FabSwingers.com forum: What's the most memorable reason someone stood you up or cancelled??

By *otswaps OP Couple
over a year ago

Medway

We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??"

"Was on the way to meet you for the weekend but ended up stabbed and in the hospital, wound didn't heal so I was there for weeks. Sorry I didn't get back to you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was ill... then posted on the forum about being stood up that night by someone else

what a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That his Mum had passed away..... He,d forgotten he,d told me a couple of weeks earlier that both his folks had died years ago...

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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that he really liked me and didn't think i'd like him, coz he is well into me. i think he's lying though and it's coz he promised me a lot and couldn't deliver.

think he's fit as fuck and know he reads the forums.

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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago

S.Westerly

In fairness? It was today and 3 hours before what was going to be a super Bi Party..... Mother Nature announced a visit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it wasn't me.

She just met and fucked me... about 20 minutes after she left she texted me to tell me she was "sorry she couldn't come tonight and couldn't let me know earlier "... ehm....

poor guy !!

I responded by saying I thought this was gonna be the "I had a lovely evening" text...

Never heard from her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twisted ankle - two of them have used this excuse

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I can't remember, usually involves broken car, the police or hospital.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"He was ill... then posted on the forum about being stood up that night by someone else

what a shame

I had exactly same happen

I just casually commented on his thread that, that's the gamble you take when you settle for second best

He was UNLOS moments later

Them half an hour later messaged me from his new profile apologising and asking if I'd still like to meet

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

His exhaust fell off. To be fair, it was true and I went to the couples meet we had planned without him and had a lovely threesome. We sent him pics while he was waiting for the AA. I'm nice like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was due to meet me. Later he put a status us saying 'sick of timewaster's. When i read that i messaged back saying 'i hadnt stood him up.he told me that two local women had. Turned out he decided to let me down because am a 40 min drive away in favour of two local's who neva showed up. He grovelled but i woudnt meet him after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His daughter had an argument with her bf so decided to come home for the night.

The next day he had a new verification from the night before. Never asked him a thing. Blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago, a chap we were due to meet texted Rea and told her that his wife has discovered he was due to meet us and had told him that he wasn't allowed to leave the house for a week.

Have to admit we pissed ourselves laughing at that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??"

He didn't feel comfortable meeting a single female but then I pointed out he had veris from couples. He went UNLOS then came back a few weeks later and started chatting to me as if we had never spoken before. I blasted and blocked him. Then I had a break and when I came back, he tried for a third time.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

When I had my single profile,I was due to meet someone ,he cancelled saying he had his kids so couldn't meet up.

He also had a new verification next day!I don't know why people lie and can't just say they changed their mind or got another meet.

Miss

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

She was an hour late for our social, and when she walked through the Costa, saw me talking on the phone, so didn't stop....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a better offer .....fair enough I suppose

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

"Twisted ankle - two of them have used this excuse

Astonishing (unless you live on the 18th floor and the lift is broke)

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??"

I came off my motorbike on way to a meet once. Even sent pics of my bike and helmet damage but still got loads of abuse

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I've twice had women retire from swinging rather than go to Chams with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurricane Matthew lol.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I got stood up. He couldn't let me know because he lost his phone......and forgotten the name of the hotel

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I drove from Leicester to Newcastle got to the hotel and waited, finally got a message saying she couldn't meet because she was too upset by the ending of Eastenders and her makeup had run and it was going to take her the rest of the night to sort herself out. Luckily i have friends in Mewcastle so i went out for the night and got shitfaced and ended up spending the night with a lovely woman who i am still friends with now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??

"Was on the way to meet you for the weekend but ended up stabbed and in the hospital, wound didn't heal so I was there for weeks. Sorry I didn't get back to you.""

I actually had this, and it turned out to be true.

I got a text a few weeks later apologising and could we meet up, her ex had actually stabbed her, cut her face and messed her arm up, cut tendons and so on.

I thought she was taking the piss until I got there and saw the mess she was in, and various bits of surgery afterwards to sort her out. (yes he did get put in prison)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged to meet a girl in Costa in High Cross in Leicester, so about an hour's drive. Waited and waited and messaged her.

Finally got a reply after I gave up, she had bumped into a school friend on the way and fucked him instead!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'd been shagging for 4 days straight and couldn't drag myself out of bed for the last one. Soz.

(you know who you are)

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I once went on a Friday night date with a lass who turned up with 4 bags of shopping from Iceland.

She stayed for about 35 minutes then insisted upon leaving because she needed to get her frozen stuff in the freezer.

An extremely elaborate way of getting out of a date if you don't like someone. She could have just faked a phone call.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I once went on a Friday night date with a lass who turned up with 4 bags of shopping from Iceland.

She stayed for about 35 minutes then insisted upon leaving because she needed to get her frozen stuff in the freezer.

An extremely elaborate way of getting out of a date if you don't like someone. She could have just faked a phone call.

sorry this made me laugh, your last line mainly.

iceland is just across the road from the coffee shop round here though, i might nick that idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet arranged with a guy, someone totally different turned up and told us his friend had bottled out so he came instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was ill... then posted on the forum about being stood up that night by someone else

what a shame

I had exactly same happen

I just casually commented on his thread that, that's the gamble you take when you settle for second best

He was UNLOS moments later

Them half an hour later messaged me from his new profile apologising and asking if I'd still like to meet

I hope you didn't?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was due to meet me. Later he put a status us saying 'sick of timewaster's. When i read that i messaged back saying 'i hadnt stood him up.he told me that two local women had. Turned out he decided to let me down because am a 40 min drive away in favour of two local's who neva showed up. He grovelled but i woudnt meet him after that."

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this recently, arranged meet in pub, he turned up 15 mins late (not a good start!), bought half of lemonade, had a sip then asked me if it was alright for him to park on the double yellow lined busy main road outside by bus stops. I explained it was likely he would be causing a disruption and I didn't want him getting a ticket so told him about the free parking 200m away (as I was hoping he might come back to mine afterwards!). He then said he was off to move his car, I saw him get in it and drive at speed in the other direction! Guess what, 5 mins later he messaged to say he had to do an urgent errand for his ex-wife. Clearly he hadn't liked what he'd seen but didn't have the courage to say it politely to my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked for ages on messages and even phone. We booked the hotel. He didnt show up . Didn't answer calls or texts.

He replied 2 days later saying he had locked himself in a fridge at work and was in there all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to meet a guy regularly at a club. He then pushed to become my main lover and pushed to come to our house. He was due to arrive at 7pm. At 3pm he texted my husband. He was with his church friends at Wimbledon watching tennis finals. They had suddenly decided to 'grab a bite and a movie' and he explained that due to the 'mix of friends' he was with he unable to come up with a 'credible alibi' as to why he couldn't join them. He assured us that he would get to ours by 11pm. We told him not to bother coming as I wasn't going to sit around waiting til it suited him to show up when this had been in the diary for weeks. He got quite a shirty text message from me, and he told me that's the way the swing scene is and even with the best made plans things come up. His double life of swinging and his religious beliefs got the better of him in the end and he 'retired' from the swing scene, though we did catch up with him socially last about 6 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car crash followed by burglary. Very unlucky guy.

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

At least most of you had a message saying why, albeit a crap reason.

I'd booked a hotel, but couple never turned up. Didn't even let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot they had a hair cut booked LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guy met me.. saw me.. panicked.. then RAN away.

Was horrific.

When I got home I had a message asking if we could meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this recently, arranged meet in pub, he turned up 15 mins late (not a good start!), bought half of lemonade, had a sip then asked me if it was alright for him to park on the double yellow lined busy main road outside by bus stops. I explained it was likely he would be causing a disruption and I didn't want him getting a ticket so told him about the free parking 200m away (as I was hoping he might come back to mine afterwards!). He then said he was off to move his car, I saw him get in it and drive at speed in the other direction! Guess what, 5 mins later he messaged to say he had to do an urgent errand for his ex-wife. Clearly he hadn't liked what he'd seen but didn't have the courage to say it politely to my face.

That is so rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes..then there was the guy who failed to turn up and left me sitting in my car in a club carpark for an hour...then blocked me wben I asked him why.

Oh and the OTHER guy who left me waiting in a pub carpark at night then expected me to turn up at his flat after 10.30 pm because 'a job had run late.'

And people wonder why I prefer to meet in a club. Warm, well lit, drinks and company to hand. No contest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the ones who give no reason at all, who don't even tell me they are not coming and who block me on the morning of the meet then put up on their profile how hard it is to get a meet.

These are the very best examples of Fab timewasters.. PM me for a list of names.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 58 year old man cancelled on us an hour before our meet because his grandmother had been suddenly taken ill.

It's possible, but i was suspicious.......

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

And here's me crying out for a meet and can't get one !!! Ffs I give up !!

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Maybe your profile was unavailable for him to check u out !

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

What's unlos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged to meet a couple at their place, it was a one hour journey away by public transport. I arrived about a few hundred yards from their house and the heavens had opened and was raining in buckets! I texted them to say I was just about to arrive (at the time we agreed), they replied that they were not ready, could I come back in 2 hours!!. I was soaked already, so just went home.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Was he any good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only person who's never been given a reason? People just don't turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the excuses I've had have been vague and not really possible to prove or disprove. Their nature would have also made me seem a bitch if I'd kicked up a fuss. It may just be a fuck, but it's also a commitment to do something and not going through with it for anything but a reason you'd cancel on a friend, is nothing but rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the excuses I've had have been vague and not really possible to prove or disprove. Their nature would have also made me seem a bitch if I'd kicked up a fuss. It may just be a fuck, but it's also a commitment to do something and not going through with it for anything but a reason you'd cancel on a friend, is nothing but rude. "

This is how we felt in our earlier days of swinging. Cancellations due work reasons, or friends coming to visit. Would make us sound unreasonable if we questioned their rationale. But deep down we always thought 'sudden work event on a Friday night - seriously?' Aren't work events planned in advance? And at the very least we could meet when the clients go home. And friends dropping in without notice expecting plans to be changed to accommodate them. Again we think 'seriously?' We have a life as busy as anybodys, but these things that seem to 'come up' that warrant a cancellation sure as hell never happen to us. We wouldn't dream of cancelling someone for the reasons that others have considered a legitimate reason.

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

We were hit by a dumbass deer attempting to cross the A1 on our last trip up to VA.

Mind you, that said, we pulled the damaged trim off the car, limped it to the hotel, got a cab to VA and properly sorted out the car the next morning. I guess that's just the kind of people we are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one that I always remember was the guy I'd arranged to meet in Birmingham for a drink with the view to play if we got on

So I got the train and went to the agreed waiting place and waited, about 15 mins later I got a text saying

'Been a change of plan I'm meeting somebody else now but I'm free tomorrow if you want to reschedule?'

I didn't reply I just went home and about an hour later I got another message saying

'Are you still about? bloody times waster didn't show up'

10/10 for honesty at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The one that I always remember was the guy I'd arranged to meet in Birmingham for a drink with the view to play if we got on

So I got the train and went to the agreed waiting place and waited, about 15 mins later I got a text saying

'Been a change of plan I'm meeting somebody else now but I'm free tomorrow if you want to reschedule?'

I didn't reply I just went home and about an hour later I got another message saying

'Are you still about? bloody times waster didn't show up'

10/10 for honesty at least

That's is absolutely baffling!

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

"The one that I always remember was the guy I'd arranged to meet in Birmingham for a drink with the view to play if we got on

So I got the train and went to the agreed waiting place and waited, about 15 mins later I got a text saying

'Been a change of plan I'm meeting somebody else now but I'm free tomorrow if you want to reschedule?'

I didn't reply I just went home and about an hour later I got another message saying

'Are you still about? bloody times waster didn't show up'

10/10 for honesty at least

That's is absolutely baffling!"

The lack of self awareness is astonishing!

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

Not quite the same thing, but...We were waiting in a pub once when the guy rang to say his car had broken down. We naturally assumed he had had cold feet or was a fake, sighed and drove home. On our way we saw the car he had described to us on the side of the road! Ended up with wife giving him a bj as we waited for the repair vehicle.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Giving a false address and then not answering messages. Later saying he's a fibre engineer and was on emergency and no signal. Blocked

Starting an argument to get out of a club meet cos he doubled booked but doesn't know I know that.

Club meet - totally ignored me. Blocked

Views my profile 3-4 per day, messages often asking for a meet. Then see him at a club, to be told he just wants to be friends

. Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In fairness? It was today and 3 hours before what was going to be a super Bi Party..... Mother Nature announced a visit...."

But that happened to me in the morning arranged a meeting and afternoon my period came.But we had a glass of wine and done other stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were hit by a dumbass deer attempting to cross the A1 on our last trip up to VA.

Mind you, that said, we pulled the damaged trim off the car, limped it to the hotel, got a cab to VA and properly sorted out the car the next morning. I guess that's just the kind of people we are!"

Unbelievable good on you ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??

We've had that a couple times. Once was the day before. Everything all arranged and then he said "he'd feel uncomfortable meeting a couple." But has veri's from couples.

Had my mum's been taken ill. We said sorry to hear that. This was 40 minutes before we left house for a meet. He then messaged the following day and said mum much better, but could he meet me (Rachel) on my own. I said no and asked if that was what had happened last night? Amazingly he said hes and said that I wouldn't hold it against him!

One local guys keeps messaging us of a new profile every couple of months asking for a coffee. When I say yes, sure, but see that you now moved yet again from the town you last said you were from the profile vanishes. He even sends the same photos.

But the worse excuse is silence. Sitting in a hotel room waiting and it's a no show. Of course genuenly hope that he hasn't crashed on the way, but it never is. Just no reply to text or messages on here. Then message gets read three or four hours later and no reply. That hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy spent an entire evening playing with J and left all happy and contented. Never heard from him again. So after a year J winked him for fun.

Back came the reply, hi you seem like a nice couple, etc etc'

Blocked immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speed bump cracked her windscreen. Then posted pics and a verification from a meeting with another couple.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

45 minutes before a meet with a guy he messaged to say he had suddenly remembered he had to pick up a new budgie to replace his sisters dead one.

And another guys an hour late for meeting us at a hotel we had arranged stating his aunty had died but then put a status the day after saying he had a good time at the vanilla alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day before the meet i got a message from a woman saying he couldn't meet me because he didn't get permission from his "mistress" witch he failed to mention. So he won't be meeting and told him to block me witch he did. The woman who sent me the message has now left the site and the guy regularly posts in the forum's lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys dad died and then he posted up a meet looking for a gang bang ... a couple of months later he tried contacting me again ans said he was just out a business meeting with his dad

The bad weather had blown his niece trampoline across the garden and he had to go fix it down

On the way to meet someone and they decided to go meet someone else instead and then invite me along hoping for ffm when they were halfway there ... i declined and then when it never worked out with this other girl he called me half an hour later wanting to stop by mine on the way home

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

He said his mother died. Was back in touch recently and admitted he lied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of these are hilarious, we've not been stood up....yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of these are hilarious, we've not been stood up....yet!

Xx"

I wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was ill... then posted on the forum about being stood up that night by someone else

what a shame

I had exactly same happen

I just casually commented on his thread that, that's the gamble you take when you settle for second best

He was UNLOS moments later

Them half an hour later messaged me from his new profile apologising and asking if I'd still like to meet

Cheeky fucker.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Whilst waiting on a car park ... had a message to say the BAYLIFFS were at the door ...wanting to take stuff ....

.....so he couldn't meet me .

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Fortunately for me I'm a but of a keeper don't know why really then again it might have something to do with money but never been stood up before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been pretty fortunate i think as regards no shows and cancellations but one really pissed me off. I had been chatting to a guy for weeks and finally arranged to meet at his hotel. I had got myself all really, texted before i left the house - yes all ok, can't wait for you to arrive Etc. Handsfree phone chat en route - yes all cool,really horny for you babe etc. Got to the hotel car park after an hour drive and rung him from the car to get his room number and guess what? A bunch of his friends had arrived to take him out for a drink, sorry got too cancel.

Another occasion just made me howl. Had been chatting to a couple and it seemed that it was all systems go. Then on the day i get a message saying the wife had decided not to meet cos i had better legs than her and she felt she couldn't go through with it! As if.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of these are hilarious, we've not been stood up....yet!

I wonder why

I'm sure our time will come haha x

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Confession time :/

I've used the Mother Nature one. Happily chatting to a guy on fab, pics looked good and arranged a meet. A couple of hours beforehand he messaged me on what's app - his pic was not of the same man. I casually asked who was the guy in the pic and he said it was a new one of him. The pics on fab were definitely another person and this guy was actually a real minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confession time :/

"
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I think you were within your rights to cancel there ... he wasted your time first by being a catfish

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"His exhaust fell off. To be fair, it was true and I went to the couples meet we had planned without him and had a lovely threesome. We sent him pics while he was waiting for the AA. I'm nice like that."

Ligeia, you're a cold hearted tease. Poor guy, it must've been an EXHAUSTING evening for him. And, I bet he was FUMING that he'd missed out on have fun with you!

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By *exyJ-and-HornyGCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster area

It's astonishing how many of these posts are from women being stood up. Honestly, there are way too many time wasting blokes on fab who screw it up for others. Do they really think they're that much of a God's gift to women? Or are they loud mouthed fakers who, when it comes down to it, can't manage to sneak past their wives? I was a single guy on here when I met my Sexy J, and would never have been rude enough to stand someone up.

We've been stood up as a couple a few times. Against our better judgement we have been known to give one or two a second chance. But they get blocked if they fuck us over twice lol.

Our most notable stand up was a renowned local couple who organise parties. They had arranged to come to ours after we'd met at clubs and at theirs. Shortly before the meet, they messaged saying their swing life was taking over their real life and were as a result taking a step back from it, albeit with continued parties now and then. Fair enough, we thought, we understand that. Lo and behold, hardly a day goes by without their profile displaying a new veri, new meet, new house party, new everything lol.

Generally we simply get the silent treatment as a stand up, no cancellation. Which is why we always wait half an hour after the arranged time, and go to our local club if they don't show

Plan B rules xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A family member had died and then posted a veri from another guy the day after

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

After a successful meet ....arranged another with said guy ...

He stood me up 4 times.

1st ..... his sister had a stroke

2nd.....one of his dogs had been spayed ....and he couldnt leave her ....

3rd ....sister had had a fall .. snapped her ankle ( im presuming he had more than sister...

4th.... His sister "died"...

It was at that point I took him off my friends list ...

He messaged me several times ....asking why id took him off my friends list ...

.... then he told me I was a timewaster .... needless to say ....now blocked

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

"What's unlos?"

User No Longer On Site.

Ive had cancellations where they just stopped contact when time for the meet. Once I messaged asking which entrance to use for their building and when I rang their apartment number and messaged them just got silence.

Another was messaging me as I drove to meet them at a hotel. Messaged to say I was parking and she replied. Then messaged to ask if she wanted to get a drink in the bar or straight to the room and she got an emergency phone call to say her mum was in hospital in the 2 minutes it took me to park and get into the hotel

and she was well verified too.

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over a year ago

...sorry, I couldn't make it as I am a fully qualified Dr and there was an RTA en route...I couldn't just drive by, had to stop and help.....

first I'd heard he was a Dr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??"
last week a guy had said quote "sorry I didn't turn up, my phone battery had died and while I was on my way I got a phone call to say the house next door was on fire".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??last week a guy had said quote "sorry I didn't turn up, my phone battery had died and while I was on my way I got a phone call to say the house next door was on fire"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all had it done to us but some people use the daftest of reasone.

What was your most remeberable reason you've been given??"

I wouldn't post on here, because unless proven otherwise (and you might call me gullible for this) I have no reason not to believe them.

I mean, Anyone can have a freak meteor destroy there car as they was driving to me.

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

We got a new puppy today!wed rearranged a lot of plans to accommodate them and they stood us up with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They forgot football was on!

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's raining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had someone stand me up but at uni a guy who came to stay walked out whilst I was having a shower so that we could go out

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By *utdoor couple.Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Passport office emailed him that his passport was out of date, and opened the office on a sat at 2pm just for him to collect it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passport office emailed him that his passport was out of date, and opened the office on a sat at 2pm just for him to collect it? "

Was he famous??

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"We talked for ages on messages and even phone. We booked the hotel. He didnt show up . Didn't answer calls or texts.

He replied 2 days later saying he had locked himself in a fridge at work and was in there all night. "

What an idiot, definitely his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will update when happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will update when happens

You know what they say, pride comes before a fall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will update when happens

You know what they say, pride comes before a fall

Indeed

What have I done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will update when happens

You know what they say, pride comes before a fall

Indeed

What have I done

It's ok, I'm sure you'll have someone to fall back on to mop your tears and let everyone know you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To go and watch footy in the pub with their friends...then a text saying but our friend is interested she thinks your really hot....

Their team lost I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will update when happens

You know what they say, pride comes before a fall

Indeed

What have I done

It's ok, I'm sure you'll have someone to fall back on to mop your tears and let everyone know you are ok. "

True my friends are there for me fortunately for when my big fall comes

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