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"I would not message a man on here asking to meet. I will however message them to ask if they would like to chat further to see if there is a connection x" Sorry should have mentioned this also. We never ask to meet spare of the moment either. Must have a chat & public social first. Way too many crazies in the online world. | |||
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"having all filters on like me to avoid the faf messages..so i always message first.." What is it that makes those profiles attractive to you? | |||
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"I would not message a man on here asking to meet. I will however message them to ask if they would like to chat further to see if there is a connection x Sorry should have mentioned this also. We never ask to meet spare of the moment either. Must have a chat & public social first. Way too many crazies in the online world." What do you look for in their profile that makes you want to make initial contact? I appreciate that it could be something indefinable. | |||
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"having all filters on like me to avoid the faf messages..so i always message first.. What is it that makes those profiles attractive to you?" its a matter of me being very observant over a period of time if on the forum, i watch and interact and then it comes down to timing. the only way out of my inbox is a block. i don't like blocking people, so if on here, i want to make sure i have a mutual connection before messaging. sometimes, i host socials and if i am going to a club. i put it on my status, if people want to just say hello...they are welcome to..plenty of ways of meeting me, if someone is so inclined... | |||
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"On fab, at my age, the opposite sex do not, or will not message me, or couples, As I am just another ageing perv. But in real life, my hobby, that has been a part of my social life for quite a few years now. I have to fight off a lot of vanilla women, that want to go out with me. What my hobby is I will keep secret. ![]() is it your shagging machine? ![]() | |||
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"having all filters on like me to avoid the faf messages..so i always message first.. What is it that makes those profiles attractive to you?its a matter of me being very observant over a period of time if on the forum, i watch and interact and then it comes down to timing. the only way out of my inbox is a block. i don't like blocking people, so if on here, i want to make sure i have a mutual connection before messaging. sometimes, i host socials and if i am going to a club. i put it on my status, if people want to just say hello...they are welcome to..plenty of ways of meeting me, if someone is so inclined..." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"They don't !! Over 11 months and only 1 meet , it's crap" You might want to change your username. I imagine it's quite offputting for most women. | |||
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"They don't !! Over 11 months and only 1 meet , it's crap" Oh yes they do and it's refreshing. ![]() | |||
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"I'm just happy to meet for a coffee !! Not even a sniff" You will find that if you log on here and are in a negative mood this place can make it worse. Take a step away for a while. Think about what you're actually putting in to get meets , and come back when you're more positive. It's meant to be fun and not taken seriously. | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " Googly eyes on your cock ![]() | |||
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"having all filters on like me to avoid the faf messages..so i always message first.." Waits patiently. ![]() | |||
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"I'm just happy to meet for a coffee !! Not even a sniff" Think you might need to tweak your profile a little ... .just saying ![]() | |||
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"Sometimes. They are usually quite lazy and just wink though " I'm chatting to a lovely lady from up by you who winked me yesterday ![]() | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " Read profile, look at pics, chat for a bit. Then I'll will suggest a social xx | |||
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"Sometimes. They are usually quite lazy and just wink though I'm chatting to a lovely lady from up by you who winked me yesterday ![]() I don't usually respond to them. | |||
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"I'm just happy to meet for a coffee !! Not even a sniff" You're problems will start when you get verifications. ![]() | |||
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"We do a lot of initial contact. Mrs will hunt for guys, read their profiles & if they have appealing photos she adds to the hotlist for us to message when we've both discussed. Some guys don't reply which is fine as we assume we're not for them" that's exactly how we do it olso. ![]() | |||
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"having all filters on like me to avoid the faf messages..so i always message first.. Waits patiently. ![]() thought youd be too busy ![]() | |||
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"On fab, at my age, the opposite sex do not, or will not message me, or couples, As I am just another ageing perv. But in real life, my hobby, that has been a part of my social life for quite a few years now. I have to fight off a lot of vanilla women, that want to go out with me. What my hobby is I will keep secret. ![]() ![]() No ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sometimes. They are usually quite lazy and just wink though I'm chatting to a lovely lady from up by you who winked me yesterday ![]() it depends who it's off. if i like the sound of them, i do, if i don't, i don't. | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " Pm'd you | |||
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"I message men first but not instantly for a meet. Either way I've found some gems on here ![]() A Ballet of Laughter ?? | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? Googly eyes on your cock ![]() There's a minion, on one of my cock pics... Perhaps I should make it public ![]() | |||
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"A profile plenty of cock pictures from different angles.." Women don't like lots of cock pics!! If someone messages me with and all he has is cock pics he gets ignored. One or two are ok but face and body pics are good. Oh and trout pouts are not good!! Nothing wrong with a nice happy face pic!! | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " ooh tough question, I'd say Chocolate? ![]() | |||
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"They don't !! Over 11 months and only 1 meet , it's crap" Speak for yourself. It's not my experience. | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " Great new write up ...seems to more flowers, a genuine plus. ![]() | |||
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"They don't !! Over 11 months and only 1 meet , it's crap" A large proportion of us on here are just swingers, not doggers. | |||
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"I don't know. I have never sent the first message to any man here with a view to meeting him" Neither have I but then I've ended up with some great Fab chums out of it ![]() | |||
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"I don't know. I have never sent the first message to any man here with a view to meeting him Neither have I but then I've ended up with some great Fab chums out of it ![]() I can't message you because I am out of your age range ![]() | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " A couple of phrases spring to mind:- When Hell freezes over... Pigs might fly... And not a snowballs chance in Hell... Sadly it just doesn't happen ![]() | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? A couple of phrases spring to mind:- When Hell freezes over... Pigs might fly... And not a snowballs chance in Hell... Sadly it just doesn't happen ![]() It does happen. I was on here previously and twice had females contact me first resulting in meets ![]() | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? A couple of phrases spring to mind:- When Hell freezes over... Pigs might fly... And not a snowballs chance in Hell... Sadly it just doesn't happen ![]() ![]() It did used to happen on here in the dim and distant past of Fab, when it was a site for genuine people who like to enjoy sexual encounters with others who think the same way. I too was on here a few years back, and received first contact from a couple of ladies, but not anymore. Unfortunately, the way Fab is today, full of chancers and with a much younger member profile using Kik etc, it just doesn't happen now...rocking-horse shit, hen's teeth, etc... ![]() | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? A couple of phrases spring to mind:- When Hell freezes over... Pigs might fly... And not a snowballs chance in Hell... Sadly it just doesn't happen ![]() What twaddle. Yes it does happen...my last couple of meets was the result of me messaging first. | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? A couple of phrases spring to mind:- When Hell freezes over... Pigs might fly... And not a snowballs chance in Hell... Sadly it just doesn't happen ![]() Agree , all be it my husband does the arranging etc. I do message if somebody stands out, sadly after initial message a few never make it to hotlist | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? ooh tough question, I'd say Chocolate? ![]() In my experience shoes are a much source of interest, that or asking for help with dealing with a glis glis. | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? " not being a bit of a dickhead helps | |||
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"What, if anything, makes a woman on here, message a guy to ask for a meet? not being a bit of a dickhead helps" Bugger ![]() ![]() | |||
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