in the bedroom than my car

This

Up to 1hr is my max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes distance matters to me, I don't host and I don't drive. So am.only looking for

Local meets who can host or want car sex xxx"

Dont you find cars sex uncomfortable?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I say I'm happy to travel 30 mins because my time is limited and I'd rather spend it in the bedroom than my car

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Up to 1hr is my max "

Agreed ?? upto an hour for me unless its gonna be an all nighter or a club but that just one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dosent matter to me ,ive a diesel car and it does 500 miles to a tank of diesel which is £50

where i live i have access to all major roads ,m25,a1,a10,a406,a11,12,and14,m4,m3 etc.

most meets are in the evening so once the traffic has gone you can get 120miles in a couple of hours , and still be fresh as a daisy..

i think if theres an attraction and you fancy someone make the effort and meet... ive driven 150 miles , had the meet for a couple of hours and driven back the same evening .

ive driven 2.5 hours to a clubin wales too.....

my all time record a double bank holiday weekend , drove to folkestone , car on euro tunnel , ended up in denmark lol...all be it it was for a long weekend so id planned it , booked myself a hotel etc , did meet the lady but she had hairy armpits and b.o(true story)lol ..

so distance for me not an issue , adds to the excitement..

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Furthest I travelled was Manchester to Bristol. I had met him briefly at a club and was due to spend the weekend with him.

Think I always knew it would be more than just a meet though. We have been dating over 3 years now and live together.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I've travelled just over a hundred miles a couple of times for one guy - the same for another - both well worth the effort!

Also travelled around 200 miles to Jaydees (twice) for forum socials and had a great time!

As long as it's mainly motorway and not city centres I don't mind driving!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Furthest I travelled was Manchester to Bristol. I had met him briefly at a club and was due to spend the weekend with him.

Think I always knew it would be more than just a meet though. We have been dating over 3 years now and live together. "

Awwww! That's lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

currently planning a meet in ireland , £36 return stansted to dublin

half hour taxi ride dublin to wexford....or i will hire a car.

love it.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We would travel 150 odd miles for an evening meet for the right person.

Working 7days don't really help but sometimes you just got to let your hair down

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Of course it also depends where the other party are, if somewhere full of nightlife then you can stay where you are & we'll come to you, if like us you have to travel just for a decent night out then we'd meet you there & stay somewhere nearby

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

"I've travelled just over a hundred miles a couple of times for one guy - the same for another - both well worth the effort!

Also travelled around 200 miles to Jaydees (twice) for forum socials and had a great time!

As long as it's mainly motorway and not city centres I don't mind driving!

I'm well within your range then lol

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Dont mind travelling at all, been as far as Grimsby,Cleethorpes, would travel further given the opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poison and I don't live together and have to travel to see each other. It started as just sex, but it's developed into something so much more...

Both of us have always had the tge view that if your looking for something specific or want to experience someone doing certain things, then distance shouldn't matter.

Having someone close for convenience is good, but we believe you have to click with someone to enjoy the experience so much more.

This is just our view though x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We both work full time so the last thing we want to do with our free time is spend hours travelling somewhere(unless it's going on holiday)

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I don't want the travelling to be longer than the meet.

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