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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i can't meet tonight, well i can but only trusted guys and i think the one i planned to spend tonight with can't get here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "

There's football on tonight, that's much more important than meeting some stranger for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i can't meet tonight, well i can but only trusted guys and i think the one i planned to spend tonight with can't get here anyway.

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I wasn't phishing for a meet it was a reality of swinging x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i can't meet tonight, well i can but only trusted guys and i think the one i planned to spend tonight with can't get here anyway.

I wasn't phishing for a meet it was a reality of swinging x"

i know what you mean. plenty of liars on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

There's football on tonight, that's much more important than meeting some stranger for sex "

Pah football, I know what I'd rather be doing and it's not watching 20 odd blokes chase a ball ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i know what you mean. plenty of liars on here."

I think it's online in general I fortunately

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By *iccii69Man
over a year ago

Surrey

I'm free this eve!

I guess it either proves I am single (as my profile says), or I have one damn boring love life if I'm 'not single'!!

Happy valentines fellow fabbers! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm busy can't meet most nights.

You need to pre arrange in advance for most meets. Only a small percentage happen same day I'd imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "

no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves

these threads make great filters

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i know what you mean. plenty of liars on here.

I think it's online in general I fortunately "

probably. i don't really bother with many people online now coz of it.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves

these threads make great filters "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm busy can't meet most nights.

You need to pre arrange in advance for most meets. Only a small percentage happen same day I'd imagine. "

I don't mean a meet now just a planned meet in general, the perfect filter but will have to wait till next year now, plan a meet for Valentine's night ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves

these threads make great filters "

Nooooo muppets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "

Not me I'm definitely single and home alone on the Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh."

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."

meeting a stranger for sex is hardly having an affair but i take your point, I just make a note on the profile and leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."

Just putting it out there that I don't judge it was just a topic about this specific day

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!"

me neither.

so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems to be a common topic on the forum tonight. It's all a bit boring - and that's coming from someone who won't meet anyone who is cheating.

I mean, yeah it happens, obviously. And, so? Plus I'd imagine plenty of genuinely single people may have asked someone out for Valentine's day. Are we to assume they're all cheating as well? Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!

me neither.

so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them."

You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh."

Station 1 going to train of thought it has now left the platform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"This seems to be a common topic on the forum tonight. It's all a bit boring - and that's coming from someone who won't meet anyone who is cheating.

I mean, yeah it happens, obviously. And, so? Plus I'd imagine plenty of genuinely single people may have asked someone out for Valentine's day. Are we to assume they're all cheating as well? Ugh."

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Station 1 going to train of thought it has now left the platform "

my day has been buzzin', i'm chilled now.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!

me neither.

so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.

You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you."

i didn't even fuck him and he was telling me all about his wife, so yeah it is dragging me into his marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who practice non-monogamy, which let's face it, is all of us, don't really have much room for preaching in my opinion.

It's just sex - it's not the precious be all & end all that the church, or societal convention would have you believe.

Recreational sex should be available to anyone that wants it, regardless of their situation, in my view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry if it's boring and been talked about before, I haven't read them and just thought I'd ask my own question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well definitely single and home alone ...couldn't meet tonight ..no offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i would love to meet a nice couple or female but i always mess up everything so i saying sorry to all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well definitely single and home alone ...couldn't meet tonight ..no offers "

Lol same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry if it's boring and been talked about before, I haven't read them and just thought I'd ask my own question "

Sorry, I get that you may not have looked at all the threads. Sometimes it can just feel like beating a dead horse.

Here's a similar thread in the lounge:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/603753

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I can meet tonight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry if it's boring and been talked about before, I haven't read them and just thought I'd ask my own question

Sorry, I get that you may not have looked at all the threads. Sometimes it can just feel like beating a dead horse.

Here's a similar thread in the lounge:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/603753"

I'm not really a forum guy but a thought popped into my head so out it came on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well definitely single and home alone ...couldn't meet tonight ..no offers

Lol same "

I feel your pain brother

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves

these threads make great filters "

Was thinking the very same thing

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!

me neither.

so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.

You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you."

I'd say knowing and partaking is involving myself. My opinion.

I choose to not involve myself in anything that can cause drama. Even simple things can turn into complicated.

That's not being judgemental. It's an opinion. Everyone has a choice.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"People who practice non-monogamy, which let's face it, is all of us, don't really have much room for preaching in my opinion.

It's just sex - it's not the precious be all & end all that the church, or societal convention would have you believe.

Recreational sex should be available to anyone that wants it, regardless of their situation, in my view."

I agree with your view, but you would have thought this should be the very place to be open and honest, unfortunately if it only reduced their chance of a fuck by half of one percent some would still lie about their relationship status.

S

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?

People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.

meh...

dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.

he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.

not sure where i was going with this but meh.

Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!

me neither.

so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.

You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you.

I'd say knowing and partaking is involving myself. My opinion.

I choose to not involve myself in anything that can cause drama. Even simple things can turn into complicated.

That's not being judgemental. It's an opinion. Everyone has a choice. "

i agree.

he was also fucking one of my neighbours already, i used to have a brew with him but he really wasn't my type. for many reasons.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "

How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "

Many people on here have to pre plan and it it's a 'special' night like valentines or Xmas eve, New Year's Eve etc the chances of child care decreases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's midweek & Valentine's is notoriously expensive.

Also some people whether they are single or Fab single have work & children to consider.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Im single and working

Cud of had diner with a lady friend and afters but i dont do valatines anymore so chosse to work not lossing hundred pound for a meal and bunk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves

these threads make great filters "

threads can be very enlightening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "

I know i have those and a grandson

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Single. Home alone (as my daughter is with her dad) and I'm not meeting cos I don't feel well and PJs and paracetamol are more appealing.

More reality.

Vx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "

Yup. That's me. No midweek meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread was based a little bit lighthearted and a little dig at the "why can't you do this or that", "face pic ?" brigade that I and countless others have to read as a reply to a message.

I'm of the age where I know life for whatever reason comes before playtime, your personal reason is your own if i was meeting you then we'd decide a date and not dictate one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely single but home sick and my valentines is my dog so he'd be annoyed haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To all the people on this thread I raise a Valentine's glass of whatever you want to wish for a speedy March 14th cheers

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "

You, it turns out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight

You, it turns out. "

I'm not busy, I can jump in my car at any time except to go 200 miles to meet a single guy claiming to be a couple ha ha

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By *oldsteadyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

hehe - I was free to go anywhere.

Would have arrived just before the profile was deleted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went out with someone new for a social. Ended up having dinner . Great night

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had a lovely meet with a single Fab friend of mine

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm single but wasn't free to meet tonight - I play darts for a ladies team and have a match every Tuesday.

We won 5-0

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

I am single and was free tonight - in fact went out to a social gathering in Southampon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hehe - I was free to go anywhere.

Would have arrived just before the profile was deleted! "

You were lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ice, kinky hope you had a great meet xx

Yorkie, 5-0 go girls xx

Hants, a gathering, nice

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im single i didnt want to meet on valentines day, but i met last weekend and am meeting this weekend

spread the love

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Well I met last night and had a fabulous time x

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"im single i didnt want to meet on valentines day, but i met last weekend and am meeting this weekend

spread the love "

Hello Suzy - you been hibernating??? Not seen you around on the forums for a while

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