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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you get a message from someone with no face pics but yum the other pics look good.

you build a pic in your head of what they look like rom the body pics and the description they give of themselves.

you chat / banter and get round to asking for the face pics.

you get the pics and they look nothing like how you envisaged them - sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way !

please tell me i'm not on my own in being guilty of this

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


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you get the pics and they look nothing like how you envisaged them - sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way !

please tell me i'm not on my own in being guilty of this "

Not at all

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

definitely not on your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all imagine things differently

Thats why when a book is made into a film, people react differently, because whilst everyone reads the same words in the book, the imagination is unique.

My avatar is me, I get recognised in clubs and its a little un-nerving that they know my name, and I dont know theirs, however I am what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're certainly not on your own

I love to place the "guess what I look like" game, except that I'm not shy, lol, but I'm not taking my shades off, well, not unless they ask nicely

Even when there are pics, you can't really be sure whether they'll look like their pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're certainly not on your own

I love to place the "guess what I look like" game, except that I'm not shy, lol, but I'm not taking my shades off, well, not unless they ask nicely

Even when there are pics, you can't really be sure whether they'll look like their pics "

so true - i have fallen foul of that 1 too

i remember walking into a hotel room once and thinking 'great ! i'm on a meet with the child catcher from chitty, chitty, bang, bang'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh your so not alone its rare i get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not alone! Have you ever watched a programme called Dating in the Dark?

The look on the contestants faces when they see the people they've been flirting with his hilarious!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

yep had similar happen, body pics and personality that was coming thru when we chatted was fine. he sent his face pic and i was literally scared enough to hit the power button on pc to get rid of the image. yeh to me looks aren't that important to me but this guys face pic just freaked me out !!!needless to say i never met him lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"yep had similar happen, body pics and personality that was coming thru when we chatted was fine. he sent his face pic and i was literally scared enough to hit the power button on pc to get rid of the image. yeh to me looks aren't that important to me but this guys face pic just freaked me out !!!needless to say i never met him lol"

lmao thats was so funny, more tea over keyboard time, could you have not warned me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me what you see is what ou get no hidden agendas. What a fright first thing lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"yep had similar happen, body pics and personality that was coming thru when we chatted was fine. he sent his face pic and i was literally scared enough to hit the power button on pc to get rid of the image. yeh to me looks aren't that important to me but this guys face pic just freaked me out !!!needless to say i never met him lol

lmao thats was so funny, more tea over keyboard time, could you have not warned me lol "

lol sorry

whats worse still as he stays quite local i often see him in the passing i still get that judder down spine and urge to close my eyes - not a good idea when going down a hill in the car lol

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i was chatting with a guy a few weeks ago, had a mental pic of what he mat look like saw pic not bad, met in person and hell no never again

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"With me what you see is what ou get no hidden agendas. What a fright first thing lol"

i say the same hun - if i'm not their cup of tea - i just go get a coffee instead . plus i don't like looking in mirrors for reasons stated on profile lol

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By *ell_aCouple
over a year ago

Perth

lol - absolutely not alone in this! In fact just yesterday I saw your face pics and you look nothing like what I imagined

(in a good way....... )

D

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have also met decent looking people that are complete arseholes too though, so you can't always tell.

We played with a couple, separate room, and we both said we wouldn't meet them again. It could have been their way of getting their kicks, or may be we are a bit nieve, but it wasn't a good experience for either of us. We both ended our session "early" and scarpered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been a swinger 9 years now and it comes down to expericance... after a guy turned cup at mine looking like quazy modo with a nose bigger then his cock if i dont see face pics before a meet and see people on a webcam then i wont meet ...simple as that... the genuine ones will have a cam and pics for you to look at. If they um n ah then id move one, its a sign something is wrong xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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* snip

after a guy turned cup at mine looking like quazy modo with a nose bigger then his cock

"

oh that description did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

* snip

after a guy turned cup at mine looking like quazy modo with a nose bigger then his cock

oh that description did make me chuckle "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a guy for coffee once his pics were great he looked the buisness i thought wow!!! when he showed up i couldnt believe how different he was he lost all the body that was in the pic even looked like he was a foot shorter.lol..the coffee was short lived i made an excuse and RAN...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet a guy for coffee once his pics were great he looked the buisness i thought wow!!! when he showed up i couldnt believe how different he was he lost all the body that was in the pic even looked like he was a foot shorter.lol..the coffee was short lived i made an excuse and RAN..."

pics only provide a 2 dimensional picture and people change

i try and put a few on - including 1 of me with sunburn lol (so people at least know what they're gettin physically)

but when u meet it's how they smell, how they're dressed (in other words how much effort they have made up front), their attitude, the way someone holds themself, conducts themself etc that makes all the difference

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"yep had similar happen, body pics and personality that was coming thru when we chatted was fine. he sent his face pic and i was literally scared enough to hit the power button on pc to get rid of the image. yeh to me looks aren't that important to me but this guys face pic just freaked me out !!!needless to say i never met him lol

lmao thats was so funny, more tea over keyboard time, could you have not warned me lol

lol sorry

whats worse still as he stays quite local i often see him in the passing i still get that judder down spine and urge to close my eyes - not a good idea when going down a hill in the car lol"

you forgot the warning nagain lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet a guy for coffee once his pics were great he looked the buisness i thought wow!!! when he showed up i couldnt believe how different he was he lost all the body that was in the pic even looked like he was a foot shorter.lol..the coffee was short lived i made an excuse and RAN...

pics only provide a 2 dimensional picture and people change

i try and put a few on - including 1 of me with sunburn lol (so people at least know what they're gettin physically)

but when u meet it's how they smell, how they're dressed (in other words how much effort they have made up front), their attitude, the way someone holds themself, conducts themself etc that makes all the difference "

this one actually showed up in greasy work clothes smoking a rollie,lol and his pics he was smartly dressed..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I must be really lucky then as everyone ive met has been better looking in the flesh than their pics and all dressed lovely and smelling gorgeous

I have had a few surprises when ive been sent pics on here some good and some not so good,I always do the face pic thingy very early on,it saves wasting anyones time

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I must be really lucky then as everyone ive met has been better looking in the flesh than their pics and all dressed lovely and smelling gorgeous

I have had a few surprises when ive been sent pics on here some good and some not so good,I always do the face pic thingy very early on,it saves wasting anyones time

"

+1

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

When I was a member of another site, there was a bloke on there, I was constantly sparring with. We were always respectful towards each other, we just had very opposing views, on well, most things. His avatar was a gorgeous full sleeve tattoo, and his pictures insinuated someone quite muscly, and totally yummy. So I was quietly excited to see his name down for a munch that I was attending.

When I finally met him, he was shorter then me, had the most annoying voice ever, and although he was muscly, it just didn't seem like the same person!!!

However, looks aside, we got on great, had some fantastic discussions that night, and although he's no longer active, he remains a close friend.

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