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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought it was high time I changed my profile to say bisexual rather than bi curious. After quite a few bi experiences I now am sure that I am truly bisexual.

It's been quite liberating admitting it actually.

So ladies, (and men of course) if I peek your interest, do say hello.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused."

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious."

Oh, cool. I'd have been a bit pissy if one of my exes said they were just exploring whilst we were dating and I guess that's my own projection.

I hope you find what you seek OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious.

Oh, cool. I'd have been a bit pissy if one of my exes said they were just exploring whilst we were dating and I guess that's my own projection.

I hope you find what you seek OP!"

We both knew the position and had great fun together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardest, and biggest part is always when you come out to yourself...

It took me half a lifetime to be honest with myself, and admit that I'd been wrong to just do as the world told me - but there comes a time when you have to speak the truth.

So congrats on saying it and on changing your definition, I hope that you have a fabulous time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious.

Oh, cool. I'd have been a bit pissy if one of my exes said they were just exploring whilst we were dating and I guess that's my own projection.

I hope you find what you seek OP!

We both knew the position and had great fun together."

Everyone has to start somewhere, she was curious as I was. We explored together, hence both of us bi curious. It's not brain science to work it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was curious about my sexuality so I dipped my toe in the bi waters.

Ok so I am not going to fancy a man, but sexually I am bi. It's been a lot of fun finding out too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The hardest, and biggest part is always when you come out to yourself...

It took me half a lifetime to be honest with myself, and admit that I'd been wrong to just do as the world told me - but there comes a time when you have to speak the truth.

So congrats on saying it and on changing your definition, I hope that you have a fabulous time!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was curious about my sexuality so I dipped my toe in the bi waters.

Ok so I am not going to fancy a man, but sexually I am bi. It's been a lot of fun finding out too.

I understand what you mean, and great you're having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had a fumble with a few girls in my teens and nothing since. I'd love to have another opportunity to play n see if I like playing with other women or if I just like admiring them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I need to change mine to gay-curious. The number of men I find attractive is in serious decline. Hope you find what you seek OP.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious.

Oh, cool. I'd have been a bit pissy if one of my exes said they were just exploring whilst we were dating and I guess that's my own projection.

I hope you find what you seek OP!

We both knew the position and had great fun together.

Everyone has to start somewhere, she was curious as I was. We explored together, hence both of us bi curious. It's not brain science to work it out."

I'm not quite sure the necessity of the brain science comment - I'd already clarified it was my own projection on to the situation. Girlfriend just has different connotations to different people.

But anyways OP, sexuality is broad and good for you for being comfortable and confident enough to embrace it - it's a positive thing at any age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting for the "sometimes has sex with women if there's a man there too" option. Until that time I have to remain as straight because anything else would be misleading.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting for the "sometimes has sex with women if there's a man there too" option. Until that time I have to remain as straight because anything else would be misleading."

Surely if you enjoy sex with both that means you're bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting for the "sometimes has sex with women if there's a man there too" option. Until that time I have to remain as straight because anything else would be misleading.

Surely if you enjoy sex with both that means you're bi."

But I wouldn't meet a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman, so I can't call myself bi because compared to women who are genuinely bisexual, I'm nowhere near that. Someone has suggested bi-playful before, and that could work. But I overwhelmingly prefer men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had had a girlfriend, wouldn't that have made you bisexual? I'm confused.

I was very new to it then and still in the exploring stage, so no, I was definitely bi curious.

Oh, cool. I'd have been a bit pissy if one of my exes said they were just exploring whilst we were dating and I guess that's my own projection.

I hope you find what you seek OP!

We both knew the position and had great fun together.

Everyone has to start somewhere, she was curious as I was. We explored together, hence both of us bi curious. It's not brain science to work it out.

I'm not quite sure the necessity of the brain science comment - I'd already clarified it was my own projection on to the situation. Girlfriend just has different connotations to different people.

But anyways OP, sexuality is broad and good for you for being comfortable and confident enough to embrace it - it's a positive thing at any age

I mentioned brain science as I didn't think you were grasping my circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting for the "sometimes has sex with women if there's a man there too" option. Until that time I have to remain as straight because anything else would be misleading.

Surely if you enjoy sex with both that means you're bi.

Ah right. Bi-playful sounds a good option...Admin take note as this would be a useful feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting for the "sometimes has sex with women if there's a man there too" option. Until that time I have to remain as straight because anything else would be misleading.

Surely if you enjoy sex with both that means you're bi.

Ah right. Bi-playful sounds a good option...Admin take note as this would be a useful feature.

I agree...it's really hard to reduce a whole spectrum of sexuality into the available options.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

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"Thought it was high time I changed my profile to say bisexual rather than bi curious. After quite a few bi experiences I now am sure that I am truly bisexual.

It's been quite liberating admitting it actually.

So ladies, (and men of course) if I peek your interest, do say hello."

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thought it was high time I changed my profile to say bisexual rather than bi curious. After quite a few bi experiences I now am sure that I am truly bisexual.

It's been quite liberating admitting it actually.

So ladies, (and men of course) if I peek your interest, do say hello.

Hello

Well hello there

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