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Dreaded age of 21?

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By *arry442 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley

Just going to throw it out there. Those who have set an age range not those between 18 and 99, and a 21 year old fits the range, what goes through your mind or what's stopping you replying to his/her message even though they're in you ideal range?

Just curious...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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They just haven't bothered to set their age preferences, I doubt they would go anywhere near a 99 year old

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

The same as any age, if I'm not interested in the person

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Just going to throw it out there. Those who have set an age range not those between 18 and 99, and a 21 year old fits the range, what goes through your mind or what's stopping you replying to his/her message even though they're in you ideal range?

Just curious... "

I think many say they won't go near anywhere near the age of their children.

Speaking for myself though, the main criterion for me was always that it depends on the person. I've had a "friend" in his early 20s...some near my age I wouldn't go near. If personalities fit, they do. No matter the age.

I try to respond to intelligent messages that say more than just "hi" or "I'm in a nearby hotel for a few days" meaning...they have bothered to read my profile.

Who knows what goes through some minds? It's a wild guess. I have my suspicions but not fair to assume most are like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The same as any age, if I'm not interested in the person"

I agree with this.

If I want to buy a new red dress I will have certain criteria in mind e.g. sleeve length, neckline etc. But I dont just pick the first red dress I look at...if it were only that easy.

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By *arry442 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley

I'm very new to this whole site only been here a couple of weeks. Those who have manually set their age to comply with my own never seem to reply. Those that put effort into their messages seem to get covered with the same brush as those who do not

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"I'm very new to this whole site only been here a couple of weeks. Those who have manually set their age to comply with my own never seem to reply. Those that put effort into their messages seem to get covered with the same brush as those who do not "

If you were to message me I would reply either as there is nothing on your profile to entice me

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm very new to this whole site only been here a couple of weeks. Those who have manually set their age to comply with my own never seem to reply. Those that put effort into their messages seem to get covered with the same brush as those who do not "

You may be in their preferred age range, but you also have to appeal to them. If they don't find your profile and pics interesting, they won't normally reply. Good luck on here

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Why haven't you set your age range? Some people won't reply to a profile that hasn't bothered to do that.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the content on your profile isn't enticing. Instead of selling the benefits of youth stamina or your assumption that you might teach a thing or two - I would suggest you talk about your approach to sensuality and that what happens is a mutual discovery of things.

Also not enamoured by your images - they just look like a still body - could be any body part - but try and capture it with a bit of life and hint of erotica

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just going to throw it out there. Those who have set an age range not those between 18 and 99, and a 21 year old fits the range, what goes through your mind or what's stopping you replying to his/her message even though they're in you ideal range?

Just curious... "

Just because you meet one of a set criteria it doesn't automatically follow you'll meet others.

If the person you're contacting is Domme they could be looking for a submissive playmate. If someone likes equality in the bedroom they'd ignore you. Women on this site seem to lack self confidence so you claiming to be a model will put them off. Add to that your age, well they may have a wide age range, doesn't mean they actually would.

There are hundreds of men to every woman, you will struggle and become disheartened because it really is hard to pull here. But faint heart and all that!

Look at it as fun, don't pin all your sexual hopes on Fab...and welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest attending events or developing banter with people on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't 'set' an age range if 18-99. They just haven't changed it from the default setting. If they don't message back assume you aren't for them.

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