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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly what's it is about but I do understand that some people like to share experiences with a certain person or regular FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's about whatever the person wants it to be about. if their opinion differs to yours then move on till you find people who's mindset matches yours

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's not for everyone. i'm not interested in who other people are fucking but i know guys on here who are interested in who i'm fucking and wanna hear all about it or share me.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Sharing is caring

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Both more than comfortable to enjoy the other having solo adventures.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've found the same with some guys - some seem to want it to be like a micro version of an ltr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies? "

You're a single woman what do they expect?...the key word being SINGLE...take it as a compliment and carry on regardless xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies? "

sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across this too, blokes who want exclusive for no commitment, I mostly stick to one offs and 1 regular FB who wants to share XXX

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sharing who they have played with and how? That's only something I enjoy if they are one of my fbs.

I don't really want to hear the ins and outs of a meet when on one with another - I'm a bit selfish and enjoy the attention being solely on me.

I don't mind and I encourage others to fuck others - I'm not here for an exclusive thing.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

An awful lot of "swingers" seem to want something exclusive to them.

Not for us though even if you did turn into a longterm fwb.

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't do exclusive, with anyone, but do enjoy regular FB's. . Some men are also more than happy to share me with another woman but not a man. Seems rather unfair to me.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I don't do exclusive, with anyone, but do enjoy regular FB's. . Some men are also more than happy to share me with another woman but not a man. Seems rather unfair to me. "

I'd agree with you, your body, your choice, they don't like the idea of another guy, then find two other guys

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do exclusive, with anyone, but do enjoy regular FB's. . Some men are also more than happy to share me with another woman but not a man. Seems rather unfair to me.

I'd agree with you, your body, your choice, they don't like the idea of another guy, then find two other guys

S"

I'm trying, believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies? "

When I come across people like that I cut all contact. I can't be doing with the drama

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Well you would think it would be but I've been called weird in here for wanting to share someone … swinging is what people want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is sharing sexual fantasies but more for some than others.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Not wanting to throw this off topic, you know what really grinds my gears? One penis policy couples. If you're sharing it doesn't matter one jot if you're fucking Females, males or any other wonderful gender we have.

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you


"Not wanting to throw this off topic, you know what really grinds my gears? One penis policy couples. If you're sharing it doesn't matter one jot if you're fucking Females, males or any other wonderful gender we have. "

I'm with ya on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn't really about sharing for us - at least, not in the sense it's being discussed in this thread

It's more about extending the range of people involved whilst we are fucking

We still like to be involved with each other in some way whilst playing with others.

Neither of us would like to share in the sense of either of us meeting someone alone

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that if someone is looking for one-on-one exclusivity it might be easier to find that on a dating site. But if a couple has a regular arrangement with another couple, a single man or a single lady, then that can't be found via a dating site. So if someone in that arrangement wants to exclusivity then there is a potential clash, as it is not the norm. Us personally we absalutely love the sharing. We have a few very good friends who we play with (a mix of singles and couples) and when we meet we have a good catch up about what we've all been up to on the scene, and who's played with who etc. Then there are parties and clubs, and there's a lot of sharing going on amongst friends.

Mrs

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have come across this too, blokes who want exclusive for no commitment, I mostly stick to one offs and 1 regular FB who wants to share XXX"

Been in this situation where Fb wanted exclusive but he wanted to play with other women,talk about double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies? "

Absolutely

Couldn't agree more I think sadly some try to put non swinging ethics into their fb or fwb and then issues often jealousy or needy behaviour follows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel that if someone is looking for one-on-one exclusivity it might be easier to find that on a dating site. But if a couple has a regular arrangement with another couple, a single man or a single lady, then that can't be found via a dating site. So if someone in that arrangement wants to exclusivity then there is a potential clash, as it is not the norm. Us personally we absalutely love the sharing. We have a few very good friends who we play with (a mix of singles and couples) and when we meet we have a good catch up about what we've all been up to on the scene, and who's played with who etc. Then there are parties and clubs, and there's a lot of sharing going on amongst friends.

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to feel a bit "disappointed" if I suggest I play with others, both with or without them.

Isn't swinging all about sharing and carrying out sexual fantasies? "

It certainly is for us , and the minute anyone gets clingy or judgemental they get blocked .

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