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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like finding a unicorn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you have huge cock and 9 pack like batman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ??? "

its very hard as most women can attract all the men they need but obviously lots of men struggle to even get a meet...

what do you have to offer that would make a woman want to couple up with you and take her chances meeting couples or other singles when she can do that already, if she so wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like finding rocky horses shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ??? "

No but I am sure you would find someone pretty quickly OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ???

its very hard as most women can attract all the men they need but obviously lots of men struggle to even get a meet...

what do you have to offer that would make a woman want to couple up with you and take her chances meeting couples or other singles when she can do that already, if she so wishes? "

It's not what I've got to offer I was asking if any female has done it

I totally get what you are saying however the female might not want to meet an established couple so to speak she may want to strangers a male and female

And she might want a mmf but has to find two single males

So thought that maybe some just find a FB to do the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ??? "

We met on here as a single male and a single female after seeing each other in clubs and chatting due to forum use. We started seeing each other regularly and are now a couple. We meet others together now but not as individuals anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a female on here who has been looking for similar, I've not found it as easy as I would have thought. I find the people I have met have said what they think I want to hear to get off the starting blocks and then been full of shit once they have got what they wanted. or there isn't that connection that's needed to have a swinging partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ???

We met on here as a single male and a single female after seeing each other in clubs and chatting due to forum use. We started seeing each other regularly and are now a couple. We meet others together now but not as individuals anymore. "

Arhhh nice one both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a female on here who has been looking for similar, I've not found it as easy as I would have thought. I find the people I have met have said what they think I want to hear to get off the starting blocks and then been full of shit once they have got what they wanted. or there isn't that connection that's needed to have a swinging partner. "

That's a shame ... awesome profile pic

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I think it would be quite difficult for a male but not so much for a female. I have met people on here who I would couple up with if the situation arose and am doing so within the coming weeks for a ffm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it would be quite difficult for a male but not so much for a female. I have met people on here who I would couple up with if the situation arose and am doing so within the coming weeks for a ffm "

Hey stranger lucky guy and where's them new pics xxxx

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"I think it would be quite difficult for a male but not so much for a female. I have met people on here who I would couple up with if the situation arose and am doing so within the coming weeks for a ffm

Hey stranger lucky guy and where's them new pics xxxx "

Hey, if you were closer you'd be lucky too

Still need to take them, hard to take sexy pics by myself xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done that myself wouldn't say no to it again. certainly adds a different dynamic to things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ??? "

Well if you put it like that to her I'd say you'd get a slap.

I think what you're looking for is called 'bait'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok ladies or couples or even men ...

How hard do you think as a single male it would be to find a single female to become part of a couple

So in turn could attract other females males and couples ????

Anyone on here doing that ???

Well if you put it like that to her I'd say you'd get a slap.

I think what you're looking for is called 'bait'"

Not quite .... but great ink you got going on there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it would be quite difficult for a male but not so much for a female. I have met people on here who I would couple up with if the situation arose and am doing so within the coming weeks for a ffm

Hey stranger lucky guy and where's them new pics xxxx

Hey, if you were closer you'd be lucky too

Still need to take them, hard to take sexy pics by myself xxxx"

You need a road trip and I'll take some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends entirely on what it is you're actually looking for. If you're looking for a committed relationship that could sometimes include swinging, then actually put that on your profile and search out those looking for the same. Every chance of finding that here.

If you're looking for a woman to be your meal ticket to have sex with others, you've got zero chance. Lone female swingers are confident (we learn very quickly we have to be...) and can spot this kind of guy a mile off. I've previously had an absolutely lovely FWB where we'd go to clubs together and share experiences and people, but that happened as a result of how well we clicked, and not because of him looking for bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think it is easier to find those playmates once part of a couple?!? I have never found it so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you think it is easier to find those playmates once part of a couple?!? I have never found it so! "

Unless ya only wanna play with more men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it depends entirely on what it is you're actually looking for. If you're looking for a committed relationship that could sometimes include swinging, then actually put that on your profile and search out those looking for the same. Every chance of finding that here.

If you're looking for a woman to be your meal ticket to have sex with others, you've got zero chance. Lone female swingers are confident (we learn very quickly we have to be...) and can spot this kind of guy a mile off. I've previously had an absolutely lovely FWB where we'd go to clubs together and share experiences and people, but that happened as a result of how well we clicked, and not because of him looking for bait "

Just to clear things up ..... I'm not looking for or wanting any bait....

Thought I'd just put it out there as a couple of years ago I had a female come to me asking to couple up to find single females

And many a time females look for males to attend and play at clubs together

But I'm all up for a good discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a female on here who has been looking for similar, I've not found it as easy as I would have thought. I find the people I have met have said what they think I want to hear to get off the starting blocks and then been full of shit once they have got what they wanted. or there isn't that connection that's needed to have a swinging partner.

That's a shame ... awesome profile pic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends entirely on what it is you're actually looking for. If you're looking for a committed relationship that could sometimes include swinging, then actually put that on your profile and search out those looking for the same. Every chance of finding that here.

If you're looking for a woman to be your meal ticket to have sex with others, you've got zero chance. Lone female swingers are confident (we learn very quickly we have to be...) and can spot this kind of guy a mile off. I've previously had an absolutely lovely FWB where we'd go to clubs together and share experiences and people, but that happened as a result of how well we clicked, and not because of him looking for bait

Just to clear things up ..... I'm not looking for or wanting any bait....

Thought I'd just put it out there as a couple of years ago I had a female come to me asking to couple up to find single females

And many a time females look for males to attend and play at clubs together

But I'm all up for a good discussion "

That's all good then, it just wasn't clear from the OP in what sense you were looking. So in answer, I think it's possible, maybe just not massively common. No harm in trying though!

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I was first on here as a single woman. I met a man (using 'who's on nearby') and after a while we became fb and made a couples profile and met other couples. Then I met another man through Fab and now we are a proper couple. So yes OP it is possible. I've done it twice!

Sally

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I would love to find someone to be a couple on here with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to find someone to be a couple on here with "

Well looking at your profile I'm sure you will have no probs there

Anyway your from Blackpool .... I love Blackpool

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I would love to find someone to be a couple on here with

Well looking at your profile I'm sure you will have no probs there

Anyway your from Blackpool .... I love Blackpool "

Being in Blackpool makes it more difficult. Guys just want to fuck everything that moves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to find someone to be a couple on here with

Well looking at your profile I'm sure you will have no probs there

Anyway your from Blackpool .... I love Blackpool

Being in Blackpool makes it more difficult. Guys just want to fuck everything that moves"

Oh no bad times you need to do some road trips

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