FabSwingers.com forum: The one that got away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After a long chat with a friend about this I wonder if anyone else ever has this ?

Maybe in your personal life or fab perhaps.

Are you a believer of fate and everything happens for a reason or do you try and smooth the way and solve any issues ?

Some things she said have made me ponder

I don't think there's a right or wrong but it's just made me question a few things.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

It depends whats happening in life and my mindset on that at the time. My general saying is shit happens, deal with it (To myself i should add).

But i am also a very strong believer that whoever is meant to be in your life will gravitate back towards you regardless og how far they wonder

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I believe In fate and that the people who are meant to be in your life will be .Even of that means they left your life for a while.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends whats happening in life and my mindset on that at the time. My general saying is shit happens, deal with it (To myself i should add).

But i am also a very strong believer that whoever is meant to be in your life will gravitate back towards you regardless og how far they wonder"

That's exactly what I say too. Life's to short to worry about it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm a believer that our lives are set, nothing is random, everything happens for a reason.

So whether its someone changing their mind on Fab or someone walking away after years of being together it was always going to be so.

What I don't believe is that there is an entity that oversees all.

So just dust yourself down & carry on regardless..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once told people come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime. So far that certainly seems to be the case for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adults talk and smooth things over.

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By *owgirlandbullsXtraCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Not always the case unfortunately

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I don't believe the future is set.

I don't believe in fate.

I don't believe that everything happens for a reason, other than cause and effect, laws of thermodynamics etc.

Otherwise, what would be the point?

One could just strive for nothing, attempt nothing, take what comes, because after all, it's just fate.

I prefer to believe that our future is not set.

That we shape our lives by our aspirations and actions.

But then, maybe it's just fate that I think that way and thus all my actions and outcomes are pre-determined.

Who knows?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I don't believe the future is set.

I don't believe in fate.

I don't believe that everything happens for a reason, other than cause and effect, laws of thermodynamics etc.

Otherwise, what would be the point?

One could just strive for nothing, attempt nothing, take what comes, because after all, it's just fate.

I prefer to believe that our future is not set.

That we shape our lives by our aspirations and actions.

But then, maybe it's just fate that I think that way and thus all my actions and outcomes are pre-determined.

Who knows?

I'm not saying you meander through life because it's outcome is fixed, what i'm saying is do what you do, become the successful millionaire businessman, the painter, the poet, the homeless, all of these things are set. You think you are making a choice, free will, but which way you choose & the outcome of your efforts has already been fixed in the timeline.

Obviously there is no way of knowing for sure but this belief fits with others I have, so its good enough for me

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